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By *eauty and the beast 555 OP Couple over a year ago

Walsall

Hi all. Looking for tips really. We are looking for a single lady to join us. We've messaged quite a few and we don't have any replies from any of them. We know there are some fakes and we know they get bombarded by single men. Does anyone have any tips

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By *issmorganWoman over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Hi op

First thing I'd say is if you both want to play with the lady,you need more pics of the man .

You can't tell anything about him from the one pic and a lady would need attraction to you both .

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have included couple's on mine but only if the man is playing too. Most couples only seem to want bi play that message me.

Good look with your search though xxxx

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By *eauty and the beast 555 OP Couple over a year ago

Walsall

Thanks both. Both of us would be playing and we do send more pictures of the man when we message as there kept private because of his work

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By *heekyredsoloWoman over a year ago

bromborough

Hey guys,

Just had a read of your profile and as Mr only does soft play… you might find thats the reason you have limits to your replies……

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By *ohnandJulieCouple over a year ago

"Hi all. Looking for tips really. We are looking for a single lady to join us. We've messaged quite a few and we don't have any replies from any of them. We know there are some fakes and we know they get bombarded by single men. Does anyone have any tips"

So Mr is not looking to have sex with the single lady?

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By *eauty and the beast 555 OP Couple over a year ago

Walsall

Thanks we did have a thought that maybe why

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple over a year ago

Leeds

I'd suggest more pics of the male, I wouldn't meet or reply to messages with just a cock pic personally.

Also the soft swing for the Mr maybe off-putting to some.

Mrs

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By *eauty and the beast 555 OP Couple over a year ago

Walsall

So Mr is not looking to have sex with the single lady?

No everything but full sex

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I want sex with both. Not just do the bi bit. A hell of a lot of couples. Say the same in their profiles. It's each to their own though. You have to suit what you want though.

Does he just not want full sex with someone else?

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By *ohnandJulieCouple over a year ago

So Mr is not looking to have sex with the single lady?

No everything but full sex"

Cool. Just clarify it in your profile!

You are looking for a unicorn, but good luck to you both!!

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By *eauty and the beast 555 OP Couple over a year ago

Walsall

"I want sex with both. Not just do the bi bit. A hell of a lot of couples. Say the same in their profiles. It's each to their own though. You have to suit what you want though.

Does he just not want full sex with someone else?"

Yeah it's just the full sexhe doesn't want to do

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Well that seals it! If you guys can’t get a single lady to join you then we’re giving up right now!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I want sex with both. Not just do the bi bit. A hell of a lot of couples. Say the same in their profiles. It's each to their own though. You have to suit what you want though.

Does he just not want full sex with someone else?"

But you're not currently meeting

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By *eauty and the beast 555 OP Couple over a year ago

Walsall

Well that seals it! If you guys can’t get a single lady to join you then we’re giving up right now!

thanks for the compliment. Great profile by the way x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Fab isn't great for single females as the get hounded, your best bet is at a club, you look hot so I'm sure you'll have no issues there

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By *ohnandJulieCouple over a year ago

Fab isn't great for single females as the get hounded, your best bet is at a club, you look hot so I'm sure you'll have no issues there

Great advice!!

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By *eauty and the beast 555 OP Couple over a year ago

Walsall

Fab isn't great for single females as the get hounded, your best bet is at a club, you look hot so I'm sure you'll have no issues there

Great advice!!

Yeah great thanks our normal club has gone shit of late so we are looking further afield. X

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Fab isn't great for single females as the get hounded, your best bet is at a club, you look hot so I'm sure you'll have no issues there

Great advice!!

Yeah great thanks our normal club has gone shit of late so we are looking further afield. X"

Join us at xtasia

There was lots of single females in on Saturday looking to play x

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By *ohnandJulieCouple over a year ago

Fab isn't great for single females as the get hounded, your best bet is at a club, you look hot so I'm sure you'll have no issues there

Great advice!!

Yeah great thanks our normal club has gone shit of late so we are looking further afield. X"

Xtasia.

Absolutely fantastic club

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By *eauty and the beast 555 OP Couple over a year ago

Walsall

Fab isn't great for single females as the get hounded, your best bet is at a club, you look hot so I'm sure you'll have no issues there

Great advice!!

Yeah great thanks our normal club has gone shit of late so we are looking further afield. X

Xtasia.

Absolutely fantastic club

We've been there didn't like it there. We do like the dress down clubs

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By *ohnandJulieCouple over a year ago

Fab isn't great for single females as the get hounded, your best bet is at a club, you look hot so I'm sure you'll have no issues there

Great advice!!

Yeah great thanks our normal club has gone shit of late so we are looking further afield. X

Xtasia.

Absolutely fantastic club

We've been there didn't like it there. We do like the dress down clubs"

Each to there own, but we love it!!

