Frauds come in all flavours, and in higher numbers than we'd first expect. That leaves a bad taste in the mouth and taints our perceptions, leaving those who may seem like frauds but are genuine out of luck with the tainted. Such is life, but let's not forget that guy's are not the problem. Bad humans are.
So many single girls want to bring a FB, and twice have just turned up with one. Mrs and myself told them to sling it. I understand personal safety, and I also understand that those gals should have just had a couples profile if they only meet as a cpl.
Catfishing with old pics or girls using very drastic face changing filters, others described as slim or athletic who are over average weight, sometimes obese. Also seen a few described as average or curvy but are slim/athletic. Maybe fab should just have measurements for our profiles, as words are open to interpretation.
People lied, cheated, stole, and killed for sex before the internet. It's the internet, expect to be lied to, scammed, and stalked. It's the wild west, and some people can be shite.
We currently and haven't been meeting for over three years. This mainly due to Mrs' health (early menopause being one issue) and my desire to play with her involved. If an irresistible offer for me to play alone pops up (none have in over ten years on fab) I'll consider it. Mrs had a meet solo in the past, and we don't like to leave the seesaw unbalanced. I haven't approached anyone to ask, like I said, it has to be offered, and then it has to really be something special. In recent months Mrs has been feeling better, a beast is awakening, desires and confidence returning. I will not fuck with her natural pace, or if she decides meets are a thing of the past. We both regularly read the forums, she uses her own profile (but doesn't like to post or comment), originally created when we lived in the chatrooms about 8 years ago and had two laptops.
Judge people or don't judge people... they aren't listening, they won't change, so really it's just wasting your time talking about something you don't like, instead of spending that time on something you do like. But yeah, a good occasional vent or rant is healthy. I certainly do it... and yes that is my time wasted. Irony is unescapable for us all, as are encountering reprobates online and in real.
I'd be interested to know if our profile pissed people off. Although it won't make me get a single guy profile, with no verifications, just incase I get a offered a night with Scarlett Johansson. |