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over a year ago
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The question needs splitting into to -
Married men with permission to play
and / or
Married men looking to cheat on an unsuspecting partner.
2 totally different things one is swinging one isn't.
KJ |
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"The question needs splitting into to -
Married men with permission to play
and / or
Married men looking to cheat on an unsuspecting partner.
2 totally different things one is swinging one isn't.
KJ "
Exactly on point  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"The question needs splitting into to -
Married men with permission to play
and / or
Married men looking to cheat on an unsuspecting partner.
2 totally different things one is swinging one isn't.
KJ
Exactly on point "
I fully agree x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"With nikkies figure, marriage wouldn’t bother me either way. Lol.
I think if the married person brings no drama.. it’s all god"
In our experience the married guy most certainly doesn't want to bring any drama however if / when they are caught then drama erupts.
Often the cheated on wife in her hurt blames and directs their venom at the person / persons their spouse cheated with rather than the man they are living with.
The unsuspecting (lied to as well) 'pervert' couple the hubby cheated with can make for a easy target for the wife who's hurting.
Why the hell any genuine, open, trusted swingers would want to take that risk is beyond me.
Especially when there's a hundred single guys for every female couple.
KJ |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"With nikkies figure, marriage wouldn’t bother me either way. Lol.
I think if the married person brings no drama.. it’s all god
In our experience the married guy most certainly doesn't want to bring any drama however if / when they are caught then drama erupts.
Often the cheated on wife in her hurt blames and directs their venom at the person / persons their spouse cheated with rather than the man they are living with.
The unsuspecting (lied to as well) 'pervert' couple the hubby cheated with can make for a easy target for the wife who's hurting.
Why the hell any genuine, open, trusted swingers would want to take that risk is beyond me.
Especially when there's a hundred single guys for every female couple.
KJ"
Often the problem is the couple don't know either  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"With nikkies figure, marriage wouldn’t bother me either way. Lol.
I think if the married person brings no drama.. it’s all god
In our experience the married guy most certainly doesn't want to bring any drama however if / when they are caught then drama erupts.
Often the cheated on wife in her hurt blames and directs their venom at the person / persons their spouse cheated with rather than the man they are living with.
The unsuspecting (lied to as well) 'pervert' couple the hubby cheated with can make for a easy target for the wife who's hurting.
Why the hell any genuine, open, trusted swingers would want to take that risk is beyond me.
Especially when there's a hundred single guys for every female couple.
KJ
Often the problem is the couple don't know either "
Exactly so the couples are just as much a victim as the wife is throwing all the anger their way.
Then sadly there's often children who's lives are messed up in the fall out as well.
An interesting question is this though.
If a couple knowingly meet a married guy to cheat with would they then deserve the subsequent fall out?
KJ |
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"With nikkies figure, marriage wouldn’t bother me either way. Lol.
I think if the married person brings no drama.. it’s all god
In our experience the married guy most certainly doesn't want to bring any drama however if / when they are caught then drama erupts.
Often the cheated on wife in her hurt blames and directs their venom at the person / persons their spouse cheated with rather than the man they are living with.
The unsuspecting (lied to as well) 'pervert' couple the hubby cheated with can make for a easy target for the wife who's hurting.
Why the hell any genuine, open, trusted swingers would want to take that risk is beyond me.
Especially when there's a hundred single guys for every female couple.
KJ
Often the problem is the couple don't know either
Exactly so the couples are just as much a victim as the wife is throwing all the anger their way.
Then sadly there's often children who's lives are messed up in the fall out as well.
An interesting question is this though.
If a couple knowingly meet a married guy to cheat with would they then deserve the subsequent fall out?
KJ"
Honest opinion yes
Actions have consequences & they knew what could potentially happen if he got caught . |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"With nikkies figure, marriage wouldn’t bother me either way. Lol.
I think if the married person brings no drama.. it’s all god
In our experience the married guy most certainly doesn't want to bring any drama however if / when they are caught then drama erupts.
Often the cheated on wife in her hurt blames and directs their venom at the person / persons their spouse cheated with rather than the man they are living with.
The unsuspecting (lied to as well) 'pervert' couple the hubby cheated with can make for a easy target for the wife who's hurting.
Why the hell any genuine, open, trusted swingers would want to take that risk is beyond me.
Especially when there's a hundred single guys for every female couple.
KJ
Often the problem is the couple don't know either
Exactly so the couples are just as much a victim as the wife is throwing all the anger their way.
Then sadly there's often children who's lives are messed up in the fall out as well.
