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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thought I would start a thread for anyone I’m not just singling out males even though that’s who I’m eventually be looking for who genuinely likes a BBW.
I’m finding it so hard to find someone who is accepting of my weight as I’m having to get used to my new body shape so it’s awful when someone calls you ‘fat’ or a ‘salad dodger’ when your already hating the way you look!
It would help if they also read your profile as it says it on there so that they aren’t ‘disappointed’ when they meet you.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm a size 16 and never had more compliments in my life. Tbh this site has given me an amazing confidence boost. "
It’s mainly the males on here who have been disappointed and have called me horrible names.
I do get compliments though so that’s nice |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm a size 16 and never had more compliments in my life. Tbh this site has given me an amazing confidence boost. "
Just looking at your profile your body looks amazing I honestly wasn’t perving just giving a compliment- what’s hard for me is that my weight doesn’t distribute evenly so I look like I’m pregnant as mine goes straight to my tummy area |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Bbw is what it says on the tin! If anyone is rude it’s because they can’t handle us. Embrace is cause your gorgeous xx"
Agree completely with this, you be you, we're sexy the way we are xx |
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"Bbw is what it says on the tin! If anyone is rude it’s because they can’t handle us. Embrace is cause your gorgeous xx
Agree completely with this, you be you, we're sexy the way we are xx"
Absolutely!!!xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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For me it’s because my weight doesn’t distribute evenly so it’s so hard finding clothes that fit my shape and damn annoying because everything makes me look pregnant because all my weight gain goes straight to the bloody tummy |
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"For me it’s because my weight doesn’t distribute evenly so it’s so hard finding clothes that fit my shape and damn annoying because everything makes me look pregnant because all my weight gain goes straight to the bloody tummy "
Wrap dresses for normal wear and baby dolls for sexy time. Be you. Big is beautiful darling xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"For me it’s because my weight doesn’t distribute evenly so it’s so hard finding clothes that fit my shape and damn annoying because everything makes me look pregnant because all my weight gain goes straight to the bloody tummy
Wrap dresses for normal wear and baby dolls for sexy time. Be you. Big is beautiful darling xx"
Thank you for being so kind I’m just trying to embrace my new body because I’ve had an eating disorder for many years and I’m determined to not let it beat me again!
I didn’t think about baby dolls may try that |
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"Bbw is what it says on the tin! If anyone is rude it’s because they can’t handle us. Embrace is cause your gorgeous xx"
Amen to this - couldn't have said it better myself. Ignore the haters, they're just jealous! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm a size 16 and never had more compliments in my life. Tbh this site has given me an amazing confidence boost. "
wow now thats a real body all the curves in all the right places. Absolutely stunning x |
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"Bbw is what it says on the tin! If anyone is rude it’s because they can’t handle us. Embrace is cause your gorgeous xx
Amen to this - couldn't have said it better myself. Ignore the haters, they're just jealous!"
Amen indeed xx |
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"For me it’s because my weight doesn’t distribute evenly so it’s so hard finding clothes that fit my shape and damn annoying because everything makes me look pregnant because all my weight gain goes straight to the bloody tummy
Wrap dresses for normal wear and baby dolls for sexy time. Be you. Big is beautiful darling xx
Thank you for being so kind I’m just trying to embrace my new body because I’ve had an eating disorder for many years and I’m determined to not let it beat me again!
I didn’t think about baby dolls may try that "
You can’t be everyone’s cup of tea but for the ones that you are for it’s like taking the tea right from the stove. Just remember that! We are all here for that lift when you need it too xx |
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By *ri4cplMan
over a year ago
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"what’s hard for me is that my weight doesn’t distribute evenly so I look like I’m pregnant as mine goes straight to my tummy area "
Lots of us men enjoy a curvy lady, you have a lovely sexy body from what I can see. Please don't let those who like to troll get to you x |
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I love Leonie being a bbw and curvy and going by amout of messages and offers of meets so do lots of guys and girls.
