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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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How often are people meeting people on fab? I’m single and meet usually twice a week, with a mix of new and regular men. Sometimes more. How is it working for others? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Now let’s see meet two amazing ladies off this site in the whole time been on here so not very often I’m afraid to say but have spoken to loads of amazing people in the forums so it’s all good |
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By *entDomMan
over a year ago
Paddock Wood, Kent |
I've met some lovely women on here that I've seen a few times.
The good ones are in relationships, with family or have demanding work lives (a nurse) so it's difficult to get to meet regularly
I retired early so have time on my hands and need regular |
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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago
south east |
Its been a long time since i last met anyone from fab not because i cant find anyone but because ive not been looking to meet ,alot has been going on in life ..now settled down might just be the right time to get back to it  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I met more whilst I had a couple profile. I can't accomadate due to family back at home currently, and I don't drive... I'd say 'every so often?'. But depends on obviously the person/fit chat wise. I'm single, but view it as a letting my hair down once in a while occasion vs a regular thing for me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It all depends on our mood and what else is going on in our lives. We sometimes go months without meeting anyone, especially if we’re going through a club place.
Viv |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It all depends on our mood and what else is going on in our lives. We sometimes go months without meeting anyone, especially if we’re going through a club place.
Viv"
*Phase not place  |
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By *ucelleCouple
over a year ago
Bishops Stortford |
We message couples and get good feed back. They want to meet but they never do. So assume it’s all men and not a couple. As for adding a lady to our enjoyment, well that is also a non starter lol |
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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago
Peterborough / Stamford |
"I’m new to FAB and I have only had single men give me a shout. I like to play with lady’s or couples, so no luck as of yet  "
Five weeks is nothing. You've not asked for profile help so can't give it....but would you meet you?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I used to meet quite regularly. Once or twice a week. However I’m much more fussy post-covid. Nothing to do with the virus - just for some reason I’ve become more reserved |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How often are people meeting people on fab? I’m single and meet usually twice a week, with a mix of new and regular men. Sometimes more. How is it working for others? "
you are a lucky lady x
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's v rare I meet at all nowadays ,I don't often find someone who ticks all the boxes.
Same!
Nothing wrong with picky "
I wouldn’t have it any other way  |
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We have 2 regular fwb away from fab... as for our last social meet it was back in April at the Manchester social, our last meet from fab that ended up in the bedroom was way back in February (it is rather slow and thin on the ground around our area) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not that often these days as no longer seeing regular fbs. Started going to a club now as difficult to accommodate in the summer (no not in relationships). However have a meet arranged tonight, let's see if they show  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I only meet in clubs now. Anyone that I want to meet on fab is welcome to come to a club to come and have a drink and a chat there. If they don’t turn up it’s not a problem as there are others there already usually….  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Same for me. I've got a couple of people where there seems to be a mutual desire to meet, but this time around I have no intentions of meeting anyone, I don't fancy, who there is some kind of connection/spark or whatever and isn't demanding and needy from the off.
I'm not at all bothered what anyone else thinks either |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I only meet when I have needs to be met. Pre covid that was probably twice a year with occasional trips to a local club in between but I’ve only had the one play meet and a few socials since covid. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It really does not matter how often you meet but suspect it is easy for meets for women young fit guys as opposed to a male with a CD profile.
End of day as long as no one is harmed, live your life as you wish. Ya only get one |
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"How often are people meeting people on fab? I’m single and meet usually twice a week, with a mix of new and regular men. Sometimes more. How is it working for others? "
3 times this year.
Not for lack of trying either. We don't meet single guys, just couples and women. Unfortunetly it's been a dead zone in our area for ages and we can't travel too far from home.
However we do do clubs and obviously still meet old freinds.
So there is that.
No idea how much of a factor it is
but we are not always available as a couple due to work but we can put a meet request up a week in advance for either the pair of us or just one of us and still get nothing.
And we know we are not alone either. Other local couples are saying similar things. No one is meeting outside of.clhbs and the only interest is single guys...which isnt their thing either.
Just how fab is. Expected it to have improved by now (be like it was pre lockdown) but maybe this is the new normal. |
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I meet my friendly couple every 10 to 14 days; the husband and I get together maybe once a mo th for men only fun, and I meet single guys maybe every two months to see if there's any out we would like to include in our gatherings. |
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Things aren't going so well for me. I probably spend too much time on fab, sending messages, having the the conversation and trying to arrange a meet.
I probably have a meet a year if I'm lucky.
Desperate times call for desperate measures so I've reverted to even trying dogging and even that hasn't gone well for me lol.
I keep trying  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Varies tbh last week I had 4 meets (1 solo & 3 with my partner there as well, we play together & alone )
Might not play now for a few weeks. Just depends |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How often are people meeting people on fab? I’m single and meet usually twice a week, with a mix of new and regular men. Sometimes more. How is it working for others? "
Alright alright don’t rub it in;)
Jokes x |
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"Things aren't going so well for me. I probably spend too much time on fab, sending messages, having the the conversation and trying to arrange a meet.
I probably have a meet a year if I'm lucky.
Desperate times call for desperate measures so I've reverted to even trying dogging and even that hasn't gone well for me lol.
I keep trying "
I know the feeling well! |
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It's like buses, I've gone through periods of inactivity and then had multiple meets the same week.
If you want to meet more people, my top tip is to visit a club or find a social organised in your area. |
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If I go by an average over the duration of time I've been on Fab, it's approximately 1 meet every 10 months.
Some profiles simply aren't appealing enough and sadly for me I fall into that category. I'm on the same ship as many other single guys
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For the guys that dont get many meets from fab...
Do you try to talk to women? When you say once a month is it you doing putting in the effort or them?
Im curious, on sites like that i usually wait as the women must be bombarded and it must get boring.
Suppose im asking should i do more to try and get in there or do you get better results waiting?
Rejection issues  |
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"For the guys that dont get many meets from fab...
Do you try to talk to women? When you say once a month is it you doing putting in the effort or them?
Im curious, on sites like that i usually wait as the women must be bombarded and it must get boring.
Suppose im asking should i do more to try and get in there or do you get better results waiting?
Rejection issues "
Dude! My lack of social and or sexual meets are nothing to do with lack of effort. I spend hours on this site every week.
The messages I send are often lengthy enough, relevant and include face and body pics.
I'd like to think that women and couples are rejecting me for my looks and compatibility rather than my messaging efforts  |
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