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Ladies - Lean or Muscley?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Visually the muscle bound physique hasn’t ever been particularly attractive for me so out of those two I’d say “lean” but in reality I’d probably be more drawn to (I hate this term but it seems to be popular these days) the dad bod . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Taking "good personality" as a given, would you rather meet with a lean guy (not skinny, but without a lot of muscle) or a really big, shredded guy?"
Neither, a fit guy for me but team soft belly, with big thighs not attracted to lean or shredded body wise. |
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By *ammo89 OP Man
over a year ago
Aberdeen |
"Taking "good personality" as a given, would you rather meet with a lean guy (not skinny, but without a lot of muscle) or a really big, shredded guy?
Neither, a fit guy for me but team soft belly, with big thighs not attracted to lean or shredded body wise."
A couple of you have unlocked the secret third option  .
Can I ask what it is about the "dad bod" that women like? Speaking for myself, I always look far better when I'm lean compared with when I have a little bit of a soft belly. I hate how I look when I've been like this |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Taking "good personality" as a given, would you rather meet with a lean guy (not skinny, but without a lot of muscle) or a really big, shredded guy?
Neither, a fit guy for me but team soft belly, with big thighs not attracted to lean or shredded body wise.
A couple of you have unlocked the secret third option .
Can I ask what it is about the "dad bod" that women like? Speaking for myself, I always look far better when I'm lean compared with when I have a little bit of a soft belly. I hate how I look when I've been like this"
I would'nt call a fit guy with a soft belly and big thighs a dad bod. More a rugby type body that isnt lean. Not all women are after a guy thats over 6ft with a 6 pack |
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By *ammo89 OP Man
over a year ago
Aberdeen |
"As female bodybuilder muscle gets me horny so love fit strong guy xx "
There are so many shredded guys on here. Can't help but feel disgusting by comparison.
They've put in the work, of course, so they deserve all the attention and success they get   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As female bodybuilder muscle gets me horny so love fit strong guy xx
There are so many shredded guys on here. Can't help but feel disgusting by comparison.
They've put in the work, of course, so they deserve all the attention and success they get "
Sorry I feel this is another feel sorry for you post. Woman have said in here they like dad bods. Search threads and you’ll see the same
The reality is you’re a good looking bloke but you’re constant need to feel sorry for yourself is unappealing.
Now that may be harsh but until you like yourself you cannot expect anyone else to |
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By *ammo89 OP Man
over a year ago
Aberdeen |
"Taking "good personality" as a given, would you rather meet with a lean guy (not skinny, but without a lot of muscle) or a really big, shredded guy?
Neither, a fit guy for me but team soft belly, with big thighs not attracted to lean or shredded body wise.
A couple of you have unlocked the secret third option .
Can I ask what it is about the "dad bod" that women like? Speaking for myself, I always look far better when I'm lean compared with when I have a little bit of a soft belly. I hate how I look when I've been like this
I would'nt call a fit guy with a soft belly and big thighs a dad bod. More a rugby type body that isnt lean. Not all women are after a guy thats over 6ft with a 6 pack"
I'd class the rugby body in the muscley category, even if not totally shredded.
Considering how much of a preference there is for this type, I'm starting to see why no one is interested in me  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Taking "good personality" as a given, would you rather meet with a lean guy (not skinny, but without a lot of muscle) or a really big, shredded guy?
Neither, a fit guy for me but team soft belly, with big thighs not attracted to lean or shredded body wise.
A couple of you have unlocked the secret third option .
Can I ask what it is about the "dad bod" that women like? Speaking for myself, I always look far better when I'm lean compared with when I have a little bit of a soft belly. I hate how I look when I've been like this
I would'nt call a fit guy with a soft belly and big thighs a dad bod. More a rugby type body that isnt lean. Not all women are after a guy thats over 6ft with a 6 pack
I'd class the rugby body in the muscley category, even if not totally shredded.
Considering how much of a preference there is for this type, I'm starting to see why no one is interested in me "
Maybe I'm looking at different rugby players from you, the ones I see do have muscles but arent shredded or lean they do have fat.
I couldnt comment your profiles hidden. |
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I dont like super shredded or very skinny. I guess a bit of definition is ideal, but to be honest as long as a guy cares about his body, it's the combination of personality and facial features that really win me over. |
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By *ammo89 OP Man
over a year ago
Aberdeen |
"Taking "good personality" as a given, would you rather meet with a lean guy (not skinny, but without a lot of muscle) or a really big, shredded guy?
Neither, a fit guy for me but team soft belly, with big thighs not attracted to lean or shredded body wise.
A couple of you have unlocked the secret third option .
Can I ask what it is about the "dad bod" that women like? Speaking for myself, I always look far better when I'm lean compared with when I have a little bit of a soft belly. I hate how I look when I've been like this
I would'nt call a fit guy with a soft belly and big thighs a dad bod. More a rugby type body that isnt lean. Not all women are after a guy thats over 6ft with a 6 pack
I'd class the rugby body in the muscley category, even if not totally shredded.
Considering how much of a preference there is for this type, I'm starting to see why no one is interested in me
Maybe I'm looking at different rugby players from you, the ones I see do have muscles but arent shredded or lean they do have fat.
