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Why don't guys at clubs ejaculate when playing until the end of the evening
Personally find it not fun
What's good for the goose n all.
Us ladies will likely orgasm or at least go through the motions to show appreciation. So why not the guys
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"I used to hold it in until the end of the night with a kinda pace myself mentality. Now I cum as many times as I can and dont hold back at all. I'm enjoying myself much more now 
Ric x"
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"Why don't guys at clubs ejaculate when playing until the end of the evening
Personally find it not fun
What's good for the goose n all.
Us ladies will likely orgasm or at least go through the motions to show appreciation. So why not the guys
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Go through the motions  . Fake it? |
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I (Duke) find particular clubs to be really hot.. and for some reason when the temperature gets really hot it takes me a lot to cum. So I end up not really coming until the end of the night....its not planned, it just works out that way! |
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I'm going to give a honest and blunt answer here but it's from my experience so I'm not speaking for any other guy.
I'm all over the place with cumming. Not literally because that would be a hideous mess but I digress.
Be it a club or a private meet, sometimes I just go and go like a Steam Train but cant cum and other times a I'm straight up repeater cumming 6 or 7 times.
It's absolutely not stage fight (been on the scene 25 years so I would hope it's not) and it's not that I dont want things to end early either. Give me 20 mins and I'm ready to go again. Performance is usually not the issue. It's the cumming part. Even with my wife, in recent years there's been a couple of occasions where I just wasnt going to cum no matter what.
Now I happen to know it's a combination of 3 things in my case. Age, health and how relaxed I am.
Age speaks for itself which in turn leads to health. In my case in recent years I developed Vasculitis on, of places, my left testical. Yeah, it's un-pleasent and painful when it flairs up and is a complete mood killer but I manage it . It's not common it flairs up but when it does, I have to be careful. For any bloke reading, it feels like you've been kicked in the nads and can last for hours so you can imagine why I'd have an issue.
But thats a rare thing in my case. Happened maybe 2 or 3 times in the last 3 years. But I know for a fact it's the sole cause of an issue with my wife.
Because the last one, relaxation kinda speaks for itself.
On private and repeat meets with my wife or one on ones with a lady, not an issue at all. I often go full repeater and for hours and hours. Not bragging or bigging myself up there. It's just how I am. Usually because it's a relaxed private setting. In clubs (or the one club we visit anyway) I don't always relax as much. the busier it is, the less likely I am to relax. People coming and going, guys wandering past / trying to join in or just having a crowd watching. Kinda puts me off a bit. Probably because in a club I kinda feel I have to be on guard for my wife. I know what she enjoys and likes in a club so I'm kinda watching out for her rather than enjoying the moment for myself if that makes sense?
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"Why don't guys at clubs ejaculate when playing until the end of the evening
Personally find it not fun
What's good for the goose n all.
Us ladies will likely orgasm or at least go through the motions to show appreciation. So why not the guys
Go through the motions . Fake it?"
I was just going to post that
Why would you "go through the motions"? |
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"Why don't guys at clubs ejaculate when playing until the end of the evening
Personally find it not fun
What's good for the goose n all.
Us ladies will likely orgasm or at least go through the motions to show appreciation. So why not the guys
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Stage fright, or just not in to you? |
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It depends.
First of all, if I already cum once then the second one is a lot harder to achieve. It happens sometimes, but not as often as I would like to  but anyway, I like to keep playing afterwards.
Last time I didn't cum was because of the freaking heat wave. Got sweaty wet and couldn't finish. |
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By *ase4122Man
over a year ago
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"Why don't guys at clubs ejaculate when playing until the end of the evening
Personally find it not fun
What's good for the goose n all.
Us ladies will likely orgasm or at least go through the motions to show appreciation. So why not the guys
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Not sure the pint of going through the motions achieves, isn't this called faking an orgasm? |
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"Why don't guys at clubs ejaculate when playing until the end of the evening
Personally find it not fun
What's good for the goose n all.
