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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I was just wondering what's the best way to get woman and couples to talk to me on this site "
Morph into a bi-female
Only joking - I'm sure there are others here who can give you better advice than I - as you can see I've had no meets yet this time round, so thing is going wrong.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You can't its impossible , even if they talk it doesn't mean they want to meet and if they do 9 times out of 10 they are just playing with you. Don't look for the meet let the meet find you . That works . If you keep sending unwanted messages then all you are doing is pissing people off and wasting you're time.  |
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Make your profile something worth reading.
Many people will look at the profile before even opening a message. If it doesn't interest them the message may be deleted without even being read.
Do you think your profile stands out?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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1.Don't advertise yourself
2. Be yourself and don't show your desperate.
3.try a bit of honesty as it does work wonders.
4. Make your profile appealing to all.
5. Read their profile fully before messaging them to know what the like and who they are looking for.
That's all I can think of hope it helps bud |
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By *eeriseWoman
over a year ago
Manchester and that's all you need to know |
"1.Don't advertise yourself
2. Be yourself and don't show your desperate.
3.try a bit of honesty as it does work wonders.
4. Make your profile appealing to all.
5. Read their profile fully before messaging them to know what the like and who they are looking for.
That's all I can think of hope it helps bud"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I all ways check profile before reading any message,hate when peeps put ask and I'll tell.wont need to ask if it all there .i read message but do delete them if profile boring |
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"The thing is I have no problem on normial websites it's just this one lol. I am shit at writing things about my self "
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"I all ways check profile before reading any message,hate when peeps put ask and I'll tell.wont need to ask if it all there .i read message but do delete them if profile boring "
Yep totally agree.. we feel if they cant be bothered to put effort in to their profile then they may just be after a quick shag with whoever or whatever they can get which is not for us..
Also 51 public pics !!! and i think i counted only about 10 that do not involved just your cock... thats 41 pics of the same cock.. that woukd be instant no for us... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I all ways check profile before reading any message,hate when peeps put ask and I'll tell.wont need to ask if it all there .i read message but do delete them if profile boring
Yep totally agree.. we feel if they cant be bothered to put effort in to their profile then they may just be after a quick shag with whoever or whatever they can get which is not for us..
Also 51 public pics !!! and i think i counted only about 10 that do not involved just your cock... thats 41 pics of the same cock.. that woukd be instant no for us..."
I have never been in to quick shags I prefer to pleasure a woman make sure she has been looked after . I like to make friends with people everyone I have slept with through the net I am still in touch with in some way either by phone or fb maybe I should just stick to them sites because I never seem to have a problem on them as long as ur honest with woman. I have had sex with them known that's all I want and because they are happy with that . I don't know if this is just bla bla bla really to u lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"1.Don't advertise yourself
2. Be yourself and don't show your desperate.
3.try a bit of honesty as it does work wonders.
4. Make your profile appealing to all.
5. Read their profile fully before messaging them to know what the like and who they are looking for.
That's all I can think of hope it helps bud"
Actually I think number 4 is totally wrong. Have a profile that appeals to the type of people you want to meet rather than some bland generic covers all bases type of profile is a much better plan. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You look older than your actual age on your photo, good luck"
Sorry but I have to agree, and as I've always said, someone's age will never put me off but lying about it will!  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You look older than your actual age on your photo, good luckSorry but I have to agree, and as I've always said, someone's age will never put me off but lying about it will! "
That is something I would never do is lie about my age what's the point I have been told this about looking older in my pics but told different when I meet someone I must just not b very photogenic |
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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago
not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds) |
"The thing is I have no problem on normial websites it's just this one lol. I am shit at writing things about my self "
Then take what ever you re doing on other sites and bring on to here.. why do you think you need a different approach..???
I agree that your profile can t appeal to every one, at the moment i can t see it appealing to anyone though.
In the advice forum there will be loads of threads with how to make your profile better, suggestions tips etc..
I have three rules for single guy success... The three H's
Honesty, Humour. Hung like a horse*...
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*the third is nt true...
