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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Have you ever been in love? Would you look for love here? We found love here and couldn't be happier, do you have love experiences you'd like to share or maybe you're looking and this thread may help. Let's spread some joy 
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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I have been, still in love with my fiancé and we met through here.
Sometimes I think I have the potential to fall in love but it's hard to explain. I think that I'd have to feel very secure and it's not something I'd rush into. For one, my walls are too quick to come up. I dislike exposing too much of my soft side, of potentially being hurt. Opening myself up like that take a lot. And I'm not sure how welcome my love would be. So I tend to nip it in the bud sooner or later.
Then again, a part of me is romantic. You can have loving feelings without being in love. I don't know really, I'm not sure what it would be to me now. What it actually is. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I have been, still in love with my fiancé and we met through here.
Sometimes I think I have the potential to fall in love but it's hard to explain. I think that I'd have to feel very secure and it's not something I'd rush into. For one, my walls are too quick to come up. I dislike exposing too much of my soft side, of potentially being hurt. Opening myself up like that take a lot. And I'm not sure how welcome my love would be. So I tend to nip it in the bud sooner or later.
Then again, a part of me is romantic. You can have loving feelings without being in love. I don't know really, I'm not sure what it would be to me now. What it actually is."
I get it's hard, I didn't think I'd ever find love again after coming out of my marriage but I found it and it was worth waiting for. I hope you find it, it's a lovely feeling.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes found it here lost it here for and to honour it il never do it again and the withdrawal is far too traumatic i barely survived it to put myself thru it again would be to dilute what i had and il never allow myself to do that the guilt would finish me off |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes found it here lost it here for and to honour it il never do it again and the withdrawal is far too traumatic i barely survived it to put myself thru it again would be to dilute what i had and il never allow myself to do that the guilt would finish me off"
i will never not be in love with that woman that i can guarantee
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"I have been, still in love with my fiancé and we met through here.
Sometimes I think I have the potential to fall in love but it's hard to explain. I think that I'd have to feel very secure and it's not something I'd rush into. For one, my walls are too quick to come up. I dislike exposing too much of my soft side, of potentially being hurt. Opening myself up like that take a lot. And I'm not sure how welcome my love would be. So I tend to nip it in the bud sooner or later.
Then again, a part of me is romantic. You can have loving feelings without being in love. I don't know really, I'm not sure what it would be to me now. What it actually is.
I get it's hard, I didn't think I'd ever find love again after coming out of my marriage but I found it and it was worth waiting for. I hope you find it, it's a lovely feeling.
Mrs "
Aww thank you. I have it right now! But a wise friend told me to embrace life and not actively seek anything, just enjoy what happens. You can shut yourself off from living and feeling and that doesn't serve anyone. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Have you ever been in love? Would you look for love here? We found love here and couldn't be happier, do you have love experiences you'd like to share or maybe you're looking and this thread may help. Let's spread some joy
Mrs "
Myself and max are in love with each other. Found the other half in a banter group on faceb00k when we wernt looking for relationships. Now can't see our lives without the other and plan to marry |
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Yes I have, we've been together for more than 40 years, you don't put up with each other for that long without love. It's not that Mills and Boon, angels singing, cherubs flying type love but a deep and abiding respect and affection.
Would I look for love here? No I wouldn't, I have seen and heard too much to think that it's possible. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I felt I was in love with my second wife for 27 years then bam she left me left me in a right state and financial stress but that's behind me now after a year getting on with life and meet up now never been happier would love to meet with women here so check me out  |
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Yes and it's amazing. Likewise found it on here.
I'd been in love before and happily married once. I never realised back then I could have something more, something better, a true soulmate. But sometimes you have to meet that person who was made for you to realise you can have more. Basically sometimes you have to taste the difference. |
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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago
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"Yes and it's amazing. Likewise found it on here.
I'd been in love before and happily married once. I never realised back then I could have something more, something better, a true soulmate. But sometimes you have to meet that person who was made for you to realise you can have more. Basically sometimes you have to taste the difference."
I had it... He died.. I shan't be doing it again |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Not so sure ide say in love but def someone i cared about a lot. But it was all for nothing so not going to go there again"
It definitely can hurt, that person may not have been for you but they say there's someone for everyone
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"Yes and it's amazing. Likewise found it on here.
I'd been in love before and happily married once. I never realised back then I could have something more, something better, a true soulmate. But sometimes you have to meet that person who was made for you to realise you can have more. Basically sometimes you have to taste the difference.
