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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago
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"Good evening,
Going to st o with a friend soon. Any advice on where to go, playing and chances of being caught out by the general public"
Did i read that as you're hoping to get caught or looking for a place your least likely to get caught ? |
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I've been there twice recently.
Go to Hutleys Caravan park. Plenty of parking spaces. Then facing the beach go right and walk along the concrete pathway. Less than 10 minutes walk there is metal stairs, up those and onto the beech. Just keep walking and you'll soon find naked people on the beach. There are a lot of dunes people lay in. Tall vegetation.
Further along its mainly men.
On Sunday there was a mf couple. The guy was sucking two cocks while the woman watched on. There were about 8 others watching and wanking to the show. It was hot to watch.
It's a chilled vibe all over. Nobody will approach you unless you're staring at them and smile.
I'm going there on Saturday. DM me if anyone has more questions |
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over a year ago
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"I've been there twice recently.
Go to Hutleys Caravan park. Plenty of parking spaces. Then facing the beach go right and walk along the concrete pathway. Less than 10 minutes walk there is metal stairs, up those and onto the beech. Just keep walking and you'll soon find naked people on the beach. There are a lot of dunes people lay in. Tall vegetation.
Further along its mainly men.
On Sunday there was a mf couple. The guy was sucking two cocks while the woman watched on. There were about 8 others watching and wanking to the show. It was hot to watch.
It's a chilled vibe all over. Nobody will approach you unless you're staring at them and smile.
I'm going there on Saturday. DM me if anyone has more questions "
I was there yesterday and saw the couple you’ve mentioned in your status and post.
She had a hell of a body lol. But it was pretty clear to me that they were there for the guy to play and she just relaxes. In fact when I walked past her the first time she was asleep curled up in a ball lol.
No other couples there though. All guys, |
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"I've been there twice recently.
Go to Hutleys Caravan park. Plenty of parking spaces. Then facing the beach go right and walk along the concrete pathway. Less than 10 minutes walk there is metal stairs, up those and onto the beech. Just keep walking and you'll soon find naked people on the beach. There are a lot of dunes people lay in. Tall vegetation.
Further along its mainly men.
On Sunday there was a mf couple. The guy was sucking two cocks while the woman watched on. There were about 8 others watching and wanking to the show. It was hot to watch.
It's a chilled vibe all over. Nobody will approach you unless you're staring at them and smile.
I'm going there on Saturday. DM me if anyone has more questions "
Thanks for that, we’ve been thinking about popping along sometime but wasn’t sure what to expect. |
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We went last weekend. Firstly no chance of getting caught by general pubic given the walk. It felt really safe.
We were there a few hours and didn't see anybody playing at all - well I think a lady went inside a tent with some men but they might have come together.
We had a small fondle and a few guys were nearby watching respectfully. If we had wanted sure they would have got involved.
There was another couple there and think we could have done something together if we had wished. To some extent pot luck really who is there and what is going on.
Next time we will play full on I suspect if we can find another couple especially.
Note that it is a fairly big area so easy to just keep to yourself should you wish and you need to make an effort to talk to others. It is not like everyone is packed close.
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Wife and i visited yesterday, we usually keep to the first part about 100 or so metres in and there’s some sandy patches with some longish grass for shelter, slight breeze but it was baking hot, very quiet although there were a couple of ladies a little way up, try to avoid the weekends as lots of blokes about from a distance which we learnt early on!!! |
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"Wife and i visited yesterday, we usually keep to the first part about 100 or so metres in and there’s some sandy patches with some longish grass for shelter, slight breeze but it was baking hot, very quiet although there were a couple of ladies a little way up, try to avoid the weekends as lots of blokes about from a distance which we learnt early on!!! "
I was there all day yesterday…. There was one woman there the whole day. Unless you came after 4pm? |
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It's a chilled vibe all over. Nobody will approach you unless you're staring at them and smile. "
Have to take exception to the no one will approach you comment.
We're down there a couple of times a month and have had both good and bad experiences.