Us ladies will likely orgasm or at least go through the motions to show appreciation. So why not the guys
Go through the motions . Fake it?
I was just going to post that
Why would you "go through the motions"?"
I didn't refer to myself did I.
Some women do go through the motions for the show |
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"Why don't guys at clubs ejaculate when playing until the end of the evening
Personally find it not fun
What's good for the goose n all.
Us ladies will likely orgasm or at least go through the motions to show appreciation. So why not the guys
Go through the motions . Fake it?
I was just going to post that
Why would you "go through the motions"?
I didn't refer to myself did I.
Some women do go through the motions for the show "
I'd be highly unlikely to have an orgasm in a club and I wouldn't go through the motions either. |
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I came twice at VA last night, and then again in the tent at the end of the night when we chatted about what we had done.
I think it depends on the scenario. If we want a guy we are with to cum on us we just ask and they generally do. |
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I hate it when I've done all the hard work, then they say. " I'm not cumming yet, saving it for later'. Or the other hand, they say, I've just cum 10 mins ago. Play with it, see if you can get anything out of it.
Had a guy the other night. I was playing with a man. The other guy just got right in my personal space. Shoving his soft dick in my face. After about 10 mins, I told him to do one. At least get it hard, before approching. |
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"I hate it when I've done all the hard work, then they say. " I'm not cumming yet, saving it for later'. Or the other hand, they say, I've just cum 10 mins ago. Play with it, see if you can get anything out of it.
Had a guy the other night. I was playing with a man. The other guy just got right in my personal space. Shoving his soft dick in my face. After about 10 mins, I told him to do one. At least get it hard, before approching. "
Yeah I know
It's like. They wants is squirting and orgasning. Then we get insulted by such comments .
As a single unicorn i do usually enjoys playing woth the guys but these days I'm starting to think why do i bother granted not all guys hold back or as you say. They came 10 mins ago, there are a few good occasions that have been really great. More sothey aren't |
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"Why don't guys at clubs ejaculate when playing until the end of the evening
Personally find it not fun
What's good for the goose n all.
Us ladies will likely orgasm or at least go through the motions to show appreciation. So why not the guys
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Very simple, after ejaculation chemicals are released which make the guy tired/satisfied. He is no longer horny and needs a rest. many guys will just leave after cumming so they wait until the end of the night. You should read up about it |
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By *ammo89Man
over a year ago
Aberdeen |
"Why don't guys at clubs ejaculate when playing until the end of the evening
Personally find it not fun
What's good for the goose n all.
Us ladies will likely orgasm or at least go through the motions to show appreciation. So why not the guys
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There will be some of us there who arent wanted, which im sure is easy to pick up on when hotter guys come into the picture. This makes ejaculation pretty difficult for guys in this case |
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over a year ago
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I think that's overthinking it. If we're willing to play with you then it doesn't matter if we've just been flirting with a hunky guy, we still want to have fun with you there and then x |
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By *ammo89Man
over a year ago
Aberdeen |
"I think that's overthinking it. If we're willing to play with you then it doesn't matter if we've just been flirting with a hunky guy, we still want to have fun with you there and then x"
Easier said than done. A guy like me knows what I'm up against when there are wall to wall adonises in the room  |
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"I think that's overthinking it. If we're willing to play with you then it doesn't matter if we've just been flirting with a hunky guy, we still want to have fun with you there and then x
Easier said than done. A guy like me knows what I'm up against when there are wall to wall adonises in the room "
But what does that matter if I want to play with you in that moment? |
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By *ammo89Man
over a year ago
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"I think that's overthinking it. If we're willing to play with you then it doesn't matter if we've just been flirting with a hunky guy, we still want to have fun with you there and then x
Easier said than done. A guy like me knows what I'm up against when there are wall to wall adonises in the room
But what does that matter if I want to play with you in that moment?"
