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Couples- who does the Fabmin on your account?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Mr here and I do the vast majority. Who does yours? "
I (max) do the forums as I find them great fun. Chesty does the majority of the messaging. but we both read everything |
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Mr, always, as it's a first line of filtering. Mrs only see's what has made it through my standards. We share everything thereafter but she has stated that won't go on Fabs to look in the first instance. Think she's afraid about being put off by some of the ridiculous timewasters and chancers on here. |
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"Mr, always, as it's a first line of filtering. Mrs only see's what has made it through my standards. We share everything thereafter but she has stated that won't go on Fabs to look in the first instance. Think she's afraid about being put off by some of the ridiculous timewasters and chancers on here."
A man after my own heart. Can we go for a beer?  |
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By *omRachCouple
over a year ago
Wirral |
After derogatory comments from cranks when we first started here Rach decided she didn't want to chat on here personally any more - she's happy for me to do the initial spadework and cut the wheat from the chaffe. |
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"After derogatory comments from cranks when we first started here Rach decided she didn't want to chat on here personally any more - she's happy for me to do the initial spadework and cut the wheat from the chaffe."
Totally agree. We had the same on Swinging Heaven |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"After derogatory comments from cranks when we first started here Rach decided she didn't want to chat on here personally any more - she's happy for me to do the initial spadework and cut the wheat from the chaffe.
Totally agree. We had the same on Swinging Heaven "
Is it any good on there?? Or is it rubbish? |
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"Mr, always, as it's a first line of filtering. Mrs only see's what has made it through my standards. We share everything thereafter but she has stated that won't go on Fabs to look in the first instance. Think she's afraid about being put off by some of the ridiculous timewasters and chancers on here."
Yeap same for us, but it is amazing how many guys think that it must be the women on the account. |
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It's shared 50/50 for us depending what we feel like.
She set up the account originally and she also has single account whilst I only use this one.
I am sure sometimes people think this account is fake as the pictures are obvious that both are accounts are same person. |
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"Mr, always, as it's a first line of filtering. Mrs only see's what has made it through my standards. We share everything thereafter but she has stated that won't go on Fabs to look in the first instance. Think she's afraid about being put off by some of the ridiculous timewasters and chancers on here.
Yeap same for us, but it is amazing how many guys think that it must be the women on the account."
That's strange because I'm obviously a SF lol I always assume and most time I'm right by way chat goes I'm talking to the male half of the couple...BUT I never think to ask till a few messages later haha ... AND couples never seem to tell you who you are chatting with.
The actual worst ones are when they do actually both run the account and both chat but don't tell you when they have swapped over lol ... it can get very confusing. X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's great that we have a couples profile that we can both access (either at the same time or whenever one of us feels like it). we don't have to keep updating eachother as we can easily just see, so that's a definite good thing. HOWEVER..... IF one of us might want to write something that they might not really want the other to read then it can feel a little restricted.
NOT meaning things that are outside of our relationship boundaries like flirting or anything like that. Neither of us would do that.
Meant things like sharing thoughts on insecurities or past experiences, on forum subjects for example. |
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We both do but we try to sign off with our name so people know who they’re chatting with.
I can go days without logging on though, my husband tends to log on regularly but doesn’t read/respond to most of the messages from men as he just assumes they’re intended for me.
Lou x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Mr does most, wife would of closed account by now if she did it due to the irritating single guys! "
Totally this!
MrJ OK KJ (me) is who posts on the forum and I also 90% of the Fabmin especially single guys.
K (Mrs KJ) will often chat to single ladies when those chats arise.
I can't imagine how many new single women make a sharp exit on this site due to some of the vulgar messages they receive. Considering there's 100 men to every 1 lady some guys really are there own worst enemy. In fact I think some of the nasty incel types do it deliberately tbh. The whole I can't have her so I'll spoil it for others mentality.
KJ |
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By *risky FoxesCouple
over a year ago
Newcastle Emlyn/Stourport |
Mr does most of it because he’s been on the scene before and knows the ropes. I do dip in sometimes, but it can be tiresome and frustrating when people aren’t as straightforward as we would like |
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It's fairly even with us, depends on what's happening.
Mrs deals with pretty much all the pics now, but we both reply to messages depending who's seen, it does sometimes result in a double reply.
I work away so she deals with everything when I'm gone.
Mr |
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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago
Peterborough / Stamford |
I (Bry) do everything on here. Char has her own, but she's lost interest in that due to the constant "hi" messages and lack of effort from guys.
It doesn't really work as I always feel that people think I'm a single guy hiding behind a couples profile, and our "HotWife" dynamic ends up far more "Stag/Vixen" than I'd like.
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By *omRachCouple
over a year ago
Wirral |
"After derogatory comments from cranks when we first started here Rach decided she didn't want to chat on here personally any more - she's happy for me to do the initial spadework and cut the wheat from the chaffe.
Totally agree. We had the same on Swinging Heaven
Is it any good on there?? Or is it rubbish?"
We had an account on there too, after 3 no shows we walked away. I called one out in chat and ended up getting a 24 hour ban - we never went back |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Mr does it all, Mrs gave it a go but found it too overwhelming and took the edge off the fun.
That and the fact she's too polite so would reply and keep replying to anyone and everyone.
That then led people to believe they might be onto something. |
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"Mr, always, as it's a first line of filtering. Mrs only see's what has made it through my standards. We share everything thereafter but she has stated that won't go on Fabs to look in the first instance. Think she's afraid about being put off by some of the ridiculous timewasters and chancers on here."
Exactly the same here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I do it because she hasn’t the patience for all the fab bollocks.
I filter and point out anything she may be interested in.
She’ll do her own hotlist every now and again though. "
Same as us, except other way round. Zac isn't particularly interested in the forum's or light chit chat, he prefers to just dip in & out occasionally. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Flysome - Totally think you're profile is awesome.
Sincerely intended as an honest compliment, not in a letchy way at all.
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Thank you!
That’s very kind of you.
It’s our new profile after we got stalked on our last one.
Trying to build our verifications up again. |
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"I (Mrs) use this 100% because Mr hasn’t the time really. Plus, it’s always my decision because of what we’re looking for. I tell him what he needs to know
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You definitely wear the boots in that relationship x |
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