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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I think it's really rude when people don't reply to a message where you sen pictures, especially if they have asked for them!

What do you guys think?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Hahaha we single guys are used to it.... Couples not so much....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

its something you get used to but saying that some people on fab read the messages on there phones and wait till they get home before replying and they end up not replying because by the time they do go to reply they have had a few snoty messages for not replying straight away so dont bother

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I do make it a duty to reply all my messages though... Even from gay men, when it clearly states in my profile I am straight.... It's courtesy... I understand women get swamped with messages so for them it's excusable....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

When I first joined I used to think so too. Basic common curtesy guided me.

However I since read on here many times that it is acceptable to not reply and for the send to accept that as a 'no thanks'

Not ideal I agree, however I do understand it - yesterday I added myself to 'meet today' and over the course of 3 hours I had had 87 replies

Would I be expected to reply to all of them?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

But I think the OP means when you have already exchanged messages previously... Then it's absolutely rude not to reply.... A quick ,estate to indicate you Re busy is appropriate.... Some people of here get carried away because they have a lot of offers... good for them but its poor manners... And I'd definitely not be messaging after 2 unreturned messages....

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"When I first joined I used to think so too. Basic common curtesy guided me.

However I since read on here many times that it is acceptable to not reply and for the send to accept that as a 'no thanks'

Not ideal I agree, however I do understand it - yesterday I added myself to 'meet today' and over the course of 3 hours I had had 87 replies

Would I be expected to reply to all of them?"

I would of met you

I'm big build

I never get snotty with people but if they have asked for pictures and you have sent them then a polite no thanks doesn't take much!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We get the exchange of messages then the friends invite..then we get blocked!

Given up trying at the moment..their loss haha

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't take it too hardly though.... Maybe cause I haven't had a 'CRUEL YEAR'... Not everyone's my cuppa tea... Don't expect to be everyone's.... If we exchange messages... Arrange a meet you don't get back to me after.... No biggie...that has happened to me... However Fab is a wonderful extension of my already active life...lol...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I do make it a duty to reply all my messages though... Even from gay men, when it clearly states in my profile I am straight.... It's courtesy... I understand women get swamped with messages so for them it's excusable...."

Sorry but its not excusable just because the person getting messages is female. Do not get me wrong i accept females tend to be swamped with messages as will some men although not myself

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think it's really rude when people don't reply to a message where you sen pictures, especially if they have asked for them!

What do you guys think?

This one comes around often.

1 No reply is the sites preferred way of saying no.

2 Best analogy I have read is your mail is unsolicited and is equivalent to the pizza leaflets that get put through your letterbox frequently, do you phone every pizza parlour and say "thank you for your mail, your pics of the pepperoni pizza are very appealing but I don't want one today"?

So no it's not rude it's just the way of things. Happy swinging, keep trying someone will reply and you will have fun with them.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"We get the exchange of messages then the friends invite..then we get blocked!

Given up trying at the moment..their loss haha "

Damn right it is yer sexy woman

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think it's really rude when people don't reply to a message where you sen pictures, especially if they have asked for them!

What do you guys think?

This one comes around often.

1 No reply is the sites preferred way of saying no.

So no it's not rude it's just the way of things. Happy swinging, keep trying someone will reply and you will have fun with them. "

I strongly disagree... You do paint a picture of solicitation... This is very different... This is actual human interaction not a business selling services.... A kind reply to accept or decline is appropriate for males....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"its something you get used to but saying that some people on fab read the messages on there phones and wait till they get home before replying and they end up not replying because by the time they do go to reply they have had a few snoty messages for not replying straight away so dont bother"

We had one like that, when i got home from work we sat down at pc to read message etc went to reply only to have gotten a very rude message and been blocked, they had given us all of 3 hours to reply lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We don't think anything. They either reply or they don't.

Either way it makes no odds to us. We're on here as a pastime, not to get all wound up over someone at the other end of a 2 dime internet site who doesn't reply to a message.

Sorry but there are bigger and better things in life to get hot under the collar about and this isn't one of them

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"When I first joined I used to think so too. Basic common curtesy guided me.

However I since read on here many times that it is acceptable to not reply and for the send to accept that as a 'no thanks'

Not ideal I agree, however I do understand it - yesterday I added myself to 'meet today' and over the course of 3 hours I had had 87 replies

Would I be expected to reply to all of them?

I would of met you

I'm big build

I never get snotty with people but if they have asked for pictures and you have sent them then a polite no thanks doesn't take much! "

Flippin 'ek!

You are only 1 of 8 out of all those messages that actually noted my preferences

You deserve a meet for that alone

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"We don't think anything. They either reply or they don't.

Either way it makes no odds to us. We're on here as a pastime, not to get all wound up over someone at the other end of a 2 dime internet site who doesn't reply to a message.

Sorry but there are bigger and better things in life to get hot under the collar about and this isn't one of them"

My thoughts exactly

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I think it's really rude when people don't reply to a message where you sen pictures, especially if they have asked for them!

What do you guys think?

This one comes around often.

1 No reply is the sites preferred way of saying no.

So no it's not rude it's just the way of things. Happy swinging, keep trying someone will reply and you will have fun with them.

Also, when you've had a conversation with somebody and then swap face pictures, surely it's just decency to say "you're not my type but thanks anyway". We always do. The pizza delivery analogy is rubbish - we don't ask for the pizza menus to come through the door. If I rang the pizza place and asked them for information, then the information they gave was not what I wanted, I wouldn't just slam the phone down, I'd say "no thanks". It's common decency.

Mrs Storm xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think it's really rude when people don't reply to a message where you sen pictures, especially if they have asked for them!

What do you guys think?

This one comes around often.

1 No reply is the sites preferred way of saying no.

So no it's not rude it's just the way of things. Happy swinging, keep trying someone will reply and you will have fun with them.

Mrs Storm xx"

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By *ENDAROOSCouple over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

"I think it's really rude when people don't reply to a message where you sen pictures, especially if they have asked for them!

What do you guys think?

It is something that you just have to just used to unfortunately.

We take a no reply as a thanks but your not for us.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

sometimes i cant reply as i work shifts, so you will get an answer but at an odd time, sometimes 4am!!! so if you are desperate for an answer ... put a meet now flag up FFS

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By *ister PlayMan over a year ago

Warwickshire / Birmingham

As a single man, You might expect me to have a skewed view. But I also used to be part of an active couple on here, so I've seen it from two perspectives.

As a single man, I take a 'no thanks' for the polite reply it is. Similarly if I see my message is deleted without reply, I (safely) assume that's also a 'no thanks'. I completely understand there's a volume / ratio issue , so I don't take either action negatively.

I do get confused however by people who don't reply, but don't delete messages. I also get confused by people who start emailing and then stop.

Anyway, I guess folks are all different. Just as in 'real life' some have better social skills, or better manners. Just take it as it is. Don't take any of it too personally. Not everyone has the same courtesy or values as you (or me)

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"sometimes i cant reply as i work shifts, so you will get an answer but at an odd time, sometimes 4am!!! so if you are desperate for an answer ... put a meet now flag up FFS

Again - we're talking about people we've had conversations with and swapped face pics. Not just people we've messaged on a whim.