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Have to say, that generally, the single guys on here adopt the scatter gun approach, rather than look for their market ( sniper approach ). READ THE PROFILE of the couple you are interested in. Engage them as people. They may not see you as their type, but single guys can do with all the friends they can on here ( that's not being condescending, it's how we see it ). If you network and don't see the end game as the be all and end all. There is an old saying, people buy people! Patience and a happy nature, it's no different for couples, truly, we all want to meet the right guy for a fmm! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"The thing is I have no problem on normial websites it's just this one lol. I am shit at writing things about my self
Then take what ever you re doing on other sites and bring on to here.. why do you think you need a different approach..???
I agree that your profile can t appeal to every one, at the moment i can t see it appealing to anyone though.
In the advice forum there will be loads of threads with how to make your profile better, suggestions tips etc..
I have three rules for single guy success... The three H's
Honesty, Humour. Hung like a horse*...
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*the third is nt true...
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My profiles are always very short and I message woman and they talk back it don't seem to work on this website I have found on other sites that woman prefer to get to know you than rather than read crap I have written I think the only difference is that on other sites u can't have lots of naked pics |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My profiles are always very short "
One thing your profile isn't short of is cock pics - I counted around 40 !
I would have said you could knock the '0' off that and most people would still manage to get an idea of what ur old lad looks like |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The thing is I have no problem on normial websites it's just this one lol. I am shit at writing things about my self
Then take what ever you re doing on other sites and bring on to here.. why do you think you need a different approach..???
I agree that your profile can t appeal to every one, at the moment i can t see it appealing to anyone though.
In the advice forum there will be loads of threads with how to make your profile better, suggestions tips etc..
I have three rules for single guy success... The three H's
Honesty, Humour. Hung like a horse*...
.
.
*the third is nt true...
My profiles are always very short and I message woman and they talk back it don't seem to work on this website I have found on other sites that woman prefer to get to know you than rather than read crap I have written I think the only difference is that on other sites u can't have lots of naked pics "
are these other sites swinger sites?
i am on a fair few sites and find things are pretty much the same in attitude across the board, whether its swingers, dogging or just a general contact site |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Have to say, that generally, the single guys on here adopt the scatter gun approach, rather than look for their market ( sniper approach ). READ THE PROFILE of the couple you are interested in. Engage them as people. They may not see you as their type, but single guys can do with all the friends they can on here ( that's not being condescending, it's how we see it ). If you network and don't see the end game as the be all and end all. There is an old saying, people buy people! Patience and a happy nature, it's no different for couples, truly, we all want to meet the right guy for a fmm!"
Well said. The two old rules in selling - people buy people first, and people buy people like THEM - are what I try to get over to some of the single guys I have helped re-write profiles etc on here before. But, to be honest, 9 out of 10 either don't 'get it' or refuse to believe it. And then they turn round and say they are doing no better.
I have said again and again on here that, among the younger single guys, there seems to be a mistaken belief that swinging is the same as what they see in the porn vids they have almost been brought up on - the fantasy of easily available sex.
They miss the whole point about it - Swinging is NOT easily-available sex. It is RECREATIONAL sex - and there is a BIG, BIG difference....
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"The thing is I have no problem on normial websites it's just this one lol. I am shit at writing things about my self
Then take what ever you re doing on other sites and bring on to here.. why do you think you need a different approach..???
I agree that your profile can t appeal to every one, at the moment i can t see it appealing to anyone though.
In the advice forum there will be loads of threads with how to make your profile better, suggestions tips etc..
I have three rules for single guy success... The three H's
Honesty, Humour. Hung like a horse*...
.
.
*the third is nt true...
