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over a year ago
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I was under the impression that there is more to cuckholding than watching.
I'm very voyeuristic sexually, but not a cuckhold, more of a wife watcher.
Cuckholding goes a bit deeper from my understanding. |
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We are really involved in cuckolding, it does exist on this site but it's very hard to find genuine bulls, as most are guys who just want sex with me and have no idea on the erotic, mental side to it all.
They never read profiles properly either lol |
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"Does cuckolding really exist?people have it on their profile but never want to just watch their partner!!  "
Yes it does. Genuine cuckold couple here. She has additional sexual partners, I do not. I watch, but no all the time as not permitted too. I am allowed sex with her in build up to a meet.
Otherwise we enjoy a normal sex life when not meeting and are a very happy couple. |
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"Does cuckolding really exist?people have it on their profile but never want to just watch their partner!!
Yes it does. Genuine cuckold couple here. She has additional sexual partners, I do not. I watch, but no all the time as not permitted too. I am allowed sex with her in build up to a meet.
Otherwise we enjoy a normal sex life when not meeting and are a very happy couple."
Meant to say "not" allowed sex during build up to a meet rather than allowed |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Does cuckolding really exist?people have it on their profile but never want to just watch their partner!!
Yes it does. Genuine cuckold couple here. She has additional sexual partners, I do not. I watch, but no all the time as not permitted too. I am allowed sex with her in build up to a meet.
Otherwise we enjoy a normal sex life when not meeting and are a very happy couple.
Meant to say "not" allowed sex during build up to a meet rather than allowed"
we do the same some do it as a way of life but to us its a bit of fun and helps build sexual tenshion on the run up to a play meet then when the bull has gone its back to normal pluss it makes our own fun better |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The definition of cuckolding or the original definition is watching your wife/partner/girlfriend have sex with someone else in recent years the meaning has changed to include other things such as humiliation or bi play. |
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From Wikipedia, the font of all knowledge!
A cuckold fetishist is aware of his spouse's activity, most likely actively encouraging it[citation needed], and derives sexual pleasure from it.[5] Among fetishists, the pose of reluctance—the victimization of the cuckold—is a major element of the paraphilia. The cuckold is almost always male; the term for a female cuckold is sometimes referred to as a cuckquean[1] but is not as prevalent in popular culture as the male version of the fetish.
In the fetish cuckolding subculture, the female takes on the role of being sexually dominant, while the man takes on a submissive role. The man usually only becomes involved with the woman or her lover when she permits it — sometimes remaining altogether celibate.
This fetish can be completely heterosexual in which the husband does not participate or only participates with his wife, as well as (but more rarely) bi-sexual, in which the husband participates with everyone, or makes contact with the other man's semen.
The fetish specifics can range wildly, from loving treatment toward the cuckold to complete humiliation and debasement. The husband may also seek other women outside the relationship, as in a swinging lifestyle.[6] However, very commonly a requirement for the fetish is that the cuckold is somehow humiliated, whether this is acted out to be intentional or as some sort of by-product of the situation (e.g., the parties involved are somehow too sexually aroused to stop). Therefore cuckolding usually involves acting out a story or ritual involving humiliating acts, events or circumstances; it is not simply wife-swapping, swinging or sharing a sexual partner.
The wife who enjoys cuckolding her husband is sometimes referred to as a hotwife[7] or frequently cuckoldress if the male is more submissive.[8]
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Yes it happens, but it is not always cuckolding in the true sense.
A lot of it on fab, and in my experience of couples on here (not all before i get the flack), is that some men like to watch their partners have sex with guys. many however cannot cope with the role of cuck as it is more than 'watching some fuck her'.
The role of cuck goes deeper into the mind that purely watching as so as a single guy who has played the 'bull' role i enjoy getting into the mind of the lady and the cuck.
it has its dangers mentally for the lady and more so the cuck if he finds he is in a place he didnt want or expect to go.
i always insist that the couple really know what they want, and that HE especially knows his limits.
but in answer to the Op... it happens and its fun....
and however you do it, whatever works for you.... there are no rules in swinging... do it your way
just ENJOY it, |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes it happens, but it is not always cuckolding in the true sense.
A lot of it on fab, and in my experience of couples on here (not all before i get the flack), is that some men like to watch their partners have sex with guys. many however cannot cope with the role of cuck as it is more than 'watching some fuck her'.
