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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Something we've encountered a few times recently, more or less along these lines:
Step 1. Receive a wink from a single female profile.
Step 2. Check profile and see nice pics and verifications. Description states she likes to meet couples. No mention of a partner.
Step 3. Send email to single female saying thanks for wink, and attach face pics.
Step 4. Receive email back from single female saying 'wow, lovely pics, would you like to meet sometime?'.
Step 5. Send message back saying 'that would be great, when did you have in mind, and would you like to chat on the phone?'.
Step 6. Receive email back from single female asking, 'would you mind if my fuck buddy joined us - he's really nice?'.
Step 7. Laugh and say to ourselves, 'told you so'.
Step 8. Block 'her' profile and move on.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Something we've encountered a few times recently, more or less along these lines:
Step 1. Receive a wink from a single female profile.
Step 2. Check profile and see nice pics and verifications. Description states she likes to meet couples. No mention of a partner.
Step 3. Send email to single female saying thanks for wink, and attach face pics.
Step 4. Receive email back from single female saying 'wow, lovely pics, would you like to meet sometime?'.
Step 5. Send message back saying 'that would be great, when did you have in mind, and would you like to chat on the phone?'.
Step 6. Receive email back from single female asking, 'would you mind if my fuck buddy joined us - he's really nice?'.
Step 7. Laugh and say to ourselves, 'told you so'.
Step 8. Block 'her' profile and move on.
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"Something we've encountered a few times recently, more or less along these lines:
Step 1. Receive a wink from a single female profile.
Step 2. Check profile and see nice pics and verifications. Description states she likes to meet couples. No mention of a partner.
Step 3. Send email to single female saying thanks for wink, and attach face pics.
Step 4. Receive email back from single female saying 'wow, lovely pics, would you like to meet sometime?'.
Step 5. Send message back saying 'that would be great, when did you have in mind, and would you like to chat on the phone?'.
Step 6. Receive email back from single female asking, 'would you mind if my fuck buddy joined us - he's really nice?'.
Step 7. Laugh and say to ourselves, 'told you so'.
Step 8. Block 'her' profile and move on.
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Seen it far to often
Its when you agree and arrange the meet and only the FB turns up lolololol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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repeat that over and over and over and still message will not get accross ... 
These "pretend" single fems and or couples are the bain of sites like these and give the genuine people a bad name....and trust me your experience is shard by many single men ...
and we move on lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What's the script with single people mentioning they have a FB in their single profile anyway? Shouldn't they class themselves as a couple or have a couple profile and a single guy and single girl profile? Perhaps when making profile admin could add a FB couple thingy to clarify.... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"What's the script with single people mentioning they have a FB in their single profile anyway? Shouldn't they class themselves as a couple or have a couple profile and a single guy and single girl profile? Perhaps when making profile admin could add a FB couple thingy to clarify...."
It might help but I suspect those who want to mislead (lie) will do it anyway. All part of the Fab experience  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Had an honest mail from FB's this morning, they had created a couples profile for meeting together. Which is probably the right thing to do if your relationship evolves that way.
Don't know why they messaged us though as she was straight.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What's the script with single people mentioning they have a FB in their single profile anyway? Shouldn't they class themselves as a couple or have a couple profile and a single guy and single girl profile? Perhaps when making profile admin could add a FB couple thingy to clarify...."
a couple is a couple whether they are in a relationship or just friends! so anyone wanting someone else to join in should have a couple profile to contact people with |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When you ask for a female to female phone chat, it usually results in no more messages being sent.
Wonder why? "
Because she may be worried about you whispering sweet orgasmic words into her ear, making her lose control and breaking the phone.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"When you ask for a female to female phone chat, it usually results in no more messages being sent.
Wonder why? "
Way back when, not on this site, we had a single 'woman' message us saying she couldn't speak on the phone as she had laryngitis |
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"When you ask for a female to female phone chat, it usually results in no more messages being sent.
Wonder why? "
Yeah we have had that can not understand why though
Must be our profile putting them off !!! we have been told our profile makes us sound up our own arses ???  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Must be our profile putting them off !!! we have been told our profile makes us sound up our own arses ??? "
That's a handy trick if you can't get a meet, though |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When you ask for a female to female phone chat, it usually results in no more messages being sent.
Wonder why?
Way back when, not on this site, we had a single 'woman' message us saying she couldn't speak on the phone as she had laryngitis "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When you ask for a female to female phone chat, it usually results in no more messages being sent.
Wonder why?
Yeah we have had that can not understand why though
Must be our profile putting them off !!! we have been told our profile makes us sound up our own arses ??? "
We have had similar. Oh well.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I wonder if it wasnt just the single male FB who was behind all this "
That was our feeling. Our guess was that the single female was real but the profile was 'driven' by the FB. No way of knowing for sure of course (and frankly don't care ,really) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Had that happen to us a few times too where it all goes well and have been chatting for a cpl of days, then just as were are about to arrange a meet the female turns around and asks if her fuck buddy can come along too, and then she adds he's really hot and has a big cock,,, 9/10 we can norm see it coming but when it does we too just block them and move one  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I hide my fuck buddy in the cellar and only let her out for verifications
When we meet they often comment on her pale complexion. Thank fuck for Breaking Dawn ... shit film but great as a cover. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When you ask for a female to female phone chat, it usually results in no more messages being sent.