When its busy you will get a lot of "Meerkat" men, wandering up and down heads popping out of bushes etc to have a look at anyone and everyone who walks by.
These men tend to be of an older age range (55+) and of all the people that go to the beach, are the most disrespectful self entitled idiots.
From our experience it is the older generation single men who go there they think just because you're at a nudist beach, you're fair game to be walked up to and wanked over, or try to reach out and touch without being invited or given any indication thats what you want.
We have found the people around our age or younger are much more respectful and polite.
Having said all that we have also enjoyed ourselves there and had men join us on several occasions for some alfresco fun.
You do also need to keep an eye out for the fully clothed POS picture taker, usually turns up on his bike and then trys to take pictures of people, eithet in action or just laying there.
A swift telling to FO usually does the trick.
Overall it is a good time, which is why we're going again tomorrow, but you should know that its not all just the happy chilled vibe thats been portrayed here.
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It's a chilled vibe all over. Nobody will approach you unless you're staring at them and smile.
Have to take exception to the no one will approach you comment.
We're down there a couple of times a month and have had both good and bad experiences.
When its busy you will get a lot of "Meerkat" men, wandering up and down heads popping out of bushes etc to have a look at anyone and everyone who walks by.
These men tend to be of an older age range (55+) and of all the people that go to the beach, are the most disrespectful self entitled idiots.
From our experience it is the older generation single men who go there they think just because you're at a nudist beach, you're fair game to be walked up to and wanked over, or try to reach out and touch without being invited or given any indication thats what you want.
We have found the people around our age or younger are much more respectful and polite.
Having said all that we have also enjoyed ourselves there and had men join us on several occasions for some alfresco fun.
You do also need to keep an eye out for the fully clothed POS picture taker, usually turns up on his bike and then trys to take pictures of people, eithet in action or just laying there.
A swift telling to FO usually does the trick.
Overall it is a good time, which is why we're going again tomorrow, but you should know that its not all just the happy chilled vibe thats been portrayed here.
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This!
Precisely our experience when we’ve been there. Sometimes great, other times not. We’ve not encountered the guy on a bike, but a swift FO usually does the trick otherwise.
Go there to enjoy the beach, don’t hassle other people and if you get lucky, well, that’s just a bonus. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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It's a chilled vibe all over. Nobody will approach you unless you're staring at them and smile.
Have to take exception to the no one will approach you comment.
We're down there a couple of times a month and have had both good and bad experiences.
When its busy you will get a lot of "Meerkat" men, wandering up and down heads popping out of bushes etc to have a look at anyone and everyone who walks by.
These men tend to be of an older age range (55+) and of all the people that go to the beach, are the most disrespectful self entitled idiots.
From our experience it is the older generation single men who go there they think just because you're at a nudist beach, you're fair game to be walked up to and wanked over, or try to reach out and touch without being invited or given any indication thats what you want.
We have found the people around our age or younger are much more respectful and polite.
Having said all that we have also enjoyed ourselves there and had men join us on several occasions for some alfresco fun.
You do also need to keep an eye out for the fully clothed POS picture taker, usually turns up on his bike and then trys to take pictures of people, eithet in action or just laying there.
A swift telling to FO usually does the trick.
Overall it is a good time, which is why we're going again tomorrow, but you should know that its not all just the happy chilled vibe thats been portrayed here.
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I live at st osyth and go there a lot with my femail fwb. We dont normally play there unless its very quiet. It seems you only need to rub sun lotion on her back or bum and men just turn up from noware. Shame as nice place |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I have been with my fwb and been on my own quite a few times now and we like to keep ourselves to ourselves. It gets annoying when you get the idiots perving and playing when all you want to do is sunbathe which is what I go for.
So be careful and respect others or you might get a few nasty words said to you...
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have been with my fwb and been on my own quite a few times now and we like to keep ourselves to ourselves. It gets annoying when you get the idiots perving and playing when all you want to do is sunbathe which is what I go for.
So be careful and respect others or you might get a few nasty words said to you...
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I agree wish you. Respect is the key. If asked to move on then respect there space. Not all are up there for fun. |
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It's a chilled vibe all over. Nobody will approach you unless you're staring at them and smile.