Because we all know that wouldn't happen when you have the choices you have |
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"I think that's overthinking it. If we're willing to play with you then it doesn't matter if we've just been flirting with a hunky guy, we still want to have fun with you there and then x
Easier said than done. A guy like me knows what I'm up against when there are wall to wall adonises in the room
But what does that matter if I want to play with you in that moment?
Because we all know that wouldn't happen when you have the choices you have"
Aren't you talking about problems ejaculating at a club when playing with someone? So you are talking about when that is happening even when choices are some adonises earlier in the night |
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By *ammo89Man
over a year ago
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"I think that's overthinking it. If we're willing to play with you then it doesn't matter if we've just been flirting with a hunky guy, we still want to have fun with you there and then x
Easier said than done. A guy like me knows what I'm up against when there are wall to wall adonises in the room
But what does that matter if I want to play with you in that moment?
Because we all know that wouldn't happen when you have the choices you have
Aren't you talking about problems ejaculating at a club when playing with someone? So you are talking about when that is happening even when choices are some adonises earlier in the night"
I'm saying that guys like feeling wanted as well. If you have all of these hot guys who are ejaculating happily, then you notice that I'm not doing the same, it's because no one has been interested in me the whole night and hence why I'm struggling to do it |
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"I think that's overthinking it. If we're willing to play with you then it doesn't matter if we've just been flirting with a hunky guy, we still want to have fun with you there and then x
Easier said than done. A guy like me knows what I'm up against when there are wall to wall adonises in the room
But what does that matter if I want to play with you in that moment?
Because we all know that wouldn't happen when you have the choices you have
Aren't you talking about problems ejaculating at a club when playing with someone? So you are talking about when that is happening even when choices are some adonises earlier in the night
I'm saying that guys like feeling wanted as well. If you have all of these hot guys who are ejaculating happily, then you notice that I'm not doing the same, it's because no one has been interested in me the whole night and hence why I'm struggling to do it"
Ok I think I understand you now!
Well I can't say I've run into this problem but hopefully the girls you are with make you feel desired, I know I show my desires with whoever I choose to play with! |
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By *ammo89Man
over a year ago
Aberdeen |
"I think that's overthinking it. If we're willing to play with you then it doesn't matter if we've just been flirting with a hunky guy, we still want to have fun with you there and then x
Easier said than done. A guy like me knows what I'm up against when there are wall to wall adonises in the room
But what does that matter if I want to play with you in that moment?
Because we all know that wouldn't happen when you have the choices you have
Aren't you talking about problems ejaculating at a club when playing with someone? So you are talking about when that is happening even when choices are some adonises earlier in the night
I'm saying that guys like feeling wanted as well. If you have all of these hot guys who are ejaculating happily, then you notice that I'm not doing the same, it's because no one has been interested in me the whole night and hence why I'm struggling to do it
Ok I think I understand you now!
Well I can't say I've run into this problem but hopefully the girls you are with make you feel desired, I know I show my desires with whoever I choose to play with!"
No worries
If women and couples have lots of hot guys to choose from, no one is going to be looking twice at me. I'm prepared for this and will just enjoy the evening and expect this outcome when I go to a club |
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By *ammo89Man
over a year ago
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"I think that's overthinking it. If we're willing to play with you then it doesn't matter if we've just been flirting with a hunky guy, we still want to have fun with you there and then x
Easier said than done. A guy like me knows what I'm up against when there are wall to wall adonises in the room
But what does that matter if I want to play with you in that moment?
Because we all know that wouldn't happen when you have the choices you have
Aren't you talking about problems ejaculating at a club when playing with someone? So you are talking about when that is happening even when choices are some adonises earlier in the night
I'm saying that guys like feeling wanted as well. If you have all of these hot guys who are ejaculating happily, then you notice that I'm not doing the same, it's because no one has been interested in me the whole night and hence why I'm struggling to do it
Ok I think I understand you now!