Mrs Storm x

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By *arkchestCouple over a year ago

edinburgh

I put the same post on here last week and i was told not to lose sleep over it,,,dont get upset over etc etc etc. I wasnt doing any of these, i just feel it is the decent thing to do to reply to say no thanks and if you get a no thanks you know to continue looking for another playmate. However, i since learned which i never gave much thought to that the amount of msgs single females get must be high. I do feel though under normal circumstances of a few msgs a wee no thanks is all thats needed.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"As a single man, You might expect me to have a skewed view. But I also used to be part of an active couple on here, so I've seen it from two perspectives.

I do get confused however by people who don't reply, but don't delete messages. I also get confused by people who start emailing and then stop.

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same as you, i hate when i send a message and they dont open it and they have been on,thats ignorant in my book.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If it's the first contact from someone, then it's fine not to reply... if there's been a few mails going each way and then pictures are requested and sent, then you would probably expect a reply, although it may be that they're worried about getting a lot of abuse back if they say they don't want to meet or keep chatting after seeing pictures.

I'd be more concerned that the reason the others had not replied after seeing pics is because they recognised me!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"As a single man, You might expect me to have a skewed view. But I also used to be part of an active couple on here, so I've seen it from two perspectives.

I do get confused however by people who don't reply, but don't delete messages. I also get confused by people who start emailing and then stop.

same as you, i hate when i send a message and they dont open it and they have been on,thats ignorant in my book.

I do that. I log on and we can have lots of mail, i might be doing something specific like mailing one of our friends, or looking for a mail from someone but i lead a busy life and may not be in a position to answer all the mail immediately.

It doesnt make me ignorant, and im sure there are many more on here who do the same.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

" same as you, i hate when i send a message and they dont open it and they have been on,thats ignorant in my book.

I've a smartphone and a desktop PC. One is a lot easier to reply to messages on, but I use the other a lot to browse the forums here as it's a darn sight easier to lug around.

When I'm online and looking for a meet, especially towards the weekend, it is quite possible to get a few dozen messages which might hide a reply from a friend.

So based on these threads I can assume that if I open a message and can't reply straight away I'm rude. If I don't open a message straight away I'm also rude. If I delete a message without replying then I'm rude, and if I send a polite "no thanks" to someone who doesn't match my preferences then guess what? I'm rude and will get abuse from the troglodyte in question.

Did I miss anything???

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

" same as you, i hate when i send a message and they dont open it and they have been on,thats ignorant in my book.

I've a smartphone and a desktop PC. One is a lot easier to reply to messages on, but I use the other a lot to browse the forums here as it's a darn sight easier to lug around.

When I'm online and looking for a meet, especially towards the weekend, it is quite possible to get a few dozen messages which might hide a reply from a friend.

Did I miss anything???

No... We already stated when messages have been exchanged... And photos requested haven't been acknowledged.. Or when meets have been agreed upon and then you don't hear from them or get replied its rude...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Nothing new to us guys , very rarely message anymore. Can't be arsed

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Doesn't bother me if people don't reply. I have old unread mails that I just haven't had time to read and reply to yet ....people probably think I'm rude because of that. But I'm not...well not always Haha.

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By *kin BohnerMan over a year ago

derby

I have come to accept a no response as no thanks but I admit it galls me at times. I often spend time and effort reading the profile then composing a polite message commenting on points they have made only for it to be deleted!

I accept that women can be inundated with messages and they cant possibly reply to them all but surly it is easy to open, delete the one liners, reply to the ones that have made an effort even if its a week or so later.

Oh yes I always accept a 'no thanks' with grace and will wish them luck and thank them for the reply. No need for aggression.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

That's us !

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

so people want a mailbox full of rejections?

sadly alot of people dont take rejection well, alot of people see that if ur on a site like this then it means u sleep with anybody! or they just want u so much they cant take no for an answer..

i dont care how it is viewed, but i didnt come here to be abused or harassed and i have found it easier to not send a no thanks..

oh and men are just as guilty as i tried messaging guys and barely got a reply.. no biggy..

tbh if i have messaged someone i will forget anyway and its only when they have replied no thanks that i have thought oh.. would rather get nothing than a no thanks..

but at the end of the day i dont want a daily barage of abuse and harrassment thanks

if u view that as rude, no biggy to me, we just dont see eye to eye..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Hi Mrs Bedford 555 here:

We always reply, even if it's just "no thanks" - replying is common courtesy and it lets everyone know where they stand!! - there is no excuse for rudeness and we never lower ourselves to this level!!

Yes, rejection can be hard (we sometimes get rejected because I am not Bi!!) but we would rather be rejected, than have an unsuccessful meet.

This is fun don't take it too seriously -finding meets can be difficult - but the right meet is always worth it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Hi Mrs Bedford 555 here:

Yes, rejection can be hard (we sometimes get rejected because I am not Bi!!) but we would rather be rejected, than have an unsuccessful meet.

This is fun don't take it too seriously -finding meets can be difficult - but the right meet is always worth it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So based on these threads I can assume that if I open a message and can't reply straight away I'm rude. If I don't open a message straight away I'm also rude. If I delete a message without replying then I'm rude, and if I send a polite "no thanks" to someone who doesn't match my preferences then guess what? I'm rude and will get abuse from the troglodyte in question.

Did I miss anything???

Yup you are rude

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Again - we're talking about people we've had conversations with and swapped face pics. Not just people we've messaged on a whim.

Mrs Storm x"

Yes it is a bit different when not the first Email, and very different if they made the first contact, and to be honest we would usually reply to the first Email as well we only get about one a month anyway (but not Winks, we often don't even look at those!) though sometimes things get messed up, and we have been in a situation where conversation has drifted to nowhere land and just stopped.

Only time we have definitely not replied to a first Email (with pics though we don't specifically ask for them) was due to doubts about the pic received being very different to the one on the profile, made us think it was possibly fake but we couldn't prove it so said nothing instead.

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

One thing I've learned since joining Fab is that every user of the site has a different opinion as to how it should be used and that's fine by me. I/we carry on using it the way we want to and if other people don't agree with that it's no big problem there's plenty of room for us all

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By *uncpl2015Couple over a year ago

Bridgend Area

Trouble is we are currently replying to everything.. including sending thank you messages for winks and invites.. so clearly arent rude... however that includes us replying to messages like 'free now ?' (one of this mornings little gems) shame the guy cant read a profile first paragraph in big letters would have answered his question..but then all the ones that we say thanks but no thanks.. and they go and on and on.. why ? But please itll be fun.. no thank you happy swinging.. and still they try.. then after all this they get shitty.. the other day the following message from guy after 5! no thank yous he said 'well i dont beg' ffs ..no really .. could have fooled me lol

so should we reply to all messages.. NO i dont think so.. If guys dont have manners to read profile then they dont deserve courtesy of our reply.. even more so when they cant accept no means no...

Its easier to ignore them.. we arent at mo we are replying.. but most dont like our reply..do we care ... no not really.. sort of explains why alot are on this site...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"We don't think anything. They either reply or they don't.