Have to take exception to the no one will approach you comment.
We're down there a couple of times a month and have had both good and bad experiences.
When its busy you will get a lot of "Meerkat" men, wandering up and down heads popping out of bushes etc to have a look at anyone and everyone who walks by.
These men tend to be of an older age range (55+) and of all the people that go to the beach, are the most disrespectful self entitled idiots.
From our experience it is the older generation single men who go there they think just because you're at a nudist beach, you're fair game to be walked up to and wanked over, or try to reach out and touch without being invited or given any indication thats what you want.
We have found the people around our age or younger are much more respectful and polite.
Having said all that we have also enjoyed ourselves there and had men join us on several occasions for some alfresco fun.
You do also need to keep an eye out for the fully clothed POS picture taker, usually turns up on his bike and then trys to take pictures of people, eithet in action or just laying there.
A swift telling to FO usually does the trick.
Overall it is a good time, which is why we're going again tomorrow, but you should know that its not all just the happy chilled vibe thats been portrayed here.
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We saw a couple of older men who appeared to be doing laps of the beach constantly for hours
I can imagine people having bad experiences. It was funny when we when to gorse area to hide from the wind and have a little gentle play together. Within 5 mins there were 4-5 men hiding in gorse bushes watching Didn't mind and next would probably invite them over |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Well we went early and got there before everyone else but we.went too far. Had a good time but people.walked past and didn't get involved. Walking back there were quite a few couples we wish we had time.to stop and talk to. The blowjob in the open.on the beach was.fun |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Often thought about going , but don’t want to be labelled as annoying or a perv, along with the others ."
If you go just go for the naked sunbathing. You only become annoying if someone wants to be left alone and you intrude in their space.
It can be a lovely place to get an all over tan |
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We’ve had both good and bad experiences at St Osyth. If you venture too far up you seem to get hound by the guys which can be rather off putting.
Last time we went we didn’t go so far up and had a glorious few hours 
Take a couple of wind breaks for a bit of privacy if that is what you want.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanks, we were not worried about privacy but you are right about going too far. We know better for next time. Walking back we saw more couples than we expected stop for a chat but didn't gave tome to get to know them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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It was actually pretty pleasant down there today was our first ever visit.
Some friendly people and some very odd men wondering around doing nothing more than being pervs.
We had a nice swim and chilled in the afternoon sun. |
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Mrs and i was there saturday from around 2 til about 7 ish had a loverly time relaxing in the sun was at least 6 other couples on the bit of beach we was on and only had 1 male walk past so close it was like he wanted our towl |
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By (user no longer on site)
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We didn't know how far to go down and what the etiquette or rules were so we walked a couple of hundred yards past the first naked person we saw and chilled there.
We saw plenty of other couples and next time we'll take wind breakers so we can maybe have some fun. |
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"Mrs and i was there saturday from around 2 til about 7 ish had a loverly time relaxing in the sun was at least 6 other couples on the bit of beach we was on and only had 1 male walk past so close it was like he wanted our towl "
Wasnt a really old guy in a black T shirt carrying an orange Sainsbury's bag by any chance ?
We had him walk past us yesterday at some stupidly close distance |
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By (user no longer on site)
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There was a few older gentleman walking around with shopping bags to be honest.
Nobody bothered us and realistically we don't mind people looking as long as it's not creepy.
The wind breakers will help next time lol |
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"There was a few older gentleman walking around with shopping bags to be honest.
Nobody bothered us and realistically we don't mind people looking as long as it's not creepy.
The wind breakers will help next time lol "
Judging from where you said you were sat you shouldn't have to many problems at all.
The semi un written rules for the beach are its in 3 sections, the first you get to is for people who just want to sunbathe.
The second is for people who like to sunbathe and also have a play and dont mind being watched or have some join in.
The 3rd is the gay / bi area right down the far end near the fence to the nature reserve.
Generally you won't get any hassle from people at the first section, but also do expect some disapproving looks and comments if you get up to anything rude.