Well I can't say I've run into this problem but hopefully the girls you are with make you feel desired, I know I show my desires with whoever I choose to play with!
No worries
If women and couples have lots of hot guys to choose from, no one is going to be looking twice at me. I'm prepared for this and will just enjoy the evening and expect this outcome when I go to a club "
But this is why some guys don't ejaculate, to get back to the OP's point |
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"IIf women and couples have lots of hot guys to choose from, no one is going to be looking twice at me. I'm prepared for this and will just enjoy the evening and expect this outcome when I go to a club "
Well we wouldn't look twice at you in a club because you're too young and too attractive to be worth much effort!
In clubs the most attractive things are a nice smile, and being friendly. But then from your profile it looks like you enjoy a bit of humiliation? |
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"I think that's overthinking it. If we're willing to play with you then it doesn't matter if we've just been flirting with a hunky guy, we still want to have fun with you there and then x
Easier said than done. A guy like me knows what I'm up against when there are wall to wall adonises in the room
But what does that matter if I want to play with you in that moment?
Because we all know that wouldn't happen when you have the choices you have
Aren't you talking about problems ejaculating at a club when playing with someone? So you are talking about when that is happening even when choices are some adonises earlier in the night
I'm saying that guys like feeling wanted as well. If you have all of these hot guys who are ejaculating happily, then you notice that I'm not doing the same, it's because no one has been interested in me the whole night and hence why I'm struggling to do it
Ok I think I understand you now!
Well I can't say I've run into this problem but hopefully the girls you are with make you feel desired, I know I show my desires with whoever I choose to play with!
No worries
If women and couples have lots of hot guys to choose from, no one is going to be looking twice at me. I'm prepared for this and will just enjoy the evening and expect this outcome when I go to a club "
No idea why you think no one would look twice at you unless your just fishing for attention lol x but you are a good looking guy but by the way you drag yourself down says to me you have no confidence and some wemon may find it off-putting x |
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By *etro1940sCouple
over a year ago
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"I came twice at VA last night, and then again in the tent at the end of the night when we chatted about what we had done.
I think it depends on the scenario. If we want a guy we are with to cum on us we just ask and they generally do. "
a good answer - ask and guys will deliver (I find) ... wink x Anne |
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"So this is why then that In Al the clubs I've visited then that play fun doesn't really get going till quite late into the eveninng"
Isn’t that more to do with everyone waiting to see who is actually in, then making your choices from those available?
Personally, I like to enjoy as much time as possible with the person I’m playing with, and I do have self control, but I wouldn’t be waiting until the very end of the night before I ejaculate. If I was fortunate enough to be invited to play, I would be giving her the ‘complete’ experience, and worry about being able to ‘reload’ later 
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"Probably don't won't to blow their load and be done for the night after paying so damn much to get in! "
this is mostly 100% . nothing worse than going to a club , and nutting in the first 1hour then you are thinking may as well go home ..
I alwawys found if fucking a woman in a club at beginning , I just hold back but enjoy myself and if they ask if I cum I just say yes ,, its a condom so not like they are going to take it off and pour out the contents  |
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"I'll bet there are many guys there that may not be able to get erect once they blow their load, fair play to those who can 'multi play' and still keep it until the end of the night"
Exactly this. I’m one of these! Takes me a while to come back |
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Cumming isn't always the the aim. I know people that like to edge for days at a time. We often have a play and stop each other cumming for 2 or 3 days in a row. Especially if we have a meeting or club visit planned
Peace and love fellow perverts |
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"So can't these said guys not come again at all
Say if they ejaculated early then a few hours later would be able to perform again "
“A few hours later”……..? I imagine pretty much every bloke will be able to reload then? But the window of opportunity to blow in a club is usually very small, if at all, as a single guy. Certainly in the clubs I went to……  |
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"So can't these said guys not come again at all
Say if they ejaculated early then a few hours later would be able to perform again "
I would hope so. Depends how long they're there. Hour between should be adequate |
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"Cumming isn't always the the aim. I know people that like to edge for days at a time. We often have a play and stop each other cumming for 2 or 3 days in a row. Especially if we have a meeting or club visit planned
Peace and love fellow perverts "
As I'm not a couple, I don't get to enjoy the whole picture |
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Slip hazard! If guys were jizzing all other the place especially around the jacuzzi areas, Then it would be Ike a frigging ice rink!! Imagine the accidental injury claims against the owners of the club. Remember guys health and safety is your responsibility Jizz in a sock not on the dock. |
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By *ammo89Man
over a year ago
Aberdeen |
"I think that's overthinking it. If we're willing to play with you then it doesn't matter if we've just been flirting with a hunky guy, we still want to have fun with you there and then x
Easier said than done. A guy like me knows what I'm up against when there are wall to wall adonises in the room
But what does that matter if I want to play with you in that moment?