The role of cuck goes deeper into the mind that purely watching as so as a single guy who has played the 'bull' role i enjoy getting into the mind of the lady and the cuck.
it has its dangers mentally for the lady and more so the cuck if he finds he is in a place he didnt want or expect to go.
i always insist that the couple really know what they want, and that HE especially knows his limits.
but in answer to the Op... it happens and its fun....
and however you do it, whatever works for you.... there are no rules in swinging... do it your way
just ENJOY it, "
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"Does cuckolding really exist?people have it on their profile but never want to just watch their partner!! "
It's here, and just as with sex and relationships, many are often doing things in their own ways, that works for them. We all make our own rules, and then find partners that match our own.
The fact that swinging involves 2+ people can make cuckolding easier to facilitate, but it's here and active  |
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"Does cuckolding really exist?people have it on their profile but never want to just watch their partner!! "
Although there are some true cuckold couples on this website there are not many. I would suggest looking on a specialist cuckold website. |
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"I was under the impression that there is more to cuckholding than watching.
I'm very voyeuristic sexually, but not a cuckhold, more of a wife watcher.
Cuckholding goes a bit deeper from my understanding."
You are right. A lot of people confuse cuckolding with voyeurism. I think the best way to understand cuckolding is to search Google for "cuckold contract". It will give you the right idea of what is expected of the cuckold by the hotwife. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love cuckolding my husband but this is just one aspect of swinging we enjoy, I like hung black guys but I don't want one everytime we swing, I sometimes like to watch my husband with another woman, we do what we want to do when we know its going to turn us on x |
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By *c69funCouple
over a year ago
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For us it does go on (when we find a bull who understands what we expect from a meet) which isn't very often, but we would rather have quality over quantity.
We get plenty of offers from guys who just think it's about fucking me in front of cuck,but for us cuckolding is about me getting long hard sex,cuck being humiliated,made to prepare us both, I adore making cuck lay on the bed whilst I get on all fours over his head and have him licking not only my clit as the bull ducks me from behind but cuck is forced to pick the bulls balls and shaft as well.
I'm not sub, that's cucks job lol and it's safe sex only, also were not into anal and we can't accommodate. |
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By *c69funCouple
over a year ago
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"For us it does go on (when we find a bull who understands what we expect from a meet) which isn't very often, but we would rather have quality over quantity.
We get plenty of offers from guys who just think it's about fucking me in front of cuck,but for us cuckolding is about me getting long hard sex,cuck being humiliated,made to prepare us both, I adore making cuck lay on the bed whilst I get on all fours over his head and have him licking not only my clit as the bull fucks me from behind but cuck is forced to pick the bulls balls and shaft as well.
I'm not sub, that's cucks job lol and it's safe sex only, also were not into anal and we can't accommodate."
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By (user no longer on site)
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At a recent meet; the female (who was stunning to say the least), sat in corner for first 30 mins whilst 3 men played with her male partner ; she eventually joined in and by that was even honier than we all where lol....
So yes it does exsist and yes its great fun  |
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"Does cuckolding really exist?people have it on their profile but never want to just watch their partner!! "
Cuckolding is much more than watching your wife or girlfriend having sex. A mistress would never allow her cuckold to join in. The cuckold would be lucky if he was allowed to watch. I think a lot of people who put they are in a cuckold relationship confuse cuckolding with voyeurism. |
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The best way to understand cuckolding is so search Google for "a cuckold contract". Reading a few different contracts will give you an understanding of the male and female roles in a cuckold relationship. |
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"We are really involved in cuckolding, it does exist on this site but it's very hard to find genuine bulls, as most are guys who just want sex with me and have no idea on the erotic, mental side to it all.
They never read profiles properly either lol"
Does your bull always have to be VWE? |
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"At a recent meet; the female (who was stunning to say the least), sat in corner for first 30 mins whilst 3 men played with her male partner ; she eventually joined in and by that was even honier than we all where lol....
So yes it does exsist and yes its great fun "
That is not cuckolding. |
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By *imoneyMan
over a year ago
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Bben a bull for couple in stafford. He wore a cbt device which was painful at times if excitement for him. The cuck used to dress in frilly skirt knickers and serve us our tea drinks etc. We would be having sex during day and ring cuck up at work so he could listen on the phone. He wasn't allowed full intercourse with his wife but on occasions would receive wank. He really enjoyed cleaning up both the lady and I after sex. Unfortunately finding gen couples who appreciate the sensual and mental side is getting harder. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Cuckolding has many forms from the more extreme as has been said on here to simply watching or listening to your wife/husband with a bull, cuckolding takes whichever form you want it to and however far you want to take it. |
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By *andd2Couple
over a year ago
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Personally we don't understand cuckolding. When we meet single guys it's so mrsd has as extra cock to play with. I never just sit and watch, I'm never in another room listening etc. I join in and have my fun with the wife too.
