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Fully bisexual vs bi curious
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"I just simplify it. You are either straight. Bi or gay. How you play in that category is upto the person.
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I'd agree with this comment. There are straight people who won't kiss on meets. It's all down to the individual. |
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I’ve always thought bi-curious meant you were experimenting to see whether you think you’re bisexual. Whereas if you say you’re bisexual it’s because you know you are.
I note myself as bisexual because I like to play with both. I wouldn’t have a relationship with a woman though. Wonder if there’s a term for that. |
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Looks like they need to add some more options to clarify. I'd agree with comment above if you include kissing men that's gay. I don't fancy men but in certain situations / positions in a 3 some it would be hot to suck on her and him. Fucking a bloke or sucking to put on a show isn't as appealing as all 3 being involved is. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Looks like they need to add some more options to clarify. I'd agree with comment above if you include kissing men that's gay. I don't fancy men but in certain situations / positions in a 3 some it would be hot to suck on her and him. Fucking a bloke or sucking to put on a show isn't as appealing as all 3 being involved is. "
Kissing men doesn't make you gay if you're still attracted to women? It makes you bi? In fact I'd say sucking a guy makes you more bi than kissing a guy but that's just me lol |
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"I’ve always thought bi-curious meant you were experimenting to see whether you think you’re bisexual. Whereas if you say you’re bisexual it’s because you know you are.
I note myself as bisexual because I like to play with both. I wouldn’t have a relationship with a woman though. Wonder if there’s a term for that. "
I'd class that as het exible, I'd put myself in that category too.
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By *eguyukMan
over a year ago
Manchester |
I just think life is too short to label it, personally im bi but some people dont kiss on a MM meet some people dont kiss on MF meet or FF meet if ya wanna snog a man or a woman or someone who is non-binary or whoever, as long as everyone consents n wants it just enjoy it |
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"Looks like they need to add some more options to clarify. I'd agree with comment above if you include kissing men that's gay. I don't fancy men but in certain situations / positions in a 3 some it would be hot to suck on her and him. Fucking a bloke or sucking to put on a show isn't as appealing as all 3 being involved is.
Kissing men doesn't make you gay if you're still attracted to women? It makes you bi? In fact I'd say sucking a guy makes you more bi than kissing a guy but that's just me lol "
Interesting perspective. I only kiss people I fancy so I wouldn't kiss all women. But blokes is a definite no. |
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"No idea why the emoji appeared hetro flexible is what I was trying to say."
Lol I got the general idea. My flexibility came from feeling that fuck licking as it seems to have been named is very appealing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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How about people stop putting labels on each other.
Sex isn't a straight line or two-dimensional.
Just do what your comfortable with and what you enjoy and stop worrying what box society says you should be in. |
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"How about people stop putting labels on each other.
Sex isn't a straight line or two-dimensional.
Just do what your comfortable with and what you enjoy and stop worrying what box society says you should be in."
The problem for single guys is that couples are very specific about what they want so won't even look at you without the right clarification. Hence trying to get a measure for what's what. |
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By *irldnCouple
over a year ago
Brighton |
"I’ve always thought bi-curious meant you were experimenting to see whether you think you’re bisexual. Whereas if you say you’re bisexual it’s because you know you are.
I note myself as bisexual because I like to play with both. I wouldn’t have a relationship with a woman though. Wonder if there’s a term for that. "
Totally agree. To us “curious” means not yet sure, trying it out or want try it out. If you have had a few experiments and keep coming back for more than you are way past the “curious” stage.
Labels are simultaneously useful and reductive. They help reduce the chance of a misunderstanding but to be truly helpful there needs to be more of them because people can be anywhere on a broad spectrum of preferences. |
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"I’ve always thought bi-curious meant you were experimenting to see whether you think you’re bisexual. Whereas if you say you’re bisexual it’s because you know you are.
I note myself as bisexual because I like to play with both. I wouldn’t have a relationship with a woman though. Wonder if there’s a term for that.