Because we all know that wouldn't happen when you have the choices you have
Aren't you talking about problems ejaculating at a club when playing with someone? So you are talking about when that is happening even when choices are some adonises earlier in the night
I'm saying that guys like feeling wanted as well. If you have all of these hot guys who are ejaculating happily, then you notice that I'm not doing the same, it's because no one has been interested in me the whole night and hence why I'm struggling to do it
Ok I think I understand you now!
Well I can't say I've run into this problem but hopefully the girls you are with make you feel desired, I know I show my desires with whoever I choose to play with!
No worries
If women and couples have lots of hot guys to choose from, no one is going to be looking twice at me. I'm prepared for this and will just enjoy the evening and expect this outcome when I go to a club
No idea why you think no one would look twice at you unless your just fishing for attention lol x but you are a good looking guy but by the way you drag yourself down says to me you have no confidence and some wemon may find it off-putting x "
It's not about a lack of confidence at all - I just wouldn't go to a club with expectations, as I'm sure there will be a lot more guys there, and it's possible that no one would want to play with so much choice around |
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If someone does not want to or is unable to cum then they don’t owe anyone an explanation. It seems to be taking entitlement to a whole other level! ‘I am entitled or deserve your cum’.
I get the insecure feelings it leaves you with it, but that is your issue to resolve. Maybe, the club scene is not for you? Why carry on with something that leaves you feeling unfulfilled? The solution should not be trying to ‘dictate’ when people should cum.
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"Slip hazard! If guys were jizzing all other the place especially around the jacuzzi areas, Then it would be Ike a frigging ice rink!! Imagine the accidental injury claims against the owners of the club. Remember guys health and safety is your responsibility Jizz in a sock not on the dock. "
Lol. Am I referring to a free for all jizz session not. I dokt think your reading the post |
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Have we lost the plot.
My post thread was about playing with guys in a xlub environment, who don't or won't wanna cum
I get that some guys would rather leave it till end of night or take ot back to their partner .
Sorry not sorry, imma cum.slut and equally love to enjoy that he has cum. |
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"Have we lost the plot.
My post thread was about playing with guys in a xlub environment, who don't or won't wanna cum
I get that some guys would rather leave it till end of night or take ot back to their partner .
Sorry not sorry, imma cum.slut and equally love to enjoy that he has cum. "
Roughly how many men have you met in a club environment, who were happy to play with you, but didn’t want to cum until the end of the night? |
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"Have we lost the plot.
My post thread was about playing with guys in a xlub environment, who don't or won't wanna cum
I get that some guys would rather leave it till end of night or take ot back to their partner .
Sorry not sorry, imma cum.slut and equally love to enjoy that he has cum.
Roughly how many men have you met in a club environment, who were happy to play with you, but didn’t want to cum until the end of the night? "
More often than o can count
There's been a few great times. Usually at end of night |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have PME and don't really fuck at clubs. But I can see why some others won't cum soon. It's usually either that they won't be ready for a second round fast enough or the post nut clarity is so bad they have to rush out of the club so fast
Basically, they don't want to finish the night soon. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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90% of the time it’s going to be…. Like others have said, they don’t want to cum and then end the night early.
