We are looking at going dogging and are wondering what is the best way to communicate this without being flooded by men... Post on here? Post what3words when we get there?
Any help would be great thanks |
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"We are looking at going dogging and are wondering what is the best way to communicate this without being flooded by men... Post on here? Post what3words when we get there?
Any help would be great thanks"
The best thing to do is to chat privately to a few men you like the look of. Then invite them to the location - give them clear directions and a one hour time slot.
Always invite twice as many men as you'd actually like to play with as 50% won't show.
Maybe put a status update saying - "going dogging, DM us if you'd like to join us" and then reply to the DMs of the guys you like the look and sound of.
DON'T share the location publicly, you'll get all kinds of unwanted attention if you do.
Man at dogging sites can be very nervous and jumpy - so you may need to approach them, rather than waiting (for hours) for them to pluck up courage and approach you.
Miniskirt walks up to their cars like a street hooker and asks them outright if they'd like to fuck her (which is a massive turn on to witness). Some men actually refuse! They say they prefer to watch - perhaps they are very nervous about their performance (to be fair, it can be difficult to perform properly if you are nervous of being caught, or very cold!)
And finally, please invite us  we would absolutely LOVE to meet another couple out dogging one day / evening / night  |
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"We are looking at going dogging and are wondering what is the best way to communicate this without being flooded by men... Post on here? Post what3words when we get there?
Any help would be great thanks
The best thing to do is to chat privately to a few men you like the look of. Then invite them to the location - give them clear directions and a one hour time slot.
Always invite twice as many men as you'd actually like to play with as 50% won't show.
Maybe put a status update saying - "going dogging, DM us if you'd like to join us" and then reply to the DMs of the guys you like the look and sound of.
DON'T share the location publicly, you'll get all kinds of unwanted attention if you do.
Man at dogging sites can be very nervous and jumpy - so you may need to approach them, rather than waiting (for hours) for them to pluck up courage and approach you.
Miniskirt walks up to their cars like a street hooker and asks them outright if they'd like to fuck her (which is a massive turn on to witness). Some men actually refuse! They say they prefer to watch - perhaps they are very nervous about their performance (to be fair, it can be difficult to perform properly if you are nervous of being caught, or very cold!)
And finally, please invite us we would absolutely LOVE to meet another couple out dogging one day / evening / night "
Would love to invite you sometime.
Thanks for your detailed answer |
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over a year ago
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"What does what3words mean?
Been dogging but don't know that term!"
It’s an app that can be quite useful when used safely. As in don’t post the three words publicly as other have already advised!! Use it for a few select guys maybe? |
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"What does what3words mean?
Been dogging but don't know that term!"
It's an app that narrows your location down to a 3 meter by 3 meter location anywhere in the world by three words.
Ambulance and police use it |
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Yes this is great advice. We are also looking for our first dogging adventure, in Suffolk or Essex. Any females or couples Suffolk or Essex please get in touch. We are unsure where to go and when for good results. Please message us privately, Thanks |
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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago
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"Perhaps we should organise a dogging meetup at a popular spot?"
Ooooo.....you're on our Hotlist! We've tried a bit of dogging but not had any joy - Char's a bit nervous and we don't really know where to go.
We'd love an invite .... and we're not too far!
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"Perhaps we should organise a dogging meetup at a popular spot?
Ooooo.....you're on our Hotlist! We've tried a bit of dogging but not had any joy - Char's a bit nervous and we don't really know where to go.
We'd love an invite .... and we're not too far!
(Bry)"
We know a good place not far from you. |
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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago
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"We know a good place not far from you. "
If it's initials are SW then that placed scared Char - I'll spare the details but it's not very newbie friendly.
If it's not then we don't know....PM us
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We gave up on this idea due to the utter lack of any clear advice about it. We will arrange a meet at an outdoor location with more than one visitor at some point but the whole getting somewhere and a load of people all being available and prepared to travel at fairly short notice means it'll be mission pretty difficult!
I think when I was working near Birmingham Airport and staying in my can I parked up for the night on a doggers spot as a pickup with a woman and a guy in it turned up and another couple of vehicles with guys in were following. The guys stopped and asked me a few questions and the woman looked proper cheesed off. They drove off. Had they just have fronted it and asked me not to watch I'd have drawn me curtains and ignored them |
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"What is the furthest anyone would travel to a dogging site, without knowing if anyone will be there ?
140miles lol. But did get lucky x"
Wow that's a wing and a prayer |
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As others have said chat with the guys and build up a rapport. When you are happy the what 3 words is a great tool. And agree how you want it to go. Do you want the guys to approach you or you give a signal.
The clearer you all can be the better it should be. Good luck. |
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"We are looking at going dogging and are wondering what is the best way to communicate this without being flooded by men... Post on here? Post what3words when we get there?
Any help would be great thanks"
I'm sorry to go all the way back to the OP but isn't 'being flooded by men' the whole point of going dogging? |
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I'm sorry to go all the way back to the OP but isn't 'being flooded by men' the whole point of going dogging?"
No. Too many and it's overwhelming and even dangerous.
And you want decent men, not dodgy, dirty men. There's a difference, one is a turn on the other is a turn off. |
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I'm sorry to go all the way back to the OP but isn't 'being flooded by men' the whole point of going dogging?
No. Too many and it's overwhelming and even dangerous.
And you want decent men, not dodgy, dirty men. There's a difference, one is a turn on the other is a turn off. "
No,you misinterpret my comment. I am thinking of the term 'flooded by men' in a different way. Only if bareback though! |
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