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Condom mood killers ?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm pretty sure an STI or a baby would be way more uncomfortable than a condom.
Wear a condom."
Not if she's on contraception and yeah std risks you take |
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By *JstarsoloWoman
over a year ago
Wombwell, Barnsley |
"I'm pretty sure an STI or a baby would be way more uncomfortable than a condom.
Wear a condom.
Not if she's on contraception and yeah std risks you take"
The only way of completely avoiding an sti is no sex, oral or penetrative. But yes, it can minimise the risk. |
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"I'm pretty sure an STI or a baby would be way more uncomfortable than a condom.
Wear a condom.
Not if she's on contraception and yeah std risks you take"
You do realise female contraception is not 100% reliable . Each to their own but the risks are too great for me . |
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By *isser36Man
over a year ago
fylde Coast |
They definitely do remove some sensation, even the ones that claim to be super thin, it doesn't have to be a mood killer if putting one on is done right and quickly and you don't spend a few minutes fumbling around with a slippery little rubber as your beautiful hard erection slowly dies on you but I think it's just as much psychological as anything else, you know your creating a barrier between yourself and your playmate and you know it could feel better without that barrier and add something to the intimacy of the situation. That's my feelings on it anyway. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Depends. I've learnt to put one on with my mouth and that doesn't seem to kill the mood as much as when you fondle around. For me, I see it as a tool to get laid and it makes me comfortable in a meet. |
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Not really a mood killer. Actually asking to fuck without one is more of a mood killer for us!
Just make sure big enough (a tight one is a mood killer) and keep them to hand. When at home we keep them dotted about various rooms just in case 
And really once used to them don't feel much difference. Slightly less sensitive for the man but that is good as takes much longer to cum |
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"If a meet refuses to wear one then it would not only kill the mood it would end the meet. "
Yep 100% this! We had this at parties. People wearing condoms and one twat thinks he can fuck several ladies bareback. |
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"If a meet refuses to wear one then it would not only kill the mood it would end the meet.
Yep 100% this! We had this at parties. People wearing condoms and one twat thinks he can fuck several ladies bareback. "
And his mate who thinks he can wear the same condom for different partners. Because he's protected so it's all fine  |
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And his mate who thinks he can wear the same condom for different partners. Because he's protected so it's all fine "
Oh god seriously. That made me laugh and go yuck at the same time. Yep turning up to a party/gathering with one condom not the best idea. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If a meet refuses to wear one then it would not only kill the mood it would end the meet.
Yep 100% this! We had this at parties. People wearing condoms and one twat thinks he can fuck several ladies bareback.
And his mate who thinks he can wear the same condom for different partners. Because he's protected so it's all fine "
This. Completely agree. This is one of the biggest mood killer. |
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"Depends. I've learnt to put one on with my mouth and that doesn't seem to kill the mood as much as when you fondle around. For me, I see it as a tool to get laid and it makes me comfortable in a meet. "
I once had a meet in the USA where she did this. It most certainly didn’t kill the mood it heightened things amazingly, if only every woman was so skilled
Keep up the good work!!
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I must admit, it is more enjoyable without, if you trust the person etc.. Or only have set people/person then it should be good (you take the risks with them).
I don't mind putting one on. If asked I always do, and always prepare to put one on.
If the rule is safe sex, and you want to play, then put one on. |
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"Think by now they would have invented a spray in barrier  that lasts a few hours
I wonder how many women would trust a man who told them he'd used a spray on condom  "
That new cloak looks amazing. |
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With a little imagination putting them on can actually add something to playtime. Not using them shows how little respect you have for yourself, your playmate and any future playmates. Safe is the way peeps! |
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"I never used one. Surley sensation isn't nice?
They can be a mood and hard on killer but I'll take no sex over unsafe sex."
Used to be a hard on killer until I discovered larger sizes many moons ago and fine since then. If I'm not rock hard I can't blame the condom at least |
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By *JstarsoloWoman
over a year ago
Wombwell, Barnsley |
"I never used one. Surley sensation isn't nice?"
