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By *lutonic OP Man
over a year ago
Leicester |
What do women generally prefer, not that I'm generalising ??
I'm under the impression many of females like a nice wet tongue that gets them going, more so then a throbbing cock pounding away.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love going down on a woman! Sharing her orgasms that way is lovely...A combination of tongue and fingers normally hits the spot. Followed up by penis 
Happy days!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I love to give oral … licking pussy"
Everso many men say this..and like to get stuck in to doing it as well.
however not meaning to sound like a B#@ch but - they seem assume that the woman is loving it too.
Bit like when a woman is hoping to impress a guy by saying how much she enjoys sucking cock, only for the guy to find that her technique doesn't feel good but she carries on because she assumes all men love it regardless.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I love to give oral … licking pussy
Everso many men say this..and like to get stuck in to doing it as well.
however not meaning to sound like a B#@ch but - they seem assume that the woman is loving it too.
Bit like when a woman is hoping to impress a guy by saying how much she enjoys sucking cock, only for the guy to find that her technique doesn't feel good but she carries on because she assumes all men love it regardless.
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If a guy can't have a woman give him pointers to help him get her off then he's never gonna learn tbh |
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By *lutonic OP Man
over a year ago
Leicester |
"I love to give oral … licking pussy
Everso many men say this..and like to get stuck in to doing it as well.
however not meaning to sound like a B#@ch but - they seem assume that the woman is loving it too.
Bit like when a woman is hoping to impress a guy by saying how much she enjoys sucking cock, only for the guy to find that her technique doesn't feel good but she carries on because she assumes all men love it regardless.
If a guy can't have a woman give him pointers to help him get her off then he's never gonna learn tbh"
Good point.. but I genuinely like using my tongue, I get off on it, and I just she likes it |
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By *lutonic OP Man
over a year ago
Leicester |
"I love going down on a woman! Sharing her orgasms that way is lovely...A combination of tongue and fingers normally hits the spot. Followed up by penis
Happy days!!"
Like ur style. Helps when she is calling the shots. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I love to give oral … licking pussy
Everso many men say this..and like to get stuck in to doing it as well.
however not meaning to sound like a B#@ch but - they seem assume that the woman is loving it too.
Bit like when a woman is hoping to impress a guy by saying how much she enjoys sucking cock, only for the guy to find that her technique doesn't feel good but she carries on because she assumes all men love it regardless.
If a guy can't have a woman give him pointers to help him get her off then he's never gonna learn tbh
Good point.. but I genuinely like using my tongue, I get off on it, and I just she likes it "
Bold statement. I can tell you for a fact as good as you think you are that you won't be able to satisfy every woman. So my statement stands |
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By *lutonic OP Man
over a year ago
Leicester |
"Not that keen on being licked. Being fingered is my secret hot-spot. I seem to orgasm easily from this.
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Yes a good 'finger fuck' always helps. Next time when I'm down is Surrey, I'll know who to pm |
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By *lutonic OP Man
over a year ago
Leicester |
"I love to give oral … licking pussy
Everso many men say this..and like to get stuck in to doing it as well.
however not meaning to sound like a B#@ch but - they seem assume that the woman is loving it too.
Bit like when a woman is hoping to impress a guy by saying how much she enjoys sucking cock, only for the guy to find that her technique doesn't feel good but she carries on because she assumes all men love it regardless.
If a guy can't have a woman give him pointers to help him get her off then he's never gonna learn tbh
Good point.. but I genuinely like using my tongue, I get off on it, and I just she likes it
Bold statement. I can tell you for a fact as good as you think you are that you won't be able to satisfy every woman. So my statement stands"
I once met a couple as part of a foursome.. the couple who were hosting said to me whilst chatting online, 'you won't be disappointed, she lives sucking and she is good'! I kind of brushed it off. Anyway to cut a long situation short, when it came down to the crunch she was... 'outstanding'... Still think about it  .
Now if a bloke said to a woman, ' she won't be disappointed' who are we to say that I won't hit the spot of glory?! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I love to give oral … licking pussy
Everso many men say this..and like to get stuck in to doing it as well.
however not meaning to sound like a B#@ch but - they seem assume that the woman is loving it too.
Bit like when a woman is hoping to impress a guy by saying how much she enjoys sucking cock, only for the guy to find that her technique doesn't feel good but she carries on because she assumes all men love it regardless.
If a guy can't have a woman give him pointers to help him get her off then he's never gonna learn tbh
Good point.. but I genuinely like using my tongue, I get off on it, and I just she likes it
Bold statement. I can tell you for a fact as good as you think you are that you won't be able to satisfy every woman. So my statement stands
I once met a couple as part of a foursome.. the couple who were hosting said to me whilst chatting online, 'you won't be disappointed, she lives sucking and she is good'! I kind of brushed it off. Anyway to cut a long situation short, when it came down to the crunch she was... 'outstanding'... Still think about it .
