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when you realise it's time to stop
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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This is not a "Im leaving please beg me to stay thread"
But I have decided that I am going to hang up my swinging shoes. I have had lots of time to think and try different ways to do things but I have found that my loyalty to the man I love with all my heart has meant that to be alone that I get no pleasure from any of this anymore.
I have made such friends on here and for now will stop to participate on the forums. I just am not cut out for this without my companion by my side
So thanks to all those that have supported me and I hope to still give advice.
Cali |
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As said before, this is a massive change for you and you are going to need time to adjust.
You never know, after a period of re adjustment you might feel like joining in again but for the mean time take the time you need for you x x |
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well that's a shame because I've always noticed how you are not at all judgemental, always give a considered and thoughtful answer and contribute in a very positive way and these fora need people like that.
All the best to you and hope to see you back here . |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thank you
I have had many that think I'm being premature about this but I am no longer getting anything from play. The magic spark that once made me feel so alive is not there
I wish it was as easy as people keep messaging me to just find someone new but this was something deeply special to me. I believe a once in a lifetime bond
I would actually prefer to not feel like this
But I just know that playing still would ruin me totally. As I'm doing it and not getting anything from it
Cali |
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Best of Luck Cali, certainly The Attic & Xotix clubs are going to miss your presence.
Will look forward to reading your continued contribution in the forums though, where you argue your points pertinantly. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"But I just know that playing still would ruin me totally. As I'm doing it and not getting anything from it
Cali"
Then you are right to stop, hide your profile, but stick around, the forums need you.
All the best x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"But I just know that playing still would ruin me totally. As I'm doing it and not getting anything from it
Cali
Then you are right to stop, hide your profile, but stick around, the forums need you.
All the best x"
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I am giving up swinging not the forums. So you don't quite get rid of me that easy.
Thanks all. I just see no point playing when I'm not enjoying it anymore.
Cali |
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I am so pleased for you, you have found what so many of us are looking for (if only we would admit it) and I wish you every happiness. 