Yep odd one or two aren't, but there problem not yours. BBW and curvy girls, beautiful as are all ladies, love them and gold bless the female form  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"For me it’s because my weight doesn’t distribute evenly so it’s so hard finding clothes that fit my shape and damn annoying because everything makes me look pregnant because all my weight gain goes straight to the bloody tummy
Wrap dresses for normal wear and baby dolls for sexy time. Be you. Big is beautiful darling xx
Thank you for being so kind I’m just trying to embrace my new body because I’ve had an eating disorder for many years and I’m determined to not let it beat me again!
I didn’t think about baby dolls may try that
You can’t be everyone’s cup of tea but for the ones that you are for it’s like taking the tea right from the stove. Just remember that! We are all here for that lift when you need it too xx"
I’m quite choosy which doesn’t help and I’ve got to be attracted ro someone so I find it harder to find that person.
I had insults when i was thin I was constantly told I was too skinny and needed more meat on me haha can’t win sometimes |
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"For me it’s because my weight doesn’t distribute evenly so it’s so hard finding clothes that fit my shape and damn annoying because everything makes me look pregnant because all my weight gain goes straight to the bloody tummy
Wrap dresses for normal wear and baby dolls for sexy time. Be you. Big is beautiful darling xx
Thank you for being so kind I’m just trying to embrace my new body because I’ve had an eating disorder for many years and I’m determined to not let it beat me again!
I didn’t think about baby dolls may try that
You can’t be everyone’s cup of tea but for the ones that you are for it’s like taking the tea right from the stove. Just remember that! We are all here for that lift when you need it too xx
I’m quite choosy which doesn’t help and I’ve got to be attracted ro someone so I find it harder to find that person.
I had insults when i was thin I was constantly told I was too skinny and needed more meat on me haha can’t win sometimes "
Like I said we can’t be everyone’s cup of tea! Embrace it xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"what’s hard for me is that my weight doesn’t distribute evenly so I look like I’m pregnant as mine goes straight to my tummy area
Lots of us men enjoy a curvy lady, you have a lovely sexy body from what I can see. Please don't let those who like to troll get to you x"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Can I just saw your body looks beautiful x
I would second the wrap dress suggestion and baby doll of it makes you feel more comfortable wearing it
I have a tummy but I'm quiet happy to stick on a leather skirt and roll with it. I might not have been one time but I'm learning to love myself
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OP, don't let the haters get you down. So many guys and girls appreciate and actually love a fuller figure, myself included  Anyone can drive on a straight track. It takes a real expert and a connoisseur to handle exquisite curves which you and so many others have  xx |
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"OP, don't let the haters get you down. So many guys and girls appreciate and actually love a fuller figure, myself included Anyone can drive on a straight track. It takes a real expert and a connoisseur to handle exquisite curves which you and so many others have xx"
Yes yes yes!!!!! So true |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Can I just saw your body looks beautiful x
I would second the wrap dress suggestion and baby doll of it makes you feel more comfortable wearing it
I have a tummy but I'm quiet happy to stick on a leather skirt and roll with it. I might not have been one time but I'm learning to love myself
Mrs x"
Thank you! I’m slowly learning to love my body but it isn’t easy and when I keep getting rejection it can be hard! That’s why I’ve updated my profile now so hopefully it won’t happen again!
Your body is fab you look amazing in your pictures x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Im a 16/18 and im not comfortable with my middle. I like wearing basques from love honey. They fit well too! Which is saying something as they have to get my dd/e boobs in.
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I don’t like my middle either but least I can suck in when laying down 
I used to love to wear corsets when I was younger they fit like a dream now I’m wearing one of those things around your middle that are aimed at helping to suck you in and loose weight |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Can I just saw your body looks beautiful x
I would second the wrap dress suggestion and baby doll of it makes you feel more comfortable wearing it
I have a tummy but I'm quiet happy to stick on a leather skirt and roll with it. I might not have been one time but I'm learning to love myself
Mrs x
Thank you! I’m slowly learning to love my body but it isn’t easy and when I keep getting rejection it can be hard! That’s why I’ve updated my profile now so hopefully it won’t happen again!
Your body is fab you look amazing in your pictures x"
It will come to you in time. I still get very self conscious at times
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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago
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Hi op
You look good in your pics and you've mad it clear your size ,just ignore anyone who is nasty,there's no need.
