FabSwingers.com > Forums > Swingers Chat > Finger up the bum
Finger up the bum
Jump to: Newest in thread
 |
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
So I admit I'm crap at it.
I want to make it the most pleasurable experience for him yet other than slowly sliding a finger in I'll be honest and say I'm not too sure what I'm meant to do after that! I know what it's like to be fingered badly so want to try and perfect the art at least making it pleasurable for him, so what do you do?
Also what type of lube do you fellow fabbers use? Recommendations please.
Thanks
 |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
"My wife did this to me. Unusually pleasurable. It was an in the moment kind of thing, so no lube or anything. He should enjoy it  "
No lube? Ok. And may I ask what type of movement did she do with the finger? |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
I bloody love this...
I guess the trick is to make it feel the same as if you have something in yours (assuming you've tried and enjoyed it!). And ask him what feels great and what doesn't
Communication is key with this sort of thing! |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
"I bloody love this...
I guess the trick is to make it feel the same as if you have something in yours (assuming you've tried and enjoyed it!). And ask him what feels great and what doesn't
Communication is key with this sort of thing!"
More than happy to ask him, just thought I'd get some advice. One can never have too much info in the arsenal |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"My wife did this to me. Unusually pleasurable. It was an in the moment kind of thing, so no lube or anything. He should enjoy it
No lube? Ok. And may I ask what type of movement did she do with the finger?"
A nice gentle entry and up/down movement. I went incredibly hard and my ejaculation lasted longer. I was, however, a lot younger then |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
I love fingering my man I use lube then I gently insert in then I bend finger inside at an angle towards you then you massage that's their prostrate I actually milk him at same time it's so horny feeling him grip your finger |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"I love fingering my man I use lube then I gently insert in then I bend finger inside at an angle towards you then you massage that's their prostrate I actually milk him at same time it's so horny feeling him grip your finger "
Yeah, I went pretty rigid, to be fair. I was cumming for ages. It's a question of technique. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
I’d say defo use lube, it will feel more sensual for him and angle your finger up towards the base of his cock once you are inside.
I absolutely love it and it always makes me cum so hard |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
"My wife did this to me. Unusually pleasurable. It was an in the moment kind of thing, so no lube or anything. He should enjoy it
No lube? Ok. And may I ask what type of movement did she do with the finger?
A nice gentle entry and up/down movement. I went incredibly hard and my ejaculation lasted longer. I was, however, a lot younger then "
Ok, gotcha. That is exactly the reaction I am hoping for from him!  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
First time done to me the lady was rimming me then slowly put her finger in and massaged the prostrate,came so hard and in volume.Had it done a few times since with the ladies surprised how much cum came out. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
"I love fingering my man I use lube then I gently insert in then I bend finger inside at an angle towards you then you massage that's their prostrate I actually milk him at same time it's so horny feeling him grip your finger "
Think I need to work up to that, being such a novice lol. Must be incredible for him? |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
"I’d say defo use lube, it will feel more sensual for him and angle your finger up towards the base of his cock once you are inside.
I absolutely love it and it always makes me cum so hard "
Just ordered some anal lube. Im guessing with the angling of the finger, its the same sort of principle of when I'm being fingered |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
"First time done to me the lady was rimming me then slowly put her finger in and massaged the prostrate,came so hard and in volume.Had it done a few times since with the ladies surprised how much cum came out."
Thats the desired effect I'm aiming for |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *yneMan
over a year ago
North Shields |
Hi, try Yes lube (water or plant based), it’s not too sticky. As for technique my preference is for just the tip of the finger opening my up, hold it and slide slightly in and nearly out and build a slow rhythm until he asks for more…..he’ll if dint like it, drag me over for it…..hope it works |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Imagine how you would like your bum played with, well do the same to him. A finger in deep pressing downwards and rubbing his pereneum at the same time feels good |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago
East London |
Keep your nails short. No sharp bits of dried skin either.
Spit will suffice, if your relationship allows, or anal glide. We use Durex Cherry Lube for everything as I like the taste and don't need to have different bottles laying on the bed.
When you slide your finger in you'll feel the sphincter pressure. I go very slowly and let it relax. With my middle finger most of the way in I can feel his prostate-that feels like a soft half a walnut shape. He likes me to gently massage it as I'm sucking his cock.
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
No lube???
I advise a good silicone lube, it's the best. A little goes a long way and it doesn't dry to a sticky mess like water based lubes.
Watch out with your nails!
When right inside bend your finger forward towards the pubic bone and find his prostate. It will drive him wild.... |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago
East London |
"I’d say defo use lube, it will feel more sensual for him and angle your finger up towards the base of his cock once you are inside.
I absolutely love it and it always makes me cum so hard
Just ordered some anal lube. Im guessing with the angling of the finger, its the same sort of principle of when I'm being fingered"
When I'm feeling for the prostate my finger naturally bends. Your palm will be facing up towards his cock.
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
I have experienced it with two women in my life. None of them have asked me if I want to try this or not... Both of them was older then me and definitely new what they are doing. It ft amazing and I cum so much and so hard! Best cum ever, I wish all women could do this to their partners... |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
"I’d say defo use lube, it will feel more sensual for him and angle your finger up towards the base of his cock once you are inside.