You get the meerkat men and wanking walkers from the 2nd section onwards |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've been there twice recently.
Go to Hutleys Caravan park. Plenty of parking spaces. Then facing the beach go right and walk along the concrete pathway. Less than 10 minutes walk there is metal stairs, up those and onto the beech. Just keep walking and you'll soon find naked people on the beach. There are a lot of dunes people lay in. Tall vegetation.
Further along its mainly men.
On Sunday there was a mf couple. The guy was sucking two cocks while the woman watched on. There were about 8 others watching and wanking to the show. It was hot to watch.
It's a chilled vibe all over. Nobody will approach you unless you're staring at them and smile.
I'm going there on Saturday. DM me if anyone has more questions "
Thanks for the tips! I keep meaning to go along but, am not sure of where to go or what to expect |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"There was a few older gentleman walking around with shopping bags to be honest.
Nobody bothered us and realistically we don't mind people looking as long as it's not creepy.
The wind breakers will help next time lol
Judging from where you said you were sat you shouldn't have to many problems at all.
The semi un written rules for the beach are its in 3 sections, the first you get to is for people who just want to sunbathe.
The second is for people who like to sunbathe and also have a play and dont mind being watched or have some join in.
The 3rd is the gay / bi area right down the far end near the fence to the nature reserve.
Generally you won't get any hassle from people at the first section, but also do expect some disapproving looks and comments if you get up to anything rude.
You get the meerkat men and wanking walkers from the 2nd section onwards"
Thank you. Good advice for a newby looking to pop along and see what it’s al about |
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"Mrs and i was there saturday from around 2 til about 7 ish had a loverly time relaxing in the sun was at least 6 other couples on the bit of beach we was on and only had 1 male walk past so close it was like he wanted our towl
Wasnt a really old guy in a black T shirt carrying an orange Sainsbury's bag by any chance ?
We had him walk past us yesterday at some stupidly close distance "
Thats the guy yes he walked past us so close he might as well of sat down with us and had dinner |
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Where does the second section start is it specific or just where people start getting jiggy?
Also we are thinking of doing a weekend sunset. Do many couples stay till the sun goes down |
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"Where does the second section start is it specific or just where people start getting jiggy?
Also we are thinking of doing a weekend sunset. Do many couples stay till the sun goes down"
It's all a bit fluid and vague on the sections I think. If you see a man fucking another in the sand dunes you've probably gone past the second section
Good question on evenings. Suspect not many - wouldn't fancy walking back in the dark. |
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Not for me I’m afraid went there twice to meet a lady hell to get there and turns out the lady only wanted fucking thanked her polite no thank you told her just one regular lady fwb left beach is nice and loved the freedom of being naked  |
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"Not for me I’m afraid went there twice to meet a lady hell to get there and turns out the lady only wanted fucking thanked her polite no thank you told her just one regular lady fwb left beach is nice and loved the freedom of being naked "
What was the problem with the lady wanting fucking? Hell to get there - it's not that bad. Ensures it is private and not much chance of random people appearing which we like. |
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It's a ten minute walk from where we parked and it was simple enough to find parking as well.
The beach is stoney but it's private and nice enough to relax with like-minded people.
We'd recommend it to anyone that wants to experience being a naturist. |
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"Not for me I’m afraid went there twice to meet a lady hell to get there and turns out the lady only wanted fucking thanked her polite no thank you told her just one regular lady fwb left beach is nice and loved the freedom of being naked "
Wouldn't ever class it as hell to get there, and that includes our last visit when we took the wooden plank short cut, but as it was high tide it was submerged in muddy water lol.
We may go some point this long weekend if its nice enough, any others interested in going along ? |
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By *ukaMan
over a year ago
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"Not for me I’m afraid went there twice to meet a lady hell to get there and turns out the lady only wanted fucking thanked her polite no thank you told her just one regular lady fwb left beach is nice and loved the freedom of being naked
What was the problem with the lady wanting fucking? Hell to get there - it's not that bad. Ensures it is private and not much chance of random people appearing which we like. "
Pass my details on to her, I'll go and meet her. |
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