I'm big at size 18 and fine like anything else some like it and others don't.
Be you and have fun x |
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"For me it’s because my weight doesn’t distribute evenly so it’s so hard finding clothes that fit my shape and damn annoying because everything makes me look pregnant because all my weight gain goes straight to the bloody tummy
Wrap dresses for normal wear and baby dolls for sexy time. Be you. Big is beautiful darling xx
Thank you for being so kind I’m just trying to embrace my new body because I’ve had an eating disorder for many years and I’m determined to not let it beat me again!
I didn’t think about baby dolls may try that "
Babydolls are my go to lingerie choice. Make me feel that confident I've been known to open the door for a meet in one.
And OP there are some absolute tools on here, I had one message me this morning and it does knock confidence, however there are also a fantastic amount of people who love our curves. And a wonderful amount of fabulous women who will support you. Good luck in feeling as amazing as you look. X x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Hi op
You look good in your pics and you've mad it clear your size ,just ignore anyone who is nasty,there's no need.
I'm big at size 18 and fine like anything else some like it and others don't.
Be you and have fun x"
Thank you thought I’d make my size clear so then there is no confusion and if someone doesn’t like it then that’s also there choice! I know in time I can loose the weight again but they wouldn’t get a second chance with me |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"For me it’s because my weight doesn’t distribute evenly so it’s so hard finding clothes that fit my shape and damn annoying because everything makes me look pregnant because all my weight gain goes straight to the bloody tummy
Wrap dresses for normal wear and baby dolls for sexy time. Be you. Big is beautiful darling xx
Thank you for being so kind I’m just trying to embrace my new body because I’ve had an eating disorder for many years and I’m determined to not let it beat me again!
I didn’t think about baby dolls may try that
Babydolls are my go to lingerie choice. Make me feel that confident I've been known to open the door for a meet in one.
And OP there are some absolute tools on here, I had one message me this morning and it does knock confidence, however there are also a fantastic amount of people who love our curves. And a wonderful amount of fabulous women who will support you. Good luck in feeling as amazing as you look. X x "
It’s awful when you get the twats on here! Since using the forum it’s made me see that there are some decent people out there and made me realise how I need to be more selective! |
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"For me it’s because my weight doesn’t distribute evenly so it’s so hard finding clothes that fit my shape and damn annoying because everything makes me look pregnant because all my weight gain goes straight to the bloody tummy
Wrap dresses for normal wear and baby dolls for sexy time. Be you. Big is beautiful darling xx
Thank you for being so kind I’m just trying to embrace my new body because I’ve had an eating disorder for many years and I’m determined to not let it beat me again!
I didn’t think about baby dolls may try that
Babydolls are my go to lingerie choice. Make me feel that confident I've been known to open the door for a meet in one.
And OP there are some absolute tools on here, I had one message me this morning and it does knock confidence, however there are also a fantastic amount of people who love our curves. And a wonderful amount of fabulous women who will support you. Good luck in feeling as amazing as you look. X x "
So sexy! Love it xx |
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By *ase4122Man
over a year ago
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"Thought I would start a thread for anyone I’m not just singling out males even though that’s who I’m eventually be looking for who genuinely likes a BBW.
I’m finding it so hard to find someone who is accepting of my weight as I’m having to get used to my new body shape so it’s awful when someone calls you ‘fat’ or a ‘salad dodger’ when your already hating the way you look!
It would help if they also read your profile as it says it on there so that they aren’t ‘disappointed’ when they meet you.
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Good evening blue, I'm a genuine lover of curvaceous women and it makes me cringe when I hear people refer to people as fat like they are so perfect themselves I'm not exactly a stick insect myself but believe we are what we are and should embrace it.
If you fancy a natter do drop by my inbox.
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A lot of man straggling with the same issue , you are not alone there are plenty of people in both sides who understand you.
Just ignore negative people's mean comments , you wouldn't wanna sleep with them anyway.
If they don't except, respect you the way you are they would treat you poorly in any situation.
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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago
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"Hi op
You look good in your pics and you've mad it clear your size ,just ignore anyone who is nasty,there's no need.
