FabSwingers.com > Forums > Swingers Chat > Staying safe

Staying safe

By *uayside Glory Hole OP Man over a year ago

Gateshead Quayside

Wondering how people ensure their safety when inviting fab strangers for hook ups. No matter if you’re straight, gay, bi, single, coupled, playing together or flying solo. What steps to do you take when inviting a random into your home for sex?

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I would always have a social first, in a public place, if I had reservations about him I wouldn't invite him back

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By *allySlinkyWoman over a year ago

Leeds

" What steps to do you take when inviting a random into your home for sex? "

I don't !

For random sex I meet in a club or hotel

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By *isstinseltoesWoman over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I'd always have a public social first ,I'd never just invite someone over to me .

Plus I'm half a couple so have the added security that my partner would always know who and where I was meeting .

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By *dwalu2Couple over a year ago

Bristol

We try to only meet people who are normal and lovely, and not likely to pose any risk. Relying on our judgement has served us well so far.

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By *reudian_slipsMan over a year ago

Bristol

Always have a social first in a public place, then trust your instinct if anything doesn’t feel right. When I have a meet I let my wife know where I am

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By *aui.Man over a year ago

around here

I don't think of myself as particularly vulnerable but I'd never invite a stranger to my home. Similarly I wouldn't go to a secluded place etc on my own without knowing the person first.

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By *ampWithABrainWoman over a year ago

Glasgow

As above, also I have a trusted friend I let know I’m meeting someone new and if she hasn’t heard from me by x time she’d raise an alarm.

And I don’t meet until been chatting a while and got to know as well as possible here/messaging been criticised for that before but works for me

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By *iberatedduoCouple over a year ago

Ashbourne

We go by our gut instinct which hasn’t failed us yet. We make sure there are ample verifications to begin with and weigh everything up.

Many of our first meets have taken place within the home whether that has been for sexy fun or a social. There has never been any issues or any problems afterwards such as someone calling again unannounced.

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By *harAndBryCouple over a year ago

Peterborough / Stamford

Baseball bat under the bed.

Seriously. We found it on top of a kitchen cupboard when we moved in and that's where it's ended up.

(Bry)

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

» Add a new message to this topic