Either way it makes no odds to us. We're on here as a pastime, not to get all wound up over someone at the other end of a 2 dime internet site who doesn't reply to a message.

Sorry but there are bigger and better things in life to get hot under the collar about and this isn't one of them"

Very well put

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

"We don't think anything. They either reply or they don't.

Either way it makes no odds to us. We're on here as a pastime, not to get all wound up over someone at the other end of a 2 dime internet site who doesn't reply to a message.

Sorry but there are bigger and better things in life to get hot under the collar about and this isn't one of them

Very well put

It's true there are other things to get hot under the collar about but if someone has genuine feelings or concerns about something that they want to discuss even if it is on a 2 fine internet site then they are valid and shouldn't be dismissed

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

Argh this damn phone....2 dime

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Oh yes I always accept a 'no thanks' with grace and will wish them luck and thank them for the reply. No need for aggression. "

And that is why I delete instead of replying.

If someone has written saying no thanks why write to them again saying 'thank you for the no thanks'?

Then I would probably be rude for not replying 'thank you for the thank you for the no thanks' !

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think it's really rude when people don't reply to a message where you sen pictures, especially if they have asked for them!

What do you guys think?

Absolutely, and this is is the number one issue I have with the site, when women and cpls simply refuse to respond to messages they have asked to be sent. I am sure the white knight saddos will pop up 'but they get so many messages etc', politeness costs 2 seconds.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Absolutely, and this is is the number one issue I have with the site, when women and cpls simply refuse to respond to messages they have asked to be sent. I am sure the white knight saddos will pop up 'but they get so many messages etc', politeness costs 2 seconds."

As I said we don't get many messages, and we do usually reply.

BUT if it's the first contact then the Pizza analogy fits. Or your reply to their "no thanks" no matter how it's worded then you are not owed a reply simply because you wrote a message.

Send them and forget them then any replies you do get that are not "no thanks" are worth pursuing, the no thanks are just annoying clutter in your inbox and you will be able to post "Why do people send no thanks messages to clutter up my inbox"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Well i alwats reply to everyone who ever messages me -- even the rude and boring ones even if its no thanks -- after all its just polite

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By *rSinfulMan over a year ago

mysteryville

after 3 years i have still never met anyone on here.

most the time messages are deleted or as soon as you message someone they go offline.

or messages are read and not replied too

if i do get a reply its often abusive

or demeaning even though im only nice to people

if your nice your boring if your horny your a weirdo you cant win

if you do get a friend add they never speak to you again

and if you do get an offer its of someone of the opposite sex which im not into

what a knock to your confidence this site is its actually putting me of socialising with anyone at all. sad i had hoped to meet much more liberated people on here maybe im just unlucky.

anyone else find what i have experianced. cheers for reading guys

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think it's really rude when people don't reply to a message where you sen pictures, especially if they have asked for them! What do you guys think?

Jeeeez! The amount times this subject comes up

So I will just say what I always say. I know it will be shouted down, but I KNOW that what I am saying is correct.

Here we go...

"How YOU feel about people not replying to messages at ANY time has NOTHING to do with rudeness, manners, spitefulness or anything else.

It is all about YOUR ability (or lack thereof) to handle..... REJECTION"

None of us likes to be rejected. Whether that is in real life or on a site like this (or anywhere in between). Some of us can take an off-hand attitude towards it. Some of us take it as a personal slight against us.

Whatever the reason why someone cuts off communication, before or after seeing a pic of anyone, THEY felt some form of justification in doing so. THEY do NOT have to justify why. YOU have to be able to handle that they do not wish to talk to you any more, and that YOU have been REJECTED.

Tough. Life's a bitch (.... and then you marry one! Lol!)

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

As I said we don't get many messages, and we do usually reply.

BUT if it's the first contact then the Pizza analogy fits. Or your reply to their "no thanks" no matter how it's worded then you are not owed a reply simply because you wrote a message.

Lol, although from my perspective as a desperate male, even a fuck off is better than being non exisstent haha x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

well ya gotta take it as it is They obviously once seen face pics dont fancy ya. Fact of life innit.xxxx but plenty of others will i suppose.Had it done to me few weeks ago he kept on about wanting to be on friends list so I let him face pics on there never heard from him again and he ignored me in chat Thats life tho no great loss

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"well ya gotta take it as it is They obviously once seen face pics dont fancy ya. Fact of life innit.xxxx but plenty of others will i suppose.Had it done to me few weeks ago he kept on about wanting to be on friends list so I let him face pics on there never heard from him again and he ignored me in chat Thats life tho no great loss"

Ye, fair point, but it doesn't half knock the confidence to be ignored continually. Much harder for men imho

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By *rSinfulMan over a year ago

mysteryville

yea it does knock your confidence i wanna know what it is that obviously repluses people so much so i can change it.

my gf must have bad taste. lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

come on its not that hard on here! Some girls ignore but most reply even if its a polite no. met a few on here its a good site.... mainly use it for winding people up or messing around lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

i often do not reply!!!!

only to single guys as even a polite no thanks you are not my type often leads to another 2 or 3 emails pleading for a meet or asking why not, ect

cruel but this is the sole reason why

but for couples i always reply.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"yea it does knock your confidence i wanna know what it is that obviously repluses people so much so i can change it.

my gf must have bad taste. lol

you are in same boat as me, you are not a male model or a member of one direction, nor are you black. We have no chance on here mate lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"come on its not that hard on here! Some girls ignore but most reply even if its a polite no. met a few on here its a good site.... mainly use it for winding people up or messing around lol"

Sorry I ment mainly use site for forums lol

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By *rSinfulMan over a year ago

mysteryville

yep the dying out species of normal men that may not be a front cover mag model. but is the nice guy thats a good lover but never gets to love anyone cause no one likes a nice person anymore.

im sure if i was an ignorant self righteous bastard with no regard for anyone id be fine lol they do say its all about confidence. hence why sociopaths do so well along with narcisits and psychopaths they seem to always get everything

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I reckon that manners are a personal thing. We all have them to some extent. Whether people decide to use them is another thing. Whilst we ourselves might be courteous and never put a foot wrong in that regard you can never account for the other person and certainly never change the way they do things no matter how much you post on a forum to be honest.

In short - don't let it rent space in ya head

Wolf

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By *kin BohnerMan over a year ago

derby

Oh yes I always accept a 'no thanks' with grace and will wish them luck and thank them for the reply. No need for aggression.

And that is why I delete instead of replying.

If someone has written saying no thanks why write to them again saying 'thank you for the no thanks'?

Then I would probably be rude for not replying 'thank you for the thank you for the no thanks' !"

For me its simply manners to reply to a 'no thank you' and I say thanks for the reply not the content! Of course I would not expect any further messages...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Oh not this again!

People are under no obligation to reply. There's no fabswinger police who'll fine you if you fail to reply to mail.

Common courtesy may be something that occurs in real life but not on the internet. People can basically do what the hell they like. There's no point meithering about it.

Admin can we please have a forum sticky along the lines of "Q-why people don't reply to mail? A-because they don't have to."

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"yep the dying out species of normal men that may not be a front cover mag model. but is the nice guy thats a good lover but never gets to love anyone cause no one likes a nice person anymore.

