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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
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Lots of threads about single males finding it hard to get meets and the dastardly behaviour of the cheating man/woman. A slight twist here.
I have found some single men would prefer to meet married/attached women and don't want to meet when they find out that I am single. I have also had some married/attached men tell me they prefer to meet single women as it's too complicated married/attached women.
Any stories, examples, theories or thoughts? |
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We do not judge people on their status, if they want to play away from home that is their problem. All we do ask is that in the womans case they are single and not going to want to bring their other half along as in my thread earlier.
It can be difficult if you are attached to get away at the right time so to speak no last minute changes due to hubby surprising her on a night out, where as a single lady could meet at near enough anytime |
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"Lots of threads about single males finding it hard to get meets and the dastardly behaviour of the cheating man/woman. A slight twist here.
I have found some single men would prefer to meet married/attached women and don't want to meet when they find out that I am single. I have also had some married/attached men tell me they prefer to meet single women as it's too complicated married/attached women.
Any stories, examples, theories or thoughts?"
Well there are two things at work here.
Men with morals and a brain know full well not to get busy with a woman who plays around without the knowledge of her partner.
Then there are men who see single women as a waste of time because they get so much mail that she will just bunny hop to each offer without meeting.
It gets boring after the 2nd or 3rd time. |
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"We do not judge people on their status, if they want to play away from home that is their problem. All we do ask is that in the womans case they are single and not going to want to bring their other half along as in my thread earlier.
It can be difficult if you are attached to get away at the right time so to speak no last minute changes due to hubby surprising her on a night out, where as a single lady could meet at near enough anytime"
The married/attached men must also find it difficult to get away so why do they think it is acceptable to only meet single women and let them down? |
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"Lots of threads about single males finding it hard to get meets and the dastardly behaviour of the cheating man/woman. A slight twist here.
I have found some single men would prefer to meet married/attached women and don't want to meet when they find out that I am single. I have also had some married/attached men tell me they prefer to meet single women as it's too complicated married/attached women.
Any stories, examples, theories or thoughts?
Well there are two things at work here.
Men with morals and a brain know full well not to get busy with a woman who plays around without the knowledge of her partner.
Then there are men who see single women as a waste of time because they get so much mail that she will just bunny hop to each offer without meeting.
It gets boring after the 2nd or 3rd time."
I'm not entirely clear what you are saying here. I do think for some men that a second or third visit is boring though as they like the thrill of a one off meet. |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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Well as I don't meet women I am not sure about any differences between men and women. However, I know that men prefer not to accommodate, even if they have can accommodate on their profile. When I point out that I can't accommodate I get either 'well I have a car' or a message that says they like outdoor fun. When I then ask whether they can accommodate like they say, the excuses start. Not for one moment suggesting that they are married, but it does make me think. |
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"We do not judge people on their status, if they want to play away from home that is their problem. All we do ask is that in the womans case they are single and not going to want to bring their other half along as in my thread earlier.
It can be difficult if you are attached to get away at the right time so to speak no last minute changes due to hubby surprising her on a night out, where as a single lady could meet at near enough anytime
The married/attached men must also find it difficult to get away so why do they think it is acceptable to only meet single women and let them down?"
Sorry yes I should have wrote something like that too.
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Well as I don't meet women I am not sure about any differences between men and women. However, I know that men prefer not to accommodate, even if they have can accommodate on their profile. When I point out that I can't accommodate I get either 'well I have a car' or a message that says they like outdoor fun. When I then ask whether they can accommodate like they say, the excuses start. Not for one moment suggesting that they are married, but it does make me think."
The other universal truth: a woman must accommodate. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Lots of threads about single males finding it hard to get meets and the dastardly behaviour of the cheating man/woman. A slight twist here.
I have found some single men would prefer to meet married/attached women and don't want to meet when they find out that I am single. I have also had some married/attached men tell me they prefer to meet single women as it's too complicated married/attached women.
Any stories, examples, theories or thoughts?
Well there are two things at work here.
Men with morals and a brain know full well not to get busy with a woman who plays around without the knowledge of her partner.
Then there are men who see single women as a waste of time because they get so much mail that she will just bunny hop to each offer without meeting.
It gets boring after the 2nd or 3rd time.
I'm not entirely clear what you are saying here. I do think for some men that a second or third visit is boring though as they like the thrill of a one off meet."
Visit? No I wasn't on about meets.
More like the single women getting offers from a guy, liking the attention and then jumping to another guy who sent her a message.
It gets boring after 3 women do this. |
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
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Well there are two things at work here.
Men with morals and a brain know full well not to get busy with a woman who plays around without the knowledge of her partner.
Then there are men who see single women as a waste of time because they get so much mail that she will just bunny hop to each offer without meeting.
It gets boring after the 2nd or 3rd time.
I'm not entirely clear what you are saying here. I do think for some men that a second or third visit is boring though as they like the thrill of a one off meet.
Visit? No I wasn't on about meets.
More like the single women getting offers from a guy, liking the attention and then jumping to another guy who sent her a message.
It gets boring after 3 women do this."
Thanks. I don't understand this. Some men may think I am doing this, when I don't, but I do take my time to get to know someone before meeting. There may be two, three or more men I am communicating with at any one time but have not met as diaries or other issues get in the way. That would not be obvious to any of the men unless I told them.
My post is really about the fact that as a single woman I would prefer to meet single men. Single men sometimes tell me they only meet attached women as they can guarantee NSA that way. |
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I meet the non attached men... why because I have been in the situation where I was the "other woman" and when shit hit the fan.. My life was made hell by the wife and her family. (saw texts on hubby phone). I do not want to put myself in that situation again... As you know what at that time I really felt a slag.. I did not get any support from the man involved...
I understand why there is married men on here.. I get the sexless marriage I was in one.. Its my preference who I meet but I do tend to see men that can accommodate and able to enjoy the free time have instead of feeling used when he has to get back to wifey because its pub kicking out time... |
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I even included in my profile that it could take some time before I am able to meet a newbie, as I only meet once a month, and need to know the person well enough before I would agree to meet.
Nowadays I would repeat this information in the first or second message exchange.
Those who are still interested would continue with PM exchanges.
It helps to filter out those that are worthy of my time and efforts.
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By (user no longer on site)
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My post is really about the fact that as a single woman I would prefer to meet single men. Single men sometimes tell me they only meet attached women as they can guarantee NSA that way."
I think they have put it down to experience.
A man may have had better experiences with a couple and easier access to sex whereas a single woman would have a bigger list of men to sleep with and his chances are diminished.
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