If you're serious about it, then be really clear in your profile about what kind of girl you're looking for and what sort of thing you want to do. Some couples want a sub that they can both play with whereas some want a girl just for soft play. Your profile doesn't really explain any of that. Lx |
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"Single ladies are the hardest to find  "
They're really not but I think there's a disconnect between what couples have/want and what single girls have/want. I have two girl friends who would like meeting couples but only if they are all on the same wavelength. Couples generally need to be honest about what they want from a girl and be a bit more specific about what they are looking for physically. Lx |
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"Single ladies are the hardest to find
They're really not but I think there's a disconnect between what couples have/want and what single girls have/want. I have two girl friends who would like meeting couples but only if they are all on the same wavelength. Couples generally need to be honest about what they want from a girl and be a bit more specific about what they are looking for physically. Lx"
Maybe we should update our profile  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Definitely hard to create a connection with the ladies on fab. We’ve been trying for so long and no success. Gave up trying on here, probably next will go to a club and see how it goes… |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Go to a club ,most of the site are looking for the same I think
I've seen a few threads where people have been successful in clubs ."
Even as a single man that’s where I had my first MFF
I think otherwise you’ve just got to really search far and wide they’re certainly hard to find  |
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"Single ladies are the hardest to find
They're really not but I think there's a disconnect between what couples have/want and what single girls have/want. I have two girl friends who would like meeting couples but only if they are all on the same wavelength. Couples generally need to be honest about what they want from a girl and be a bit more specific about what they are looking for physically. Lx
Maybe we should update our profile "
Definitely! I do like some of your photos but not sure if that's just something you do yourselves (and not with others)  |
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"Single ladies are the hardest to find
They're really not but I think there's a disconnect between what couples have/want and what single girls have/want. I have two girl friends who would like meeting couples but only if they are all on the same wavelength. Couples generally need to be honest about what they want from a girl and be a bit more specific about what they are looking for physically. Lx"
Just to point out, you guys are in London. Heavily populated with lots of clubs to choose from. It's not the same in other parts of the country and that really does play a factor in how hard it can be.
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Initially I just wanted to play with couples but the ones that approached the males mostly creeped me out or the female was very judgemental/demanding ...I had a female of a MF couple I was considering meeting give me a very extensive list of the things her hubby couldn't do to me ...I abandoned that ship ...meeting a couple is nerve racking enough then having to remember all of that.
My advice is look for a female you both fancy propose a social meet and go from there...that's how I met my first couple on here ....they are lovely pair inside and out,I'd play with them on any given day xx |
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I've been trying to find a couple to connect with on here for years now and had no luck
Either I only find 1 of them attractive, or they want only the female to play and the guy to watch, or they want a human sex toy to just use and disguard when it suits them.
Non of which appeals to me. |
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"Initially I just wanted to play with couples but the ones that approached the males mostly creeped me out or the female was very judgemental/demanding ...I had a female of a MF couple I was considering meeting give me a very extensive list of the things her hubby couldn't do to me ...I abandoned that ship ...meeting a couple is nerve racking enough then having to remember all of that.
My advice is look for a female you both fancy propose a social meet and go from there...that's how I met my first couple on here ....they are lovely pair inside and out,I'd play with them on any given day xx"
Yikes.
We have no list of does and don't appart from the obvious saftey first one. We just have fun and a good time for all. How should we portray that in our profile so it's clear to the single ladies? |
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We like mff, mmf and mfmf but out of them all a decent mmf is harder to find than an mff clubs are the answer for most things though fab is 99% spam 1% keeping it touch with people we have met via a club |
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"I've been trying to find a couple to connect with on here for years now and had no luck
Either I only find 1 of them attractive, or they want only the female to play and the guy to watch, or they want a human sex toy to just use and disguard when it suits them.
Non of which appeals to me."
This is often not talked about enough and has been my experience too |
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"I've been trying to find a couple to connect with on here for years now and had no luck
Either I only find 1 of them attractive, or they want only the female to play and the guy to watch, or they want a human sex toy to just use and disguard when it suits them.
