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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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If you're out in a public/social setting and you see a man who you think 'I'd let him fuck me,' is there something you'll do to send a signal to him to approach, or are you pokerface and super subtle? |
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The main problem with your question is your assumed submissive perspective of women.
When I see a guy I fancy I don't think in terms of "letting him fuck me", I think "Oh I'd like to fuck him"
Do you see the subtle but important difference?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"The main problem with your question is your assumed submissive perspective of women.
When I see a guy I fancy I don't think in terms of "letting him fuck me", I think "Oh I'd like to fuck him"
Do you see the subtle but important difference?
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I know the difference, yes. I was talking moreso to ones who lean towards submissive, though. In my mind the woman is usually the one being fucked (unless she's into pegging). |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Since joining fab I'm even more careful how I interact with men than I was before. Some people think anything is a signal including what I'm wearing. "
Yeah, it is tricky for women. Some men can be wild and take anything as an invitation. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"If I want to fuck him I will tell him, not "let" him"
Sure. But are you not giving him permission? Consent? For e.g. "I'd let him ruin me." I've heard women say it.
Don't shoot the messenger. |
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"If I want to fuck him I will tell him, not "let" him
Sure. But are you not giving him permission? Consent? For e.g. "I'd let him ruin me." I've heard women say it.
Don't shoot the messenger."
I genuinely think you need to consider what consent means. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"If I want to fuck him I will tell him, not "let" him
Sure. But are you not giving him permission? Consent? For e.g. "I'd let him ruin me." I've heard women say it.
Don't shoot the messenger.
I genuinely think you need to consider what consent means. "
Very well aware, thanks. |
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"If I want to fuck him I will tell him, not "let" him
Sure. But are you not giving him permission? Consent? For e.g. "I'd let him ruin me." I've heard women say it.
Don't shoot the messenger."
This guy just continues to demonstrate how little he understands female sexuality.
Takes all sorts I suppose  |
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"If I want to fuck him I will tell him, not "let" him
Sure. But are you not giving him permission? Consent? For e.g. "I'd let him ruin me." I've heard women say it.
Don't shoot the messenger.
This guy just continues to demonstrate how little he understands female sexuality.
Takes all sorts I suppose "
Yep! It’s all gone right over his head |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"If I want to fuck him I will tell him, not "let" him
Sure. But are you not giving him permission? Consent? For e.g. "I'd let him ruin me." I've heard women say it.
Don't shoot the messenger.
This guy just continues to demonstrate how little he understands female sexuality.
Takes all sorts I suppose "
And how much do you understand male sexuality? :D continue to shame. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If I want to fuck him I will tell him, not "let" him
Sure. But are you not giving him permission? Consent? For e.g. "I'd let him ruin me." I've heard women say it.
Don't shoot the messenger.
This guy just continues to demonstrate how little he understands female sexuality.
Takes all sorts I suppose
Yep! It’s all gone right over his head "
Ok, sexperts. |
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