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Is there people who prefer bareback only?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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No judgement please
Is there people who would rather miss out on sex if you have to use a condom ? It's all about the being filled with cum for some as that's the icing on the cake |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Bareback only with my husband.
The risk is not worth it.
People may get tested, but can you trust that they haven't fucked bareback before the results of that test come back...."
Absolutely.  |
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"No judgement please
Is there people who would rather miss out on sex if you have to use a condom ? It's all about the being filled with cum for some as that's the icing on the cake "
It's more the icing in the cake  |
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"of course there is OP ... just like there is people that like shitting while reading a paper ..
many will only want safer sex ,many will be happy for natural sex ... human nature "
I rarely get the opportunity to read the paper much these days.  |
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Yes, of course there are. Unfortunately many feel the need to not show it on their profile because of the judgement they will receive but plenty are open to it despite the profile text saying different. |
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By *xydadbodMan
over a year ago
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It depends doesn't it? I do love bareback but I prefer with someone regular or someone I know for a while rather than just on a first meet. As great as the feeling is going bareback, most often it's not worth the risk but the fantasy is there though lol |
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"No judgement please
Is there people who would rather miss out on sex if you have to use a condom ? It's all about the being filled with cum for some as that's the icing on the cake "
Yes, we ‘missed out’ having fun with a couple, because they wanted bareback only. It wasn’t noted on their profile, but just hours before meeting them, I noticed they hadn’t listed ‘safe sex’ in the interests. We still met them and asked about it during the social. We didn’t continue after being lectured how ‘pointless’ it was using a condom.
It’s none of our business if people want bareback - each to their own, but it’s not for us. We always use condoms with playmates, as I rather than be safe than sorry. And yes, I do get tested. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Always love bareback, it’s just so artificial with a condom. Most ladies and couples I’ve met always prefer bareback, even ‘single’ ladies returning to their husbands afterwards. On my old profile I met 20 singles/couples and easily 80% wanted bareback. |
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Its no different to Covid.
Some people understand the consequences and protect themselves by keeping a distance, sterilising hands and most importantly wearing masks.
Others don't. I know people who have had covid19 and have carried on there daily activities with total disregard to other peoples heath.
It's the same with sex. Some think with their head, others fuck with it  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No judgement please
Is there people who would rather miss out on sex if you have to use a condom ? It's all about the being filled with cum for some as that's the icing on the cake
It's more the icing in the cake "
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"Bareback for me not ashamed to admit to it. Bareback is my choice, everyone is entitled to make theirs. "
everyone to their own i love bareback myself but I've no bother wearing a condom if she wants me to
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Gets me how lots wont do it but happy to have oral which carries risks as well or have they forgot that side been a bi all my life and prefer bb and im 71 "
Because the risk from oral is significantly lower! It’s not equal risk. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"And this is especially true for the more life threatening STIs such as HIVeveryone to their own if you don't like it that's OK but others love it and that's OK too "
It’s not about judgement it’s about responding with actual facts! My post is in response to someone else after all. |
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"And this is especially true for the more life threatening STIs such as HIVeveryone to their own if you don't like it that's OK but others love it and that's OK too
It’s not about judgement it’s about responding with actual facts! My post is in response to someone else after all."
Fair enough |
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"Yes, and I make it clear on my profile and messages. And yes I do miss out on meets"
Same here - pre-Covid, a couple who apparently visit this area quite frequently messaged me numerous times wanting to meet while they were here...
....but insisted condoms would be required - although the lady was both persistent and persuasive, I maintained my 'bareback only' stance...
....eventually, she 'gave up' when she realised I wasn't going to 'give in' - but did tell me if I changed my mind... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"And this is especially true for the more life threatening STIs such as HIVeveryone to their own if you don't like it that's OK but others love it and that's OK too
It’s not about judgement it’s about responding with actual facts! My post is in response to someone else after all."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was literally just talking about how contentious this thread is and now it's popped back up.
Personally I prefer bb, who doesn't?! BUT it's dodgy ground on here and too risky so reserved for special people. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I was literally just talking about how contentious this thread is and now it's popped back up.
Personally I prefer bb, who doesn't?! BUT it's dodgy ground on here and too risky so reserved for special people. "
I don’t think I’ve ever met someone who prefers sex with a condom but I agree I wouldn’t do BB with someone from here |
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"Yes, and I make it clear on my profile and messages. And yes I do miss out on meets
Same here - pre-Covid, a couple who apparently visit this area quite frequently messaged me numerous times wanting to meet while they were here...
....but insisted condoms would be required - although the lady was both persistent and persuasive, I maintained my 'bareback only' stance...
....eventually, she 'gave up' when she realised I wasn't going to 'give in' - but did tell me if I changed my mind..."
I like bareback but safe sex trumps it every time if requested by the other party.
I think the above poster shows an incredibly selfish attitude but I suppose that's his choice and if he wants to adopt that approach then so be it. |
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"I like bareback but safe sex trumps it every time if requested by the other party.
I think the above poster shows an incredibly selfish attitude but I suppose that's his choice and if he wants to adopt that approach then so be it."
I can't quite work out how I'm the one with an "incredibly selfish attitude", when it was the couple who contacted me that wanted me to change the way that I play... 
....if you're vegan, you don't walk into a butcher's shop and demand a veggie burger...  |
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If everyone involved is scrubbed up clean prior to playing I have no problem and never have had any problems.
I also don't have any problem with wearing a condom, so with me it's down to preference.
I respect playmates preferences. |
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Yes and do sometimes rather miss out on sex if I feel a really strong urge to spunk in a pussy such that I know I won't get full satisfaction by using a condom. That being said, I do not want to bareback or even fuck every pussy.
Bonus is I eat and clean up after me as any self respecting gent would. After care is good manners.    |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Surely everyone prefers BB, however the reality is, if you're meeting new sexual partners on a regular basis and those people are meeting other new people on a regular basis, the risks obviously goes up. I don't meet lots of new people, prefer BB, but do play safe usually unless with a trusted a fb and even this carries risk. I get myself tested regularly and regardless if you play BB or safe with lots of different people, it's probably a good idea to get tested regularly. However we're all adults here, I'm pretty sure we all know the facts, so we all make choices which are right for ourselves. Personally no judgement on either side. Their bodies, their choice. |
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