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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My wife's sister has found me on here and just messaged me, has anyone else had a similar experience?"
Well at least you have something of a common interest eith your sis in law.
We have seen a number of guys we know socially (friends / acquaintances) we say nothing to them or their other half's. That's their business. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When we were back in the home town, boss saw one of his oldest close friends and his partner on here.
We haven't let them know and never will, unless they want to share this aspect of their lives with us, then its none of our business.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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That’s why you don’t post photos that give away your identity if you want to remain discreet I’ve seen body parts of 2 friends on here I can’t un see lol but I’ve never told them just blocked x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have spotted a family member on here so I've hid my pics and yes I did read their profile and looked at their pics but don"t want it to get awkward at get togethers "
Uncle Dave? |
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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago
Gapping Fanny |
"she says she want to meet and discuss it, her hubby don't know shes on here so same boat as me"
Sounds both exciting and potentially troublesome.
Be careful as it could backfire on you both and the fall out could be immense.
On the other hand you could just get a couples profile together and do full swap  |
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"I have spotted a family member on here so I've hid my pics and yes I did read their profile and looked at their pics but don"t want it to get awkward at get togethers
Uncle Dave?"
Nope she has not had a sex change not in the pics anyway  |
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"My wife's sister has found me on here and just messaged me, has anyone else had a similar experience?"
Our first meet was with people we knew from a few years passed  , busted 1.0 lol still chat from time to time.
6 months latter another friend and his wife popped up. They messaged us, we said no as too close for us. Met then at a organised social and chatted and introduced them to others. Everyone had a great night.
Discretion is a must. |
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Yeah we woke up to a message from a local couple so asked for face pics. Girlfriend has known the female for years and seen her fella around. We eventually let them know who we were and sent face pics. Both girls are bi but it's not awkward and my girl is up for a social and hopefully more but the other woman is still deciding how she feels....us fellas definitely want it to happen though |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The real question is does you wife know your here?
If no does her sister plan to tell her?
KJ"
No the real question is "has anyone else had a similar experience?"...just like the bloke asked.
Why do people have to prod into other people's lives uninvited? You do your thing and let him do his or else post aspects of your life that others might find unacceptable (we ALL have them) and in the same holier than though way he can preach to you. |
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By *irldnCouple
over a year ago
Brighton |
My wife’s ex boss (female) is on here with her newish BF with some very hardcore pics. They wrote to us, twice. We politely declined. Not sure if she recognises us or not, but they didn’t give any indication. |
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One of the lads that worked for me messaged my FWB on her profile, he got a surprise when she also spoke to him on our joint profile. He was very embarrassed but I just grinned when he next came into work then we chatted openly about Fab |
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We know afew people on here who've known in so called "Normal" life and especially Mrs4 she's met a fair few of her dad's ex army friends are on here ..and depends on how you deal with it or want to deal with it and pretty hard where we live as although it's classed as a "City" by the locals it just a rather spread out "Town" and so the scene is quite small so logic dictates that you'll eventually bump into someone you know |
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"My wife’s ex boss (female) is on here with her newish BF with some very hardcore pics. They wrote to us, twice. We politely declined. Not sure if she recognises us or not, but they didn’t give any indication."
I can think of a few bosses I'd love to find on here. |
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By *irldnCouple
over a year ago
Brighton |
" We know afew people on here who've known in so called "Normal" life and especially Mrs4 she's met a fair few of her dad's ex army friends are on here ..and depends on how you deal with it or want to deal with it and pretty hard where we live as although it's classed as a "City" by the locals it just a rather spread out "Town" and so the scene is quite small so logic dictates that you'll eventually bump into someone you know "
 had to re-read that as I thought you said “met a fair few of her Dads Army friends” which would be a totally different scenario! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Few people who I went to school with have messaged us. Have not said anything to them but thought it would be funny to say yes to a meet and see their face when they see us |
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I’ve spotted a couple of people I recognise. Thankfully the photos on my profile and theirs were fairly tame so I’ve not seen anything that would have felt weird.
I’ve also recognised a friends new boyfriend on Instagram photos as someone on here, that felt awkward. Thankfully she ditched him after she discovered he was a bit of a dick :D
There’s probably many more people we know on here, just haven’t spotted them yet! But if you’re on here without permission from someone you should be asking for it from then you need to be very careful! |
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" We know afew people on here who've known in so called "Normal" life and especially Mrs4 she's met a fair few of her dad's ex army friends are on here ..and depends on how you deal with it or want to deal with it and pretty hard where we live as although it's classed as a "City" by the locals it just a rather spread out "Town" and so the scene is quite small so logic dictates that you'll eventually bump into someone you know
had to re-read that as I thought you said “met a fair few of her Dads Army friends” which would be a totally different scenario!"