And to think I have always been told women prefer men who are nice and genuine lol, Bull shit, they like men who are complete arseholes but 'fit', whatever that means nowadays lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Oh not this again!

People are under no obligation to reply. There's no fabswinger police who'll fine you if you fail to reply to mail.

Common courtesy may be something that occurs in real life but not on the internet. People can basically do what the hell they like. There's no point meithering about it.

Admin can we please have a forum sticky along the lines of "Q-why people don't reply to mail? A-because they don't have to.""

What a non point

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

After writing on this forum this morning I send a message of 'No thank you' reply I got back was 'Ur a loser probably a dud anyway' but not so well spent

Back to not replying then

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By *rSinfulMan over a year ago

mysteryville

yep thats about the size of it. i remember me and my ex gf had a great relationship. then she left for someone who was "quot on quote" "a laugh" meaning he was an egotistical knob and she really ripped my heart out.

how i did laugh when a few years later her best mate said she was in tears saying she had done the wrong thing and missed me and she made a mistake. i can never understand what it is that makes nice girls be attracted to bullies and controlfreaks who are that up their own arse they probably turn them selves down for a wank lol. hey ho society at large has become very violent over the the last 10 years and that changes what people seek i guess.

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By *uncpl2015Couple over a year ago

Bridgend Area

"yep the dying out species of normal men that may not be a front cover mag model. but is the nice guy thats a good lover but never gets to love anyone cause no one likes a nice person anymore.

And to think I have always been told women prefer men who are nice and genuine lol, Bull shit, they like men who are complete arseholes but 'fit', whatever that means nowadays lol"

Women like who they like thats it.. it could be looks, sexual pref, situation ie gf be it open or not.. all sorts and there are so many on here for women and couples to select who or what they want.. if guys are not in that bracket its not womens fault.. as for looks well each woman will have her own mind as to what she is attracted to and what she is not.. so maybe your gf has good taste but its likely not to be the same taste as other women.. if it was there would be alot of single woman in the world don't you think..

Attitude also has alot to do with it, that includes profile, messages and forum posts.. people see it all so all could be good and then one post or one message is enough.. We had one guy all looked okay but one message he said something wrong .. he was politely questioned and he repeated it questioned again then said oh only joking.. tough. he wouldn't have said it again if it had only been a joke.. too many here to spend time on people like that... Thats how it goes.. its the same as there are woman on here that the guys won't find attractive or want to play with ... each to their own..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"yep thats about the size of it. i remember me and my ex gf had a great relationship. then she left for someone who was "quot on quote" "a laugh" meaning he was an egotistical knob and she really ripped my heart out.

You see that played out on here, wit the 'sub', 'master', 'slave', thing, which I detest, it's like the 60s and 70s never happened for some women.

My wife left me after a 6 yr affair mate, so better she fucked you off rather than cheated, if that's some consolation.

Society is mega violent. I work as a doorman, and the sheer attack mentality of many men and women nowadays is shocking even to me, and I was a soldier for 6 yrs!

Nice guys finish last perhaps.

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By *rSinfulMan over a year ago

mysteryville

yes your totaly right. im only taking this lightly and i dont really like to generalise. but when all you got to go on is hundreds of single female profiles with "tell you later" and 1 or 0 photos and not much infomation i do wonder if 99 percent of the single female profiles on here are actually men posing and having a wank. me thinks im on to something here. if that is the case the site should be renamed "the desperate and the damned" lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"yes your totaly right. im only taking this lightly and i dont really like to generalise. but when all you got to go on is hundreds of single female profiles with "tell you later" and 1 or 0 photos and not much infomation i do wonder if 99 percent of the single female profiles on here are actually men posing and having a wank. me thinks im on to something here. if that is the case the site should be renamed "the desperate and the damned" lol

The fake and the fucked!

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By *rSinfulMan over a year ago

mysteryville

yep i have been shocked at how much the attitudes of people have changed particularly in the last 5 years. even all my many many friends and family have gone weird. there all on the defensive there all quick to turn anything into an argument. wierd responses to innocent comment "oh so by saying that you mean to say this..." and it goes from there. people dont listen. people make problems out of nothing. only the other day my freind commented on another collegue at work and said "she knows her job and will do the professional thing" this was interpreted as he had said "she was unprofessional" wtf. and people seem unable to communuicate by anything other than facebook and even then they dont reply even your family. so fab is no different really. its just people are all in intimate relationships with there iphone. there will probably be an ivag and iknob soon with a suitable ifuckmyself app that will cure any need for human contact lol

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By *rSinfulMan over a year ago

mysteryville

yes.. lol

probs got a better chance of having a bukkake party in a ufo with real aliens lol fabalien its gonna happen one day.

i tell ya what id go with a vulcan chick anyday

(ill get me coat)

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"yep i have been shocked at how much the attitudes of people have changed particularly in the last 5 years. even all my many many friends and family have gone weird. there all on the defensive there all quick to turn anything into an argument. wierd responses to innocent comment "oh so by saying that you mean to say this..." and it goes from there. people dont listen. people make problems out of nothing. only the other day my freind commented on another collegue at work and said "she knows her job and will do the professional thing" this was interpreted as he had said "she was unprofessional" wtf. and people seem unable to communuicate by anything other than facebook and even then they dont reply even your family. so fab is no different really. its just people are all in intimate relationships with there iphone. there will probably be an ivag and iknob soon with a suitable ifuckmyself app that will cure any need for human contact lol

tbh, that those apps seem long overdue for me mate lol

that's it, expectations too high. People are rude to even family and friends, so why any different on here. Need to join the fab clique

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"yes.. lol

probs got a better chance of having a bukkake party in a ufo with real aliens lol fabalien its gonna happen one day.

i tell ya what id go with a vulcan chick anyday

(ill get me coat)"

what was that one called on Star Trek enterprise, the recent version, she was gorgeous

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Oh not this again!

People are under no obligation to reply. There's no fabswinger police who'll fine you if you fail to reply to mail.

Common courtesy may be something that occurs in real life but not on the internet. People can basically do what the hell they like. There's no point meithering about it.

Admin can we please have a forum sticky along the lines of "Q-why people don't reply to mail? A-because they don't have to."

What a non point"

Actually Its an excellent point. No one HAS to reply to mail. This is the internet. The profiles you see don't even have to be the person you're talking to. Fake profiles abound. Everyone on this site has free will to talk to who they want to talk to and see who they want with no obligation to continue anything past "hello"

Just because you write a wonderful, witty Shakespearean bit of prose to someone does not mean they have to reply. SIMPLE. Its called free will and we

all have it.

If you don't like the junk mail analogy then fine. Here's another.

You write to Justin Bieber (or whoever you fancy) saying "I love your work, all your vids are great and you look really good in your pictures. Fancy getting together for a coffee when you're next in

Barnsley? Let me know either way."

Would you expect a reply then?

You may get one from a faceless minion perhaps saying saying "Mr Bieber does not drink coffee or consume food as he feasts on dead souls"

But unless you were extremely lucky, Justin would ignore you. Because he can.

Thanks for listening.