I absolutely love it and it always makes me cum so hard
Just ordered some anal lube. Im guessing with the angling of the finger, its the same sort of principle of when I'm being fingered
When I'm feeling for the prostate my finger naturally bends. Your palm will be facing up towards his cock.
"
useful info, thank you.
middle finger or fore finger? |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"I’d say defo use lube, it will feel more sensual for him and angle your finger up towards the base of his cock once you are inside.
I absolutely love it and it always makes me cum so hard
Just ordered some anal lube. Im guessing with the angling of the finger, its the same sort of principle of when I'm being fingered"
Be careful what lube, alot of anal lubes have numbing effect and tend to desensitise, OK for bum play but not if get in other areas  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"I’d say defo use lube, it will feel more sensual for him and angle your finger up towards the base of his cock once you are inside.
I absolutely love it and it always makes me cum so hard
Just ordered some anal lube. Im guessing with the angling of the finger, its the same sort of principle of when I'm being fingered
When I'm feeling for the prostate my finger naturally bends. Your palm will be facing up towards his cock.
useful info, thank you.
middle finger or fore finger?"
Middle. It was the longest, and I was on top. It helped that I was a good foot and a half taller than my ex wife. Easier for her to reach around. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
"I’d say defo use lube, it will feel more sensual for him and angle your finger up towards the base of his cock once you are inside.
I absolutely love it and it always makes me cum so hard
Just ordered some anal lube. Im guessing with the angling of the finger, its the same sort of principle of when I'm being fingered
Be careful what lube, alot of anal lubes have numbing effect and tend to desensitise, OK for bum play but not if get in other areas "
I didnt realise that, thank you! |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago
East London |
"I’d say defo use lube, it will feel more sensual for him and angle your finger up towards the base of his cock once you are inside.
I absolutely love it and it always makes me cum so hard
Just ordered some anal lube. Im guessing with the angling of the finger, its the same sort of principle of when I'm being fingered
When I'm feeling for the prostate my finger naturally bends. Your palm will be facing up towards his cock.
useful info, thank you.
middle finger or fore finger?"
I find the middle finger works best. You can add Peter Pointer later, if he likes a bigger stretch. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
"I’d say defo use lube, it will feel more sensual for him and angle your finger up towards the base of his cock once you are inside.
I absolutely love it and it always makes me cum so hard
Just ordered some anal lube. Im guessing with the angling of the finger, its the same sort of principle of when I'm being fingered
When I'm feeling for the prostate my finger naturally bends. Your palm will be facing up towards his cock.
useful info, thank you.
middle finger or fore finger?
Middle. It was the longest, and I was on top. It helped that I was a good foot and a half taller than my ex wife. Easier for her to reach around. "
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
"I’d say defo use lube, it will feel more sensual for him and angle your finger up towards the base of his cock once you are inside.
I absolutely love it and it always makes me cum so hard
Just ordered some anal lube. Im guessing with the angling of the finger, its the same sort of principle of when I'm being fingered
When I'm feeling for the prostate my finger naturally bends. Your palm will be facing up towards his cock.
useful info, thank you.
middle finger or fore finger?
I find the middle finger works best. You can add Peter Pointer later, if he likes a bigger stretch."
Middle it is. He's gonna be in for such a treat lol |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Never enjoyed it myself, One time I was at a meet and getting an incredible blow job when she decided to slide the middle finger up my bum, it was like a switch was turned off and all the blood from my cock drained out in to my brain. I then had to in the height sexually tensity utter the immortal words! "Could you take your finger out my arse please". Of course the sexual passion flew out the window at that moment I said those words. I think I grabbed my flaccid member and left about 2 mins later. So for me it's ever been a great experience. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
"I have experienced it with two women in my life. None of them have asked me if I want to try this or not... Both of them was older then me and definitely new what they are doing. It ft amazing and I cum so much and so hard! Best cum ever, I wish all women could do this to their partners..."
Was it the element of surprise that made it even hornier? |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"I have experienced it with two women in my life. None of them have asked me if I want to try this or not... Both of them was older then me and definitely new what they are doing. It ft amazing and I cum so much and so hard! Best cum ever, I wish all women could do this to their partners...
Was it the element of surprise that made it even hornier?"
For me, yes. She just did it. I instantly stiffened. Bizarre feeling. He'll be a lucky lad with you x |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *ase4122Man
over a year ago
Lancashire |
"So I admit I'm crap at it.
I want to make it the most pleasurable experience for him yet other than slowly sliding a finger in I'll be honest and say I'm not too sure what I'm meant to do after that! I know what it's like to be fingered badly so want to try and perfect the art at least making it pleasurable for him, so what do you do?
Also what type of lube do you fellow fabbers use? Recommendations please.
Thanks
"
I like a woman to gently tease me, little oil/lube on finger and hole. The more relaxed I become the more my hole loosens to accept the finger. Some nice back and forth fingerings and rotating at the same time.
As for lube, I like baby oil or some of my fleshlight lube is perfect for the job  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
» Add a new message to this topic