I fucked a Dutch woman at a club once and she made me cum over her tits. I didn’t really want to cum but found it abit to hard to hold back lol.
About 10 mins later after the Dutch woman, a couple I had my eye on approached me and I had to say no! Then watched them go off with another guy.
Not cumming I guess just keep a guy horny. |
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"90% of the time it’s going to be…. Like others have said, they don’t want to cum and then end the night early.
I fucked a Dutch woman at a club once and she made me cum over her tits. I didn’t really want to cum but found it abit to hard to hold back lol.
About 10 mins later after the Dutch woman, a couple I had my eye on approached me and I had to say no! Then watched them go off with another guy.
Not cumming I guess just keep a guy horny. "
Blimey, I really have been going to the wrong clubs……..  |
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Never had any problem Cumming and then getting hard again in a club or anywhere else, but women shouldn't think that guys aren't satisfied unless they cum, I enjoy sex whether I cum or not. As long as everyone is having a good time it shouldn't be a big deal. |
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It’s about ageing! In my 20’s I could produce up to 7 or 8 epic orgasms every night. 20 years later and it’s very different! Life stress and everything else means I’m far less productive. Hence I’m more likely to pace myself to maximise the enjoyment through the evening! |
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By *JohnMan
over a year ago
Newcastle upon Tyne |
Do you tell them that it's important to you? If they know what you like, I would think they'd be more likely to give it to you.
I usually won't cum at the club, because my body switches off after I do, and I want to keep the high. But if someone asks me to, I will. |
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"If someone does not want to or is unable to cum then they don’t owe anyone an explanation. It seems to be taking entitlement to a whole other level! ‘I am entitled or deserve your cum’.
I get the insecure feelings it leaves you with it, but that is your issue to resolve. Maybe, the club scene is not for you? Why carry on with something that leaves you feeling unfulfilled? The solution should not be trying to ‘dictate’ when people should cum.
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I totally agree with this...when I go to a venue I usually have a time in mind when I will leave, this is usually 3 to 4 hours...
I will spend the first couple of hours relaxing and thinking about who I would like to share things with( call it foreplay if you like).
I may ejaculate during the last hour and I may not, its not that big a deal anymore, unlike when I was 30..
Communication is key, tell guys what you want and allow them to decide if they can provide it.. |
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
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I have cum at clubs, I don’t always, it depends on the dynamics of the situation and play.
Good sex isn’t always about orgasms and someone doesn’t have to cum to have a good time.
I had one of my best nights in a club ever on Friday (if not the best) and I only came with my partner at the very end |
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over a year ago
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We have committed a few time why don’t guy want to come in a club
And probably obvious!! Game over and a early night for them
We don’t usually stay at clubs till the early hours and often go before 12
But got to agree with Miss P that it’s selfish as my Mrs is also a coin slut
A definitely a bonus to watch her We have committed a few time why don’t guy want to come in a club
And probably obvious!! Game over and a early night for them
We don’t usually stay at clubs till the early hours and often go before 12
But got to agree with Miss P that it’s selfish as my Mrs is also a come slut!
And definitely a bonus to watch her |
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The reason that I don't is that once I have cum I rather lose interest in sex. By hanging on to the end I can keep going all night, barring the occasional accident.....
That dreaded point when all going well but suddenly I realise that I have just gone over that tipping point and my orgasm is inevitable!
Nothing for it but for us both to enjoy it! |
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"We have committed a few time why don’t guy want to come in a club
And probably obvious!! Game over and a early night for them
We don’t usually stay at clubs till the early hours and often go before 12
But got to agree with Miss P that it’s selfish as my Mrs is also a coin slut
A definitely a bonus to watch her We have committed a few time why don’t guy want to come in a club
And probably obvious!! Game over and a early night for them
We don’t usually stay at clubs till the early hours and often go before 12
But got to agree with Miss P that it’s selfish as my Mrs is also a come slut!