Now if a bloke said to a woman, ' she won't be disappointed' who are we to say that I won't hit the spot of glory?! "
You may well do. I for one know that I'm confident in my abilities, but I also wouldn't feel hurt if a lady decided to give me pointers to help get her off. After all it's why I'm there |
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By *lutonic OP Man
over a year ago
Leicester |
"I love to give oral … licking pussy
Everso many men say this..and like to get stuck in to doing it as well.
however not meaning to sound like a B#@ch but - they seem assume that the woman is loving it too.
Bit like when a woman is hoping to impress a guy by saying how much she enjoys sucking cock, only for the guy to find that her technique doesn't feel good but she carries on because she assumes all men love it regardless.
If a guy can't have a woman give him pointers to help him get her off then he's never gonna learn tbh
Good point.. but I genuinely like using my tongue, I get off on it, and I just she likes it
Bold statement. I can tell you for a fact as good as you think you are that you won't be able to satisfy every woman. So my statement stands
I once met a couple as part of a foursome.. the couple who were hosting said to me whilst chatting online, 'you won't be disappointed, she lives sucking and she is good'! I kind of brushed it off. Anyway to cut a long situation short, when it came down to the crunch she was... 'outstanding'... Still think about it .
Now if a bloke said to a woman, ' she won't be disappointed' who are we to say that I won't hit the spot of glory?!
You may well do. I for one know that I'm confident in my abilities, but I also wouldn't feel hurt if a lady decided to give me pointers to help get her off. After all it's why I'm there "
True, Education is the the way to a woman's.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I love to give oral … licking pussy
Everso many men say this..and like to get stuck in to doing it as well.
however not meaning to sound like a B#@ch but - they seem assume that the woman is loving it too.
Bit like when a woman is hoping to impress a guy by saying how much she enjoys sucking cock, only for the guy to find that her technique doesn't feel good but she carries on because she assumes all men love it regardless.
If a guy can't have a woman give him pointers to help him get her off then he's never gonna learn tbh"
True.
But it's a tricky situation when he's making all those sex passion pretend pleasure noises while doing it.. Oblivious |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I love to give oral … licking pussy
Everso many men say this..and like to get stuck in to doing it as well.
however not meaning to sound like a B#@ch but - they seem assume that the woman is loving it too.
Bit like when a woman is hoping to impress a guy by saying how much she enjoys sucking cock, only for the guy to find that her technique doesn't feel good but she carries on because she assumes all men love it regardless.
If a guy can't have a woman give him pointers to help him get her off then he's never gonna learn tbh
True.
But it's a tricky situation when he's making all those sex passion pretend pleasure noises while doing it.. Oblivious "
Yep!! Dont get me wrong I like to be vocal, but not to the point as I can't hear her tell me if I need to shift focus or position etc. It's just good practice to be able to tell someone how you like things done |
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By *lutonic OP Man
over a year ago
Leicester |
"I love to give oral … licking pussy
Everso many men say this..and like to get stuck in to doing it as well.
however not meaning to sound like a B#@ch but - they seem assume that the woman is loving it too.
Bit like when a woman is hoping to impress a guy by saying how much she enjoys sucking cock, only for the guy to find that her technique doesn't feel good but she carries on because she assumes all men love it regardless.
If a guy can't have a woman give him pointers to help him get her off then he's never gonna learn tbh
True.
But it's a tricky situation when he's making all those sex passion pretend pleasure noises while doing it.. Oblivious "
Who's pretending when they're in the motion of ecstasy? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I love to give oral … licking pussy
Everso many men say this..and like to get stuck in to doing it as well.
however not meaning to sound like a B#@ch but - they seem assume that the woman is loving it too.
Bit like when a woman is hoping to impress a guy by saying how much she enjoys sucking cock, only for the guy to find that her technique doesn't feel good but she carries on because she assumes all men love it regardless.
If a guy can't have a woman give him pointers to help him get her off then he's never gonna learn tbh
True.
But it's a tricky situation when he's making all those sex passion pretend pleasure noises while doing it.. Oblivious
Who's pretending when they're in the motion of ecstasy?"
Well I'll give you an a for being bolshy. But still call drivel on the fact you think you can satisfy any woman tbh lol |
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"I love to give oral … licking pussy
Everso many men say this..and like to get stuck in to doing it as well.
however not meaning to sound like a B#@ch but - they seem assume that the woman is loving it too.
Bit like when a woman is hoping to impress a guy by saying how much she enjoys sucking cock, only for the guy to find that her technique doesn't feel good but she carries on because she assumes all men love it regardless.