My profiles are always very short and I message woman and they talk back it don't seem to work on this website I have found on other sites that woman prefer to get to know you than rather than read crap I have written I think the only difference is that on other sites u can't have lots of naked pics
are these other sites swinger sites?
i am on a fair few sites and find things are pretty much the same in attitude across the board, whether its swingers, dogging or just a general contact site"
No they are not swinging sites |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's mega hard work mate, unless you look like a member of One Direction, or are black with a huge cock, it's almost impossible. Give up and focus on perving |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"It's mega hard work mate, unless you look like a member of One Direction, or are black with a huge cock, it's almost impossible. Give up and focus on perving "
Lol that's funny |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's mega hard work mate, unless you look like a member of One Direction, or are black with a huge cock, it's almost impossible. Give up and focus on perving
Lol that's funny "
I no longer even message women or cpls, as never get a response, and if so it's always 'not meeting right now' etc in which case, get the fuck off the site ya timewasters. |
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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago
not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds) |
"The thing is I have no problem on normial websites it's just this one lol. I am shit at writing things about my self
Then take what ever you re doing on other sites and bring on to here.. why do you think you need a different approach..???
I agree that your profile can t appeal to every one, at the moment i can t see it appealing to anyone though.
In the advice forum there will be loads of threads with how to make your profile better, suggestions tips etc..
I have three rules for single guy success... The three H's
Honesty, Humour. Hung like a horse*...
.
.
*the third is nt true...
My profiles are always very short and I message woman and they talk back it don't seem to work on this website I have found on other sites that woman prefer to get to know you than rather than read crap I have written I think the only difference is that on other sites u can't have lots of naked pics "
I believe you re right ..
people wont read crap... even less likely to respond...
Therefore don t write crap..  .
I cant write your profile or messages, it doesnt have to be war and peace, it needs to interest the people you re messaging,...
i don t see any need for a difference in approach.. the people i want to meet i approach in a polite respectful manner, if thats not the right way for them its my mistake when i read their profile,..
Have fun.. thats the key bit..
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"Have to say, that generally, the single guys on here adopt the scatter gun approach, rather than look for their market ( sniper approach ). READ THE PROFILE of the couple you are interested in. Engage them as people. They may not see you as their type, but single guys can do with all the friends they can on here ( that's not being condescending, it's how we see it ). If you network and don't see the end game as the be all and end all. There is an old saying, people buy people! Patience and a happy nature, it's no different for couples, truly, we all want to meet the right guy for a fmm!
Well said. The two old rules in selling - people buy people first, and people buy people like THEM - are what I try to get over to some of the single guys I have helped re-write profiles etc on here before. But, to be honest, 9 out of 10 either don't 'get it' or refuse to believe it. And then they turn round and say they are doing no better.
I have said again and again on here that, among the younger single guys, there seems to be a mistaken belief that swinging is the same as what they see in the porn vids they have almost been brought up on - the fantasy of easily available sex.
They miss the whole point about it - Swinging is NOT easily-available sex. It is RECREATIONAL sex - and there is a BIG, BIG difference....
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Exactly spot on... one now just messaged us saying im really horny can he have a meet NOW !!.. Oh if course ... idiot clearly doesnt understand what swinging is.. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Have to say, that generally, the single guys on here adopt the scatter gun approach, rather than look for their market ( sniper approach ). READ THE PROFILE of the couple you are interested in. Engage them as people. They may not see you as their type, but single guys can do with all the friends they can on here ( that's not being condescending, it's how we see it ). If you network and don't see the end game as the be all and end all. There is an old saying, people buy people! Patience and a happy nature, it's no different for couples, truly, we all want to meet the right guy for a fmm!
Well said. The two old rules in selling - people buy people first, and people buy people like THEM - are what I try to get over to some of the single guys I have helped re-write profiles etc on here before. But, to be honest, 9 out of 10 either don't 'get it' or refuse to believe it. And then they turn round and say they are doing no better.
I have said again and again on here that, among the younger single guys, there seems to be a mistaken belief that swinging is the same as what they see in the porn vids they have almost been brought up on - the fantasy of easily available sex.
They miss the whole point about it - Swinging is NOT easily-available sex. It is RECREATIONAL sex - and there is a BIG, BIG difference....
Exactly spot on... one now just messaged us saying im really horny can he have a meet NOW !!.. Oh if course ... idiot clearly doesnt understand what swinging is.."
I would not message anyone like that it don't get u anywhere I just try to start a normal convo and take it from there |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Here goes my two pennyworth...