I'm big at size 18 and fine like anything else some like it and others don't.
Be you and have fun x
Thank you thought I’d make my size clear so then there is no confusion and if someone doesn’t like it then that’s also there choice! I know in time I can loose the weight again but they wouldn’t get a second chance with me "
I totally get that,
There's a man near me who has on his profile no big women not attracted to them,he messaged me wanting to see if we could chat further .just why?I've also made it clear im a big woman on my profile,so I deleted and blocked him. |
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Boggle here, have to say but find bbw curvy girls so much more sexier in bed and seem to enjoy themselves more than much thinner ladies. They seem to let themselves go and allow themselves to enjoy their fun x |
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IMO, nearly all the ladies i've viewed on this thread have curvy figures not what i would class as bbw at all, there's too much pressure on women these days, give me a pretty curvaceous woman all day long, shoulders back, boobs out and be confident with what you were blessed with, sorry if this offends anyone but i just love curves on curves xx |
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over a year ago
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"For me it’s because my weight doesn’t distribute evenly so it’s so hard finding clothes that fit my shape and damn annoying because everything makes me look pregnant because all my weight gain goes straight to the bloody tummy
Wrap dresses for normal wear and baby dolls for sexy time. Be you. Big is beautiful darling xx
Thank you for being so kind I’m just trying to embrace my new body because I’ve had an eating disorder for many years and I’m determined to not let it beat me again!
I didn’t think about baby dolls may try that
You can’t be everyone’s cup of tea but for the ones that you are for it’s like taking the tea right from the stove. Just remember that! We are all here for that lift when you need it too xx
I’m quite choosy which doesn’t help and I’ve got to be attracted ro someone so I find it harder to find that person.
I had insults when i was thin I was constantly told I was too skinny and needed more meat on me haha can’t win sometimes "
This is very true. Some people will be mean no matter what shape you are. I’m constantly told I’m not a real woman. |
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"Thought I would start a thread for anyone I’m not just singling out males even though that’s who I’m eventually be looking for who genuinely likes a BBW.
I’m finding it so hard to find someone who is accepting of my weight as I’m having to get used to my new body shape so it’s awful when someone calls you ‘fat’ or a ‘salad dodger’ when your already hating the way you look!
It would help if they also read your profile as it says it on there so that they aren’t ‘disappointed’ when they meet you.
As plus size woman ive only had a few id@ts im honest about my size and im finally ok with me i make sure they read my profile and the last idi@t was awful because i wouldnt meet he said my t@ts were down to my knees and i said not quite but its never bothered anyone else i also mentioned small m@n syndrome and he soon stopped its baby steps and why i chat for a while first to build a connection be kind to you
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"A lot of man straggling with the same issue , you are not alone there are plenty of people in both sides who understand you.
Just ignore negative people's mean comments , you wouldn't wanna sleep with them anyway.
If they don't except, respect you the way you are they would treat you poorly in any situation.
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Yes to this  Love to see all the support on here  |
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"I'm a size 16 and never had more compliments in my life. Tbh this site has given me an amazing confidence boost.
Just looking at your profile your body looks amazing I honestly wasn’t perving just giving a compliment- what’s hard for me is that my weight doesn’t distribute evenly so I look like I’m pregnant as mine goes straight to my tummy area "
I've looked at yours and you are bloody gorgeous. Sod everyone else. If someone is being mean then they don't deserve your time. Speak to someone else. Plenty of respectful people on here xx |
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"For me it’s because my weight doesn’t distribute evenly so it’s so hard finding clothes that fit my shape and damn annoying because everything makes me look pregnant because all my weight gain goes straight to the bloody tummy
Wrap dresses for normal wear and baby dolls for sexy time. Be you. Big is beautiful darling xx
Thank you for being so kind I’m just trying to embrace my new body because I’ve had an eating disorder for many years and I’m determined to not let it beat me again!
I didn’t think about baby dolls may try that
Babydolls are my go to lingerie choice. Make me feel that confident I've been known to open the door for a meet in one.
