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How did you feel the day after letting someone sleep with your wife/hubby
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We had a same room swap/ foursome. I was really surprised that I spent a lot of time watching hubby with another woman. This wasn’t something I had ever thought I’d enjoy, but I really did. I felt happy the next day, and horny. Might have been different if I was just watching though. It felt like we’d had an experience together. |
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over a year ago
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I genuinely didn’t feel any different. Mrs felt a bit dirty and needed a bit of reassurance that I was fine with it but once she realised I was good she told me how much she enjoyed it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't 'let' my partner go with anyone else. We discuss it and he makes the decision for himself, the same as I do for me.
As for how do I feel seeing him with someone else, it's really hot watching them. |
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By *batMan
over a year ago
Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales) |
"I don't 'let' my partner go with anyone else. We discuss it and he makes the decision for himself, the same as I do for me.
As for how do I feel seeing him with someone else, it's really hot watching them. "
This.
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By *ussraneCouple
over a year ago
Romford |
I watched Rane with another man for the first time yesterday. For 24hrs I have thought about every detail and I am still doing so as I type. I’ve watched the videos I took over and over again. Loads of different emotions going through my head if I’m honest. But we have talked about it non stop since going through every detail together and thanks to Rane and me being so strong a couple it’s a fantastic experience. I would not recommend to anyone to do it unless you are in a good relationship. |
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Buzzing it brought our sex life back from the brink , we talked more the next day , we fucked more the next day , we have calmed down now ten years on , we don’t swing a lot , but when we do we make the most of it ,we had been married twenty years before we started 33 years now and still going strong ,you need to be in a strong relationship to try this I would say , we do have the odd solo meet ,with each other’s knowledge , but we have come across many playing behind their partners backs , because they are too scared to bring subject up ,it’s a shame really as I think many more would be up for it |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
Newcastle and Gateshead |
"I don't 'let' my partner go with anyone else. We discuss it and he makes the decision for himself, the same as I do for me.
As for how do I feel seeing him with someone else, it's really hot watching them. "
Amen sister… preach!!! 
It’s the little things that let people know what mindsets they bring into swinging… I don’t play with people who have the mindset of letting people do anything |
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By *risky FoxesCouple
over a year ago
Newcastle Emlyn/Stourport |
This is my biggest worry about full swapping. I’m very inexperienced and he isn’t. I don’t want my insecurities to spoil anything. And no one knows my body like he does , so I don’t want to be the weak link in the foursome either. |
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We've not full swapped as yet, just mff I thought I'd love watching the Mr with another woman but I felt indifferent, it was fun don't get me wrong i enjoy our threesomes, I'm still a little unsure on a full swap, I think it would be an exceptional couple that would sway me, I seem to be off men (other than the Mr).
Mrs |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I didn’t ‘Let’ my wife have sex with another.
That said, how did I feel? Fuckin’ awesome. I had so many thoughts running around my head while she was with him. The exciting energy I was feeling after dropping her off and before picking her up was mind blowing. Hearing all about it afterwards was incredibly erotic. And the sex afterwards was intense. |
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By *risky FoxesCouple
over a year ago
Newcastle Emlyn/Stourport |
"We've not full swapped as yet, just mff I thought I'd love watching the Mr with another woman but I felt indifferent, it was fun don't get me wrong i enjoy our threesomes, I'm still a little unsure on a full swap, I think it would be an exceptional couple that would sway me, I seem to be off men (other than the Mr).
Mrs "
Can I just say…. Your profile gallery is outstanding , fantastic couple x |
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"We've not full swapped as yet, just mff I thought I'd love watching the Mr with another woman but I felt indifferent, it was fun don't get me wrong i enjoy our threesomes, I'm still a little unsure on a full swap, I think it would be an exceptional couple that would sway me, I seem to be off men (other than the Mr).
Mrs
Can I just say…. Your profile gallery is outstanding , fantastic couple x"
Thank you  that's really kind, you both have a great profile too x |
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By *risky FoxesCouple
over a year ago
Newcastle Emlyn/Stourport |
"We've not full swapped as yet, just mff I thought I'd love watching the Mr with another woman but I felt indifferent, it was fun don't get me wrong i enjoy our threesomes, I'm still a little unsure on a full swap, I think it would be an exceptional couple that would sway me, I seem to be off men (other than the Mr).
