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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So my hubby’s been thinking of doing a meet whilst his at work. I can only help but feel like it’s cheating and a bit weird if he’s not there. Theres also the safety aspect of it so not ?? convinced. What are peoples thoughts, who’s done it before? |
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By *ltra72Man
over a year ago
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"So my hubby’s been thinking of doing a meet whilst his at work. I can only help but feel like it’s cheating and a bit weird if he’s not there. Theres also the safety aspect of it so not ?? convinced. What are peoples thoughts, who’s done it before? "
Go for it, maybe send hubby live videos as it happens |
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We meet separately and it's a non issue in that respect for us. Admittedly my wife only meets other women but we both always know what the other is up to, with whom and where.
We don't any of it as cheating (since that's our dynamic) but if you don't feel right about it, don't do it.
But if you feel you want to progress, safety wise I would suggest a public social first. You can text your partner and can always go somewhere more private after that.
At the end of the day, it's about what you are comfy with doing, nothing else. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So my hubby’s been thinking of doing a meet whilst his at work. I can only help but feel like it’s cheating and a bit weird if he’s not there. Theres also the safety aspect of it so not ?? convinced. What are peoples thoughts, who’s done it before? "
If you don't feel comfortable, don't do it.
It's all about what you're both happy with.
Its not something we would ever do as we feel like it's cheating, but others don't.
So everyone is different.. but only you can answer of you're comfortable with it or not.
Boss
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By *entDomMan
over a year ago
Paddock Wood, Kent |
"So my hubby’s been thinking of doing a meet whilst his at work. I can only help but feel like it’s cheating and a bit weird if he’s not there. Theres also the safety aspect of it so not ?? convinced. What are peoples thoughts, who’s done it before? "
Is there a guy who you have met before, that you might trust coming to your home?
At least for the first time you meet.
I used to love seeing girls while their hubby was out at work. One had an app on her phone that tracked his. I often passed his car it was that close.
I also liked it when the bedding needed changing and he came home finding her having a post coitus nap |
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If your not comfortable dont! I have had meets with couples where the male half looks very uncomfortable or does not want to go through with the meet. And its where i would walk out. as its off putting. Only do things where you both agree to it.  |
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"So my hubby’s been thinking of doing a meet whilst his at work. I can only help but feel like it’s cheating and a bit weird if he’s not there. Theres also the safety aspect of it so not ?? convinced. What are peoples thoughts, who’s done it before? "
If the hubby is ok with it i can make myself available  |
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I suggested it to my fiancee and luckily she went for it. Found a few great guys that would visit her a couple of times a month. She would message to say they were coming round for sex and send me pics and videos. Always had great sex when I got back from work. Works great for us. |
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By *lynJMan
over a year ago
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"So my hubby’s been thinking of doing a meet whilst his at work. I can only help but feel like it’s cheating and a bit weird if he’s not there. Theres also the safety aspect of it so not ?? convinced. What are peoples thoughts, who’s done it before? "
Perhaps have some meetings with a prospective meet in the evening when hubby is there. When you have built up some trust, maybe you can shift to a daytime meeting and video stream it so hubby can check you're safe, and enjoying yourself |
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"So my hubby’s been thinking of doing a meet whilst his at work. I can only help but feel like it’s cheating and a bit weird if he’s not there. Theres also the safety aspect of it so not ?? convinced. What are peoples thoughts, who’s done it before?
If you don't feel comfortable, don't do it.
It's all about what you're both happy with.
Its not something we would ever do as we feel like it's cheating, but others don't.
So everyone is different.. but only you can answer of you're comfortable with it or not.
Boss
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I've done this previously. If possible set it up with someone you already know. Otherwise vet them properly, face pic, phone no etc. It's great fun and extremely horny as the male to receive pics and videos whilst at work and the reclaim sex is hot!! |
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When I first was with my other half ,I was fine with him having meets without me.
He was ok meeting couples ,but initially felt like if he met a woman alone it would be like cheating.
I kept reassuring him that I was honestly fine and liked it & he had a few meets with ladies alone after that .
For safety I'd say always have a social first with any potential playmates & obviously your husband will know where and who you're with.
Maybe you could take pics for him ,jack did for me
Good luck and enjoy  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Firstly you need to feel confident and comfortable with it obviously he doesn't mind so like a few of the others mentioned perhaps take a few photos, videos for him or even have a social first with everyone present? |
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"Helen meets without hubby but only a select few guys we have previously met numerous times together. Too many weirdos to be having a first time meet alone from our point. "
And yet some single women manage to meet guys on their own ...no male chaperone required |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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OP , if its with a regular you will feel safe . I do this with a regular couple . Hes at work and gets off on me going round and me and the wifey fucking all afternoon while the kids are at school and hes at work . We send him videos and they both get off on it . Try it , if its with the right person you wont regret it |
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We have done this a few times now and it is something that turns us both on.
Haha a social with the guys first to make sure you're OK with them and try to take a couple pics and vids during.
We both end up really horny during the build up, while she's playing and afterwards. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For us, part of the feeling taboo, like it’s naughty, and the jealousy only added to the thrill. But it’s important to communicate before and after to make sure those feelings are all in the right context.
It was very tentative at first, now I’ll just be in a meeting and get random pic messages of her with another guy and it’s awesome |
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Firstly, you won't be short of offers as your profile is great.
Only do what you are comfy with. If you want to and he gives consent then it's fine but both parties have to be ok with it, just like anything. |
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I say, don't do it. You both seem very tied together as a couple doing a separate meet could conjure something you may not have intended to bring to the surface.
It's only suitable for couples who are very experienced swingers.
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