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How do you stay discreet as possible when meeting people on fab?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I'm guessing Snapchat probably the easiest way to show faces to the person your meeting as it tell you they screenshotted your picture so they cant save it . Plus get weird people using reverse images finding Facebook etc . Obviously alot of people want to stay discreet as possible. Obviously body shots are fine no face to the person but protecting your family and kids etc from finding out |
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Weird ?? you been on faceblook lately the place is over run with weirdo's who make us lot on here seem perfectly normal and even well adjusted ?? and as for pictures and does make meeting people pretty hard when all you have is ..or we've been wondering around a pub showing random males a picture of a penis asking if it's them ??? |
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By *elkieWoman
over a year ago
Durham |
No swinger would ever intentionally let a child know their parents swung. It’s unthinkable. The lifestyle is built upon mutual trust. I look for people who are okd school swingers or have similar views on trust, consent and privacy to me, and I don’t share face photos until I feel I trust them.
Problem is that there are people around who are just looking for a quick fuck and think this is a sex site, so take your time getting to know them |
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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago
Calderdale innit |
"I think if i had that level of paranoia that just sharing a face pic is a huge risk I'd probably decide that swinging isn't for me."
I tend to agree with this
I've swapped face pics with people I've met /chatted to at length and never had an issue.
I don't use snapchat & if someone was so scared of sharing a face pic with me ,that would be a filter for me.
As Mrs nice said ,don't use any pics from Facebook or social media on here ,then they can't be connected.Maybe take one just for here . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I only swap pics via here tbh never had a problem even when I made eye contact across a cafe with a couple I'd met ..we just walked opposite ways not a word spoken ... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I only swap pics via here tbh never had a problem even when I made eye contact across a cafe with a couple I'd met ..we just walked opposite ways not a word spoken ... |
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By *8v3nCouple
over a year ago
Coventry |
Flipside is that couples and women on this site can be picky. They also have more to risk. So men may need to put more out when trying to gauge interest.
Regarding torso pics - I believe there are plenty men profiles who just Google random naked fit torso and stick it on their profile. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If people start stalking you report them to the site
I think women are more at risk of men stalking them so I understand if they don't want to share face pictures until after yhe have chatted for a bit
Snapchat is still risky
Nothing stopping me having a second phone and taking a picture
There are also apps that let you screenshot snapchat without notifying the sender
Sorry to burst your bubble but if someone wants to search for you they will
You need to make it hard for them to find you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think if i had that level of paranoia that just sharing a face pic is a huge risk I'd probably decide that swinging isn't for me.
Oh, even secret agents need a bit of Fabs time!
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Oh dear I'm not so secret anymore... |
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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago
Newcastle |
"I'm guessing Snapchat probably the easiest way to show faces to the person your meeting as it tell you they screenshotted your picture so they cant save it . Plus get weird people using reverse images finding Facebook etc . Obviously alot of people want to stay discreet as possible. Obviously body shots are fine no face to the person but protecting your family and kids etc from finding out "
If a person uses another device to take the picture they are able to take a photo of anything without anyone knowing think outside the box  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We use face pics that we don't use on any other site to avoid Google reverse."
Yeah that's probably the best way. I would probably trust older guys rather than younger. I wouldn't mind face swapping with couples no problem it's more single males . Go to there friends and say I'm fucking this guys wife later lmao . I guess if you meet someone a distance away is probably better essex to London so they aren't local |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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" Obviously body shots are fine no face to the person but protecting your family and kids etc from finding out
You mean your wife finding out?"
My wife ? How does that work lmao . I'm fake I forgot |
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We don't do "discreet" for ourselves. Freinds and family know what we do and it's a non issue. They don't ask, we don't tell. Simple as that.
When it comes to others though, we respect their right to discretion and privacy but if they want to meet us, gonna have to send us a face pic on here sooner or later. Not willing to use other platforms anymore till we have met for real due to the sheer amount of pic and video hunters who have no intention of meeting. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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we dont and never have used anything other than fab for fab stuff no phones no apps no cams ... most people are trustworthy after all they are in the same boat .... a picture can be copied once shown and it dont matter what app your using where thers a way theres a will as they say .... nothing is safe on the internet full stop snapchat is not going to stop your pic from being saved |
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"we dont and never have used anything other than fab for fab stuff no phones no apps no cams ... most people are trustworthy after all they are in the same boat .... a picture can be copied once shown and it dont matter what app your using where thers a way theres a will as they say .... nothing is safe on the internet full stop snapchat is not going to stop your pic from being saved"
Exactly. All phones can screen cap and snap chat won't override that no matter what anyone thinks.
People have two options, either take the risk and show your faces or don't. The platform.of choice makes zero difference and if they're unwilling to do it on here, then don't be surprised when some people won't meet.
You either take the risk or you don't. Dosent make it right that people can use and abuse your images but if youre a swinger, the element of risk of being exposed is always there. Cameras are everywhere now. Can't even walk down a street without something recording you.
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"I send them my sisters pic (I don't really but she does look similar) 
Has she ever wondered why she gets so much attention in her local supermarket!"
Anyone who bothers a fellow fabster in asda is going to have a hard time.
Then again, there was this one time in Aldi we had... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We usually send face pics on here and have a few in our friends only option. But otherwise we like Snapchat for the option of having images disappear and knowing if they’ve been screenshot "
Yeah I know there's a way of obviously keeping a photo either way but just easier lol . Fab probably be OK with a friends only |
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