They do like it up 'em! |
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The people near by thing freaks me out, I always had it set to my work postcode. I changed it recently and I’ve had a couple of “you’re close to me” messages! Been chatting to someone a couple of streets away who doesn’t fit my “looking for” requirements but we’ve had lots of fun chatting and the thought of bumping into them in the local shop is a bit of a thrill now   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We've seen people from work on here and local friends.
The way we see it we are all on here for similar reasons and if we ended up at the same party or club then so be it.
Have some fun then go back to normal life as if it didn't happen |
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We’ve recognised a few people who live locally on here, but I don’t *think* we’ve been spotted. As EssexCouple30 said, we’re all on here for the same things - we tend to have a little giggle about it, then move on.
I don’t for a moment expect we’ll get propositioned in the Co-op though (message for the sexy couples: we’re in the bread aisle ) |
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"We’ve recognised a few people who live locally on here, but I don’t *think* we’ve been spotted. As EssexCouple30 said, we’re all on here for the same things - we tend to have a little giggle about it, then move on.
I don’t for a moment expect we’ll get propositioned in the Co-op though (message for the sexy couples: we’re in the bread aisle )"
Hopefully it's the tiny one near the woods |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The real question is does you wife know your here?
If no does her sister plan to tell her?
KJ
No the real question is "has anyone else had a similar experience?"...just like the bloke asked.
Why do people have to prod into other people's lives uninvited? You do your thing and let him do his or else post aspects of your life that others might find unacceptable (we ALL have them) and in the same holier than though way he can preach to you."
Well said.
I was messaged on WhatsApp by the husband of someone I know after her saw me on here. I blocked him from my profile and moved on. It's not my place to tell her. That's his business whether he does or doesn't. |
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By *irldnCouple
over a year ago
Brighton |
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The real question is does you wife know your here?
If no does her sister plan to tell her?
KJ
No the real question is "has anyone else had a similar experience?"...just like the bloke asked.
Why do people have to prod into other people's lives uninvited? You do your thing and let him do his or else post aspects of your life that others might find unacceptable (we ALL have them) and in the same holier than though way he can preach to you."
In many ways I agree except, if the OP wants to prompt a discussion on a forum by making their own private life public then in some ways why be surprised people post opinions? If you don’t want to hear it then don’t post it right? |
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The real question is does you wife know your here?
If no does her sister plan to tell her?
KJ
No the real question is "has anyone else had a similar experience?"...just like the bloke asked.
Why do people have to prod into other people's lives uninvited? You do your thing and let him do his or else post aspects of your life that others might find unacceptable (we ALL have them) and in the same holier than though way he can preach to you.
In many ways I agree except, if the OP wants to prompt a discussion on a forum by making their own private life public then in some ways why be surprised people post opinions? If you don’t want to hear it then don’t post it right?"
Exactly. If you don't want things discussing, don't bring the subject up especially when it conflicts with what is on your public profile. |
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My (married) ex was on here last year and propositioned me LOL.
Recognised his pics. Asked for face pic and then a nice firm block followed.
Amazingly enough his suggestion was surprising seeing as he hadnt managed to fulfill anything close in the 5 years I was with him.
What a Wally. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think if I was recognised by someone I'd want them to message me. As long as it was a kind of "Hey! You're on here too!". Not if they were into cooking rabbits!
As far as I'm concerned, the closer someone is the easier to meet up. So long as they recognise it's just about sexy fun and a friendly relationship would probably run it's course then fizzle out. Ideally leaving us still friends and talking, rather than vendictive enemies.
If you know me say hi. I'm fine with chatting about the weather as much as sex. Lol |
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"My wife's sister has found me on here and just messaged me, has anyone else had a similar experience?"
What I want to know is does your wife know you are on here and what did the sister in law say!? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Next door neighbour is on here. His wife doesn't know and keeps trying his luck  "
At least distance isn't an issue and if they're a no show you can knock and ask why |
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"Next door neighbour is on here. His wife doesn't know and keeps trying his luck
At least distance isn't an issue and if they're a no show you can knock and ask why "
Yeah not going to happen, she's a bit scary so want to steer well clear |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Someone I know from work is on here with his wife, and a women I knew from years ago found me in here a couple of weeks ago, I talk to the couple and to my old friend. |
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