Xtasia have no issues with you being naked anywhere in the club!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We love xtasia, had fun with a gorgeous unicorn on Saturday and offers from another beautiful lady, you can walk round completely naked if you want to alot do

~ Mrs Sinner x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Like others have said I’d imagine the Mr not having sex with the Bi F is the issue as with so many couples looking for single females they’re spoilt for choice!

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By * and BCouple over a year ago

Durham

We do agree clubs are best. Xtasia is one of the worst experiences we ever had at a club so like you OP we didn't like it at all. All we can say is to try several. We found one of the best clubs we went to was Jaydees, bloody typical the furthest one away from us that we tryed. We now drive 220 mile there and have a great weekend. We have had fun with single females in a club but they are still difficult to find as it is on fab. The enjoyment is the journey

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Well that seals it! If you guys can’t get a single lady to join you then we’re giving up right now!

thanks for the compliment. Great profile by the way x"

Your very welcome and likewise xxx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The single female interested in joining a mfcouple is definitely quite hard to find.

Whilst we all know that the vast majority of people are single males, there are still plenty of all types of variations looking for all sorts of different fun meets.

From a single female perspective I suppose safety is an issue. It'd be interesting to hear a single female's point of view on this.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"The single female interested in joining a mfcouple is definitely quite hard to find.

Whilst we all know that the vast majority of people are single males, there are still plenty of all types of variations looking for all sorts of different fun meets.

From a single female perspective I suppose safety is an issue. It'd be interesting to hear a single female's point of view on this."

Safety is definitely a big concern for me. I have arranged to meet couples before and only the male half turned up! Really annoying and kinda puts you off after that

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By *razy ShenanigansCouple over a year ago

Chelmsford

It's definitely not easy, we both want to meet a lady for a full on three way connection, all playing together, hopefully develop a friendship....we have plenty of (apparently great) pics of us both, faces on display as well and in over a year and a half, we've had one social with a single woman....(More was planned but she disappeared from our group chat and from Fab and we haven't heard a thing since)

We've kinda resigned ourselves to the fact that it probably won't happen online....obviously we hope it will, but it's not very likely given that these women are in very high demand. Unfortunately that's the way it is...

Maybe it'll happen one day....maybe

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I want sex with both. Not just do the bi bit. A hell of a lot of couples. Say the same in their profiles. It's each to their own though. You have to suit what you want though.

Does he just not want full sex with someone else?

But you're not currently meeting

I get asked to meet in every message. It always says that to attempt to put off some of the messages. I dont know why I put it tbh. It doesn't actually work lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I want sex with both. Not just do the bi bit. A hell of a lot of couples. Say the same in their profiles. It's each to their own though. You have to suit what you want though.

Does he just not want full sex with someone else?

But you're not currently meeting

Your ass tattoo is perfection!

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By *assing Fancies xCouple over a year ago

Sherwood Forest

Patience.... and lots of it.... not trying to sound condescending but there are only a handful of unicorn types on here and as a couple you have to fit thier taste and general wants and needs just as much as they do yours.

For every 20 messages we send out we may only get 1 or 2 replies and they don't always end up coming to fruition

we just roll with it and don't ever get excited about a meet or individual until we are sat beside them having a chat as things and plans can always change.

You guys look lovely so I'm sure you'll find that girl at the end of the rainbow

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I want sex with both. Not just do the bi bit. A hell of a lot of couples. Say the same in their profiles. It's each to their own though. You have to suit what you want though.

Does he just not want full sex with someone else?

But you're not currently meeting

Your ass tattoo is perfection!"

Your ass in general is perfection

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By *partharmonyCouple over a year ago

Ruislip

My advice is get to know people just because you like them. We never contact or meet anybody with an agenda. If it gets sexual then great and if it doesn't then it's still great to have a friend.

Many women (even here) would be put off if they thought they were just being treated as a sex toy.

This is the approach we take, and despite being a very average couple in ways, we have interest from more women than we could ever take up. Luke

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's a whopper lol

"I want sex with both. Not just do the bi bit. A hell of a lot of couples. Say the same in their profiles. It's each to their own though. You have to suit what you want though.

Does he just not want full sex with someone else?

But you're not currently meeting

Your ass tattoo is perfection!

Your ass in general is perfection

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's a whopper lol

I want sex with both. Not just do the bi bit. A hell of a lot of couples. Say the same in their profiles. It's each to their own though. You have to suit what you want though.

Does he just not want full sex with someone else?

But you're not currently meeting

Your ass tattoo is perfection!

Your ass in general is perfection

Can sit that on my face any day

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Both or just one of you lol

"It's a whopper lol

I want sex with both. Not just do the bi bit. A hell of a lot of couples. Say the same in their profiles. It's each to their own though. You have to suit what you want though.

Does he just not want full sex with someone else?

But you're not currently meeting

Your ass tattoo is perfection!

Your ass in general is perfection

Can sit that on my face any day

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Both or just one of you lol

It's a whopper lol

I want sex with both. Not just do the bi bit. A hell of a lot of couples. Say the same in their profiles. It's each to their own though. You have to suit what you want though.

