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Who introduced you to swinging?
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Exactly what it says on the tin.
If you are single, or play solo, who or what introduced you to the lifestyle?
If you are a couple, which of you prepared the pitch to the other? Or was it a mutual decision? |
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My wife. 25-ish years ago or so.
Not long after we met she admitted to being attracted to other women but had never do e anything about it. Didn't do anything about it, just a conversation.
After we had been together sometime she said she was also having fantasies about me being with other women as well (later worked out she's got a big cuckqean kink). I jokingly said yeah right and ypu sort it then (throught she was winding me up cos that only happened in stories right?).
A short while later, after one drink to many on a girls night out, she told her freind about it....who was totally into the idea and I was sent off to see her the following evening.
The rest is history  |
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A short while later, after one drink to many on a girls night out, she told her freind about it....who was totally into the idea and I was sent off to see her the following evening.
The rest is history "
Love this. Kinky and wholesome all at once. |
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Am old fwbs that I knew 7/8 years we wanted to add more people into our fun together but unfortunately he had other ideas and other women lined up over numerous years...am now friends with many women he messed over like me...but it hasn't put me off! But haven't really been upto meeting folk unless at socials x
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By *batMan
over a year ago
Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales) |
An old FWB and I were taking photos together and decided we needed someone to take them for us. We ended up being watched by the photographer and his mate, and by the third session he was banging her too!
Fond memories!
Gbat |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've always been curious about it but it's really taboo in my culture
Coming to the UK I started looking for swing clubs an I came across Shhh website.. an ad for fab came up on their site and here I am  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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we got interduced by a couple who we met up with to find out what dogging was all about in our very early 20s .... they were in there 50s then oh boy thoses days were real headturner's lol and loads of fun had since..
this was the days before the newspapers were writing about sports stars and mps dogging there were no clubs in the southwest then very few parties ... the nearest club was the west midlands those were real fun days ...on the net it was via chap groups like yahoo..xcite.. or mags |
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No one we found our own way we also believe not to pull people into swinging but letting them find their way as it is not for everyone and just because we like it they may Not or May break their relationship... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A guy I met threw a social group many years ago so I signed up to see what it was all about! He was a seasoned swinger and would attend clubs etc but I don’t think he uses this site anymore |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No one we found our own way we also believe not to pull people into swinging but letting them find their way as it is not for everyone and just because we like it they may Not or May break their relationship..."
we also agree with this a couple helpped us but we did all the searching before a couple reached out ...
have see so many relationships go bad from swinging mainly because they were doing it for the wrong reasons or the relationship was very onesided |
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We have both been chatting about it for a while ( years in fact) and with a little bit persuading we ended up on here.
Covid made us realise that life is too short and that we should try stuff (which we have)  |
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"Eek what defines you as a swinger? That you partner swap?"
For us it’s that we’re playful, rather than necessarily playing. A bit of camming, flirting, and yes, some swapping. Definitely brought us closer together (and our marriage was bloody brilliant anyway)! |
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1997.......An admirer through my work in London, wasn't deterred by the fact that I was married, in fact the opposite.
Not only was he only attracted to married women but only married women with total knowledge of the husband.
He wasn't taking no for an answer and he dragged my other half and I into the hotwife/cuckold scene.
Totally changed our sexlife......for good |
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By *omRachCouple
over a year ago
Wirral |
We haven't 'swung' in the true sense of the word but my curiosity about adding people to our sex life came from a few chats I had with a married couple many many years ago
Since those chats we (my now wife and i) have sampled MFM, MMF hotwifing & now cuckolding. |
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After coming out of a long relationship I decided I wanted to explore my bi-cur side. Someone suggested this site.
I met up with a lovely couple local to me, loved it and since then I’ve been to clubs and this year made it to a couple of parties. I’ve met some of the best people. An ffm is still my favourite kind of meet. |
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By *eachcplCouple
over a year ago
blackpool/preston/normandy france |
"A magazine called "Experience"back in the late seventies.
All initial contact was by post.
Happy days."
Haha. How we started finding people. Long and drawn out process in those days |
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"A magazine called "Experience"back in the late seventies.
All initial contact was by post.
Happy days.
Haha. How we started finding people. Long and drawn out process in those days "
Same with Wife and I through Forum magazine. Only got together with one couple but saw them a couple of times a year for 5 years until they emigrated. |
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For me, i discovered it when a guy I used to play rugby with, approached me about having sex with his wife while he was away (and taking some pics/ video for her to send to him)
After that experience, I started searching for more. Discovered a few sites (including Fab), went to some clubs, and started having more meets. |
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A lady I was seeing knew my bi curiosity and got turned on by it. Because of my job I have to be discreet so she researched and found fab and fab guys. Joined and several years later am still here. |
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haha
They gradualy introduced me to MMF fun, and I've never looked back from there...