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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago
Bristol |
We’ve had great meets where we play the dom&domme for a female submissive. We’ve always fancied putting ourselves into the hands of a domme to see how the tables are turned, but we’ve never had the opportunity.  |
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By *rhuges OP Man
over a year ago
Cardiff |
Counting up my sessions I've probably had around 25 22 as a sub 3 as a Dom.
Although I think of my self as naturally sub the two sessions that stand out for me are the ones were I was the Dom to sub ladies |
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That is probably where your true self lies then. I don't know many at all that truly understands and executes the Dom role....it all depends on the rules and the effort put in in both sides, I suppose... |
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By *ensualMan
over a year ago
Sutton |
I have to say this upfront the comments are my view. People are entitled to disagree and do kink their way. No criticism is being made, as people are entitled to their choices. I am just putting an alternate view.
I don't do roleplay.
There is a huge difference between: 1. roleplay, 2. topping and bottoming, and 3. being one's authentic self in D/S, and I don't mean the stereotype phrase of "naturally dominant/submissive". I am not sure which of the 3 above is actually meant when people say roleplay.
Unfortunately people talk about roleplay (which on Fab seems to be primarily based around ultimately having sex with "submissive women or dominant women"), but do not seem to understand the difference between topping and bottoming and being authentic to oneself in D/S.
I say authentic to oneself, because I don't believe in "one true way". But at the same time going around the local race track in a motorised go cart is not F1 motor racing. Similarly, in my view, roleplay is not D/s. To change the old phrase "roleplay uses the pstrich feather, D/S uses the ostrich"
Finding the right person is made difficult by the Internet providing the phrases for those who consider themselves dominant to use to when meeting people. When I read certain comments on Fab and FL, the comments look like the BDSM version of the Game.
So from my part, I dont do roleplay. I regularly top both in D/S and rope, however I would prefer a D/S relationship. |
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By *iamo69Man
over a year ago
South |
Currently a sub to my gf
We got a chasitity cage for a laugh
But after a week or two she asked me leave in on for a full day.that turned into 3 days.she then asked me if I want to enter an agreement with her that it stays on until she takes off
I agreed
Now I'm ordered do all the house work .or else it's a extra 3 days in cage.she wears the key on her neck
It's gone bit more serious now when she clicks her fingers I have to kneel until I'm told to get up.she now picks my clothes out everyday for me also.she said we can stop at any time but something about this is a turn on.been a sub is something I've never thought about
She asked me how far can she push it ..I told her as far as you want for now |
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