Your profile does nothing for you - you may well find it hard/difficult knowing what to say in it, but telling people that will work even less! Do a search on blokes profiles of round your own age and take a good look at some of them to get 'inspiration'.
And just how many cock shots does one guy need in his profile gallery? This comes over to me that you are 'cock-obsessed' - and that AIN'T going to attract WOMEN is it???? Like Bussy said - you need to take a scythe to those (the pics, not your cock!!!) - to be honest, one GOOD one is far better than a load of mediocre ones.
And finally.... my little hobby horse - Why can't you accom? You are supposed to be a SINGLE male. So...? Why can't you...???? If you have a genuine reason, then an outline in your profile as to why would go a long way. Remember - for anyone (couple or single woman) there is a BIG security and trust issue to overcome, and ANY doubt placed in someones mind is likely to shut the door on you getting a meet with them. And the MAIN one is why you can't accom if you are genuinely single..
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"Have to say, that generally, the single guys on here adopt the scatter gun approach, rather than look for their market ( sniper approach ). READ THE PROFILE of the couple you are interested in. Engage them as people. They may not see you as their type, but single guys can do with all the friends they can on here ( that's not being condescending, it's how we see it ). If you network and don't see the end game as the be all and end all. There is an old saying, people buy people! Patience and a happy nature, it's no different for couples, truly, we all want to meet the right guy for a fmm!
Well said. The two old rules in selling - people buy people first, and people buy people like THEM - are what I try to get over to some of the single guys I have helped re-write profiles etc on here before. But, to be honest, 9 out of 10 either don't 'get it' or refuse to believe it. And then they turn round and say they are doing no better.
I have said again and again on here that, among the younger single guys, there seems to be a mistaken belief that swinging is the same as what they see in the porn vids they have almost been brought up on - the fantasy of easily available sex.
They miss the whole point about it - Swinging is NOT easily-available sex. It is RECREATIONAL sex - and there is a BIG, BIG difference....
Exactly spot on... one now just messaged us saying im really horny can he have a meet NOW !!.. Oh if course ... idiot clearly doesnt understand what swinging is..
I would not message anyone like that it don't get u anywhere I just try to start a normal convo and take it from there "
well it got him a mouthful actually today .. not my norm .. but his attitude was horrid.. and then it got him an express ticket to the blocked list.. lol sadly its people like him that make it hard for others.. we are gonna meet the old way rather than the site but stay for forums and socials.. |
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"Here goes my two pennyworth...
Your profile does nothing for you - you may well find it hard/difficult knowing what to say in it, but telling people that will work even less! Do a search on blokes profiles of round your own age and take a good look at some of them to get 'inspiration'.
And just how many cock shots does one guy need in his profile gallery? This comes over to me that you are 'cock-obsessed' - and that AIN'T going to attract WOMEN is it???? Like Bussy said - you need to take a scythe to those (the pics, not your cock!!!) - to be honest, one GOOD one is far better than a load of mediocre ones.
And finally.... my little hobby horse - Why can't you accom? You are supposed to be a SINGLE male. So...? Why can't you...???? If you have a genuine reason, then an outline in your profile as to why would go a long way. Remember - for anyone (couple or single woman) there is a BIG security and trust issue to overcome, and ANY doubt placed in someones mind is likely to shut the door on you getting a meet with them. And the MAIN one is why you can't accom if you are genuinely single..
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The reason I can't accom is I had split from an ex I was living in Yorkshire I ended up having to leave there and my job cos cos the money I had was not covering my rent paying towards my son and my car so as a temporary measure I had to move back to my family home and try to sort my self out I have ended up with nothing so just trying to rebuild my life I want my own place but I just started a new job cos last one got laid off from but I hope too sort my self out I moved out when I was 17 and now back at 36 yes u may think I am sad but you do what u have to do to survive |
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"Here goes my two pennyworth...
Your profile does nothing for you - you may well find it hard/difficult knowing what to say in it, but telling people that will work even less! Do a search on blokes profiles of round your own age and take a good look at some of them to get 'inspiration'.