And OP there are some absolute tools on here, I had one message me this morning and it does knock confidence, however there are also a fantastic amount of people who love our curves. And a wonderful amount of fabulous women who will support you. Good luck in feeling as amazing as you look. X x
It’s awful when you get the twats on here! Since using the forum it’s made me see that there are some decent people out there and made me realise how I need to be more selective!"
Ignore those particular men ... I think u look great x |
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Queen you are beautiful!! Since I've been here the amount of guys that love my figure and I'm not a stick insect!. You will find the right guy that will adore your body!, the losers calling you names are nobodies and you don't want to play with clowns like that!!!! |
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By *ase4122Man
over a year ago
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"Queen you are beautiful!! Since I've been here the amount of guys that love my figure and I'm not a stick insect!. You will find the right guy that will adore your body!, the losers calling you names are nobodies and you don't want to play with clowns like that!!!!"
I like |
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By *IG G77Man
over a year ago
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"Thought I would start a thread for anyone I’m not just singling out males even though that’s who I’m eventually be looking for who genuinely likes a BBW.
I’m finding it so hard to find someone who is accepting of my weight as I’m having to get used to my new body shape so it’s awful when someone calls you ‘fat’ or a ‘salad dodger’ when your already hating the way you look!
It would help if they also read your profile as it says it on there so that they aren’t ‘disappointed’ when they meet you.
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You look incredible and dont let anyone tell you different it would be a pleasure to get to know you better if you need a friend I'm here x |
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"Thought I would start a thread for anyone I’m not just singling out males even though that’s who I’m eventually be looking for who genuinely likes a BBW.
I’m finding it so hard to find someone who is accepting of my weight as I’m having to get used to my new body shape so it’s awful when someone calls you ‘fat’ or a ‘salad dodger’ when your already hating the way you look!
It would help if they also read your profile as it says it on there so that they aren’t ‘disappointed’ when they meet you.
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I used to HATE my body. I was told I was fat and because I'm so fat I'm also ugly. But now I've learnt to love my fuller figure and dont give a f**k what anyone thinks. I'm too busy living my best life to care what anyone thinks. Don't like what you see look elsewhere. You are stunning. I hope you can get back to a place where you feel comfortable in your body and learn to love yourself again xx |
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Second the baby doll & wrap dress suggestions. Curvy size 20 apple shape bbw here. Also if you are able to venture to any of the clubs would highly recommend attending some of the BBW/curvy girl events. It is a massive ego boost & will really help increase your sexual confidence. I too was surprised by how many men absolutely adore a woman with curves! So wear them with pride & totally forget about the haters. Obviously didn’t listen to their mum’s saying if you don’t have anything nice to say, don’t say it at all! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I hope you can learn to love your body, no matter what shape it takes. And go after what you truly desire!
Ignore the haters, and just try to enjoy your life to the max!
~x~"
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"Thought I would start a thread for anyone I’m not just singling out males even though that’s who I’m eventually be looking for who genuinely likes a BBW.
I’m finding it so hard to find someone who is accepting of my weight as I’m having to get used to my new body shape so it’s awful when someone calls you ‘fat’ or a ‘salad dodger’ when your already hating the way you look!
It would help if they also read your profile as it says it on there so that they aren’t ‘disappointed’ when they meet you.
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people who would say that to anyone are not worth a second worrying about. You are beautiful the way you are and don't ever let anyone put you down. |
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I’d say that if a guy is rejecting you coz of your weight then they aren’t worth your time in the first place.
I’m a size 18 and most of my weight is round my middle so can be abit self conscious myself at times.
Pay no attention to guys like that though.
I often find as well that guys only mention my weight when I’ve knocked them back lol |
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"I’d say that if a guy is rejecting you coz of your weight then they aren’t worth your time in the first place.
I’m a size 18 and most of my weight is round my middle so can be abit self conscious myself at times.
Pay no attention to guys like that though.
I often find as well that guys only mention my weight when I’ve knocked them back lol"
Your very attractive and vet wise also |
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By *ase4122Man
over a year ago
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"I’d say that if a guy is rejecting you coz of your weight then they aren’t worth your time in the first place.
I’m a size 18 and most of my weight is round my middle so can be abit self conscious myself at times.
Pay no attention to guys like that though.