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By *rSinfulMan over a year ago

mysteryville

jolene blalock yes! every human male female or other would enjoy im sure.

savick in the old 80s films was hot too

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Oh not this again!

People are under no obligation to reply. There's no fabswinger police who'll fine you if you fail to reply to mail.

Common courtesy may be something that occurs in real life but not on the internet. People can basically do what the hell they like. There's no point meithering about it.

Admin can we please have a forum sticky along the lines of "Q-why people don't reply to mail? A-because they don't have to."

What a non point

Just because you write a wonderful, witty Shakespearean bit of prose to someone does not mean they have to reply. SIMPLE. Its called free will and we

all have it.

If you don't like the junk mail analogy then fine. Here's another.

You write to Justin Bieber (or whoever you fancy) saying "I love your work, all your vids are great and you look really good in your pictures. Fancy getting together for a coffee when you're next in

Barnsley? Let me know either way."

Would you expect a reply then?

You may get one from a faceless minion perhaps saying saying "Mr Bieber does not drink coffee or consume food as he feasts on dead souls"

But unless you were extremely lucky, Justin would ignore you. Because he can.

Thanks for listening.

You should engage your brain love before posting.thanks x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think it's really rude when people don't reply to a message where you sen pictures, especially if they have asked for them!

What do you guys think?

If I send a message unprompted and don't get a reply, no biggie

If I have been engaged in chat with someone and then after a pic is sent, they simply ignore then I think that is a bit of a cop out.

I accept that some people are scared of offending or of a backlash, but I do think that if a conversation has been going on, then a 'sorry, but you're not my type' message is the required gesture.

By all means send it and then block, but just not saying anything is a cop out.

Then again - and this is where I contradict myself, a non reply is often all the reply I need.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"jolene blalock yes! every human male female or other would enjoy im sure.

savick in the old 80s films was hot too

I mega fancied the Major in Stargate, the female Major, she was hot, Amanda Tapping I think. This was when my own Major was a very attractive blonde also, and had the cutest posh accent ever lol

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By *rSinfulMan over a year ago

mysteryville

at least people reply here. maybe the forum is a better place to meet people and leave all the wankers to the profiles pages. as i doubt non-genuine people would turn up for lengthly discussions about all manner of crap here. and guess wat im here and talking to a guy again not that i mind i love a chat and will talk to anyone.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"at least people reply here. maybe the forum is a better place to meet people and leave all the wankers to the profiles pages. as i doubt non-genuine people would turn up for lengthly discussions about all manner of crap here. and guess wat im here and talking to a guy again not that i mind i love a chat and will talk to anyone. "

Yeah, even here though there are those who chat, and those who only chat to people they 'know', so it does mirror the profiles in many respects I think.

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By *rSinfulMan over a year ago

mysteryville

i understand your point but the psychological part of your comment interests me that you would see it comparable a popstars international bussiness popularity fame and creds with an ordinary women.

are ordinary women really that high an mighty as people like justin who is only a kid. the "justin bieber" thing is actually a product and his success is a massive team of people working for a bigger company that is actually a bank in the disguise of a musical colaboration. not a dating profile.

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By *uncpl2015Couple over a year ago

Bridgend Area

"I think it's really rude when people don't reply to a message where you sen pictures, especially if they have asked for them!

What do you guys think?

If I send a message unprompted and don't get a reply, no biggie

If I have been engaged in chat with someone and then after a pic is sent, they simply ignore then I think that is a bit of a cop out.

I accept that some people are scared of offending or of a backlash, but I do think that if a conversation has been going on, then a 'sorry, but you're not my type' message is the required gesture.

By all means send it and then block, but just not saying anything is a cop out.

Then again - and this is where I contradict myself, a non reply is often all the reply I need."

Thats fair enough. wouldn't not reply if there had been messages, obviously unless the guy got nasty adn way too pushy but even those usually in a polite way get told NO.. and yes usually block straight away now to avoid all the shit that generally seems to follow most sadly...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You should engage your brain love before posting.thanks x"

Don't get all narky with me because you don't like the plain truth biaaatch!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You should engage your brain love before posting.thanks x

Don't get all narky with me because you don't like the plain truth biaaatch!"

I doubt it's me hiding from the 'truth', 'Jodie' lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You should engage your brain love before posting.thanks x

Don't get all narky with me because you don't like the plain truth biaaatch!

I doubt it's me hiding from the 'truth', 'Jodie' lol"

*sips soda.... Forum looks interesting now... Reclines seats, grabs popcorn*

anyone want a snack?

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By *rSinfulMan over a year ago

mysteryville

its actually my first time posting here. so bloody hell should you be talking to me cause you dont know me.

im a northerner at heart and remember the happy friendly north when the pits were still open it didnt matter if you didnt know anyone you spoke you said good morning and had a chat this is how you get to know people and assume people will be nice.

when i moved down south and would be stood at a bus stop id say morning. hows you. and get a grunt back . or what you talking to me for you dont know me. which seems to be the way the world is now. maybe i should try it myself. i think id be lonely quick. we are born not knowing anyone. imagine when your first teacher says hello if your reply was. why you talking to me you dont know me. how self righteous is this. are people so egotistical that they think we have to wait for them to say. by the way you are know aloud to engage me. maybe we have become so letigious that we need to have written concent. mind you the current uk government is working on a policy to make it that sex is only not rape if you have a written contract betwean 2 people that they agree. that would kill this site off in a day

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"its actually my first time posting here. so bloody hell should you be talking to me cause you dont know me.

I am from Sheffield, friendliest place on earth, miss it a lot

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By *uncpl2015Couple over a year ago

Bridgend Area

You should engage your brain love before posting.thanks x

Don't get all narky with me because you don't like the plain truth biaaatch!

I doubt it's me hiding from the 'truth', 'Jodie' lol

*sips soda.... Forum looks interesting now... Reclines seats, grabs popcorn*

anyone want a snack?"

Yes please we'll watch

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You should engage your brain love before posting.thanks x

Don't get all narky with me because you don't like the plain truth biaaatch!

I doubt it's me hiding from the 'truth', 'Jodie' lol"

Oh dear. It always comes down to me being a bloke in a dress when people can't argue reasonably without destroying their remaining braincell. I'd better leave you be before roid rage sets

in.

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By *rSinfulMan over a year ago

mysteryville

love it lol .

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You should engage your brain love before posting.thanks x

Don't get all narky with me because you don't like the plain truth biaaatch!

I doubt it's me hiding from the 'truth', 'Jodie' lol

*sips soda.... Forum looks interesting now... Reclines seats, grabs popcorn*

anyone want a snack?

Yes please we'll watch

If I had known forums were so fun I'd have saved meets and shags for the clubs.., and come on fab for this alone.., ...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You are on to something... Three years and you have finally found the forums.

As I said we don't really go looking, and our profile Title says "not really seeking anyone" so we don't expect or get many messages, BUT those we do message have mostly been met in clubs or through the forums.

Chat is OK if you can put up with 3000 hello's from 20 people, but the Forums allow you to put a bit of personality out there, some sense of humour, some signs of intellect even (for those that have some, obviously not for us)once you have established that then you may find that messages are better received.

