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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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What’s everyone’s thoughts on intoxicated meets?
Personally it’s not for me, but I find that I’m regularly asked to meet people at their place when they’re d*unk or otherwise using something.
Is this common? It doesn’t seem safe to me, especially when meeting a stranger for the first time |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Think some people drink their nerves, but go too far. We would also not start any play if we felt the other person was intoxicated by any substance. Too much risk for boundaries to be broken. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Personally, I'm okay if someone needs a drink or two for nerves or because they like a drink but if I felt they were drinking a lot or were quite d*unk, I'd back off. I have to feel like consent is fully there. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What’s everyone’s thoughts on intoxicated meets?
Personally it’s not for me, but I find that I’m regularly asked to meet people at their place when they’re d*unk or otherwise using something.
Is this common? It doesn’t seem safe to me, especially when meeting a stranger for the first time "
It's a massive no for me, but it's very common on here. A lot of the curious guys on here can only meet with some 'Dutch Courage.' It's well established that alcohol and d***s numb your inhibitions.
I want someone to be fully aware of and in control of what they're doing. I want them to be able to consent and not turn around later and falsely claim that it wasn't consensual and that I took advantage.
If anyone mentions being d*unk, I will decline. If they mention chems, snow, lines or anything else, I just block them.
I drive to all of my meets and don't ever drink if I'm going to be driving, or drive if I'm going to be drinking, so I only meet sober.
Had a lot of 'straight' guys asking me to go over whilst they do snow/lines and I just block them now. |
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By *klifeCouple
over a year ago
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We’ve had both we’ve been so d*unk we hardly remember the next day but that’s normally with one of my freaky girlfriends after we’ve had a girls night and come back to ours to wake up hubby … but when we arrange a meet from here we just have a couple to relax or it ruins the evening xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Fundamentally not, ever.
Partly because I find pissed people really dreary (although I love my wine).
But mostly because I play with at least a touch of kink and kink needs clear heads.
And lastly....if you need Dutch courage, why on earth are you doing this? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A couple of small glasses of wine maybe at most for me, more than that is a no no for me. What’s the point ? I’d rather remember and enjoy everything that happens |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Fundamentally not, ever.
Partly because I find pissed people really dreary (although I love my wine).
But mostly because I play with at least a touch of kink and kink needs clear heads.
***And lastly....if you need Dutch courage, why on earth are you doing this?***"
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"Never if d*unk.
Think law changed/is changing that if a woman has a large glass of wine = classed has over the limit = means she`s d*unk and unable to consent. "
So… over the limit to drive means cannot give consent?
And the previous poster who insinuated that if someone is d*unk then it = ra**? |
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