Wonder why? "
i know! Sorts the girls out from the er... men? Dw theyll message u again once they think youv forgot! |
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"When you ask for a female to female phone chat, it usually results in no more messages being sent.
Wonder why? "
haha you would hate us then Mrs C has a real hate talking on the phone thing!
As for the topic, it has happened more than once to us, must be nice to have someone willing to arrange meets for you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't get why they don't just make a couples profile if they are looking for couple meets and leave the single profile for when they are meeting as a single. |
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when arranging to meet as a single, I will and have never brought anyone to tag along. Have a couples profile for that and sometimes I wanna be selfish and have a lady ir couple all to myself
But yes, I have come across the same situation on more than one occasion with single men as well as women |
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"Something we've encountered a few times recently, more or less along these lines:
Step 1. Receive a wink from a single female profile.
Step 2. Check profile and see nice pics and verifications. Description states she likes to meet couples. No mention of a partner.
Step 3. Send email to single female saying thanks for wink, and attach face pics.
Step 4. Receive email back from single female saying 'wow, lovely pics, would you like to meet sometime?'.
Step 5. Send message back saying 'that would be great, when did you have in mind, and would you like to chat on the phone?'.
Step 6. Receive email back from single female asking, 'would you mind if my fuck buddy joined us - he's really nice?'.
Step 7. Laugh and say to ourselves, 'told you so'.
Step 8. Block 'her' profile and move on.
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I would have sent an email back saying no sorry we only want to meet you.
seeing as it was a fuck buddy and not partner or hubby she might have still met you 
Then if she came back and said I only meet with my fuck buddy then we would have blocked and deleted.
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By *ex mad 2Woman
over a year ago
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This sort of thing makes me cross. I have a couple profile on here for me & my husband. This single profile is for me to meet as a single - not to be used to get interest from couples & then say my husband will be there too.
Seen so many 'single female' profiles that talk about husband/fb/boyfriend so they aren't meeting as a single female. Worse though, as op said when there is a hidden husband/fb/boyfriend  |
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By *msmithWoman
over a year ago
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hmm.. i'm a single female.. who just happen to 'swing' with few play mates.. i play on my own most of the times, but sometimes would probably want to play in a bigger group i.e. threesomes or foursomes or more with me and one of my playmates with either another single or couple or more..
i dont want to have a 'couples' profile just because i cant have few couples profile with all my playmates, that is just ridiculous..
so yes, i have play mates, but not necessarily play with them.. i guess if a couple wants to block me every time i bring up my playmates, then i guess thats their choice.. i have nothing to lose.. each to their own i guess..
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"hmm.. i'm a single female.. who just happen to 'swing' with few play mates.. i play on my own most of the times, but sometimes would probably want to play in a bigger group i.e. threesomes or foursomes or more with me and one of my playmates with either another single or couple or more..
i dont want to have a 'couples' profile just because i cant have few couples profile with all my playmates, that is just ridiculous..
so yes, i have play mates, but not necessarily play with them.. i guess if a couple wants to block me every time i bring up my playmates, then i guess thats their choice.. i have nothing to lose.. each to their own i guess..
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Thing is though like you say you play on your own and do not try to throw a playmate onto someone who has contacted you as a single female.
You do not necessarily need a couples profile as if you wanted to play as a couple or more YOU could write to people and ask them if they would like to play with you and your playmates, that way you as a single woman are asking not throwing them onto anyone |
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By *msmithWoman
over a year ago
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"hmm.. i'm a single female.. who just happen to 'swing' with few play mates.. i play on my own most of the times, but sometimes would probably want to play in a bigger group i.e. threesomes or foursomes or more with me and one of my playmates with either another single or couple or more..
i dont want to have a 'couples' profile just because i cant have few couples profile with all my playmates, that is just ridiculous..
so yes, i have play mates, but not necessarily play with them.. i guess if a couple wants to block me every time i bring up my playmates, then i guess thats their choice.. i have nothing to lose.. each to their own i guess..
Thing is though like you say you play on your own and do not try to throw a playmate onto someone who has contacted you as a single female.
You do not necessarily need a couples profile as if you wanted to play as a couple or more YOU could write to people and ask them if they would like to play with you and your playmates, that way you as a single woman are asking not throwing them onto anyone"
yep.. thats what i do.. if i want a couple/girl/guy for me and my playmate, i'd message them first and tell them i've got few play mates to choose from.. if they're interested.. =)
its a bit difficult when they are interested in me, but not the guy..
hmm.. might ask that in the forum, what do i do if i like one half of the couple but not the other.. what if the girl is pretty but the guy is.. err.. not my type..  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What's the script with single people mentioning they have a FB in their single profile anyway? Shouldn't they class themselves as a couple or have a couple profile and a single guy and single girl profile? Perhaps when making profile admin could add a FB couple thingy to clarify...."
I have both my single profile and a shared profile with my FB...both are for different purposes but I guess an overlap could be possible, although to me that would come after a first meet as per the advertised profile! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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if i have had a couple contact me where they say only the male about looking to play atm, then i reply saying he needs a single male account and join the queue with the rest of the single guys! |
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