And just how many cock shots does one guy need in his profile gallery? This comes over to me that you are 'cock-obsessed' - and that AIN'T going to attract WOMEN is it???? Like Bussy said - you need to take a scythe to those (the pics, not your cock!!!) - to be honest, one GOOD one is far better than a load of mediocre ones.
And finally.... my little hobby horse - Why can't you accom? You are supposed to be a SINGLE male. So...? Why can't you...???? If you have a genuine reason, then an outline in your profile as to why would go a long way. Remember - for anyone (couple or single woman) there is a BIG security and trust issue to overcome, and ANY doubt placed in someones mind is likely to shut the door on you getting a meet with them. And the MAIN one is why you can't accom if you are genuinely single..
The reason I can't accom is I had split from an ex I was living in Yorkshire I ended up having to leave there and my job cos cos the money I had was not covering my rent paying towards my son and my car so as a temporary measure I had to move back to my family home and try to sort my self out I have ended up with nothing so just trying to rebuild my life I want my own place but I just started a new job cos last one got laid off from but I hope too sort my self out I moved out when I was 17 and now back at 36 yes u may think I am sad but you do what u have to do to survive "
No. Not sad at all. Life is life and we have all had one. So... what it should say in your profile is..... "Can't accom at the moment as living with parents after relationship break up." Anyone who has been through anything similar will understand, and will appreciate your honesty.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"1.Don't advertise yourself
2. Be yourself and don't show your desperate.
3.try a bit of honesty as it does work wonders.
4. Make your profile appealing to all.
5. Read their profile fully before messaging them to know what the like and who they are looking for.
That's all I can think of hope it helps bud"
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"Here goes my two pennyworth...
Your profile does nothing for you - you may well find it hard/difficult knowing what to say in it, but telling people that will work even less! Do a search on blokes profiles of round your own age and take a good look at some of them to get 'inspiration'.
And just how many cock shots does one guy need in his profile gallery? This comes over to me that you are 'cock-obsessed' - and that AIN'T going to attract WOMEN is it???? Like Bussy said - you need to take a scythe to those (the pics, not your cock!!!) - to be honest, one GOOD one is far better than a load of mediocre ones.
And finally.... my little hobby horse - Why can't you accom? You are supposed to be a SINGLE male. So...? Why can't you...???? If you have a genuine reason, then an outline in your profile as to why would go a long way. Remember - for anyone (couple or single woman) there is a BIG security and trust issue to overcome, and ANY doubt placed in someones mind is likely to shut the door on you getting a meet with them. And the MAIN one is why you can't accom if you are genuinely single..
The reason I can't accom is I had split from an ex I was living in Yorkshire I ended up having to leave there and my job cos cos the money I had was not covering my rent paying towards my son and my car so as a temporary measure I had to move back to my family home and try to sort my self out I have ended up with nothing so just trying to rebuild my life I want my own place but I just started a new job cos last one got laid off from but I hope too sort my self out I moved out when I was 17 and now back at 36 yes u may think I am sad but you do what u have to do to survive
No. Not sad at all. Life is life and we have all had one. So... what it should say in your profile is..... "Can't accom at the moment as living with parents after relationship break up." Anyone who has been through anything similar will understand, and will appreciate your honesty.
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We have been split a while I managed to say there for a year after we split but just became all too much and all there rest of my money I had I used to go see my son which he lives in Wales now with his mother and this is 2 diff exs my sons mum and my ex from Yorkshire |
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"Here goes my two pennyworth...
Your profile does nothing for you - you may well find it hard/difficult knowing what to say in it, but telling people that will work even less! Do a search on blokes profiles of round your own age and take a good look at some of them to get 'inspiration'.
And just how many cock shots does one guy need in his profile gallery? This comes over to me that you are 'cock-obsessed' - and that AIN'T going to attract WOMEN is it???? Like Bussy said - you need to take a scythe to those (the pics, not your cock!!!) - to be honest, one GOOD one is far better than a load of mediocre ones.