And definitely a bonus to watch her"
Why is it selfish? |
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used to meet a guy for fun but everytime he would not cum ... then he let slip that its not cheating if he did not cum ??? and that was the end of that lol |
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"Never had any problem Cumming and then getting hard again in a club or anywhere else, but women shouldn't think that guys aren't satisfied unless they cum, I enjoy sex whether I cum or not. As long as everyone is having a good time it shouldn't be a big deal."
So what about the ladies who like a guy to come, which satisfies the lady.. I guess can't please em all
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"Do you tell them that it's important to you? If they know what you like, I would think they'd be more likely to give it to you.
I usually won't cum at the club, because my body switches off after I do, and I want to keep the high. But if someone asks me to, I will."
Indeed I do ask. And usually let down by most. As they say. Saving it till end of.night ... |
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"Why don't guys at clubs ejaculate when playing until the end of the evening
Personally find it not fun
What's good for the goose n all.
Us ladies will likely orgasm or at least go through the motions to show appreciation. So why not the guys
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Find it hard to cum in a condom so raely cum but fake as it is 100% not her fault...  |
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"Why don't guys at clubs ejaculate when playing until the end of the evening
Personally find it not fun
What's good for the goose n all.
Us ladies will likely orgasm or at least go through the motions to show appreciation. So why not the guys
Find it hard to cum in a condom so raely cum but fake as it is 100% not her fault... "
I just say i cum if wearing a condom I can pulsate / flex my cock at will to mimick the movements it makes when ejaculating easy enough.
Couple of times a person has said to cum on my face / tits I just say I’ll try , Then just be oh sorry I cum while thrusting a few minutes later .
These days though upfront I just say I won’t be cumming till later in evening so make s choice now if you want to play with me still or not . (Not really that phased if missing out on sex at start of evening ) |
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"Never had any problem Cumming and then getting hard again in a club or anywhere else, but women shouldn't think that guys aren't satisfied unless they cum, I enjoy sex whether I cum or not. As long as everyone is having a good time it shouldn't be a big deal."
100% . I like to hold it till end of night and then cum like 2/3 times. Couple of times I have been asked to cum early but then I assume they had enough and want to stop. As long as everyone having a good time keep fucking for good few hours lol |
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"I think that's overthinking it. If we're willing to play with you then it doesn't matter if we've just been flirting with a hunky guy, we still want to have fun with you there and then x
Easier said than done. A guy like me knows what I'm up against when there are wall to wall adonises in the room
But what does that matter if I want to play with you in that moment?
Because we all know that wouldn't happen when you have the choices you have
Aren't you talking about problems ejaculating at a club when playing with someone? So you are talking about when that is happening even when choices are some adonises earlier in the night
I'm saying that guys like feeling wanted as well. If you have all of these hot guys who are ejaculating happily, then you notice that I'm not doing the same, it's because no one has been interested in me the whole night and hence why I'm struggling to do it"
You really should stop putting yourself down on threads. Not everyone wants someone with a gym fit body and a huge cock who can go all night and cum for England. I would rather be with someone who knows what they're doing and likes to keep things interesting. I can work with any size cock when we're playing and I'm not worried about penetration or them cumming as long as we've all had a good time.
You need to be more positive about yourself or just stop putting yourself down and focus on something different, because unless you do, you've less chance of getting lucky. |
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"Never had any problem Cumming and then getting hard again in a club or anywhere else, but women shouldn't think that guys aren't satisfied unless they cum, I enjoy sex whether I cum or not. As long as everyone is having a good time it shouldn't be a big deal.
So what about the ladies who like a guy to come, which satisfies the lady.. I guess can't please em all
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If a lady asks me to come for her always happy to oblige |
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