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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Just putting this out there, I am always more than happy if a lady lets me give her a oral for as long as she likes even if the pleasure isn't returned. As long as she enjoys it is the main objective as I get my pleasure from giving it anyway! Am I in the minority? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would be happy to give and not receive. Live going down on a lady andcstaying there as ling aspossible. Usually get pushed away as most women have been too sensitive and cant take the attention i have to give for hours lolx |
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I love this type of meet, nothing better than giving plenty of oral licking between her thighs! 
I have used other sites where it was oral and nothing expected in return with the option of if they made a move for more then that is available but the meet would be no pressure and 100% okay with lick and go.
But like person above found many a female against this, on this site. Same with erotic massages and oral.
Still to the point, I love giving oral, plenty of orgasms, and bonus if squirter/watersports = happy me   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I can sympathise with both sides of the fence on this.
My wife loves me going down on her. I do get great pleasure, not only from making her cum, but also the control I can have in deciding when and how hard I can make her cum (often edging and teasing her).
However she won't go down on me in return, which I would love her to do. I would hope she could get the same enjoyment from it (giving) as I do with her. |
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"Ive always loved this But judging from previous posts, it doesnt seem many Women enjoy this type of meet or dont believe guys who say this is all they want"
Because most women (I assume) would most like a mutual exchange of pleasure during a meet. Such a meet would also put a lot of pressure on the female to react to your ‘giving’ in a way that you hoped for.
Obviously there are going to be exceptions - some FemDoms would certainly like this from a sub they have trust and a dynamic with - but most won’t outside of a relationship in my opinion. |
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Sex without reciprocity is a bizarre concept to me.
Pleasure for pleasure makes more sense so much one sexual act in return for another but a kind of meeting in the middle... symbiosis... merging of minds... souls.. bodies etc.
When men I've never spoken to contact me with the 'tantalising' offer of performing oral with 'nothing expected in return' it always repulses me because- without knowing what I enjoy they won't even get my pleasure in return.
It strikes me as an entirely one sided experience which only benefits the one party. Which isn't really the point of sex... might as well just have a wank.
Knowing your audience is paramount.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just putting this out there, I am always more than happy if a lady lets me give her a oral for as long as she likes even if the pleasure isn't returned. As long as she enjoys it is the main objective as I get my pleasure from giving it anyway! Am I in the minority?"
Pople will assume you saying you will come and give her oral and want nothing in return as bullshit. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i can get all the oral only sex i want from cuck ...so for me any lick only meets are a no no when i want sex i want sex full on sex lasting as long as poss full on oral fingers cock fucking and other things thrown in for good measure,,
so for me i avoid these oral only profiles |
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"i can get all the oral only sex i want from cuck ...so for me any lick only meets are a no no when i want sex i want sex full on sex lasting as long as poss full on oral fingers cock fucking and other things thrown in for good measure,,
so for me i avoid these oral only profiles "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've tried to give the Mrs oral only many of times, she won't have it, after a few orgasms she's desperate for cock, she says she's not fulfilled unless I finish her off.
I do love oral and can be satisfied just watching her having multiples whilst sat on my face  |
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By *iking67Man
over a year ago
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I had a meet yonks ago arranged for me to give her oral only walked in she forcefully demanded I got straight to it as I did lol after a couple of orgasms she just said ok that's enough fuck off passed her hubby on the stairs both smiling went home and had probably the best wank of my life so yep I'm all for it |
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By *ebbie69Couple
over a year ago
milton keynes |
"I've tried to give the Mrs oral only many of times, she won't have it, after a few orgasms she's desperate for cock, she says she's not fulfilled unless I finish her off.
I do love oral and can be satisfied just watching her having multiples whilst sat on my face "
I'm with her on this. I do love being made to orgasm several times through oral but I always want a good seeing to after. If there is a cock there then I want it |
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That would make a change usually for me it's been am all in there for oral and lots of foreplay and he's not even went there and thats disappointing....
Fairs fair if you ask me...returning the favour is always my thing too!I just don't get it lads don't return the favour!
Cj x |
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Personally I sort of disagree with that. Not in terms of tit for tat, I did this she owes me equivalent etc. For me I'm looking for a mutual exchange of enjoyment and pleasure. Basically I want someome to lavish attention on me too. I want to be adored and have energy and attention focused on me as well. I get some guys are perfectly happy just giving one way but personally I don't want a Pillow Queen. I like team work, I want everyone to feel treated, including myself. Everyone getting theirs that is what I find hot and rewarding. |
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By *ase4122Man
over a year ago
Lancashire |
"That would make a change usually for me it's been am all in there for oral and lots of foreplay and he's not even went there and thats disappointing....
Fairs fair if you ask me...returning the favour is always my thing too!I just don't get it lads don't return the favour!
Cj x"
I'm disappointed for you CJ, I'd be in like flynn to give you so well deserved oral |
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I (Mr) have done this a couple of times when we were on another site.
Both times it was ladies whose Husband wouldn’t preform oral.
They thoroughly enjoyed it as did I
I have read in some of the above comments about how some ladies aren’t comfortable just receiving please and not giving any back.
That is misunderstanding the excitement and pleasure guys get from doing it.
They are getting something in return. |
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"That would make a change usually for me it's been am all in there for oral and lots of foreplay and he's not even went there and thats disappointing....
Fairs fair if you ask me...returning the favour is always my thing too!I just don't get it lads don't return the favour!
Cj x
I'm disappointed for you CJ, I'd be in like flynn to give you so well deserved oral"
Thanks xx  |
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