Each to their own I suppose, just don't get it myself. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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i dont watch wife, but i let her play on her own profile, then when she comes home she tells me how it went with the meet, then when we have sex it gets very dirty and horny as she tells me how nawty she has been. we both find it a turn on in our different ways, but i wouldnt describe myself as cuckold |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Exists totally, hubby with wife, wife solo, calling hubby mid-fun, hubby content with video of her fun after her meet etc, its erotic, sexy, exciting, very part of the lovely swinging fun options. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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When we first joined fab we had cuckolding on our profile as a like - upon realising the true meaning we removed it as voyeurism was a much more realistic description of what did it for us |
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By (user no longer on site)
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It definitely does exist but everyone has their own definition of it. I have met 3 cuckold couples all with different ideas, fetishes and fantasies. It's definitely not a one size fits all kind of thing. |
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it does and it can be fun..
the vast majority of guys who say they are 'bulls' dont in our experience know the first thing about it..
as the male i have carried out the role with other's and it can be anything from the husband making the tea and waiting to be called upstairs to sit outside and listen to another who she like to do 'the prep'..
its more than just having a big cock, and arrogance has no part in it..total turn off..
it can be the most trusted and trusting part to play in someone else's sex life and should be respected as such..
enjoy... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"it does and it can be fun..
the vast majority of guys who say they are 'bulls' dont in our experience know the first thing about it..
as the male i have carried out the role with other's and it can be anything from the husband making the tea and waiting to be called upstairs to sit outside and listen to another who she like to do 'the prep'..
its more than just having a big cock, and arrogance has no part in it..total turn off..
it can be the most trusted and trusting part to play in someone else's sex life and should be respected as such..
enjoy... "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Personally we don't understand cuckolding. When we meet single guys it's so mrsd has as extra cock to play with. I never just sit and watch, I'm never in another room listening etc. I join in and have my fun with the wife too.
Each to their own I suppose, just don't get it myself. "
Can generally agree, but sometimes I like to watch too - but never don't play |
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My husband loves watching me from the very start of the meet with the sometimes nervous guy sat there not knowing if he can touch or kiss etc but once the shyness has gone and we are playing properly together we go off to the bedroom where hubby often just sits back and watches me having fun as he says it does help him learn different little tricks others guys do to make me go further than normally would ... he is also pretty good with the camera during meets lol xx |
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"Does cuckolding really exist?people have it on their profile but never want to just watch their partner!!
I watch and join in, with no M:M contact. I love watching her, she loves trying out different cock and the guy/s love it! Everybody wins! What I find strange though is the 'media' perception, presenting the word 'cuckold' and inferring it's some kind of S&M/humiliation thing. It may be for some, but every other guy of a 'hot wife' type couple is in a relationship where both people know what they like and like to see each other have fun. The 'egocentric'/'raging bull'/'humiliation' type thing only exists in the minds who fancy themselves as 'conquering bulls' and of the 'cuckold' media perception in our experience. However, as we say, possibly some folk are into the humiliation thing - but certainly no-one we've ever come across "
would agree, and would suggest that with that perception being prevelant it stops a lot of (mostly but not all) males from trying it with their partner..
the patriarchal society we live in with its perceptions of 'being a strong male' and conforming to said has a lot to answer for and not only in this aspect..
long way to go.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Does cuckolding really exist?people have it on their profile but never want to just watch their partner!!
I watch and join in, with no M:M contact. I love watching her, she loves trying out different cock and the guy/s love it! Everybody wins! What I find strange though is the 'media' perception, presenting the word 'cuckold' and inferring it's some kind of S&M/humiliation thing. It may be for some, but every other guy of a 'hot wife' type couple is in a relationship where both people know what they like and like to see each other have fun. The 'egocentric'/'raging bull'/'humiliation' type thing only exists in the minds who fancy themselves as 'conquering bulls' and of the 'cuckold' media perception in our experience. However, as we say, possibly some folk are into the humiliation thing - but certainly no-one we've ever come across
would agree, and would suggest that with that perception being prevelant it stops a lot of (mostly but not all) males from trying it with their partner..
the patriarchal society we live in with its perceptions of 'being a strong male' and conforming to said has a lot to answer for and not only in this aspect..
long way to go.."
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I have found after arranging to meet couples who like this lifestyle it is very often obvious this is the male fantasy not the female. This comes from experience unfortunately. When it comes to number exchange or a quick webcam chat to prove to each other we all are who we say we are the communication often stops immediately. No way would I travel long distance without confirming who I am meeting. There were comments on the mindset of the game. I totally agree. This is a very mental stimulated game backed up by physical action where there is large scope for doing it wrong unless you do your homework and find out what the couple both want. Very intense when it all works
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