And finally.... my little hobby horse - Why can't you accom? You are supposed to be a SINGLE male. So...? Why can't you...???? If you have a genuine reason, then an outline in your profile as to why would go a long way. Remember - for anyone (couple or single woman) there is a BIG security and trust issue to overcome, and ANY doubt placed in someones mind is likely to shut the door on you getting a meet with them. And the MAIN one is why you can't accom if you are genuinely single..
The reason I can't accom is I had split from an ex I was living in Yorkshire I ended up having to leave there and my job cos cos the money I had was not covering my rent paying towards my son and my car so as a temporary measure I had to move back to my family home and try to sort my self out I have ended up with nothing so just trying to rebuild my life I want my own place but I just started a new job cos last one got laid off from but I hope too sort my self out I moved out when I was 17 and now back at 36 yes u may think I am sad but you do what u have to do to survive
No. Not sad at all. Life is life and we have all had one. So... what it should say in your profile is..... "Can't accom at the moment as living with parents after relationship break up." Anyone who has been through anything similar will understand, and will appreciate your honesty.
We have been split a while I managed to say there for a year after we split but just became all too much and all there rest of my money I had I used to go see my son which he lives in Wales now with his mother and this is 2 diff exs my sons mum and my ex from Yorkshire "
And what relevance does all that have on why you are on here.....?
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"Here goes my two pennyworth...
Your profile does nothing for you - you may well find it hard/difficult knowing what to say in it, but telling people that will work even less! Do a search on blokes profiles of round your own age and take a good look at some of them to get 'inspiration'.
And just how many cock shots does one guy need in his profile gallery? This comes over to me that you are 'cock-obsessed' - and that AIN'T going to attract WOMEN is it???? Like Bussy said - you need to take a scythe to those (the pics, not your cock!!!) - to be honest, one GOOD one is far better than a load of mediocre ones.
And finally.... my little hobby horse - Why can't you accom? You are supposed to be a SINGLE male. So...? Why can't you...???? If you have a genuine reason, then an outline in your profile as to why would go a long way. Remember - for anyone (couple or single woman) there is a BIG security and trust issue to overcome, and ANY doubt placed in someones mind is likely to shut the door on you getting a meet with them. And the MAIN one is why you can't accom if you are genuinely single..
The reason I can't accom is I had split from an ex I was living in Yorkshire I ended up having to leave there and my job cos cos the money I had was not covering my rent paying towards my son and my car so as a temporary measure I had to move back to my family home and try to sort my self out I have ended up with nothing so just trying to rebuild my life I want my own place but I just started a new job cos last one got laid off from but I hope too sort my self out I moved out when I was 17 and now back at 36 yes u may think I am sad but you do what u have to do to survive
No. Not sad at all. Life is life and we have all had one. So... what it should say in your profile is..... "Can't accom at the moment as living with parents after relationship break up." Anyone who has been through anything similar will understand, and will appreciate your honesty.
We have been split a while I managed to say there for a year after we split but just became all too much and all there rest of my money I had I used to go see my son which he lives in Wales now with his mother and this is 2 diff exs my sons mum and my ex from Yorkshire
And what relevance does all that have on why you are on here.....?
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No I just mean that was the other factor of not being abale to afford to stay where I was cos where I am now I am closer to my son . Think that's what u ment sorry if it wasent |
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"Here goes my two pennyworth...
Your profile does nothing for you - you may well find it hard/difficult knowing what to say in it, but telling people that will work even less! Do a search on blokes profiles of round your own age and take a good look at some of them to get 'inspiration'.
And just how many cock shots does one guy need in his profile gallery? This comes over to me that you are 'cock-obsessed' - and that AIN'T going to attract WOMEN is it???? Like Bussy said - you need to take a scythe to those (the pics, not your cock!!!) - to be honest, one GOOD one is far better than a load of mediocre ones.
And finally.... my little hobby horse - Why can't you accom? You are supposed to be a SINGLE male. So...? Why can't you...???? If you have a genuine reason, then an outline in your profile as to why would go a long way. Remember - for anyone (couple or single woman) there is a BIG security and trust issue to overcome, and ANY doubt placed in someones mind is likely to shut the door on you getting a meet with them. And the MAIN one is why you can't accom if you are genuinely single..