Single guys have it tough, or so we are led to believe seems that most single guys invent at least two single women to write them fake verifications (another thread) which means that the number off genuine single women on here is a negative number of quite extraordinary magnitude,

which is very odd as we have met a few.

Stick around, develop your persona and keep it positive... though you should be careful with that Startrek stuff the 4 on Big Bang theory don't get much action and probably would get a lot less in real life

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By *uncpl2015Couple over a year ago

Bridgend Area

You should engage your brain love before posting.thanks x

Don't get all narky with me because you don't like the plain truth biaaatch!

I doubt it's me hiding from the 'truth', 'Jodie' lol

Oh dear. It always comes down to me being a bloke in a dress when people can't argue reasonably without destroying their remaining braincell. I'd better leave you be before roid rage sets

in. "

You don't look like your hiding Jodie lol, unlike many others

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By *uncpl2015Couple over a year ago

Bridgend Area

You should engage your brain love before posting.thanks x

Don't get all narky with me because you don't like the plain truth biaaatch!

I doubt it's me hiding from the 'truth', 'Jodie' lol

*sips soda.... Forum looks interesting now... Reclines seats, grabs popcorn*

anyone want a snack?

Yes please we'll watch

If I had known forums were so fun I'd have saved meets and shags for the clubs.., and come on fab for this alone.., ...

Its a giggle.. aint it !!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You should engage your brain love before posting.thanks x

Don't get all narky with me because you don't like the plain truth biaaatch!

I doubt it's me hiding from the 'truth', 'Jodie' lol

*sips soda.... Forum looks interesting now... Reclines seats, grabs popcorn*

anyone want a snack?

Yes please we'll watch

CanI have some nachos please and share someone's (can't finish a whole one on my own) x

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By *rSinfulMan over a year ago

mysteryville

i hadent noticed. that dont matter to me. were all humans to me. male female or somewere inbetwean i dont buy this battle of the sexes crap. we got differnt bits but we are not that differnt. its media brainwashing that causes that crap.i have many more women friends than men and there no different to men. if anything the stereotypes are wrong. id say women are much harder than men much more able to turn off emotions like a tap but maybe i men are just the same. im a musician what would i know about emotion lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You should engage your brain love before posting.thanks x

Don't get all narky with me because you don't like the plain truth biaaatch!

I doubt it's me hiding from the 'truth', 'Jodie' lol

Oh dear. It always comes down to me being a bloke in a dress when people can't argue reasonably without destroying their remaining braincell. I'd better leave you be before roid rage sets

in.

You don't look like your hiding Jodie lol, unlike many others

Roid Rage? I am sure you know more about exogenous hormones than I, 'Jodie'.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You should engage your brain love before posting.thanks x

Don't get all narky with me because you don't like the plain truth biaaatch!

I doubt it's me hiding from the 'truth', 'Jodie' lol

*sips soda.... Forum looks interesting now... Reclines seats, grabs popcorn*

hello... I am a 25 year old grad student at bradford uni, charming, intelligent, funny and discreet... Looking for fun and friends around the bradford area and surrounding , came across your profile... not looking to meet right away... hoping we chat for a while and see where it leads ... cheers

anyone want a snack?

Yes please we'll watch

If I had known forums were so fun I'd have saved meets and shags for the clubs.., and come on fab for this alone.., ...

Its a giggle.. aint it !!"

Right riot

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You should engage your brain love before posting.thanks x

Don't get all narky with me because you don't like the plain truth biaaatch!

I doubt it's me hiding from the 'truth', 'Jodie' lol

*sips soda.... Forum looks interesting now... Reclines seats, grabs popcorn*

anyone want a snack?

Yes please we'll watch

CanI have some nachos please and share someone's (can't finish a whole one on my own) x"

Have some of mine babes.... *adjusts the lady's sit*.... Lemme know if I can assist with anything else...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"We don't think anything. They either reply or they don't.

Either way it makes no odds to us. We're on here as a pastime, not to get all wound up over someone at the other end of a 2 dime internet site who doesn't reply to a message.

Sorry but there are bigger and better things in life to get hot under the collar about and this isn't one of them"

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By *nvictusMan over a year ago

Beeston

All my messages are sent on purple dyed vellum with gold illuminated letters and ink made from powdered unicorn horns.... postage paid response is included in the hand delivery by my man, Forbes.

It's one of the perks of Double Platinum membership.

The bitches still don't reply...

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By *rSinfulMan over a year ago

mysteryville

lol i love big bang theory. generally if is considered sad and geeky i love it. its usually more fun. startrek transformers whatever.

but i wouldnt want to be normal only able to do a 9 to 5 job get pissed watch football and only be able to cope with 4 letter words such as fuck,wank,shit,piss,cunt,twat, etc i love the diversity of things this world has to offer and a diverse sex life with real people and not profiles of fakers would be a good addition.

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By *rSinfulMan over a year ago

mysteryville

im originally from lancashire i miss it alot too.

shefield is a great place.

im supprised my comment about this governments new policy idead to make all sex withouth legal consent rape hasnt got anyone talking.

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By *rSinfulMan over a year ago

mysteryville

now thats sarcasm and i like it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Exogenous" Not sure what that means.

Unless it's "Lost rational argument to a man in a frock, brain can't handle afront to my manhood so shall make it personal. With him probably being camper than a row of pink tents he'll go off and cry in the face of my sheer masculinity. All the women will think i'm proper alpha male and shag me and not a bit of an arse at all."

As defined in the New English Dictionary of Big Words for Dummies.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

""Exogenous" Not sure what that means.

As defined in the New English Dictionary of Big Words for Dummies. "

To each their own 'Jodie', I sometimes dress as Frankenstein for Halloween Parties, so I know how you feel x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Oh dear we might need a referee and 3 other officials soon for this 'encounter'.... Where are the ladies sharing my , popcorn and nachos....?

.... Missing all the action and I hate to watch a game alone....

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By *uncpl2015Couple over a year ago

Bridgend Area

"Oh dear we might need a referee and 3 other officials soon for this 'encounter'.... Where are the ladies sharing my , popcorn and nachos....?

.... Missing all the action and I hate to watch a game alone...."

I'm watching as well, just more fun watching at mo than anything else...lol and i'd popped out for more looks like we might need it...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Oh dear we might need a referee and 3 other officials soon for this 'encounter'.... Where are the ladies sharing my , popcorn and nachos....?

.... Missing all the action and I hate to watch a game alone...."

I would take on the role of linesman for this, but can you please define the off side rule in this context

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Oh dear we might need a referee and 3 other officials soon for this 'encounter'.... Where are the ladies sharing my , popcorn and nachos....?

.... Missing all the action and I hate to watch a game alone....

I'm watching as well, just more fun watching at mo than anything else...lol and i'd popped out for more looks like we might need it...

I put my money on the read corner....

... Time to see the bookies for this one... Meanwhile we are sharing with that lady where she go?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Oh and along side the off side, how about hijacked thread rule

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Oh dear we might need a referee and 3 other officials soon for this 'encounter'.... Where are the ladies sharing my , popcorn and nachos....?

.... Missing all the action and I hate to watch a game alone....