Non of which appeals to me.
Indeed a tad difficult for all three parties to like each other. Now regarding the human toy comment, unfortunately we have run into fellow human beings who behaved that way… fuck em!( not literally obviously;) )
Perhaps all the couples can get together and agree to swap their other half from time to time…
This is often not talked about enough and has been my experience too "
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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago
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"Try finding 2 females now thats hard lol  
You call it hard. Others might call it greedy 
Its only greedy if you get it
Your definitely in the right place to possibly get it. Happy fabbing "
Ive been here many many many years still not found it lol  |
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Perhaps all the couples can get together and agree to swap their other half from time to time…
This is often not talked about enough and has been my experience too "
Two issues with that.
Firatly, we both meet seperatly. We've met a few others over the years who do as well bit not many
Can count on two hands how many we've met in 25 years. If im honest, the fact we do meet seperatly seems to surprise most couples we talk to. So for the most part (i assume) couples come as a couple in some form or another.
Secondly, we are a cuckqean couple primarily. Not the only thing we enjoy but because we are a cuckqean couple, we thought approaching cuckold/hotwife couples could be a good way to go.
It's not. They're not interested either. Which to be fair, on Fab, make sense. Two 3rds of the site is single males. Those ladies can pick and choose till their hearts content. Why bother with a couple
When you have ypur pick of single guys.
At the end of the day, single ladies who meet couples are rare and single ladies finding the right couples seems to be just as rare as well. |
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"Initially I just wanted to play with couples but the ones that approached the males mostly creeped me out or the female was very judgemental/demanding ...I had a female of a MF couple I was considering meeting give me a very extensive list of the things her hubby couldn't do to me ...I abandoned that ship ...meeting a couple is nerve racking enough then having to remember all of that.
My advice is look for a female you both fancy propose a social meet and go from there...that's how I met my first couple on here ....they are lovely pair inside and out,I'd play with them on any given day xx
Yikes.
We have no list of does and don't appart from the obvious saftey first one. We just have fun and a good time for all. How should we portray that in our profile so it's clear to the single ladies?"
Exactly as you've said it there that's simple and refreshing as opposed to the list of dos and don't.
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"Initially I just wanted to play with couples but the ones that approached the males mostly creeped me out or the female was very judgemental/demanding ...I had a female of a MF couple I was considering meeting give me a very extensive list of the things her hubby couldn't do to me ...I abandoned that ship ...meeting a couple is nerve racking enough then having to remember all of that.
My advice is look for a female you both fancy propose a social meet and go from there...that's how I met my first couple on here ....they are lovely pair inside and out,I'd play with them on any given day xx
Yikes.
We have no list of does and don't appart from the obvious saftey first one. We just have fun and a good time for all. How should we portray that in our profile so it's clear to the single ladies? Exactly as you've said it there that's simple and refreshing as opposed to the list of dos and don't.
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Thank you. Aside from what we are not into or looking for, I didn't think we had anything that came off negatively to anyone be they a lady or couple but you never know. Never hurts to ask. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Anyway if any couples around West mids would be happy to meet a pretty little fat girl feel free to message me.
As long as 1. I get to fuck you both and 2. You won't use me and throw me away |
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"Anyway if any couples around West mids would be happy to meet a pretty little fat girl feel free to message me.
As long as 1. I get to fuck you both and 2. You won't use me and throw me away "
You're gonna have a full inbox in the morning
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"Hey we are looking for a single female for MFF...how do we go about it?"
I've been lucky enough to be part of quite a few mff threesomes, some of them as part of a couple profile so I think there's some experience there to share.
* I can't recall us ever meeting any ladies where we initiated contact on the Internet, although we didn't contact many.
* *nothing* beats meeting people personally and talking and flirting. For this reason, clubs are by far your best bet to meet new people, including single ladies.
* we also attended and hosted house parties. We haven't done that for ages but you meet a lot of new people that way.
