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How do you actually meet people on this site?
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You have to consider that there are many more single guys on fab than there are single women (or couples), and once you start factoring in location, style of profile, what you say when contacting those you are interested in, and if you fit what they’re looking for, fab is definitely not the guaranteed shag you may have been hoping for.
If you exhibit a certain amount of patience, you may just end up being surprised. At the end of the day, you’re bound to be somebody’s type.  |
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It's a numbers game. And single men are outnumbered by couples and women.
Would be interesting if all the verifications of current male members could be counted against the veris of couples and females so as to give guys an approximate ratio of their chances of getting a meet.
1 in a 100 etc
Might be that most guys have better odds playing the lotto |
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over a year ago
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"How do you actually meet women on this site 2 1/2 months I’ve been on here and nothing, really starting to question if I’m anybody's type "
Dude, I haven't sent a message on here in weeks.... Look in the forums for socials or club meets near you. You gotta get your face out there. I'm fat and ugly but getting to a social group meet up means there will be sometimes upto 100 swingers there.... Gotta cut the odds. |
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"How do you actually meet women on this site 2 1/2 months I’ve been on here and nothing, really starting to question if I’m anybody's type "
I’m with you on this. My next step is to go to clubs and get active.
This behind the screen stuff has been mastered by people a special group of people lol |
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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago
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It's nothing to do with the amount of men... Only the amount of women... If there were more women, the likelihood of someone being attracted to you would be higher... Unfortunately women that like sex are still seen as a bad thing, even by the men that seek them so until something changes and more women join, or stay after being hounded as a newbie, your chances will always be slim, regardless of how you look, what pics you have or what your profile contains... Socials and clubs can help as people will see you in person but it still doesn't mean you will get laid. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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On fab it’s important present yourself on your profile the same way you would in the bedroom, or on a date
Seductive or smart.
Use photos that display yourself in the same way you would in those more formal scenarios. That’s my tip |
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"How do you actually meet women on this site 2 1/2 months I’ve been on here and nothing, really starting to question if I’m anybody's type "
Being a single guy in Fab, is like being an individual sperm in an average 60 million ‘shot’ of ejaculate, all swimming around looking for eggs, to find there’s only one……. 
It’s not that there’s too many men in Fab, the issue is there’s too few women. Just like in the swinger clubs…..
As a young single guy in the Liverpool area, I would say your chances of meeting women in the vanilla world are much better than in here, but don’t give up entirely, just keep Fab as a bit of fun now and then  |
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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago
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"How do you actually meet women on this site 2 1/2 months I’ve been on here and nothing, really starting to question if I’m anybody's type "
Stand out.
Show your personality in your bio and photos.
Be what someone is looking for.
Don’t put up barriers (ask me questions type bios).
Have no expectations about quick fucks.
Get to clubs.
Go to socials. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Try the club's it's easier cos ppl can see you and know you're real. Try having a normal conversation with a lady / cpl and not make it about sex. If there's a connection then a bit of flirting. |
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Clubs are ideal but if not your thing then message people where your profiles have some synergy and take it from there. Then it's about making some level of connection and being patient. Good luck OP. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How do you actually meet women on this site 2 1/2 months I’ve been on here and nothing, really starting to question if I’m anybody's type "
It takes time and patience, the last two years have taken it's toll on the site and things are a bit slower at the moment, but the meets are there... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Well I think this place is fucking amazing with some really wonderful people especially in the forums, if your approach is all about meeting I think you will struggle your whole time here, relax and have some conversations, get to know people, join in on the threads and games, don’t over think things and just learn to enjoy your time here, no pressure no expectations just let things progress naturally, the people worth meeting are worth the effort |
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