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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Is the profile the be all and end all on swingers sites. Don't nice friendly, clean sweet smelling peeps that turn up for meets get a look in too. How do you get the confidence for the party scene that seems to be getting more popular and are they as pressured as some think  |
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
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"Is the profile the be all and end all on swingers sites. Don't nice friendly, clean sweet smelling peeps that turn up for meets get a look in too. How do you get the confidence for the party scene that seems to be getting more popular and are they as pressured as some think "
If you only meet privately then yes I think profiles (and photos) are the be all and end all. They are to us anyway..
If you mainly meet at clubs or big parties then no.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For me the profile is only the initial attraction
Its what happens after that which I find more important,You can spend hours and hours making your profile seem as thought you're the most fun/atractive/easy going person/people in the world,yet 2 mins into conversation that can all go out of the window!
That goes for whether you meet at parties or clubs or do private meets  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Is the profile the be all and end all on swingers sites. Don't nice friendly, clean sweet smelling peeps that turn up for meets get a look in too. How do you get the confidence for the party scene that seems to be getting more popular and are they as pressured as some think "
If you've got a shit profile, why would anyone think you are going to turn up and be anything other than shit?
Effort in = reward. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Is the profile the be all and end all on swingers sites. Don't nice friendly, clean sweet smelling peeps that turn up for meets get a look in too. How do you get the confidence for the party scene that seems to be getting more popular and are they as pressured as some think
If you've got a shit profile, why would anyone think you are going to turn up and be anything other than shit?
Effort in = reward. "
Some folk may not be very good at writing "decent" profiles, that doesn't mean they aren't nice people, just as those who have the gift of writing "decent" profiles may not be as nice as their profiles. Your _iewpoint is rather narrowminded. But that's just my opinion. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Is the profile the be all and end all on swingers sites. Don't nice friendly, clean sweet smelling peeps that turn up for meets get a look in too. How do you get the confidence for the party scene that seems to be getting more popular and are they as pressured as some think
If you've got a shit profile, why would anyone think you are going to turn up and be anything other than shit?
Effort in = reward.
Some folk may not be very good at writing "decent" profiles, that doesn't mean they aren't nice people, just as those who have the gift of writing "decent" profiles may not be as nice as their profiles. Your _iewpoint is rather narrowminded. But that's just my opinion."
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"For me the profile is only the initial attraction
Its what happens after that which I find more important,You can spend hours and hours making your profile seem as thought you're the most fun/atractive/easy going person/people in the world,yet 2 mins into conversation that can all go out of the window!
That goes for whether you meet at parties or clubs or do private meets "
Nowt wrong with being nice around  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Is the profile the be all and end all on swingers sites. Don't nice friendly, clean sweet smelling peeps that turn up for meets get a look in too. How do you get the confidence for the party scene that seems to be getting more popular and are they as pressured as some think
If you only meet privately then yes I think profiles (and photos) are the be all and end all. They are to us anyway..
If you mainly meet at clubs or big parties then no.
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