I couldnt comment your profiles hidden. "
They have really big, broad frames, though
I've unbidden my profile, but you're not missing much, honestly |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Taking "good personality" as a given, would you rather meet with a lean guy (not skinny, but without a lot of muscle) or a really big, shredded guy?
Neither, a fit guy for me but team soft belly, with big thighs not attracted to lean or shredded body wise.
A couple of you have unlocked the secret third option .
Can I ask what it is about the "dad bod" that women like? Speaking for myself, I always look far better when I'm lean compared with when I have a little bit of a soft belly. I hate how I look when I've been like this
I would'nt call a fit guy with a soft belly and big thighs a dad bod. More a rugby type body that isnt lean. Not all women are after a guy thats over 6ft with a 6 pack
I'd class the rugby body in the muscley category, even if not totally shredded.
Considering how much of a preference there is for this type, I'm starting to see why no one is interested in me
Maybe I'm looking at different rugby players from you, the ones I see do have muscles but arent shredded or lean they do have fat.
I couldnt comment your profiles hidden.
They have really big, broad frames, though
I've unbidden my profile, but you're not missing much, honestly "
Intead of totally taking over your thread, I've messaged you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As female bodybuilder muscle gets me horny so love fit strong guy xx
There are so many shredded guys on here. Can't help but feel disgusting by comparison.
They've put in the work, of course, so they deserve all the attention and success they get
Sorry I feel this is another feel sorry for you post. Woman have said in here they like dad bods. Search threads and you’ll see the same
The reality is you’re a good looking bloke but you’re constant need to feel sorry for yourself is unappealing.
Now that may be harsh but until you like yourself you cannot expect anyone else to "
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By *ase4122Man
over a year ago
Lancashire |
"Visually the muscle bound physique hasn’t ever been particularly attractive for me so out of those two I’d say “lean” but in reality I’d probably be more drawn to (I hate this term but it seems to be popular these days) the dad bod ."
You can even say fat if you want lol |
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"Taking "good personality" as a given, would you rather meet with a lean guy (not skinny, but without a lot of muscle) or a really big, shredded guy?
Neither, a fit guy for me but team soft belly, with big thighs not attracted to lean or shredded body wise.
A couple of you have unlocked the secret third option .
Can I ask what it is about the "dad bod" that women like? Speaking for myself, I always look far better when I'm lean compared with when I have a little bit of a soft belly. I hate how I look when I've been like this
I would'nt call a fit guy with a soft belly and big thighs a dad bod. More a rugby type body that isnt lean. Not all women are after a guy thats over 6ft with a 6 pack
I'd class the rugby body in the muscley category, even if not totally shredded.
Considering how much of a preference there is for this type, I'm starting to see why no one is interested in me "
For all of your constant feeling inadequate posts on here, you don't do too badly on fab, 3 meets in a month with different couples? |
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By *ammo89 OP Man
over a year ago
Aberdeen |
"Always baffles me how there isn’t a “body type” filter on fab!"
It's probably a good thing that there isn't one (from my point of view). Guys like yourself would be the most desired, and I'd never get a look in .
But I guess you can always hope, as it would benefit you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Taking "good personality" as a given, would you rather meet with a lean guy (not skinny, but without a lot of muscle) or a really big, shredded guy?"
I have to have the whole package to form a relationship, but I had to choose then dad bods are definitely more my thing
Chesty |
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By *ase4122Man
over a year ago
Lancashire |
"Taking "good personality" as a given, would you rather meet with a lean guy (not skinny, but without a lot of muscle) or a really big, shredded guy?
I have to have the whole package to form a relationship, but I had to choose then dad bods are definitely more my thing
Chesty"
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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago
Northampton |
"Always baffles me how there isn’t a “body type” filter on fab!"
People lie to get around filters already... What would you class as curvy or fabulous? I put large for my body type, for some seeking large I might not be big enough n all the rest of the guff that stops this filter appearing |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Always baffles me how there isn’t a “body type” filter on fab!
People lie to get around filters already... What would you class as curvy or fabulous? I put large for my body type, for some seeking large I might not be big enough n all the rest of the guff that stops this filter appearing "
Yeah I’m not saying an added filter as an alternative to photos, more just as an adjunct to the search criterion. |
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By *ohn KanakaMan
over a year ago
Not all that North of North London |
"Always baffles me how there isn’t a “body type” filter on fab!
It's probably a good thing that there isn't one (from my point of view). Guys like yourself would be the most desired, and I'd never get a look in .
But I guess you can always hope, as it would benefit you "
Honestly I've said this before and the idea all women want a muscle man with a 6 pack is flawed.
I'm lean and I'm defined,I'm not in bad shape for a 50 year old but my physique will never turn heads in the gym nor in a club and ot doesn't cause me problems with meets. |
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By *.D.I.D.A.SMan
over a year ago
London/Essex... ish... Romford to be exact |
According to a YouTube series targeted at the younger end of the market, females tend to prefer an athletic look. Nothing too intimidating like a shredded six pack and bulging biceps. The scrawny, lean look was the least desired. Bodybuilder types didn't fare much better. Dad bods were preferred for some but still lagged way behind the athletic type. But I look around and I see some very pretty girls and the guys they're with don't seem to be gym types at all so I think in reality, women aren't putting too much focus on physiques. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Taking "good personality" as a given, would you rather meet with a lean guy (not skinny, but without a lot of muscle) or a really big, shredded guy?"
What is your build? Your build is hot. |
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