Does he just not want full sex with someone else?

But you're not currently meeting

Your ass tattoo is perfection!

Your ass in general is perfection

Can sit that on my face any day

Well we come as a couple so it's a buy one get one free deal

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By *icentiousCouple over a year ago

Up on them there hills

I suspect couples are often incongruent and try to hard.,

The fun and freedom of exploration of each other’s sexuality is stunning ‘specially if the girls are truly bi.

Bi women know what they want, let them be comfortable in how things start.

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By *eyond PurityCouple over a year ago

Lincolnshire

I think the key is to not try.

We chat to women and allow them to feel comfortable and not pressured. If it goes further than friendship, great, if it doesn’t, also great.

As people have mentioned there are two issues with your current profile. Only one pic of Mr, which is the generic cock shot and that Mr won’t be having sex with the woman.

She may as well just be meeting a woman by herself.

If C is anything to go by…she needs to feel something inside her after playing with another woman.

Clubs might be the best bet as there’s no set expectations of what Mr is going to do and if you that reluctant about posting pics of Mr, due to work (always amazes me people worry that Sue who works opposite would be able to recognise every guys chest or bum

Mrs looks good and so it’s clearly not not being attractive…

Good luck

, we hope you get what you are after

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By *eekingjoy777Woman over a year ago

dorset

Just be yourselves xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think the key is to not try.

We chat to women and allow them to feel comfortable and not pressured. If it goes further than friendship, great, if it doesn’t, also great.

As people have mentioned there are two issues with your current profile. Only one pic of Mr, which is the generic cock shot and that Mr won’t be having sex with the woman.

She may as well just be meeting a woman by herself.

If C is anything to go by…she needs to feel something inside her after playing with another woman.

Mrs looks good and so it’s clearly not not being attractive…

Good luck

, we hope you get what you are after

Hit the nail on the head here

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By *eauty and the beast 555 OP Couple over a year ago

Walsall

"I think the key is to not try.

We chat to women and allow them to feel comfortable and not pressured. If it goes further than friendship, great, if it doesn’t, also great.

As people have mentioned there are two issues with your current profile. Only one pic of Mr, which is the generic cock shot and that Mr won’t be having sex with the woman.

She may as well just be meeting a woman by herself.

If C is anything to go by…she needs to feel something inside her after playing with another woman.

Mrs looks good and so it’s clearly not not being attractive…

Good luck

, we hope you get what you are after

He would be easily recognised as he's cover in tattoos

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By *allySlinkyWoman over a year ago

Leeds

For me the negatives are the soft swing only, just one pic of the male, you are both smokers and being asked to send a clear face pic with first message.

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By *eauty and the beast 555 OP Couple over a year ago

Walsall

Thank you to everyone's messages and advise. They have all been very help full

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Thank you to everyone's messages and advise. They have all been very help full"

Just stick with what is true to you. If he doesn't want to have full sex then stick with that. No pressure. You have to stay true to yourselves. You are a stunning couple. It will work out for you xxx

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By *iverpool 2Couple over a year ago

Liverpool

We really really struggle to find single ladies too

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"We really really struggle to find single ladies too

We've found the best way is to not make it your goal, generally we find fab leads nowhere anyway so we generally play in clubs and we enjoy the play we get with couples, if play with a single female happens its a bonus x

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By *eyond PurityCouple over a year ago

Lincolnshire

"He would be easily recognised as he's cover in tattoos "

Smart suit, clothed pics, t-shirt. There’s a cock pic which could be covered in boxers to make it more appealing rather than obvious.

Tattoos can be blurred in pics…

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By *eniandMikeCouple over a year ago

Edinburgh

We are looking for a single female, vixen, unicorn also.

Speaking to a few at the moment, just take your time be polite, and set out what your all looking for. People will let you know if they are interested or not. Just be open and honest!

M&J x

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By *eyeYCouple over a year ago

Nr Leicester

All the best wishes with the search! Not an easy one

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"He would be easily recognised as he's cover in tattoos

Smart suit, clothed pics, t-shirt. There’s a cock pic which could be covered in boxers to make it more appealing rather than obvious.

Tattoos can be blurred in pics…

That's true. I'm covered in ink and you wouldn't know from the pictures

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By * and BCouple over a year ago

Durham

"I think the key is to not try.

We chat to women and allow them to feel comfortable and not pressured. If it goes further than friendship, great, if it doesn’t, also great.

As people have mentioned there are two issues with your current profile. Only one pic of Mr, which is the generic cock shot and that Mr won’t be having sex with the woman.

She may as well just be meeting a woman by herself.

If C is anything to go by…she needs to feel something inside her after playing with another woman.

Mrs looks good and so it’s clearly not not being attractive…

Good luck

, we hope you get what you are after

He would be easily recognised as he's cover in tattoos "

You started this thread for advice, try not to be dismissive, work round it

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