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Distance or local meets ?
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"I'm always up for local, that way if its enjoyed enough there is more chance for more regular meets.
If it's away, then you'd be making it a once in a blue moon thing or even only a once off."
Not necessarily...my fwb lives a distance away but we see each other on a regular basis. When it's good both parties make the effort x |
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"I'm always up for local, that way if its enjoyed enough there is more chance for more regular meets.
If it's away, then you'd be making it a once in a blue moon thing or even only a once off.
Not necessarily...my fwb lives a distance away but we see each other on a regular basis. When it's good both parties make the effort x"
Im guessing either 1 or both parties drive in this scenario. I'm not saying it's impossible. Just my experience is any distance over 10miles really isn't gonna work for consistent repeat visits.. For me at least. |
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over a year ago
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"I'm always up for local, that way if its enjoyed enough there is more chance for more regular meets.
If it's away, then you'd be making it a once in a blue moon thing or even only a once off.
Not necessarily...my fwb lives a distance away but we see each other on a regular basis. When it's good both parties make the effort x"
So true, my fwb was in America and we still made it work |
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By *JstarsoloWoman
over a year ago
Wombwell, Barnsley |
"I'm always up for local, that way if its enjoyed enough there is more chance for more regular meets.
If it's away,
then you'd be making it a once in a blue moon thing or even only a once off.
Im guessing either 1 or both parties drive in this scenario. I'm not saying it's impossible. Just my experience is any distance over 10miles really isn't gonna work for consistent repeat visits.. For me at least."
Agree with this. |
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"I'm always up for local, that way if its enjoyed enough there is more chance for more regular meets.
If it's away,
then you'd be making it a once in a blue moon thing or even only a once off.
Im guessing either 1 or both parties drive in this scenario. I'm not saying it's impossible. Just my experience is any distance over 10miles really isn't gonna work for consistent repeat visits.. For me at least.
Agree with this."
Me too! |
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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago
south east |
"Goldilocks answer - near enough it can be regular if suits, far enough away you’re not bumping into them at the corner shop in scruff order! 
 this lol "
In saying that there is maybe 1 or 2 or more id make an exception for and travel far  |
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"We prefer to go further a-field 
Miss S x
Allowed to travel this way if you want 
If you have a glance over our profile, what do you think?
Miss S x"
Well, now that i've actually double checked... that sucks.. 
Still had to be said lol |
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I travelled from the midlands all over the country with my ex and to north wales weekly for a year for my exFWB often managed to get work to assign jobs in the area so I could stay over. We were then active as a couple in the Chester area, however a FWB in London won me over, so parted amicably from Wales |
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"I'm always up for local, that way if its enjoyed enough there is more chance for more regular meets.
If it's away, then you'd be making it a once in a blue moon thing or even only a once off.
Not necessarily...my fwb lives a distance away but we see each other on a regular basis. When it's good both parties make the effort x"
Totally agree have fwb arrangements |
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"We prefer to go further a-field
Miss S x
Allowed to travel this way if you want
If you have a glance over our profile, what do you think?
Miss S x"
Made me chuckle |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I can travel many hours just for work so why should fun be any different ? Do all you guys just work locally ?"
I work from home haha but yeah I wouldn’t travel for NSA! |
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Either is good, but clearly the more distance between the more organisation and time is required.
Local is more practical for short notice or repeat meets.
As ever it's the other party that is the more important factor than the miles in between. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If I can make a weekend or longer from it then I don't mind the distance.. But as someone else said.. Something more short term or regular I personally feel more local is better"
Yeah convient |
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I (Luke) think I'd want a bit of a distance because I want meeting up to be a bit special. I wouldn't want somebody close by wanting to meet up more than we do because that could be a bit awkward. I have the love of my life here. The swinging is a bonus and something to enjoy on occasion rather than all the time.
Having spent a long time on here looking for those elusive couples we click with, the singles and couples we have met over the years make us realise that some people are worth planning, waiting and travelling to see. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's a small world everywhere, but I'd be cautiousish about the local town. It's a very small world round here.
Long long distance? I've been 5 hours each way once, and it was an amazing meet.....but funnily enough a couple of girls have travelled further to me and honestly one was just not quite "110%" for either of us and on the other we didn't even play.....no spark at all in the flesh. |
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We don’t mind either way. Our nearest club is reasonably close by, we will travel to socials and make a weekend of it.
The person I’d most like to meet is 8 hours away and one day I’d like to think we can arrange something |
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Generally it would be local for me. I have very little free time and a good woman with an insatiable apatite to keep satisfied. I have a have local club so most of my rare solo activity is there on an opportunistic basis. |
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"We prefer to go further a-field
Miss S x
Allowed to travel this way if you want
If you have a glance over our profile, what do you think?
Miss S x
Made me chuckle "
I don't normally.. but I just had too 
Miss S x |
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