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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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We all know men naturally like to be dominant. But how many of you out there like the tables turned?
Are there many men out there that enjoy being dominated? |
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We like to switch things up, so there's times where I'm (male) being dominant, and other times when I'm being dominated, although it's more the former than the latter typically. It's all good fun though, and we both very much enjoy it. |
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I love it, switching makes both sides much more interesting. I just rarely get to enjoy being dominated.
Seems like it’s a smaller circle of women into sub males or that’s how it seems in this area  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We both love to switch and mix up power dynamics, we've explored and indulged in so many hot situations.
Never a dull moment in our sex life, we wouldn't have it any other way  |
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By *omRachCouple
over a year ago
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"We all know men naturally like to be dominant. But how many of you out there like the tables turned?
Are there many men out there that enjoy being dominated?"
Dominated - Noooooo!
Controlled/Managed - Yes! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A playmate of mine recently handcuffed me and then face ticked me with her strap on. Was a whole new dynamic for me but loved it as she’s normally sub with me |
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By *omRachCouple
over a year ago
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"A playmate of mine recently handcuffed me and then face ticked me with her strap on. Was a whole new dynamic for me but loved it as she’s normally sub with me "
Nothing better when they surprise you in that way. |
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By *ucy78TV/TS
over a year ago
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"We all know men naturally like to be dominant. But how many of you out there like the tables turned?
Are there many men out there that enjoy being dominated?
Dominated - Noooooo!
Controlled/Managed - Yes!"
I’m guessing that’s probably the term that suits me to be honest. Controlled or dominated happy to do either ?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Love being domminated if the confidence is there by the parcipitating dom. Have had a few meets where they have wanted to dom me but they not had the confidence and they were asking me what to do |
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Being dominated by a bi couple is still something I wish to continue, having had the pleasure of stepping briefly into this amazing world, I now know I’d like to serve as a sub for a Master and Mistress. To be used/abused by both…?Yes please. To serve both…? Yes please. |
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I find myself being submissive to single guys and dominant with women but very switch with couples depending on the dynamic. I’ve always wanted to try being sub with a woman but not met the right one yet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I enjoy both domming and being dommed, dependent on the chemistry between myself and my partner. Would love to find someone who shared my flexible approach |
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There are a few scenarios I’d like to play out, but never met the right woman to act them out. I don’t feel there’s many women that have the authentic gravitas to pull it off convincingly for me, so have yet to try. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We all know men naturally like to be dominant. But how many of you out there like the tables turned?
Are there many men out there that enjoy being dominated?"
We aren’t really into hardcore fetish stuff, but I love taking control and making J (Mr) be submissive, since he’s usually confident and dominant, which I also love. He gets off on me being in control
F (Mrs) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My name probably gives it away, but I love it 
Moreso into service and humiliation (foot worship, facesitting etc) than being beaten black and blue, but it's all good really |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've never tried it but I'd love to explore my submissive side a bit. Nothing extreme - restraint, teasing, edging, denial, stuff like that - but could be fun! |
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Whilst society expects men to be dominant, its definitely not the case that men are naturaly more dominant than women.
Reality is far more nuanced than that, and you can seldom oversimplify these things like that.
I've dated many couples where the husband is submissive to the wife. In a number of these he will be dominant in life and business, but sexualy submissive in private.
For most people it's a spectrum and often it's fluid as they can switch between roles...
So yea, it's complicated!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've normally found that the more dominant a person is during their everyday life the more they like to be submissive in the bedroom. Obviously this is not always the case. And it's also just my observation
Max |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've normally found that the more dominant a person is during their everyday life the more they like to be submissive in the bedroom. Obviously this is not always the case. And it's also just my observation
Max"
I (F-Mrs) would personally agree with you on this - much as I love to dominate J (Mr), I really get off on being submissive especially because I’m a control freak in real life. Also, the desire to please is strong in me, so I really get off on being dominated |
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Oh Ben love be dominating by women. Like when he can make women feel she have exactly what she need but I little lady he need bad mummy to show him where his place is at bed. I not really know how be bad girl  maybe? and women want help me with him ? |
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By *rKinksMan
over a year ago
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"I've normally found that the more dominant a person is during their everyday life the more they like to be submissive in the bedroom. Obviously this is not always the case. And it's also just my observation
Max"
Also definantly agree with that. Especially with a lot of the women I've met who are submissive.