* once you have a few people in your network of sexy friends you will meet others. Somewhere along the way you will meet single ladies you both click with. That's where mff threesomes mostly occur.
* I guess something in our profile appealed to single ladies because sometimes someone would message us. That more often led to meeting up. |
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"Initially I just wanted to play with couples but the ones that approached the males mostly creeped me out or the female was very judgemental/demanding ...I had a female of a MF couple I was considering meeting give me a very extensive list of the things her hubby couldn't do to me ...I abandoned that ship ...meeting a couple is nerve racking enough then having to remember all of that.
My advice is look for a female you both fancy propose a social meet and go from there...that's how I met my first couple on here ....they are lovely pair inside and out,I'd play with them on any given day xx"
I've not met a couple yet..... But this is the exact reason I haven't very few I've spoke to I've felt comfortable enough to meet coz of the reasons you've mentioned |
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By *uriousAWoman
over a year ago
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I agree with this. Some couples make it all about them and don’t necessarily think of the females enjoyment so that can be a flag. Some couples are too pushy and rude if you decline. I would also agree with the above that you need to be specific on your profile about what you are looking for from someone in this situation. |
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You’ve got to ask yourself, what can we offer single ladies?
You also have to consider why you want to meet them? Is it just male fantasy or the kink? Are you inviting them to be a active part of an equal threesome, or are you going to want them to be just part of your experience?
Many of of our threesomes have come from the ladies seeing how we play together and interact with each other rather than us actively approaching people.
I’d honestly suggest a club over messaging here. I’d also advise against using terms such as Unicorn. Also avoid the feeling that it’s a treat for one of you or a present! |
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By *ipseyTwoCouple
over a year ago
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As the male from a couple, the big turn on for me is the FF play. Our play is generally more about foreplay, and less about the male getting laid.
Couples are out there that value the experience of the third person, be them male or female |
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We've had some luck in the past and loved it but it is the forever struggle.
We know we are on the niche side of the spectrum by being a cuckqean couple to begin with and accepted that years ago but we know we want it to be about all parties involved equally. I'd be a liar if I said I didn't like seeing my wife with another woman or enjoying that woman's company myself but at the same time my wife loves seeing me with other women and enjoying herself with that woman as well. but what is even better is the two of us working together for her pleasure.
At the end of the day, none of it works without honest open communication, mutual respect and all parties involved getting what they want out of it. We are well aware there are reason why some ladies avoid it, many of which are listed in this thread but hopefully one day, we find that special lady who likes our company and is on the same wave length as us.
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Just thought I would add to this thread my experience as a single female, who has met with a few couples for MFF.
There are a lot of couples here looking for this dynamic, but sadly the profiles I have visited in the past, never seem to consider the 3rd person.
A lot looking for the male half just to watch, like a single fem wants to be a performing monkey, along with couples who are only interested in what they can gain from a meet, never any mention of mutual fun for all.
It can be very exhausting at times trying to build a connection with a couple, whereby all are on the same page, it would help if those looking were very clear on their profile from the get go  |
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"Just thought I would add to this thread my experience as a single female, who has met with a few couples for MFF.
There are a lot of couples here looking for this dynamic, but sadly the profiles I have visited in the past, never seem to consider the 3rd person.
A lot looking for the male half just to watch, like a single fem wants to be a performing monkey, along with couples who are only interested in what they can gain from a meet, never any mention of mutual fun for all.
It can be very exhausting at times trying to build a connection with a couple, whereby all are on the same page, it would help if those looking were very clear on their profile from the get go "
We absolutely agree with you on that and we have stated that on our profile from the start. We agree that all 3 should have the fun together and the spark is a more better atmosphere  |
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We have been lucky enough to meet a few single women. Well I say lucky, but what helps is setting your profile up so that the single lady feels like she’s not going to be a performing seal.
We both chat beforehand and we both play and when we play with a third (male or female) it’s a three way play where we all get pleasure and we all pleasure.
OP, the only pics of Mr on your profile is his cock. I suspect a female would prefer to have an idea of what Mr actually looks like rather than just that.
Good luck
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