I often find as well that guys only mention my weight when I’ve knocked them back lol"
Exactly, why do they contact you in the first place only to give out abuse after a bruised ego |
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"I’d say that if a guy is rejecting you coz of your weight then they aren’t worth your time in the first place.
I’m a size 18 and most of my weight is round my middle so can be abit self conscious myself at times.
Pay no attention to guys like that though.
I often find as well that guys only mention my weight when I’ve knocked them back lol
Exactly, why do they contact you in the first place only to give out abuse after a bruised ego"
Yeh and that’s a main reason why if I’m not interested in someone I just ignore the message,the amount of times when I first ever started on here I used to send a polite no thanks message and get a lot of shit back lol. |
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"I’d say that if a guy is rejecting you coz of your weight then they aren’t worth your time in the first place.
I’m a size 18 and most of my weight is round my middle so can be abit self conscious myself at times.
Pay no attention to guys like that though.
I often find as well that guys only mention my weight when I’ve knocked them back lol
Your very attractive and vet wise also "
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By *eanorWoman
over a year ago
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Hi ive just seen your profile , you are by no way large , im a size 18 , and i have male friends who adore a very curvy women , so if you get insults from MALE TWATS on here call them out on it , i have done in the past , you'll find they are just cowards . Enjoy who you are and be proud of yourself |
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"Hi ive just seen your profile , you are by no way large , im a size 18 , and i have male friends who adore a very curvy women , so if you get insults from MALE TWATS on here call them out on it , i have done in the past , you'll find they are just cowards . Enjoy who you are and be proud of yourself "
100%agree and there are to many haters out their and they don’t deserve a moment of anyone’s time and I am a huge fan of the more curves body |
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"Thought I would start a thread for anyone I’m not just singling out males even though that’s who I’m eventually be looking for who genuinely likes a BBW.
I’m finding it so hard to find someone who is accepting of my weight as I’m having to get used to my new body shape so it’s awful when someone calls you ‘fat’ or a ‘salad dodger’ when your already hating the way you look!
It would help if they also read your profile as it says it on there so that they aren’t ‘disappointed’ when they meet you.
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I don't get it.....your absolutely stunning the guys must be off there rockers!!!! |
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That you have been insulted in that way is really terrible and a negative reflection of the person casting the slur than upon the recipient.
I have just seen a similar comment by a slim woman and am left wondering why insults of this kind are deemed acceptable.
So some of us have preferences, we self describe and indicate those that we find more attractive. That should be as far as it goes. |
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"I'm a size 16 and never had more compliments in my life. Tbh this site has given me an amazing confidence boost.
Just looking at your profile your body looks amazing I honestly wasn’t perving just giving a compliment- what’s hard for me is that my weight doesn’t distribute evenly so I look like I’m pregnant as mine goes straight to my tummy area "
You look amazing you have a great body never let anybody tell you that you haven’t |
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I have only ever once been sent a message by someone telling me I looked disgusting and fat. All the other nasty remarks I've had in relation to my size have been once I have said no. Don't let other people's disappointment and frustration affect how you view yourself, I know that it is easier said than done. |
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Body size and bbw has never been an issue for me. I've always accepted that I ain't average, I was fat. I love a smile and eyes can tell you so much about a person, more than just a written profile alone. And although nude ladies are titillating & horny, I prefer partly covered and lingerie gives the hint or suggestion of 'there's a very hot lady under there, just waiting to explore'. |
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"Thought I would start a thread for anyone I’m not just singling out males even though that’s who I’m eventually be looking for who genuinely likes a BBW.
I’m finding it so hard to find someone who is accepting of my weight as I’m having to get used to my new body shape so it’s awful when someone calls you ‘fat’ or a ‘salad dodger’ when your already hating the way you look!
It would help if they also read your profile as it says it on there so that they aren’t ‘disappointed’ when they meet you.
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Mr here.
Bollocks to the haters.
Mrs is a size 16/18/20 depending where she shops. I’ve honestly never fancied anyone more than I do her
Oh, and we definitely would x |
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"Thought I would start a thread for anyone I’m not just singling out males even though that’s who I’m eventually be looking for who genuinely likes a BBW.
