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By *ain and sorted OP   Man  over a year ago

Old Harlow Essex

Hello everyone, hope your all enjoying the lovely weather, I've noticed and read a lot of profiles pictures and videos to. We'll them 1st words second, i am a man haha, i see a lot of I font like. Don't want. Etc on many profiles, which I understand due to fakes. Inundated messages etc, wouldn't it be nice to turn that round and say, you know what I'd like is be a much nicer place to be. Shall we re word the negatives and turn positive in times of crissis and enjoy x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Nice if it could be like that.

Trying to think of some examples of ways to re-word to sound better??

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I think it’s good to have preferences, if that is what you mean by a list of don’t wants

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By *ain and sorted OP   Man  over a year ago

Old Harlow Essex

Yes ofcourse it's good to establish preferences and morw likes than dis likes, exploring the likes rather than explaining the dislikes may be. Ie I'm afraid bi, beards, stubble isn't our thing but what is are clean shaven straight people who would like to come along and indulge in pleasure, words are a powerful tool, the same as is we prefer an adequate tool to pleasure

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Even with preferences I get mail trying to persuade me otherwise. Without them on my profile it would be double at least probably! I haven’t the time to read all messages so the age range, photos and bio are what I look at before deciding to read. If they are outside my preferences I delete the message.

It’s the only way I’ve found that I can keep up….

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By *ain and sorted OP   Man  over a year ago

Old Harlow Essex

I can appreciate that being a lady on fabs, even as a single guy, some messages from others are very vague, tend to delete after a while as not real people, real people will read further if there's an Interest, then start a proper conversation, isn't that what we all would like human contact with like minds x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

no no and no...we are here to play our way and if that mean alot of men think we are negative then that is there problem in fact its posative we know what we like and dont like thats confidence and it seems alot of men dont like confident women.

i dont weant anyone jumping thro hoops to meet us thats the whole point of bewing open and honest ..we'll jmp thro hoops for no one

blunt open and honest if people cant handle that then that says alot about that person not us

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By *ain and sorted OP   Man  over a year ago

Old Harlow Essex

That makes sense totally, I was saying negatives and the way we say things can be switched to positives, being open, honest and blunt is a positive, confidence is great and knowing what you want is positive, just the words we use sometimes xan be less aggressive x I'm all for people expressing there desires for sure, do who's going to vote for me as next pm haha

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By *ain and sorted OP   Man  over a year ago

Old Harlow Essex

The block button is a useful tool as well to protect x

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By *ain and sorted OP   Man  over a year ago

Old Harlow Essex

Its interesting to hear diffrent points of views and u understanding, people as a whole, no i dont work for that university haha

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