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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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Hormonal changes.
Lack of arousal.
Stress... there are lots of external factors OP, it doesn't necessarily mean a woman isn't enjoying herself. If I've had a bit to drink I'm definitely a bit drier. Lube isn't your enemy. Same with communication. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Could it mean just less pleasure? "
It’s a possibility but it’s much more likely to be one of the many other factors already described above. If your partner is affected by this only good communication will tell you which it is |
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"Could it mean just less pleasure? "
I wouldn’t say less pleasure but it’s uncomfortable when you are drier than normal. I found as I have gone through menopause that I just need more foreplay to get me going, it’s not impossible to get me wet, but it’s definitely more effort than 10 years ago… although, fortunately, Mr V manages to get me wet on a regular basis, a lot of our stimulation is mental as well as physical, so definitely need to think about that part of sex rather than just the physical side of things.
Mrs x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Could it mean just less pleasure?
I wouldn’t say less pleasure but it’s uncomfortable when you are drier than normal. I found as I have gone through menopause that I just need more foreplay to get me going, it’s not impossible to get me wet, but it’s definitely more effort than 10 years ago… although, fortunately, Mr V manages to get me wet on a regular basis, a lot of our stimulation is mental as well as physical, so definitely need to think about that part of sex rather than just the physical side of things.
Mrs x"
Sometimes she is very wet since beggining of the start action, sometimes she is dry in beggining but after little bit gettting wet |
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"No shame in using lube whatever the cause of dryness 
Of course, but when wetness will happen natural is much better feelings for a man."
I see. As long as the man has much better feelings that's ok then. |
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"No shame in using lube whatever the cause of dryness
Of course, but when wetness will happen natural is much better feelings for a man.
I see. As long as the man has much better feelings that's ok then. "
That was my thought too! |
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"No shame in using lube whatever the cause of dryness
Of course, but when wetness will happen natural is much better feelings for a man."
As long as your enjoying yourself that's all that matters eh!  |
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"No shame in using lube whatever the cause of dryness
Of course, but when wetness will happen natural is much better feelings for a man.
I see. As long as the man has much better feelings that's ok then.
That was my thought too! "
I suspect it was just badly worded  |
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"No shame in using lube whatever the cause of dryness
Of course, but when wetness will happen natural is much better feelings for a man.
I see. As long as the man has much better feelings that's ok then. "
I meant for both men and women, they both effected of dryness, it can cause distress for both pf course, I meant mentally for a man, to think she is not enjoy or give her pleasure.
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"No shame in using lube whatever the cause of dryness
Of course, but when wetness will happen natural is much better feelings for a man.
I see. As long as the man has much better feelings that's ok then.
I meant for both men and women, they both effected of dryness, it can cause distress for both pf course, I meant mentally for a man, to think she is not enjoy or give her pleasure.
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Yeah but pointing it out and drawing attention to the issue isn't going to help and I really hope that the lady in question isn't reading this! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi all, is someone experience to have dry pussy?
It is quiete normal to hapoen to all woman certain time or not?
Thanks for your answers "
I was seeing someone recently, 1 day she was bone dry for some reason. Every other time, she was wetter than an otters pocket  |
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"No shame in using lube whatever the cause of dryness
Of course, but when wetness will happen natural is much better feelings for a man.
I see. As long as the man has much better feelings that's ok then.
I meant for both men and women, they both effected of dryness, it can cause distress for both pf course, I meant mentally for a man, to think she is not enjoy or give her pleasure.
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That's where communication and understanding of how a woman's body works comes in. You shouldn't feel threatened by it |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Stress, hormones, time of the month and arousal can have an effect, I'm generally quite dry until mid sex that's just normal for me.
Good lube essential "
Thank you so much for your answer, it is reassurance that otger women experience this sometimes too. |
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"No shame in using lube whatever the cause of dryness
Of course, but when wetness will happen natural is much better feelings for a man.
I see. As long as the man has much better feelings that's ok then.
I meant for both men and women, they both effected of dryness, it can cause distress for both pf course, I meant mentally for a man, to think she is not enjoy or give her pleasure.
That's where communication and understanding of how a woman's body works comes in. You shouldn't feel threatened by it "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"All of the above but also take it slowly, as fast sex tends to dry her out and gets her sore, relax ?? slow sex is nice too ?? ?? ?? "
Yes mix of both i agree |
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Guy's who think finger blasting is a way to get a woman ready really need to go back to sex school and learn how to turn a woman on slowly and properly.
Not hammering away like your trying to unblock a toilet! |
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"Guy's who think finger blasting is a way to get a woman ready really need to go back to sex school and learn how to turn a woman on slowly and properly.
Not hammering away like your trying to unblock a toilet!"
Of course, nobody mentionated start as hammer ! |
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