I’m finding it so hard to find someone who is accepting of my weight as I’m having to get used to my new body shape so it’s awful when someone calls you ‘fat’ or a ‘salad dodger’ when your already hating the way you look!
It would help if they also read your profile as it says it on there so that they aren’t ‘disappointed’ when they meet you.
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From what i can see you look amazing blue eyes |
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"Second the baby doll & wrap dress suggestions. Curvy size 20 apple shape bbw here. Also if you are able to venture to any of the clubs would highly recommend attending some of the BBW/curvy girl events. It is a massive ego boost & will really help increase your sexual confidence. I too was surprised by how many men absolutely adore a woman with curves! So wear them with pride & totally forget about the haters. Obviously didn’t listen to their mum’s saying if you don’t have anything nice to say, don’t say it at all! "
This is a great suggestion.
My first club visit was to a BBW night and they are still my favourite, usually a super positive & inclusive atmosphere which makes everyone great |
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I know it's easier said that done but life is far better when you just own yourself and learn to become comfortable in your own skin. As someone who is a naturist in the vanilla world it's something I have learned to do and naturism has helped. It's great to be around all body shapes and quirks and realise bodies are just bodies they're not an issue and you can then concentrate on the important things in life.
I generally think when people are mean or body shame on here is often more to do with them being disgruntled than it is an issue of your actual appearance. Sadly part of fab is growing a tough skin.
Personally larger women are the women that catch my eye first. But body shape/size isn't everything. Being the best you is important. If you can be confident in yourself and given no fucks about what others think now that is truly hot. And that's the sort of women that gets my attention. If you learn to love yourself (not in an arrogant way) the rest will sort it's self out.
But people do have preferences so it is important to represent yourself accurately from the start. After all you want to be with people who are very attracted to you as you are, not the alternative false impression you they may have built in their mind. |
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"I know it's easier said that done but life is far better when you just own yourself and learn to become comfortable in your own skin. As someone who is a naturist in the vanilla world it's something I have learned to do and naturism has helped. It's great to be around all body shapes and quirks and realise bodies are just bodies they're not an issue and you can then concentrate on the important things in life.
I generally think when people are mean or body shame on here is often more to do with them being disgruntled than it is an issue of your actual appearance. Sadly part of fab is growing a tough skin.
Personally larger women are the women that catch my eye first. But body shape/size isn't everything. Being the best you is important. If you can be confident in yourself and given no fucks about what others think now that is truly hot. And that's the sort of women that gets my attention. If you learn to love yourself (not in an arrogant way) the rest will sort it's self out.
But people do have preferences so it is important to represent yourself accurately from the start. After all you want to be with people who are very attracted to you as you are, not the alternative false impression you they may have built in their mind."
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The term is big beautiful women for a reason, but let's not forget real beauty is on the inside.
From reading your profile and some of your posts, you seem to be hitting the mark on both counts OP. X |
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"I can't say I'm that fond of the BBW label, but I've added salad dodger to my profile. Whether that attracts or deflects men - not really bothered. "
I like that x still think BBW will always be better but it's up to you to feel comfortable in your own skinn  |
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By *rettyflamingoWoman
over a year ago
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I’m not really bothered by the term BBW but hate putting labels on people.
I get more attention now as a size 16 then when I was a size 12. I lost loads of weight a few years ago to get to a size 12 but lost my boobs in the process. I like my curves, but I think what’s in the inside is more important . The persons character and personality wins me regardless of body type. |
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"Thought I would start a thread for anyone I’m not just singling out males even though that’s who I’m eventually be looking for who genuinely likes a BBW.
I’m finding it so hard to find someone who is accepting of my weight as I’m having to get used to my new body shape so it’s awful when someone calls you ‘fat’ or a ‘salad dodger’ when your already hating the way you look!
It would help if they also read your profile as it says it on there so that they aren’t ‘disappointed’ when they meet you.
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Hello from a fellow BBW I hate the term but that's another story.
If its really not working out to well then maybe engage in some bbw posts on here (obviously this one too) because then men that you talk to in the forum already know that about you.
I really wouldn't let it get you down though.