Well, in the interests of equality, is this both male and female condoms, used in both oral and penetrative sex? If so, yes, could be a passion killer for all concerned. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don’t use them because I’m monogamous and have had the snip but when I did there was plenty of things to do to stop the mood being killed. Just be imaginative. |
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By *irldnCouple
over a year ago
Brighton |
Fucking hell. We are in 2022 and some people are still complaining about having to wear a condom.
I (Mr) have been swinging since the late 90s. Always worn a condom. Never allowed it to be a mood killer. Dan hand at putting it on quickly. Incorporate into the whole playing actions. Be prepared with lots on hand in case you:
a) Need to swap for a new one when moving onto a different partner.
b) Need to swap for a new one when moving from anal to vaginal sex.
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By *irldnCouple
over a year ago
Brighton |
"Fucking hell. We are in 2022 and some people are still complaining about having to wear a condom.
I (Mr) have been swinging since the late 90s. Always worn a condom. Never allowed it to be a mood killer. Dan hand at putting it on quickly. Incorporate into the whole playing actions. Be prepared with lots on hand in case you:
a) Need to swap for a new one when moving onto a different partner.
b) Need to swap for a new one when moving from anal to vaginal sex.
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*Dab hand (not sure who Dan is or how he helps) |
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By *irldnCouple
over a year ago
Brighton |
Question for you non condom users...
If you are having anal sex and then want to move (back) into the vagina, what do you do?
Could be wrong but I suspect some of you think it is like the porn movies and just swap back and forth without a care in the world! That really is poor sexual hygiene chaps!
Or do you stop mid sex and pop off for a wash? More of a mood killer than changing jackets! |
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We’re not the biggest fans of condoms but they are a must for us, some condoms you can hardly feel on and have to double check they haven’t split
Whenever a guy says he can’t get hard wearing one we always say it looks like your going to be watching and wanking then….. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Question for you non condom users...
If you are having anal sex and then want to move (back) into the vagina, what do you do?
Could be wrong but I suspect some of you think it is like the porn movies and just swap back and forth without a care in the world! That really is poor sexual hygiene chaps!
Or do you stop mid sex and pop off for a wash? More of a mood killer than changing jackets!"
I guess by no replies to your question, people just swap back and forth between the 2 holes.  |
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By *obletonMan
over a year ago
A Home Among The Woodland Creatures |
Durex RealFeel - the cadillac of condoms - barely feel like you're wearing anything.
And no - not a mood killer, they're a mood enhancer - they tell me: "I'm just about to do something that could get me arrested in certain countries with someone else's wife!"
How the fuck can you kill that mood? |
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"Question for you non condom users...
If you are having anal sex and then want to move (back) into the vagina, what do you do?
Could be wrong but I suspect some of you think it is like the porn movies and just swap back and forth without a care in the world! That really is poor sexual hygiene chaps!
Or do you stop mid sex and pop off for a wash? More of a mood killer than changing jackets!"
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By *irldnCouple
over a year ago
Brighton |
"Question for you non condom users...
If you are having anal sex and then want to move (back) into the vagina, what do you do?
Could be wrong but I suspect some of you think it is like the porn movies and just swap back and forth without a care in the world! That really is poor sexual hygiene chaps!
Or do you stop mid sex and pop off for a wash? More of a mood killer than changing jackets!
I guess by no replies to your question, people just swap back and forth between the 2 holes. "
Worse actually, I bet some of these men have never ever even thought about it! They have no idea of how much “prep” porn stars do before a shoot. They probably think ATM is perfectly hygienic too! |
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"Question for you non condom users...
If you are having anal sex and then want to move (back) into the vagina, what do you do?
Could be wrong but I suspect some of you think it is like the porn movies and just swap back and forth without a care in the world! That really is poor sexual hygiene chaps!
Or do you stop mid sex and pop off for a wash? More of a mood killer than changing jackets!
I guess by no replies to your question, people just swap back and forth between the 2 holes.
Worse actually, I bet some of these men have never ever even thought about it! They have no idea of how much “prep” porn stars do before a shoot. They probably think ATM is perfectly hygienic too! "
Doing the cashpoint as its known down the valley |
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