I would take on the role of linesman for this, but can you please define the off side rule in this context

Hmmm.... Need to consult the game guide on that one...

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By *uncpl2015Couple over a year ago

Bridgend Area

"Oh and along side the off side, how about hijacked thread rule

pmsl.. i have forgotten what it was about now when it started...

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By *rSinfulMan over a year ago

mysteryville

maybe the topic for this site should be im intorerant get me out of here

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm still here

My money's on Jodie - respect to anyone who's 6'2 and can walk in stilettos - I can't !

Pmsl x

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By *nvictusMan over a year ago

Beeston

Erm...

Weathers a bit bad isn't it?

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By *uncpl2015Couple over a year ago

Bridgend Area

"I'm still here

My money's on Jodie - respect to anyone who's 6'2 and can walk in stilettos - I can't !

Pmsl x"

yep, its an art.. and if all else fails you have ammo..

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By *nvictusMan over a year ago

Beeston

"maybe the topic for this site should be im intorerant get me out of here "

Close the door on the way out. It fecking cold today...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

lol, intolerant of what? a man in a dress gobbing off, I am unfazed

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm still here

My money's on Jodie - respect to anyone who's 6'2 and can walk in stilettos - I can't !

Pmsl x"

Lmao we both bet in the same corner then....

... Well three of us.... How about we stop over at mine for the after party when the games done... I

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"maybe the topic for this site should be im intorerant get me out of here "

No it should be Im in-to-rant get me out of here

Biggest problem with the forums when they get silly and fun especially, I get to the end of the day and haven't written any code

Still the website isn't due until January and the end of the world is only 1 month away so I can get away with it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"maybe the topic for this site should be im intorerant get me out of here

No it should be Im in-to-rant get me out of here

Biggest problem with the forums when they get silly and fun especially, I get to the end of the day and haven't written any code

Still the website isn't due until January and the end of the world is only 1 month away so I can get away with it

ah, opinions you dislike are rants or intolerant, gotcha.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"lol, intolerant of what? a man in a dress gobbing off, I am unfazed"

Err....you?

You didn't like what I said on the subject of replies. Started getting personal when you couldn't think of a decent argument anymore and have resorted to making fun of me because i choose to dress like

a woman. Likening me to Frankenstein, when what I think you mean't was Frankenstein's monster.

Now all this passive aggressive flirting from you may be what does it for the ladies down Bannatynes or the ones willing to trade a blowjob for nightclub entry. But I expect dinner and a movie before we do the nasty babe. Xxx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hahaha we single guys are used to it.... Couples not so much....

Lol I agree it's very hard to get a reply

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By *an_madeMan over a year ago

a town near you !

[Removed by poster at 21/11/12 13:10:23]

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By *an_madeMan over a year ago

a town near you !

"Hahaha we single guys are used to it.... Couples not so much....

spot on .

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"ah, opinions you dislike are rants or intolerant, gotcha."

It surprises me that you are so quick to attack, seeing as you posted on this very thread "the sheer attack mentality of many men and women nowadays is shocking"

Rants are often the best reading, but of course only on Thursdays.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Like all arguments we seem to have digressed and forgotten what the original issue was.... Lets all just kiss and make up and forget it all happened...

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By *xodussxMan over a year ago

sheffield

hello all

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"hello all"

QUICK, HIDE!!!!

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By *xodussxMan over a year ago

sheffield

"hello all

QUICK, HIDE!!!!

"
Lol

I just read all the post and asked what was the original thread

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Something about messages I think... but we have made a new forum convert, and we just replied to a wink, so the whole universe is better for the sake of this thread

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It was about the Israel/Hammas conflict

wasn't it?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Something about messages I think... but we have made a new forum convert, and we just replied to a wink, so the whole universe is better for the sake of this thread

Hey don't I get a 'message' (I promise I'd read and reply... When I get a chance

)... Or a wink?

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By *xodussxMan over a year ago

sheffield

"Something about messages I think... but we have made a new forum convert, and we just replied to a wink, so the whole universe is better for the sake of this thread

Hey don't I get a 'message' (I promise I'd read and reply... When I get a chance

)... Or a wink?

I always reply to my message. i am a good boy. In fact it is easy to reply to 5 messages per week..

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By *nvictusMan over a year ago

Beeston

I'm sensing some hostility on this thread...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Something about messages I think... but we have made a new forum convert, and we just replied to a wink, so the whole universe is better for the sake of this thread

Hey don't I get a 'message' (I promise I'd read and reply... When I get a chance

)... Or a wink?

I always reply to my message. i am a good boy. In fact it is easy to reply to 5 messages per week.."

Lmao... I get more messages than you... Best news this week...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hey don't I get a 'message' (I promise I'd read and reply... When I get a chance

)... Or a wink?

No you are one of those that would leave it unread and undeleted so we would be wondering how long to leave it before sending the nag message

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By *xodussxMan over a year ago

sheffield

"Something about messages I think... but we have made a new forum convert, and we just replied to a wink, so the whole universe is better for the sake of this thread

Hey don't I get a 'message' (I promise I'd read and reply... When I get a chance

)... Or a wink?

I always reply to my message. i am a good boy. In fact it is easy to reply to 5 messages per week..

Lmao... I get more messages than you... Best news this week..."
you see? Told ya i am a good boy. Only bad boys attract here

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By *rSinfulMan over a year ago

mysteryville

i ment it on all sides. lol. but clever turn around. were all different. thats what makes it good. im just the choclate in the box that no one wants.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hey don't I get a 'message' (I promise I'd read and reply... When I get a chance

)... Or a wink?

No you are one of those that would leave it unread and undeleted so we would be wondering how long to leave it before sending the nag message

You are right

... However if it comes with a nice set of pictures I'll gladly make special considerations

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

had 2 messages this week YES TWO

. O when will I have time to reply ?

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By *rSinfulMan over a year ago

mysteryville

indeed or the price of fish cant remember now lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"i ment it on all sides. lol. but clever turn around. were all different. thats what makes it good. im just the choclate in the box that no one wants. "

Oh man you are that toffee that gets left behind, still on the plus side the gold foil wrapping is cool

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Mikey seemed like such a charmer too. Check out his wonderful status post!

He's off to squeeze his masculinity into a gym (surprise surprise)

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By *Ryan-Man over a year ago

In Your Bush

"i ment it on all sides. lol. but clever turn around. were all different. thats what makes it good. im just the choclate in the box that no one wants. "

Ut oh your not that bloody orange fondant thing are you? Best give it up now mate , there is no hope for you

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By *rSinfulMan over a year ago

mysteryville

oh come on now everyone loves a bit of the old toffee penny lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I feel as the second in command of this thread to the OP... I did call dibs + I was the second poster duh! I can safely say we've come to the close of this thread... Thank you for coming... Hope you enjoyed your stay.... If you look to the right and left of the venue you'd see the exits, emergency exits are at the front and back of the venue... Once again thank you for coming... I shall now release the hound dogs *montgomery burns voice*

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Thanks for sharing your snacks x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We are only on 148 replies... hounds are not released until 175

Why haven't you answered our message?

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By *ortheastcoupleukCouple over a year ago

easington were the sun dont shine

"Mikey seemed like such a charmer too. Check out his wonderful status post!