Trust me when I say there are sooooo many gorgeous men on here that like a bigger lady. You'll get there |
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just want to say all women are beautiful and none deserve any abuse .... but ladys and gent if you have a preference thats good but by being negative or abusive to those who are not you or not your preference is as bad as those who abuse you too .... ie stick incects really ?? that makes you as bad as those who are troll and abusers .....so as said all women are beautiful |
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"How do you love yourself though?
That is the big question isn’t it. Please do let me know too if you ever work it out "
Aww ladies this makes me a bit sad. We're far more than just our body size. Everyone has bad days however they look.
Please try and see past your weight. I know it's hard but lifes for living.
If any women here ever fancy a girls night out in Manchester let me know and we can laugh and dance some calories off |
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oh and belive it or not all women get abuse about thier bodies on this site ...ive 100s of screen shots to prove this from my point of view its the first thing some men do when told no thanks to go from sexy to dog in the blink of the eye
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By *rettyflamingoWoman
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"oh and belive it or not all women get abuse about thier bodies on this site ...ive 100s of screen shots to prove this from my point of view its the first thing some men do when told no thanks to go from sexy to dog in the blink of the eye
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Yep this happened to me the other day. They got reported and blocked |
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"oh and belive it or not all women get abuse about thier bodies on this site ...ive 100s of screen shots to prove this from my point of view its the first thing some men do when told no thanks to go from sexy to dog in the blink of the eye
Yep this happened to me the other day. They got reported and blocked "
oh got to say i think your dungeree pic is super super hot ... gave me a little flutter |
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I must prefer women with curves tbh, honestly I wouldn't even say the women saying they're BBW are BBW on this thread. Not that BBW is wrong or bad or anything.
You're just perfect, some of the pictures are  |
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I'm very upfront on my profile about my height and weight, so theres no surprises. It's astonishing though, how many messages I get telling me how sexy and beautiful I am, but when I say no, apparently I'm a fat ugly cunt instead. |
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By *ase4122Man
over a year ago
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"I'm very upfront on my profile about my height and weight, so theres no surprises. It's astonishing though, how many messages I get telling me how sexy and beautiful I am, but when I say no, apparently I'm a fat ugly cunt instead. "
Ah, the classic bruised ego! |
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"I receive many compliments, but from time to time I get some nasty comments. I learnt not to take them personally, I like my body and I would like to enjoy myself."
I'm sure I'm not the only one who likes your body and would like to enjoy you xx
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"I receive many compliments, but from time to time I get some nasty comments. I learnt not to take them personally, I like my body and I would like to enjoy myself.
I'm sure I'm not the only one who likes your body and would like to enjoy you xx
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"I can't say I'm that fond of the BBW label, but I've added salad dodger to my profile. Whether that attracts or deflects men - not really bothered.
I like that x still think BBW will always be better but it's up to you to feel comfortable in your own skinn "
Men seem to prefer the label more than women. |
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"I'm a size 16 and never had more compliments in my life. Tbh this site has given me an amazing confidence boost.
It’s mainly the males on here who have been disappointed and have called me horrible names.
I do get compliments though so that’s nice "
Do the men call you horrible names after you say thanks but no thanks? If so laugh it off. |
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By *ase4122Man
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"I receive many compliments, but from time to time I get some nasty comments. I learnt not to take them personally, I like my body and I would like to enjoy myself."
You have a beautiful body, in my eyes |
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"I receive many compliments, but from time to time I get some nasty comments. I learnt not to take them personally, I like my body and I would like to enjoy myself.
You have a beautiful body, in my eyes"
Thank you. Xxx |
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"Thought I would start a thread for anyone I’m not just singling out males even though that’s who I’m eventually be looking for who genuinely likes a BBW.
I’m finding it so hard to find someone who is accepting of my weight as I’m having to get used to my new body shape so it’s awful when someone calls you ‘fat’ or a ‘salad dodger’ when your already hating the way you look!
It would help if they also read your profile as it says it on there so that they aren’t ‘disappointed’ when they meet you.
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We just end up add people to a messaging group that we met or others had met made it lots easy but we still like fab for finding new people |
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