I had it... He died.. I shan't be doing it again "
I get that. My dad died over 20 years ago. My Mum just said no man could give her what they had. She's never wanted anyone else since. |
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We did. After meeting on another fuck site for a one night fuck date which turned into lots of fuck dates. Neither of us were even looking for a relationship never mind falling in love. Lust eventually turned into love and that was nearly ten years ago. Now engaged to be married. We have found everything we need in each other. In love with each other but still fucking and sucking for England. Didn’t go looking for love. It just happened. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"We did. After meeting on another fuck site for a one night fuck date which turned into lots of fuck dates. Neither of us were even looking for a relationship never mind falling in love. Lust eventually turned into love and that was nearly ten years ago. Now engaged to be married. We have found everything we need in each other. In love with each other but still fucking and sucking for England. Didn’t go looking for love. It just happened. "
Amazing, I love that, congratulations on the engagement, May it long continue
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not so sure ide say in love but def someone i cared about a lot. But it was all for nothing so not going to go there again"
She cares for you a lot too... |
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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago
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"Yes and it's amazing. Likewise found it on here.
I'd been in love before and happily married once. I never realised back then I could have something more, something better, a true soulmate. But sometimes you have to meet that person who was made for you to realise you can have more. Basically sometimes you have to taste the difference.
I had it... He died.. I shan't be doing it again
I get that. My dad died over 20 years ago. My Mum just said no man could give her what they had. She's never wanted anyone else since."
That's not even why... I almost died grieving... I shan't lose myself to someone like that again and I couldn't put someone else through it |
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"We are very lucky. We found each other here, Belle showed me what love actually is and we get married in 8 weeks. I hope others find it too.
D X"
Aww, how great. It's good to see happy people. Congratulations |
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"Have you ever been in love? Would you look for love here? We found love here and couldn't be happier, do you have love experiences you'd like to share or maybe you're looking and this thread may help. Let's spread some joy
Mrs "
Yes I've been in love.. still in love with him now.
I wouldn't look for love anywhere.. I actively avoid any feelings beyond friendship |
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I'm married and very much in love with my hubby. We both swing- alone and together. But I met someone on here who very quickly became more than a fb, we had an intense relationship and saw each other as bf/gf. I fell in love with him too. And even tho we aren't seeing each other anymore- his choice- I can't turn those feelings off. Wouldn't want to leave my hubby, but I'm definitely feeling a very real sense of loss after our relationship ended |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm married and very much in love with my hubby. We both swing- alone and together. But I met someone on here who very quickly became more than a fb, we had an intense relationship and saw each other as bf/gf. I fell in love with him too. And even tho we aren't seeing each other anymore- his choice- I can't turn those feelings off. Wouldn't want to leave my hubby, but I'm definitely feeling a very real sense of loss after our relationship ended"
I'm sorry to hear that, I can't sat I've heard this situation before. You're lucky to have loved twice
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By *xydadbodMan
over a year ago
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Yeah, of course I've been in love before, unfortunately things didn't quite work out. Would be amazing to fall for someone that shares the same lifestyle as me as we can then enjoy things together. Just waiting for the right person to come along |
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"We are very lucky. We found each other here, Belle showed me what love actually is and we get married in 8 weeks. I hope others find it too.
D X
Aww, how great. It's good to see happy people. Congratulations "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I stupidly let my guard down and fell for someone on here…but never again hurts too much when you part ways  agreed"
The next person may be the right one
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Have you ever been in love? Would you look for love here? We found love here and couldn't be happier, do you have love experiences you'd like to share or maybe you're looking and this thread may help. Let's spread some joy
Mrs "
I found it where I thought I’d be safe from it! On here….lol
But, couldn’t be happier with him  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I love all the happy stories, so glad I found love again and I never dreamt it would be off here. He's my world
Mrs"
Could tell that when we met you xx |
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"Yes and it's amazing. Likewise found it on here.
I'd been in love before and happily married once. I never realised back then I could have something more, something better, a true soulmate. But sometimes you have to meet that person who was made for you to realise you can have more. Basically sometimes you have to taste the difference."
Awwww I was surprised to read this from a male profile and then I saw your couples name and thought.....that makes sense. You and J are made for each other A x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I love all the happy stories, so glad I found love again and I never dreamt it would be off here. He's my world
Mrs
Could tell that when we met you xx "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Am going through divorce now after 27 years she knows I dress but now no longer wants me long story anyway am looking for a woman who likes men dressing and go to parties and and other weekend always but I can dream I guess |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Very much still in love after 23 years together - we take the rough with the smooth - and have found always improving balance with each others needs as time has progressed. If we hadn't started swinging I think one of us may have strayed so it took a good honest conversation to get started on our change in direction in life. No regrets
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Definitely not!! I don’t want to ever fall in love again because the last time I even got close to someone it nearly killed me.
I’ll fall in lust but that’s it no more love for me and I don’t want anyone falling in love with me either so I tend to change who I am so that never happens |
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