The reason I can't accom is I had split from an ex I was living in Yorkshire I ended up having to leave there and my job cos cos the money I had was not covering my rent paying towards my son and my car so as a temporary measure I had to move back to my family home and try to sort my self out I have ended up with nothing so just trying to rebuild my life I want my own place but I just started a new job cos last one got laid off from but I hope too sort my self out I moved out when I was 17 and now back at 36 yes u may think I am sad but you do what u have to do to survive
No. Not sad at all. Life is life and we have all had one. So... what it should say in your profile is..... "Can't accom at the moment as living with parents after relationship break up." Anyone who has been through anything similar will understand, and will appreciate your honesty.
We have been split a while I managed to say there for a year after we split but just became all too much and all there rest of my money I had I used to go see my son which he lives in Wales now with his mother and this is 2 diff exs my sons mum and my ex from Yorkshire
And what relevance does all that have on why you are on here.....?
No I just mean that was the other factor of not being abale to afford to stay where I was cos where I am now I am closer to my son . Think that's what u ment sorry if it wasent "
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"No I just mean that was the other factor of not being abale to afford to stay where I was cos where I am now I am closer to my son . Think that's what u ment sorry if it wasent "
You don't have to justify to anyone on here what you can and can't afford. You need to start seeing your profile and the way it comes over from other peoples point of view. Start trying to put yourself in a single womans shoes and ask yourself if YOU would meet YOU. Would you - honestly - right now? No. Would a single woman who is on here for recreational sex want to know all the why's and wherefore's about your current situation? No. But what she WOULD want to know is that there IS a genuine reason why you can't accom and that there is not a wife, GF or something worse being concealed.
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"Here goes my two pennyworth...
Your profile does nothing for you - you may well find it hard/difficult knowing what to say in it, but telling people that will work even less! Do a search on blokes profiles of round your own age and take a good look at some of them to get 'inspiration'.
And just how many cock shots does one guy need in his profile gallery? This comes over to me that you are 'cock-obsessed' - and that AIN'T going to attract WOMEN is it???? Like Bussy said - you need to take a scythe to those (the pics, not your cock!!!) - to be honest, one GOOD one is far better than a load of mediocre ones.
And finally.... my little hobby horse - Why can't you accom? You are supposed to be a SINGLE male. So...? Why can't you...???? If you have a genuine reason, then an outline in your profile as to why would go a long way. Remember - for anyone (couple or single woman) there is a BIG security and trust issue to overcome, and ANY doubt placed in someones mind is likely to shut the door on you getting a meet with them. And the MAIN one is why you can't accom if you are genuinely single..
The reason I can't accom is I had split from an ex I was living in Yorkshire I ended up having to leave there and my job cos cos the money I had was not covering my rent paying towards my son and my car so as a temporary measure I had to move back to my family home and try to sort my self out I have ended up with nothing so just trying to rebuild my life I want my own place but I just started a new job cos last one got laid off from but I hope too sort my self out I moved out when I was 17 and now back at 36 yes u may think I am sad but you do what u have to do to survive
No. Not sad at all. Life is life and we have all had one. So... what it should say in your profile is..... "Can't accom at the moment as living with parents after relationship break up." Anyone who has been through anything similar will understand, and will appreciate your honesty.
We have been split a while I managed to say there for a year after we split but just became all too much and all there rest of my money I had I used to go see my son which he lives in Wales now with his mother and this is 2 diff exs my sons mum and my ex from Yorkshire
And what relevance does all that have on why you are on here.....?
No I just mean that was the other factor of not being abale to afford to stay where I was cos where I am now I am closer to my son . Think that's what u ment sorry if it wasent
See, couples can be such idiotic wankers can't they"
They all have a right to there own opinion I won't judge people for what they say its just things u don't really want to admit on a site that u living at home cos u can't afford to live on ur own lol don't get me wrong I get no hassle at home just one rule is no strange woman cos my mum ain't stupid see know I go and meet woman there is no pulling the wool over her eyes and I am honest with her |
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