Mrs
Can I just say…. Your profile gallery is outstanding , fantastic couple x
Thank you that's really kind, you both have a great profile too x"
Credit where it’s due, your pictures are incredibly erotic, and you make wonderful subjects. |
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"We've not full swapped as yet, just mff I thought I'd love watching the Mr with another woman but I felt indifferent, it was fun don't get me wrong i enjoy our threesomes, I'm still a little unsure on a full swap, I think it would be an exceptional couple that would sway me, I seem to be off men (other than the Mr).
Mrs "
Fab profile, do some of the organising socials. (The Leeds one is v good.) and go from there. |
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"We've not full swapped as yet, just mff I thought I'd love watching the Mr with another woman but I felt indifferent, it was fun don't get me wrong i enjoy our threesomes, I'm still a little unsure on a full swap, I think it would be an exceptional couple that would sway me, I seem to be off men (other than the Mr).
Mrs
Fab profile, do some of the organising socials. (The Leeds one is v good.) and go from there. "
Thank you, we're heading to Manchester social next week, I'm looking forward to it. X |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Thanks OP
A very useful and reassuring thread for us newbies nervous about passing the point of no return."
It's nice being praised for once on here  |
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"We've not full swapped as yet, just mff I thought I'd love watching the Mr with another woman but I felt indifferent, it was fun don't get me wrong i enjoy our threesomes, I'm still a little unsure on a full swap, I think it would be an exceptional couple that would sway me, I seem to be off men (other than the Mr).
Mrs
Fab profile, do some of the organising socials. (The Leeds one is v good.) and go from there.
Thank you, we're heading to Manchester social next week, I'm looking forward to it. X"
Cool have a fantastic time  |
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For the longest time we didn't want to see anything. It was more the thought.
We started with my wife "loaning" me to see her freind for the night. She never saw that. But for days she was on heat afterwards.
Second meet was a bi encounter for her (her first). Of course, both horny for days afterwards.
First proper ouples meet.soft play. Horny for days.
Second was seperate room. Also horny for days.
Then back to me on my own. You see the picture here.
The first time we acctually saw each other with another partner of the opposite sex (or partners in this case) was at a party. Our first one. We just went with it and loved it. No different than a y of the previous encounters, just totally OK with it. Wondered what we where worried about afterwards lol |
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By *omRachCouple
over a year ago
Wirral |
Our 1st dabble involved Rachel and one of my best friends - when I was in a room downstairs.
Next day I had worry on 2 fronts - had I just ruined 2 relationships - but after speaking to them both separately I got everything off my chest and everything was hunky dory afterward. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This is my biggest worry about full swapping. I’m very inexperienced and he isn’t. I don’t want my insecurities to spoil anything. And no one knows my body like he does , so I don’t want to be the weak link in the foursome either."
It's one of those sex fantasy scenarios that you can get turned on with BUT if it happens in real life and you don't like it, you can't Un See it.
It could drastically change your relationship.
Also when people experience thier fantasies, what do replace that fantasy with,because it won't be whatever it was after its actually been done. |
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Was nerve racking coming down from the d*unken highs.
The back down to earth, what has she done.
There was the thoughts of have I lost her, talked about it, which eased the emotions. The reclaim sex was amazing and helped.
And ever since the sex, and letting her pick her own lads to fuck turns me on.   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't 'let' my other half do anything, we dicuss it together and then make the decision.
It's a really horny situation and always makes for great sex afterwards. At first, she felt a bit guilty but after lots of reassurance she is a lot more comfortable. Communication is the key |
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I felt great after watching and taking part with our first guy. She asked me afterwards if I was OK about it I think she felt a bit guilty having let herself go as much as she did. I told her I felt great. |
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The first time I watched Dee being fucked all sorts of emotions ran through my head from pleasure to jealousy. But then I saw the look of pleasure and enjoyment on her face so in all honesty everything judged paled into insignificance.
The next day, Dee was quite embarrassed, but mainly because of how much she enjoyed it, I suppose it’s what started us off into the cuckolding world. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Actually felt OK and horny.
