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The unanswered question
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Never, and I don't think I ever would.
My husband has spent 10 years getting to know my body and what I like and don't. We know each other so intimately, no fab meet could compare to that. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Never, and I don't think I ever would.
My husband has spent 10 years getting to know my body and what I like and don't. We know each other so intimately, no fab meet could compare to that. "
That's the answer I wanted to hear. I think that would be exactly the same for us. We been together 13 years and our bond and sex life is so strong couldn't ever imagine anyone getting in-between that passion  |
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Yes, I have met people who are better at some aspect of sex than my partner. For example, oral sex- he has breathing difficulties and, sadly, can't go down on me as much as I'd like. However, I have not met anyone yet who is better at fingering me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Never, and I don't think I ever would.
My husband has spent 10 years getting to know my body and what I like and don't. We know each other so intimately, no fab meet could compare to that. "
This is so true and a 100% rught  |
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"Never, and I don't think I ever would.
My husband has spent 10 years getting to know my body and what I like and don't. We know each other so intimately, no fab meet could compare to that. "
This !!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No. My husband knows me in every way possible. He knows my body, what works for me, also equally knows what I don't like. I'm 100% relaxed with him because I 100% trust him. The mental connection we have kick starts a good sexual connection. Anyone else is just a bonk |
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"Never, and I don't think I ever would.
My husband has spent 10 years getting to know my body and what I like and don't. We know each other so intimately, no fab meet could compare to that. "
This, I don't think a random person can compete with someone who knows my body so well.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I can't speak for greedy, but I'm sure she will add her thoughts later. For me no... sex is sex but with the connection in a living commuted relationship it's unrivaled.
I don't worry or think about if greedy finds sex better, as I k ow what we have is so much deeper than a random fumble. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Have you had sex with someone who's been better than your partner during this lifestyle?
Is this something that worries you?"
No because if that was the case swinging wouldn't be for me . I'm pretty sure nobody knows my wife's body better than I do and if we did ever do this there the risks we take but I just want to see her enjoy herself  |
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"Have you had sex with someone who's been better than your partner during this lifestyle?
Is this something that worries you?
No because if that was the case swinging wouldn't be for me . I'm pretty sure nobody knows my wife's body better than I do and if we did ever do this there the risks we take but I just want to see her enjoy herself "
That's good . It's just you've asked similar questions a couple of times recently. I know you're trying to understand and find out as much as possible about swinging though so it's all good |
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No.
We've had sex with people who are different but not better.
We've had 25 years together and know exactly what makes each other tick and what makes each other go tock.
To steal from Gump, swinging is like a box of chocolate's. You never know what you are going to get. You can add whatever filling or flavouring you like but it's still basically chocolate.
We just happen to be each others favourite.
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By *ldaCouple
over a year ago
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Nope, and I think the OP is missing the point about swinging. It’s not just to have sex with other people, better or otherwise. It’s the voyeuristic thrill of watching your partner, or the realporn of watching others. It’s not just looking for a better shag. If it is, your doing it wrong |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes.... I was in a relationship with a woman at the time and she was alright in bed,
The guy I had an affair with was awesome in bed! Ahh I wish I was in my early 30's again and relive it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes.... I was in a relationship with a woman at the time and she was alright in bed,
The guy I had an affair with was awesome in bed! Ahh I wish I was in my early 30's again and relive it "
You don’t have to be back in your 30s to have that sort of experience again. But i know what you mean! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes.... I was in a relationship with a woman at the time and she was alright in bed,
The guy I had an affair with was awesome in bed! Ahh I wish I was in my early 30's again and relive it
You don’t have to be back in your 30s to have that sort of experience again. I am here for you babe !"
Call me the sexual relationship fixer ! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Nope, and I think the OP is missing the point about swinging. It’s not just to have sex with other people, better or otherwise. It’s the voyeuristic thrill of watching your partner, or the realporn of watching others. It’s not just looking for a better shag. If it is, your doing it wrong"
Exactly what you said is the reason I want to do it. Just asking a question lol |
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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago
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"Have you had sex with someone who's been better than your partner during this lifestyle? "
Char would probably say "no", but I really hope that in some respects she has. "Better" is hard to define but in our time doing this she's had women (they have better vaginas than I do), two or more guys at once (I only have one cock), guys with bigger cocks than me (I know it's not all about the size but girthy is gooood), and guys with far, far more stamina than I have.
So maybe better, maybe not, but she's certainly getting things I can't give her and that's one of my main motivators for doing what we do 
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"Have you had sex with someone who's been better than your partner during this lifestyle?
Char would probably say "no", but I really hope that in some respects she has. "Better" is hard to define but in our time doing this she's had women (they have better vaginas than I do), two or more guys at once (I only have one cock), guys with bigger cocks than me (I know it's not all about the size but girthy is gooood), and guys with far, far more stamina than I have.
So maybe better, maybe not, but she's certainly getting things I can't give her and that's one of my main motivators for doing what we do
(Bry)"
Excellent way of describing it!
We met a couple once where the lady could deep throat. I certainly can't do that but I'm glad Mr N experienced it. So in that respect he has had better sex than he has with me. |
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Definitely not ..We’ve been together 29 years my husband knows every inch of me and what I like and dislike.
The enjoyment we get is from being their together and seeing each other enjoying ourselves.We only meet bi couples or bi singles because that’s something we can’t physically do with just the two of us. |
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