Totally agree. To us “curious” means not yet sure, trying it out or want try it out. If you have had a few experiments and keep coming back for more than you are way past the “curious” stage.
Labels are simultaneously useful and reductive. They help reduce the chance of a misunderstanding but to be truly helpful there needs to be more of them because people can be anywhere on a broad spectrum of preferences."
Absolutely agree with this. |
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Too many boxes and sub variations.
I’m more I love exploring new experiences and wondering what something is like and a try it mentality.
I think it is more who are you sexually attracted to or even who would you date. I would only date/relationship with a female and find women sexually attracted but enjoy the idea of having fun with males/ couples etc.
Like the romans and previous civilisations they just enjoyed sex and no taboo which the church and religion added into society and only now gradually getting away from. |
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If a woman doesn't like taking Anal does that mean she is not fully hetrosexual?
Of course not, that would be fucking idiotic!
So why do so many people say I'm not fully bisexual because I'm 'top only' when it comes to anal? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Imo there is bisexuality (sexual acts) and biromantic (relationships etc)
Kissing in a way crosses the two which is why ppl feel slightly conflicted.
I think bicurious and hetro flex are often ppl who are bisexual, but not biromantic.
Or ppl at the start of the journey. It signpost "I'm new so may not go all the way/be flakey" |
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"Does fully bisexual mean kissing men ? As I'm not into that. But I assume that's what the term means hence I use bi curious."
No, most of my messages or potential meets with guys we always discuss kissing. Not all bi guys do and find it a massive turn off. Same as not all bisexual guys or TV’s engage in anal sex.
Previous comment about Bi Romantic comes across as something I’d agree with.  |
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By *omRachCouple
over a year ago
Wirral |
"Does fully bisexual mean kissing men ? As I'm not into that. But I assume that's what the term means hence I use bi curious."
My view is that the moment you come into contact with another mans cock you lose the label of being bi curious and you become bisexual - whether you kiss or not.
Again, just my view. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Does fully bisexual mean kissing men ? As I'm not into that. But I assume that's what the term means hence I use bi curious.
My view is that the moment you come into contact with another mans cock you lose the label of being bi curious and you become bisexual - whether you kiss or not.
Again, just my view."
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I class myself as bi curious... I would love to go down on a woman and for one to go down on me... But I've not tried it to know if I'd like it... I also know I love cock, so im definitely not gay |
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By *rKinksMan
over a year ago
Alton |
As a rough guide bisexual indicates to me people who are interested in mm anal (top or bottom) or kissing. As apposed to bi curious who enjoy thing like oral, fuck licking and dvp.
But as hovis says this doesn't begin to touch the spectrum when it comes to bi sexual and bi romantic |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I consider myself straight but open minded, depends on the mood and the situation. I’ve had experiences with guys but always with a girl involved. Don’t think I could do a one-on-one |
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Fully bisexual in my mind is I go all the way taking cock in my man pussy! Oh and kissing is an essential part of that too! If you don’t want to kiss the guy fucking you Why are you letting him fuck you |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Fully bisexual in my mind is I go all the way taking cock in my man pussy! Oh and kissing is an essential part of that too! If you don’t want to kiss the guy fucking you Why are you letting him fuck you "
Kissing isn’t an issue, I love a tongue up my arse but don’t think I could take much more than a finger, dunno |
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I think people over analyse.
If you only like to play sexually only with the opposite sex you are straight.
If you play sexually with both sexes you are bi.
If you play sexually only with the same sex you are gay.
Bi-curious generally when you are trying to work out which you like but once you try it you should know.
What you do within these areas is just preference the same as anyone else. You can choose to kiss anyone or no-one but it doesn't change if you are straight bi or gay. |
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By *uzie69xTV/TS
over a year ago
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"If a woman doesn't like taking Anal does that mean she is not fully hetrosexual?
Of course not, that would be fucking idiotic!