We talked about it loads before hand and straight after, so we think we covered everything.
Greedy held back a little for a few days as she was worried telling me exactly how much she enjoyed it.
But we're open and honest with everything, and we both are looking forward to playing again.
Boss. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Watching your partner for the first time? How was you feeling the next day "
Walked around with a constant hard on for days but pangs of jealousy about how turned on and satisfied she looked.
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By *irldnCouple
over a year ago
Brighton |
"I don't 'let' my partner go with anyone else. We discuss it and he makes the decision for himself, the same as I do for me.
As for how do I feel seeing him with someone else, it's really hot watching them.
Amen sister… preach!!!
It’s the little things that let people know what mindsets they bring into swinging… I don’t play with people who have the mindset of letting people do anything "
another “I agree with this” post!
Everything we have done in our swinging adventures has been 100% by mutual agreement.
We have discussed our joint and individual boundaries extensively and know where the red lines are.
While in some ways that is “clinical” and not spontaneous, by having talked it through in advance it means the actual meets can be very relaxed (oh and good comms with new playmates in advance is important so they know boundaries too - and we would hope they tell us in advance).
This also includes who we meet. We have to both like the people/person we are meeting. Mrs B is bi so needs to like and fancy women/men/couples. Mr B is straight but still has to like (and get the right vibe) from males. |
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In answer to the OP, the first time watching Becky have sex with another guy was a complete blast. We had only been together a matter of days and now well over 20 years later, when she is with another guy, we both still get the same buzz as we did the first time.
We don't wish to derail this thread but the topic of "letting" your partner have sex with another is not as clear cut as it first seems, believe me.
We are an "absolutely equal" couple, no secrets and everything shared. Free to do as we please within the boundaries we have both set.
And that's the precise reason why there has to be an element of permission in all of this.
A separate thread would be great to discuss it further.
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By *irldnCouple
over a year ago
Brighton |
"In answer to the OP, the first time watching Becky have sex with another guy was a complete blast. We had only been together a matter of days and now well over 20 years later, when she is with another guy, we both still get the same buzz as we did the first time.
We don't wish to derail this thread but the topic of "letting" your partner have sex with another is not as clear cut as it first seems, believe me.
We are an "absolutely equal" couple, no secrets and everything shared. Free to do as we please within the boundaries we have both set.
And that's the precise reason why there has to be an element of permission in all of this.
A separate thread would be great to discuss it further.
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Agreed re “letting”. It is the connotations in the language. However, once you have agreed boundaries, then anything goes within those parameters. In a way that is granting permission but it is first via a mutual agreement. Language can be tricky! |
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We have had a few meets now but as a cuck couple. First meet emotions were all over the place. Disbelief she actually went through with it, jealousy, excitement, turned on, bit of a headfuck really but saw how much she liked it. Chatted for hours afterwards about all our feelings in between rounds of sex.
Is a wonderful feeling but have to be open and honest with each other afterwards. |
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This is a great thread
Good to share how we feel x
After six years of happy swinging in an effective cuckold style I often wonder if I’ll wake up crying one day that so many men have fucked my wife?
Anyone wonder the same thing? |
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By *s2walesCouple
over a year ago
Gwent... |
"I watched Rane with another man for the first time yesterday. For 24hrs I have thought about every detail and I am still doing so as I type. I’ve watched the videos I took over and over again. Loads of different emotions going through my head if I’m honest. But we have talked about it non stop since going through every detail together and thanks to Rane and me being so strong a couple it’s a fantastic experience. I would not recommend to anyone to do it unless you are in a good relationship."
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By *ussraneCouple
over a year ago
Romford |
Three days later and we’re still talking about the event. Rane doesn’t feel guilty and is openly honest with me how good he made her feel but only because I was there as this was something we both wanted to try together. I can’t emphasise enough how important being open, honest and communication is. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Three days later and we’re still talking about the event. Rane doesn’t feel guilty and is openly honest with me how good he made her feel but only because I was there as this was something we both wanted to try together. I can’t emphasise enough how important being open, honest and communication is."
This is exactly how we felt. Greedy loved it and really enjoyed the experience but only because Boss was there and involved. Bo guilty or dirty feelings, we all just had a great, adult fun time. |
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