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So hard to get verified by someone
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So.
I guess every male on here has had the same problem more or less.
Getting verified.
Its easy to message someone and start chatting or at least try but it all comes down to verifications.
You cant meet anyone unless your verified. Well they don't want to meet you unless your verified and I understand that.
But you csnt get verified until you meet someone.
It's a shit merry-go-round
Can say your genuine till your blue in the face. But you need that tick.
There are pic collectors on here, fakes and people that mess couples and ladies about. We all know that.
But the genuine ones suffer |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Get yourself involved in the forums, the more you chat to people & be yourself the greater the chance of someone wanting to maybe chat privately.
Don’t expect them to be handed out on a plate for you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No, it was really easy for me to get verified.
The fakes, pic’ collectors, etc that you say make it more difficult…….actually make it easier for me to stand out. |
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By *ebbie69Couple
over a year ago
milton keynes |
"So.
I guess every male on here has had the same problem more or less.
Getting verified.
Its easy to message someone and start chatting or at least try but it all comes down to verifications.
You cant meet anyone unless your verified. Well they don't want to meet you unless your verified and I understand that.
But you csnt get verified until you meet someone.
It's a shit merry-go-round
Can say your genuine till your blue in the face. But you need that tick.
There are pic collectors on here, fakes and people that mess couples and ladies about. We all know that.
But the genuine ones suffer "
So think this has been mentioned but I would say go into the chat rooms and put your cam on. Speak nicely to people without being crude. Also do face cam as opposed to naked and playing with yourself. It may take effort but eventually you will get verified. Its not a silver bullet though |
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"Go to a swingers club, talk to a few people, get verified. Job done. "
Exactly this. We no longer invite unverified gents to meets, no mater how genuine they say they are, or what guarantees they give. Simple reason; every unverified gent, bar none, who have been invited in the past have failed to show.
We are more than happy to meet, chat and even have some fun at a club and then verify them as being who their profile says they are. However, verifications also don’t guarantee someone will turn up to a meet. Just that at some point, they did. We have also had gents with many, many good verifications let us down and just like all those who aren’t verified, often without notice, apologies or any further contact.
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Honestly makes no difference don’t sweat it, it’s not a free ticket to ride. It’s a misconception that Fab makes it any easier to meet people than any other the usual methods (Tinder, pub etc) IME.
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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago
Northampton |
I have met alot of unverified people... Find a local, group social, they are a good way of meeting people and he known, aswell as getting verified. Also, sometimes people don't like to tell you, you aren't what they are looking for, so use it as a less upsetting excuse to not meet |
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By *assy MissWoman
over a year ago
Sent to Coventry |
Webcam veris are not going to help much. Whilst lots of men masquerade as women here, I dont think it happens much the other way round. All a cam veris proves is that you are male.
After several experiences with unverified males letting me down, I vowed never to meet unless the guy had at least a couple of meeting in person verifications. I stuck to that for years.
Recently I was contacted by a lovely gent, who sent a well written, interesting,personalised message. But he was new and had no veris, I took a chance and he’s become a good friend.
Why am I telling you this OP, probably to highlight that you might just be able to make a good impression even if the lady you are messaging doesn’t usually meet unverified gents. It’s all in the approach! |
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