I'm a switch so I don't know what that says about me day to day |
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By *omRachCouple
over a year ago
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"I've normally found that the more dominant a person is during their everyday life the more they like to be submissive in the bedroom. Obviously this is not always the case. And it's also just my observation
Max"
Pretty much sums me up that (Mr) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m not naturally a submissive but I’d like to experience extreme post orgasm torture one day, extreme, tie me up and extract load after load without stopping.. |
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"I've normally found that the more dominant a person is during their everyday life the more they like to be submissive in the bedroom. Obviously this is not always the case. And it's also just my observation
Max
I (F-Mrs) would personally agree with you on this - much as I love to dominate J (Mr), I really get off on being submissive especially because I’m a control freak in real life. Also, the desire to please is strong in me, so I really get off on being dominated "
Already got ropes and things lined up for this young kady  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We all know men naturally like to be dominant. But how many of you out there like the tables turned?
Are there many men out there that enjoy being dominated?"
That would be me |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've normally found that the more dominant a person is during their everyday life the more they like to be submissive in the bedroom. Obviously this is not always the case. And it's also just my observation
Max
I (F-Mrs) would personally agree with you on this - much as I love to dominate J (Mr), I really get off on being submissive especially because I’m a control freak in real life. Also, the desire to please is strong in me, so I really get off on being dominated
Already got ropes and things lined up for this young kady "
How have I just seen this?! Wish you got notifications for replies on the threads…Anyway - you had me at “ropes and things”
F xx |
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I love being dommed by Mrs DA. As a big guy, it wouldn’t be what you expected but it’s escapism from a stressful job. I’d also like to try being dommed by a guy, especially one who was a bull to my wife |
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I have had a few subs in the past and enjoyed the dynamic.
A few months ago I was having a massage ( genuine ) and the lady was dressed in a long kimono.
Towards the end I was getting aroused and she was at the end by my head, with one hand she undid the bow and opened her kimono.
She started to wank me and I started moaning, she clamped her hand over my mouth and told me to be quiet as it wasn't allowed.
Her doing that turned me on more and the inevitable happened.
Been thinking about that more and more recently, I'd love it to go further |
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I am fully switch, I love both equaly.I find that knowing both sides is an advantage when being dom.
You can empathise far more, with those being dominated.
I would argue that not even half of men want to dominate.
I think it may be a social expectation, and, an accepted "prefrence" for women to like to be dominated. Which again I would argue is a false assumption.
I never expect to engage in any sub/dom play with anyone. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love it when a woman uses me. I get off on her having all of the control and her desires being put first. I occasionally meet up with a woman who does exactly that and we has some seriously intense sessions |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've normally found that the more dominant a person is during their everyday life the more they like to be submissive in the bedroom. Obviously this is not always the case. And it's also just my observation
Max"
As others have said totally agree, I love the tables being turned in my private life.
The ex wife was a nurse and it was the opposite for her, I think all the looking out for people and caring made her want to dominate in the bedroom.
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You'd be surprised how many men enjoy it.
If you do delve just make sure its with someone experienced. It takes a lot of trust and communication for it to be successful.
Any questions just ask
Shaz xx |
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Iv just started dressing up like a slut just so I get attention from men, it’s working so far I was thinking cuckolding and interracial seams to turn me wild, anyone else love the thought of your partner being fucked Infront of you and your made to watch |
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"I prefer to be dominated if I’m honest "
don’t get me wrong the end game is always the same to be dominated, on that note is there any Doms who need a little slutty looking sub to be their personal whore on call at a drop of a hat?
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"Iv just started dressing up like a slut just so I get attention from men, it’s working so far I was thinking cuckolding and interracial seams to turn me wild, anyone else love the thought of your partner being fucked Infront of you and your made to watch "
You won't regret it x  |
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Please dont just agree to ne dominated by just anyone. Make sure they have experience and will take your personal safety into account.
Some watch a couple of films n think they are experts.
Do your research, build trust.
Shaz xx |
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