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I think you are right. Sometimes means egos get in the way. They assume they are great at oral sex or they forget all women are unique. They forget just because his ex loved having her clit sucked doesn’t mean his new girlfriend does.
Then surely it is about communication? To make an obvious statement we all like different things sexually and that includes how we like receiving oral sex.
Both men and women need to say what they like and don’t like when receiving oral sex and if the other person is responsive you get the oral sex as you like receiving it. If you like the guy to gently suck on your clit as he fingers you or if you prefer your labia to get attention tell him. How you like receiving oral sex is unique to you. Guys can’t do mind reading so a bit of help from the woman saying how she prefers to receive oral sex is a great help to the guy lol. I love giving oral sex but I would never claim I know how to get every woman I meet to love my tongue. It’s the same for receiving a BJ. If a guy doesn’t tell her how he likes it she will continue to think she is doing great. |
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"I love to give oral … licking pussy
Everso many men say this..and like to get stuck in to doing it as well.
however not meaning to sound like a B#@ch but - they seem assume that the woman is loving it too.
Bit like when a woman is hoping to impress a guy by saying how much she enjoys sucking cock, only for the guy to find that her technique doesn't feel good but she carries on because she assumes all men love it regardless.
If a guy can't have a woman give him pointers to help him get her off then he's never gonna learn tbh"
I agree. If the guy cares about your wants, needs, and desires he will want to be giving you oral sex as you like receiving it. He will want you to tell him how you like it. |
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By *lutonic OP Man
over a year ago
Leicester |
"I love to give oral … licking pussy
Everso many men say this..and like to get stuck in to doing it as well.
however not meaning to sound like a B#@ch but - they seem assume that the woman is loving it too.
Bit like when a woman is hoping to impress a guy by saying how much she enjoys sucking cock, only for the guy to find that her technique doesn't feel good but she carries on because she assumes all men love it regardless.
If a guy can't have a woman give him pointers to help him get her off then he's never gonna learn tbh
I agree. If the guy cares about your wants, needs, and desires he will want to be giving you oral sex as you like receiving it. He will want you to tell him how you like it. "
Exactly my Point |
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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago
Shangri-la |
"I love to give oral … licking pussy
Everso many men say this..and like to get stuck in to doing it as well.
however not meaning to sound like a B#@ch but - they seem assume that the woman is loving it too.
Bit like when a woman is hoping to impress a guy by saying how much she enjoys sucking cock, only for the guy to find that her technique doesn't feel good but she carries on because she assumes all men love it regardless.
If a guy can't have a woman give him pointers to help him get her off then he's never gonna learn tbh
I agree. If the guy cares about your wants, needs, and desires he will want to be giving you oral sex as you like receiving it. He will want you to tell him how you like it.
Exactly my Point "
Unfortunately, in my experience, quite a lot of people don't like being given guidance/direction and think they know best. |
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By *lutonic OP Man
over a year ago
Leicester |
"I love to give oral … licking pussy
Everso many men say this..and like to get stuck in to doing it as well.
however not meaning to sound like a B#@ch but - they seem assume that the woman is loving it too.
Bit like when a woman is hoping to impress a guy by saying how much she enjoys sucking cock, only for the guy to find that her technique doesn't feel good but she carries on because she assumes all men love it regardless.
I think you are right. Sometimes means egos get in the way. They assume they are great at oral sex or they forget all women are unique. They forget just because his ex loved having her clit sucked doesn’t mean his new girlfriend does.
Then surely it is about communication? To make an obvious statement we all like different things sexually and that includes how we like receiving oral sex.
Both men and women need to say what they like and don’t like when receiving oral sex and if the other person is responsive you get the oral sex as you like receiving it. If you like the guy to gently suck on your clit as he fingers you or if you prefer your labia to get attention tell him. How you like receiving oral sex is unique to you. Guys can’t do mind reading so a bit of help from the woman saying how she prefers to receive oral sex is a great help to the guy lol. I love giving oral sex but I would never claim I know how to get every woman I meet to love my tongue. It’s the same for receiving a BJ. If a guy doesn’t tell her how he likes it she will continue to think she is doing great. "
Good point fella. Each virgina is different and each sensation is to their own. Some girls a quite vocal and say or whisper.. that's good, beautiful or fucking fantastic |
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By *lutonic OP Man
over a year ago
Leicester |
"I don’t really enjoy receiving oral…nothing to do with technique! When I do it, it’s for his pleasure rather than mine! "
But if Ur giving it surely they must be some sexual excitement?
Personally I just love giving it, it's so so erotic |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don’t really enjoy receiving oral…nothing to do with technique! When I do it, it’s for his pleasure rather than mine!
But if Ur giving it surely they must be some sexual excitement?
Personally I just love giving it, it's so so erotic "
I’ll never cum from it lol I prefer giving to receiving! I’d rather skip being licked out entirely! |
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