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By *oomers OP Couple
over a year ago
talke |
Very genuine and yes older - but also wiser and more experienced I hope.
We are looking for one or two other couples to create a little group of likeminded people for mutual (yes mutual) fun and pleasure.
Never thoughts it wold be this difficult. Any suggestions other than clubs?
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By *oomers OP Couple
over a year ago
talke |
i understand your comments - thanks
We have pics and happy to share when we are chatting. we felt its getting that initial feeling works better without pics.
You feel we are wrong to want to chat initially - then getting the ladies to chat to out the guys pretending? |
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over a year ago
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"i understand your comments - thanks
We have pics and happy to share when we are chatting. we felt its getting that initial feeling works better without pics.
You feel we are wrong to want to chat initially - then getting the ladies to chat to out the guys pretending?"
Without pics most couples will just pass you by, everyone needs at least a slight attraction...
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"but if we messaged you with a nice polite message asking to chat - would you say FO or would you ask to see pics?"
We would definitely delete unless the message was exceptional with pics attached. |
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"but if we messaged you with a nice polite message asking to chat - would you say FO or would you ask to see pics?"
People often message us with no pictures or no pictures of the woman. We politely tell them that we don't chat with people in those circumstances. If they attach pictures to their initial message that's different.
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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago
south east |
"We wouldnt message you as there are no public pics  "
An attraction is a must for us
Also ..although verified its from 2 single guys and both veris are hidden we would initially believe the profile to be fake (just our take on it ) |
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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago
Peterborough / Stamford |
"but if we messaged you with a nice polite message asking to chat - would you say FO or would you ask to see pics?"
We'd be annoyed that you had approached US yet then expected US to do the work of asking for pics, etc.
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"i understand your comments - thanks
We have pics and happy to share when we are chatting. we felt its getting that initial feeling works better without pics.
You feel we are wrong to want to chat initially - then getting the ladies to chat to out the guys pretending?"
It's fine wanting to chat however most people check out profiles before deciding to respond or delete messages
Having no photos at all cuts down on your potential
I know I'm single but ive been here as a couple and I would never have replied also i would find your age range a bit cringe
Get to a few social events if you don't want to go to a club.. |
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By *9Karm69Man
over a year ago
plymouth/chesterfield |
"people in our chosen area with similar desires and needs ... winking and messaging"
When messaging why not attach a photo or 2, there's a box you can tick that once open and seen they will automatically be removed |
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"but if we messaged you with a nice polite message asking to chat - would you say FO or would you ask to see pics?"
Just delete
Im not asking they should be there or at least sent with the message (and if both of you... Used to hate that when its all pics of the fem... Everyone has to like everyone!) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A profile picture would help as would some public photos. Without either any profile is a no from us. "
A no from us too without at least a profile picture x |
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"but if we messaged you with a nice polite message asking to chat - would you say FO or would you ask to see pics?"
Sorry I would just delete. My biggest 2 hates of profiles. 1) silhouettes, 2) friends only pics. Not expecting face pics, but nothing really. Next.
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"i understand your comments - thanks
We have pics and happy to share when we are chatting. we felt its getting that initial feeling works better without pics.
You feel we are wrong to want to chat initially - then getting the ladies to chat to out the guys pretending?
Without pics most couples will just pass you by, everyone needs at least a slight attraction...
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Totally agree, I wouldn't respond to a profile with no pics. Even dressed body pics would be good.
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"Very genuine and yes older - but also wiser and more experienced I hope.
We are looking for one or two other couples to create a little group of likeminded people for mutual (yes mutual) fun and pleasure.
Never thoughts it wold be this difficult. Any suggestions other than clubs?
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What is it that you don't like about meeting in clubs? |
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"Is this better then one profile pic and the rest in "friends""
It's as pointless as the shadow.
I can appreciate people may want to keep faces as friends only but you really need to get some more public photos that show you are a couple.
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Would say get to a local social meet if you don't like the idea of a club visit. Also as has been said in most posts a few more pictures would help people to get some idea if there may be a spark there to consider replying to you. The pictures don't have to be of your faces or even of you doing rude things but guys put something in there. Lots of people won't just jump into the messaging too and fro without at least a hope of an attraction. Lack of effort in the profile hints a lack of effort elsewhere..... |
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By *oomers OP Couple
over a year ago
talke |
not having any sense of the other couple - i.e. very random like dogging.
We feel rightly or wrongly that an online chat - followed by a phone call between the girls gives a better understanding of suitability.
We recognise that this is also flawed, but its ow we agreed to play/ |
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"not having any sense of the other couple - i.e. very random like dogging.
We feel rightly or wrongly that an online chat - followed by a phone call between the girls gives a better understanding of suitability.
We recognise that this is also flawed, but its ow we agreed to play/"
You must do what is best for the two of you while understanding that might not be how other people like to do things |
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