So why do so many people say I'm not fully bisexual because I'm 'top only' when it comes to anal?"
Interesting point.
In Arabic and North African cultures if you fuck (top), you're "straight", even if you fuck a man or a woman up the arse. If you're bottom and a man, you're gay.
Kinda ties in with your point but the reverse. |
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The confusing bit for me is seeing guys offering "discreet blow and go" to straight men? Surely that's one label that doesn't allow male/male interaction but do know of "straight acting" gay guys almost like they have to hide what it is they like |
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I consider myself straight I'm not attracted to men in any way would never meet a guy alone it just doesn't interest me but in a group situation or a 3sum I have sucked cock and had mine sucked by a man sharing it with sue and vice versa so I put bi curious but there's some men I wouldn't suck the shape and size of thier cocks is the deciding point,strange I know but it works for us ! |
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As far as I'm concerned, any repeat sexual activity with someone of the same sex makes you bi. People flip it as "orally bi" on here but that's bollocks because I don't call my wife "orally bi" for licking pussy any more than i say im orally straight for just getting a bj or licking pussy. My wifes bi. Im.straight (not fab I'll lie about it straight). That's it. If you are bi you're bi regardless of if you engage in penetrative sex or not.
Curious just means you want to explore it or have only dabbled a bit of curiosity.
Honestly...people should just accept themselves for themselves and just be honest with themselves and others. Be so much easier. |
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"I consider myself straight I'm not attracted to men in any way would never meet a guy alone it just doesn't interest me but in a group situation or a 3sum I have sucked cock and had mine sucked by a man sharing it with sue and vice versa so I put bi curious but there's some men I wouldn't suck the shape and size of thier cocks is the deciding point,strange I know but it works for us !"
What works for you is cool by me |
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"As far as I'm concerned, any repeat sexual activity with someone of the same sex makes you bi. People flip it as "orally bi" on here but that's bollocks because I don't call my wife "orally bi" for licking pussy any more than i say im orally straight for just getting a bj or licking pussy. My wifes bi. Im.straight (not fab I'll lie about it straight). That's it. If you are bi you're bi regardless of if you engage in penetrative sex or not.
Curious just means you want to explore it or have only dabbled a bit of curiosity.
Honestly...people should just accept themselves for themselves and just be honest with themselves and others. Be so much easier."
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"As far as I'm concerned, any repeat sexual activity with someone of the same sex makes you bi. People flip it as "orally bi" on here but that's bollocks because I don't call my wife "orally bi" for licking pussy any more than i say im orally straight for just getting a bj or licking pussy. My wifes bi. Im.straight (not fab I'll lie about it straight). That's it. If you are bi you're bi regardless of if you engage in penetrative sex or not.
Curious just means you want to explore it or have only dabbled a bit of curiosity.
Honestly...people should just accept themselves for themselves and just be honest with themselves and others. Be so much easier."
Sorry hit the wrong button on phone  .
Ah but that's my predicament. As you can see everyone has their own version of what bi is so it's very difficult for us single men to know what to do. |
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By *batMan
over a year ago
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"I use the term "fully bi" to mean orally and anally - and to both give and receive. Kissing is a bonus but not necessary."
I classify as fully bi, but I've never had anal sex with a man. (I've only ever had anal sex with a woman once!)
As for oral or masturbation with a man, I'm happy both ways.
A lot of straight couples might not have anal sex but I'm sure they are still straight.
I've been with a MF couple who didn't kiss. (Well they kissed each other but not me).
I had a GF that would kiss the other woman, but not the guy.
It's all a bit confusing isn't it!
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Im fully bi and took me a while to accept i love a dick in my arse.. but once you’ve tried it theres no pleasure like it just let yourself be guided by the situation and dont get bogged down by labels!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Lots of differing terms for what constitutes “fully bi” and rightfully so as these things are never easy to figure out.
All I can say is that for me, I describe myself as fully bi in that everything I’d do with one gender , I’d do with all others. |
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