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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I see many forum posts asking about “fab straight” for men but I’m going to say there’s as many couples and woman on here who are “curious” or “straight”
I’ve had couples and singles message me and when I point out their profile says they are straight they say it’s a mistake!
Personally I won’t meet curious people. As is their right someone decided once after we started playing it wasn’t for them. And I understand that but it’s still not the best feeling.
So why are men or woman or couples so concerned, or hiding, their bi side? |
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I think some people will say anything to get a "meet" I'm loosing faith in this site myself. I always read the bio, and when I message with what seems a nice reply, it just gets deleted, no reply at all. Some strange people on here x |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
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I'm straight and I have quite a few couples and a small few women message me on here wanting me to meet them. Couples especially wanting me to play with the woman and put on a show for the man .When I point out I'm straight it's like they don't believe me and they expect me to prove I am as they can't believe I'm not bi or at least bi curious.It actually annoys the hell out of me,as I don't believe anyone should have to prove their sexuality on here to complete and utter cockwombles who obviously ignore people's preferences and bios to suit their agenda.
So I understand how annoying it must be for you as well op. |
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I have myself as bi curious, if I had to label myself it would be het exible but there isn't an option for that, I love a woman's body and enjoy playing with a woman however I'd never be in a relationship with a woman it's not for me, it's purely sexual, so I'm not bisexual although that maybe a better fit now I've explored my curiosity further.
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It's a funny one on here. Women are more likely to call themselves bi as it's almost expected of them. Like you're the odd one out if you're not a bi woman. Even if you're not all that into women.
Men are more likely to list themselves as straight as there's a real prejudice against bi men. Not just from a meeting perspective. There are plenty of single bi fem profiles who won't meet single bi men for 1-1 sex, only straight men. |
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Fab and scene had been a complete eye opener to me. I didn't realise how many men to some extent are at least bi playful or orally bi. Which has lead to many instances of politely saying no thanks to guys. A lot of these times have been when with My Girl and another couple.
I think it's sad that especially in the male world it's still so taboo. As women in the scene are often assumed bi until stated/proven otherwise. The world is more comfortable with the image of woman on woman than man on man. Men don't feel comfortable with their sexuality and neither does male society for all the progress we've made. I suppose due to all the profiles that say no bi men many men and couples fear being openly bi will limit dramatically their opportunities.
Also I think a lot of men who do play with men in the heat of the action don't consider themselves bi as such. More this is just a factor of being in the heat of the moment rather than a desire for men.
I don't think things will change until the everyday world is more accepting of the broader spectrum of male sexuality. Which I get is mainly men doing themselves over but female attitudes also affect this.
Personally now I generally assume every guy is potentially bi- curious (to use a blanked term for many variations). So I'm not surprised in the slightest if a guy want touch me and very normal now for me to politely say no without any offence or shock. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It is frustrating, from another angle.
I'm straight, no interest in the same gender at all.
We have received many messages suggesting bi activity because so many here are not open about their sexuality and they assume this could be the case with me.
It's a conversation I'd rather not have (so often), no matter how I state I'm straight, I always worry they'll feel offended.
I care not for their sexuality, but do care for my own enjoyment. |
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I do think hetro flexible should be added to the list of options or even used instead of bi curious.
I my mind being bi means you have an attraction to the same sex. I haven't anyattraction to men but in a threesome or group play I enjoy mutual cock play as part of the overall fun.
I do wish I was bi as I get 5 or 6 invites from men every week which I have to turn down.
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"I think some people will say anything to get a "meet" I'm loosing faith in this site myself. I always read the bio, and when I message with what seems a nice reply, it just gets deleted, no reply at all. Some strange people on here x"
You have nothing on your profile that would entice anyone to meet with you. Probably why you’re having a lower success rate than what you envisioned |
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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago
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I have had similar to justBo,
I'm straight ,no interest in other women sexually at all ,but still used to get couples trying to get me to join them or men with big fbs wanting me to be a 3rd.
It is as if people don't think a woman can be straight on here.
On my couple profile ,if a bi fem couple messaged we used to point out I'm straight so they'd need to be ok with that.They'd claim they were ,then bring up girly play later on and we'd end up blocking them.
I know it's made harder because people do lie on here an awful lot.
My other half is orally bi with the right people and we are open about it,if it loses us meets so be it . |
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I've made no secret of the fact that I'm straight and have no interest or thoughts to the contrary.
I don't get messages or offers from other men but I have been told by a few couples that they know I don't really believe what I've written in my profile and that I won't get anywhere on fab because I'm too old and too straight and men don't have options here but if I agree to play bi they will put me on their to-do list. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Many women put bi when they're straight because many men want to watch 2 women fuck.
Many men put straight when they're bi because many women don't want to watch 2 men fuck. |
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Hannah had herself listed as bi-curious when we first joined. She had had sex with one woman prior to that, on two separate occasions, but wasn't certain that there would be other women she would be sufficiently attracted to. She thought that lady might have been a one-off.
It wasn't until a lady joined us and we had a threesome that Hannah felt confident that she is bisexual. We changed our profile at that point. It was definitely a milestone on our journey. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think some people will say anything to get a "meet" I'm loosing faith in this site myself. I always read the bio, and when I message with what seems a nice reply, it just gets deleted, no reply at all. Some strange people on here x"
We always check out a profile before even reading the message, in your case you'd be out of luck as your one picture is of an eye and your profile text says nothing about you. We would delete the message too  |
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