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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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how have you had the best success at getting a meet you want?
using the meet option?
messaging and asking to plan a meet?
going to a club and see what happens?
we have tried a few times using the meet today option but never had any success with that.
we chatted to a bloke on cam once and that led to a mmf
we chatted to a local couple for a bit and that led to three meets.
most of our other meets and our best hit rate has been going to a club and being surrounded by people looking for the same thing,beginning to think this site is a facebook for adults. |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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Always clubs or parties now.
I started off on this site quite well, but there are so few actual single men in York who can accommodate, and me not being able to accommodate whittles down the pool of meets considerably.
I am currently talking to two single men in York, both can accommodate, but neither will set a concrete date for a meet. Whereas going to Isis last Friday meant three very nice shags. So much easier, and the social aspect is great too.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've never been into clubs - tried and didn't enjoy it. The majority of my meets occur either when I'm working away - in which case ill pop a meet post up and adjust my postcode to appear on local updates for a few days before the trip - or simply by messaging. Either those I've enjoyed some banter with in the forums or those whose profiles catch my eye.
Tbh - I probably get as many messages coming in as I send out myself. But a bit of forward planning never hurts - and if nothing gets arranged I can count on one hand the number if last minute meets that have happened.  |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
"Agree with the Facebook comment too! x"
It does seem that less people are wanting meets at the mo. Perhaps its the time of year and January will be stuffed full of horny people desperate for a shag.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We have a good mix. We have had a good time our first time in a club, had good meets from messaging and have had one from the only meet advert we put up. We may have been lucky with that though as we were on holiday and only had a couple of responses, one of which appealed!
The best for us seems to be messaging at the moment, we have had quite a few meets and repeat meets from that. But we have just started going to be going to clubs more so that may work out well. Wait and see!
I suppose it depends on what you are comfortable with really.
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
South West London / Surrey |
We don't do club, tried them a couple of times but just not for us.
Have had mixed success with posting for a late minute meet but we do prefer to try and arrange something in advance.
Both of us prefer private meets but we do find them very difficult to arrange as lot of people just aren't comfortable with them. (or most of the ones that we are interested in)
Find small private parties to be the easiest and most successful. |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
Newcastle and Gateshead |
its a mixture of everything....
I have made a lot more contacts from the various socials I have been to, and I do like clubs but in a sense it is a different frame of mindset..... for me the playing has never been the be all and end all....
they all have there advantages and disadvantages and they good thing is that you use as many or as little of those as you please.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Mine has been through messaging/winking at local people that i'm willing to travel to and being lucky enough to get a reply back and not disappear in amongst the pile of other stuff they get in their inbox.
Then when opportunity arises I make sure to stay in contact, turn up when arranged and make a real effort. I understand the lack of opportunities there can be at times so I make a real effort which has resulted in numerous repeat performances with people.
In fact i'm still in contact and friends with most people i've met through facebook. Just can't meet some anymore because they got to the point where they wanted a relationship and since they didn't come back on here i'm assuming it's a non-swinging relationship too.
Bottom line that worked.
Stay persistant until you receive opportunity.
When you get opportunity play it cool and make an effort for the meet itself. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not had chance to go to a club yet but when me and my ex can afford it we'll be doing that. She's already been to one with a guy off here so i'll know a little of what to expect. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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when i used to meet i used to like 121 more than clubs
and i have used the meet request before and had no issues with it or replying to a meet listing someone else has
clubs have there needs and as much they can be fun after my last experience at chams i haven't been back since 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd like to do more bi MMF/MMMF meets, but our local club doesn't have a group play room on bi night (only once per month any way) and the private rooms are quite small.
So it has to be private meets. Tried to set one up last week, one guy cancelled, the other was a no show.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Most of my meets have been arranged through this site and the majority of those are people we meet again
Rare and spontaneous nights out at clubs and parties without arranging to meet someone we already know or have been chatting to have a good success rate but for me are mostly unforgettable apart fron the odd occasion when we've met someone thats been fabulous enough to want to meet again
Ive never used the meet today function so have no idea if that would be successful for us,I usually ask the people on my friends list first if we have an unexpected night to play |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It was interesting reading the comments from Cpl and F on this.
Rather than arrange something that never happens weeks in advance it is better to seize the moment.
I still try "Meet today" but it would seem a few on here don't understand the concept of today.
I think titbook or cockbook would be very apt re-branding at times.
Been to two clubs but always prearranged company before getting there.
Not actually pulled in one yet but as a single guy I'm not surprised. |
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I have found the messaging/contact as the most successful.
I have tried the 'meet today' and almost arranged the meet but the posters had to pull out at the last minute.
As a single guy, clubs are pretty much a waste of time as most guys will say. So, I keep chancing my arm with the contacts on here, but making sure I read the profile properly. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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All our meets are arranged via here never been to a club x we normally arrange over chatting and getting to know them but have used the meet today twice and had good results from it x |
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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago
yumsville |
planning meets by far - you know exactly which dates you are free and what time. You also get a feel if somes messing you about.. last minute meets - they are fun (though I only know from my half) but I expect there are some quite naff males who have gotten a shag out of them that people wouldnt ordinarily meet if they were planning one
up to you and what your tastes are (sexually) I suppose |
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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago
yumsville |
To add .. i have also met some quite naff women/couples posting last minute meets - for the most they want a fuck and go. Which on a fri/sat night after travelling say 25 miles can be disappointing arriving back home before 12
Never understand why people are happy at just 1x sex then out (unless its a marathon of course) |
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We started off by going to cubs, and when we met people we liked there had home meets with them, and started meeting friends of friends at our homes. We still go clubbing and must say we have a have a higher success rate in clubs that through on-line groups like fab. |
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