An interesting question is this though.
If a couple knowingly meet a married guy to cheat with would they then deserve the subsequent fall out?
KJ"
IMO...no!
the guy is the one taking the risk and being the prick |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"When we were full swap and we met couples I enjoyed it, their wife had to be there too though 
This sounds really hot
The guys wife was usually busy with Mr N
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I bet she was  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Curious to know how many woman actually enjoy fucking married men?"
most have .... they just dont know it ...its that simple people lie most can be seen a mile of but some lie good ..
so we dont waste our time worrying about it anymore we worked it out years ago that there are a huge % of married on here male and female ...and guess what there plenty of swinging couples that cheat too thats the number one reason we blocked couples on here ..yes there are loads of couples on here shouting oh no thats so wrong but they dont realise there other half is cheating on them too ....not our place to tell others whats right and wrong |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"With nikkies figure, marriage wouldn’t bother me either way. Lol.
I think if the married person brings no drama.. it’s all god
In our experience the married guy most certainly doesn't want to bring any drama however if / when they are caught then drama erupts.
Often the cheated on wife in her hurt blames and directs their venom at the person / persons their spouse cheated with rather than the man they are living with.
The unsuspecting (lied to as well) 'pervert' couple the hubby cheated with can make for a easy target for the wife who's hurting.
Why the hell any genuine, open, trusted swingers would want to take that risk is beyond me.
Especially when there's a hundred single guys for every female couple.
KJ
Often the problem is the couple don't know either
Exactly so the couples are just as much a victim as the wife is throwing all the anger their way.
Then sadly there's often children who's lives are messed up in the fall out as well.
An interesting question is this though.
If a couple knowingly meet a married guy to cheat with would they then deserve the subsequent fall out?
KJ
IMO...no!
the guy is the one taking the risk and being the prick"
He is by far the guilty party in that example but some blame even a small percentage falls to the party who knowing he was cheating decide to do it with him anyway.
Unlike friends of ours who were lied to by a married male who was dumb enough to leave his Fab account logged in on his phone. His hurt, angry wife was furious but she sadly misplaced that fury onto the couple he met (whom he told he was single).
The wife had the couples photos, address from his fab messages and caused utter havoc, think printed pictures been put up near the couples workplace, social media stalking and informing the couples family of what they do.
It let to the police getting involved in the end and the innocent couple took themselves away from swinging for a good while to recover from all the fall out.
The best bit is the wife stayed with the cheating hubby!!
KJ |
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"With nikkies figure, marriage wouldn’t bother me either way. Lol.
I think if the married person brings no drama.. it’s all god
In our experience the married guy most certainly doesn't want to bring any drama however if / when they are caught then drama erupts.
Often the cheated on wife in her hurt blames and directs their venom at the person / persons their spouse cheated with rather than the man they are living with.
The unsuspecting (lied to as well) 'pervert' couple the hubby cheated with can make for a easy target for the wife who's hurting.
Why the hell any genuine, open, trusted swingers would want to take that risk is beyond me.
Especially when there's a hundred single guys for every female couple.
KJ
Often the problem is the couple don't know either
Exactly so the couples are just as much a victim as the wife is throwing all the anger their way.
Then sadly there's often children who's lives are messed up in the fall out as well.
An interesting question is this though.
If a couple knowingly meet a married guy to cheat with would they then deserve the subsequent fall out?
KJ
IMO...no!
the guy is the one taking the risk and being the prick
He is by far the guilty party in that example but some blame even a small percentage falls to the party who knowing he was cheating decide to do it with him anyway.
Unlike friends of ours who were lied to by a married male who was dumb enough to leave his Fab account logged in on his phone. His hurt, angry wife was furious but she sadly misplaced that fury onto the couple he met (whom he told he was single).
The wife had the couples photos, address from his fab messages and caused utter havoc, think printed pictures been put up near the couples workplace, social media stalking and informing the couples family of what they do.
It let to the police getting involved in the end and the innocent couple took themselves away from swinging for a good while to recover from all the fall out.
The best bit is the wife stayed with the cheating hubby!!
KJ"
That's grim
Poor couple ,that's why people should always tell meets that they are married/attached then they can choose to get involved or not. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I prefer married men. Less complications - and as you hit your 30’s you soon start to realised there’s a reason why unmarried men are still single later in life
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The problem is with the "honest" ones that admit it is that if they are quite happy to lie to their partner then they'll most likely lie to anyone they hope to meet in regards to whatever sob story they have. |
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