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How much do you care about looks?
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over a year ago
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"Is it how they look or what they have and what they can do with it for you?"
As the saying goes, 'you don't look at the mantlepiece while poking the fire, but you have to find the matches somewhere!' |
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over a year ago
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Physically i care more about being attracted to someone's face over anything else then would say body, then penis size is the last thing.
But personality is key, I can be really attracted to someone but if they act/talk like they have a chip on their shoulder or I'm a piece of meat.. i'll pass. |
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"Physically i care more about being attracted to someone's face over anything else then would say body, then penis size is the last thing.
But personality is key, I can be really attracted to someone but if they act/talk like they have a chip on their shoulder or I'm a piece of meat.. i'll pass. "
Absolutely this. Facial attraction is important to catch the eye initially, then attitude/personality makes or breaks how far the chat goes! |
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Same as the others really. Have to find someone attractive, after that it’s the personality for the chemistry and if those both work for me then other physical attributes, but it’s really more about the whole package. |
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For me Mr, there has to be an attraction at first, then it’s mainly personality. I don’t care if your 12/10 no personality I’m off. Mrs is more about the personality, bloody hard reading profiles lol  |
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I'm very particular in who I will engage with, but my preferences have nothing to do with physicality in any way whatsoever.
My attraction is mainly mental, and while I can appreciate a nice body, face etc, if the person isn't compatible with me and what I'm looking for, I will not form any attraction to them at all. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is it how they look or what they have and what they can do with it for you?
Looks are the most important thing for us! We have to have an attraction to have sex with someone!"
Yes, us too |
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"I'm very particular in who I will engage with, but my preferences have nothing to do with physicality in any way whatsoever.
My attraction is mainly mental, and while I can appreciate a nice body, face etc, if the person isn't compatible with me and what I'm looking for, I will not form any attraction to them at all. "
Demisexual?  |
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A fare bit but it's completely relative.
Peoples personality effects their looks so how someone looks can tell you a lot about the kind of person they are. There's also how someone chooses to dress which will effect how they look.
It can also be something small, like someone might have a a really warm sunny smile which is very attractive.
What looks good isn't the same for everyone either, I find the 'love island' kind of attractive totally unappealing. |
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over a year ago
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This game is so shallow and on that note, we’re admitting we’re shallow, as looks is 110% to us and wouldn’t change our thought process. As long as they can recite the alphabet and add 5+7, we’ll screw em… as long as they’re attractive. Thing is though, to find a couple that the attraction is the proverbial ‘needle in a haystack’ hence why we haven’t had many meets  |
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Strong sense of deja vu here!!
Whether on fab or out there in the big scary world, I need to have that initial physical attraction. With no other information about that person it’s all I have to go on.
I don’t have a type, although there are certain attributes I tend to consistently find appealing.
However, once I’m past that initial attraction and we’re talking, there has to be substance. I don’t seek immediate chemistry because that can take time, but I need to feel engaged. Then, attraction becomes about more than just looks. Do I want to spend time with this person? Do they make me feel good about myself?
Then - and only then - do they get a chance of meeting Percy. |
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"Looks help but I'm definitely personality
a couple of times I've been laughed into bed by men I did not fancy."
This. I often go for humour over looks. Personality is key but if you make me laugh, you're in for a good night  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In terms of meets it’s more important for me for
Someone to be attractive . In order to have sex / play with them I would have to be physically attracted to them .
If they are physically attractive and have a shitty personality I wouldn’t play with them , but equally if they had an amazing personality and weren’t attractive physically to me I also wouldn’t sleep / play with them .
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