He's off to squeeze his masculinity into a gym (surprise surprise) "
thing is ,what i like in posts like this is when ppl complain debate ect you can sit back and some where down the line you will see there true colours come out

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Must go out to the workshop, got a different sort of work this afternoon... and may actually do some

Welcome to the Forums MrNymph, hope to see you posting in some others too.

see you all later

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Thanks for sharing your snacks x"

Welcome gorgeous... Maybe you might share some white wine with me some other time?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"We are only on 148 replies... hounds are not released until 175

Why haven't you answered our message?

What message?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"What message?

Damn, sent the nag before the message again

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"What message?

Damn, sent the nag before the message again

Lmao.... Hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahah

For a second there I was gonna gloat in exodus's face that i got another message....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago
Forum Mod

Some messages more than deserve a reply

Some don't

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Some messages more than deserve a reply

Some don't

Mine always do....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago
Forum Mod

"Some messages more than deserve a reply

Some don't

Mine always do....

So do mine and ill throw a complete strop if im ignored

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By *xodussxMan over a year ago

sheffield

"Some messages more than deserve a reply

Some don't

Mine always do....

So do mine and ill throw a complete strop if im ignored

"
and you are always polite

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago
Forum Mod

"Some messages more than deserve a reply

Some don't

Mine always do....

So do mine and ill throw a complete strop if im ignored

and you are always polite

Im sweetness and light ..................mostly

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By *uriousBristolCplCouple over a year ago

Bristol

"Hahaha we single guys are used to it.... Couples not so much....

You'd be VERY surprised

Drives us mad when you don't even get a

'Thanks but you're not for us but good luck'

Costs nothing. Speaks volumes

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hahaha we single guys are used to it.... Couples not so much....

You'd be VERY surprised

Drives us mad when you don't even get a

'Thanks but you're not for us but good luck'

Costs nothing. Speaks volumes

Well grown used to it and see it as part of the fun now... I was never really bothered although I asked this one pretty girl why she read and didn't reply and what about my profile she didn't like... She ignored that as well...

... I guess people have a right to,their choices... That being said I'm openly soliciting for messages so I get more tha. Exodusx... People get to texting....

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By *xodussxMan over a year ago

sheffield

"Some messages more than deserve a reply

Some don't

Mine always do....

So do mine and ill throw a complete strop if im ignored

and you are always polite

Im sweetness and light ..................mostly

"
Mostly???? i don't know why i forgot to add you back as friend when i come back here...Think i should send you an add request again

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Some messages more than deserve a reply

Some don't

Mine always do....

So do mine and ill throw a complete strop if im ignored

I usually find that if one or two go ignored, their interest soon kicks in after the 8th or 9th

And if it doesn't, well, let's face it, it's their loss

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago
Forum Mod

"Some messages more than deserve a reply

Some don't

Mine always do....

So do mine and ill throw a complete strop if im ignored

I usually find that if one or two go ignored, their interest soon kicks in after the 8th or 9th

And if it doesn't, well, let's face it, it's their loss

I like your style

then bombard them with your wheres wally pic!

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By *odareyouMan over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

i guess i m in the lucky position that i either have too much time on my hands or enough contacts (messages, winks, fabs, it really does happen...

) that i can reply to the ladies and couples that take the time to visit, .thats my choice,..

You can only control what you do, and how you act, .. how others act is out of your control..

If you send pictures following messages, the other person will decide what further action they ll take, you may have responded that would be your choice, you cant or shouldnt expect them to act as you would..

Whats bet freds odds on Jodie, ill have a £1 ..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Ironically, he didn't answer my last message, just flounced off down the gym swinging easily from branch to branch along the way.

So everyone pay up!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think it's really rude when people don't reply to a message where you sen pictures, especially if they have asked for them!

What do you guys think?

I think its the same as if a stranger stops you in the street and asks for the price of a cuppa. Its a choice if you do or not rather than being polite or rude.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

This thread makes me laugh !

When we put out for a meet on meets and events we usually get up to seventy messages in three hours - so will all be answered ? No way or there would be no time for the meet lol

If when exchanging face pics there is no reply it is simple - not attracted to you - and it's a damn sight more polite than replying with a thanks for the face pic but you ain't for us !

Would far rather have the no response every time , and that's how we do it too

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"This thread makes me laugh !

When we put out for a meet on meets and events we usually get up to seventy messages in three hours - so will all be answered ? No way or there would be no time for the meet lol

If when exchanging face pics there is no reply it is simple - not attracted to you - and it's a damn sight more polite than replying with a thanks for the face pic but you ain't for us !

Would far rather have the no response every time , and that's how we do it too

Really? Everybody isn't for everybody. I'd rather be told. No offence taken, I'm enough people's type that I don't worry about the ones where I amn't. By the way, sorry I wasn't around whilst this thread spontaneously combusted. You're a fiesty lot, I like that

Mrs Storm xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yeah , we get the point as in that you would rather be told - some would , some wouldn't and to be fair it really wouldn't bother us if someone did say not for us !

As you say , there are enough that do lol x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"By the way, sorry I wasn't around whilst this thread spontaneously combusted. You're a fiesty lot, I like that

Mrs Storm xx"

Thanks for the topic, it was a bit of a laugh... and completely stopped me writing some boring code for a shopping cart

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"We don't think anything. They either reply or they don't.

Either way it makes no odds to us. We're on here as a pastime, not to get all wound up over someone at the other end of a 2 dime internet site who doesn't reply to a message.

Sorry but there are bigger and better things in life to get hot under the collar about and this isn't one of them

Very well put

But the OP did say, "What do you guys think"

We've said what we think and so far as we are aware, that is still allowed, unless someone has changed the rules and we are only allowed to post if we agree with the topic ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"after 3 years i have still never met anyone on here.

most the time messages are deleted or as soon as you message someone they go offline.

or messages are read and not replied too

if i do get a reply its often abusive

or demeaning even though im only nice to people

if your nice your boring if your horny your a weirdo you cant win

if you do get a friend add they never speak to you again

and if you do get an offer its of someone of the opposite sex which im not into

what a knock to your confidence this site is its actually putting me of socialising with anyone at all. sad i had hoped to meet much more liberated people on here maybe im just unlucky.

anyone else find what i have experianced. cheers for reading guys"

Yes, I have had this loads of times, especially the friends requests just to see your private photos, followed rapidly by being un-friended.

This chap has just about nailed it though.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"after 3 years i have still never met anyone on here.

most the time messages are deleted or as soon as you message someone they go offline.

or messages are read and not replied too

if i do get a reply its often abusive

or demeaning even though im only nice to people

if your nice your boring if your horny your a weirdo you cant win

if you do get a friend add they never speak to you again

and if you do get an offer its of someone of the opposite sex which im not into

what a knock to your confidence this site is its actually putting me of socialising with anyone at all. sad i had hoped to meet much more liberated people on here maybe im just unlucky.

anyone else find what i have experianced. cheers for reading guys

Yes, I have had this loads of times, especially the friends requests just to see your private photos, followed rapidly by being un-friended.

Spot on. However no longer gets to me. Its all good

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