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Female orgasm, easy or difficult?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I’m not a believer in faking an orgasm. They do happen with what works for me. Most of the time I just enjoy the act of sex and the finisher isn’t vital although pleasant.
Had a meet say to me “you don’t cum easily do you?” (I didn’t with him)
Do most women every time? Should I be faking to make them feel better? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"No don’t fake it, I think men need guidance when it comes to pleasuring women so just tell him when it feels good so he doesn’t move from the spot  "
I have done that in the past. A first meet I like to see how they go on their own before I start dictating. Don’t get me wrong I have had some very pleasurable experiences with an orgasm but also fun ones without |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I think it's all down to the surroundings and how comfy you are with the people around you. Plus your partner or partners need to know what there doing. If this is the case then your orgasames will flow  |
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Lots of ways to make a woman orgasm.
It doesn’t have to be by penetration.
It could be oral or fingers or cock.
I really don’t feel women should have to fake it. I am always happy to give and don’t worry if I cum or not. |
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I don't think you should fake it. Sometimes it happens, sometimes it doesn't. The connection and spark helps massively. My wife could only ever cum with me and one other guy, but she cums all the time with women. They got the skillz, lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I always like to make sure Dora is happy but by then sometimes I’m a bit desensitised so don’t cum myself and she absolutely hates that!
Wouldn’t fake it though and I would never want her to even with a guest. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Since I'm on medication I don't cum much at all. I just like to be in the moment with another woman. It's all part and parcel of having sex. Sometime the wife doesn't cum either, but we still both enjoy it.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Don't fake it, but do enjoy it
Any man or women can sometimes have the most wonderful time sexually, but not climax for various reasons - but as long as you are taking part and that you are having fun, that's that matters
J xx  |
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I think, like everything else, people vary: some people cum easily; others find it difficult. All part of the variation of life and I don't think there's any need to feel that you "should" anything - especially since you still enjoy yourself (it might be slightly different if you craved that orgasm feeling but couldn't reach it).
As for faking it, I think the same as most others: you probably shouldn't. Then perhaps those you like well enough to meet again (and again?) will learn just exactly how you like it and some more of your encounters will naturally have orgasms in them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don’t cum easily but I wouldn’t fake it. I usually have to help out with fingers etc and that’s fine. It’s also fine if I don’t cum, I still enjoy it. "
Well said - love the pics on Brimham Rocks ??
J xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I'm the same, it's great to have but not vital.
I've never cum on a meet yet... But again it's not that important to me on a meet, I can take a while but when you've got me, you've got me and I can just keep going 
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"I’m not a believer in faking an orgasm. They do happen with what works for me. Most of the time I just enjoy the act of sex and the finisher isn’t vital although pleasant.
Had a meet say to me “you don’t cum easily do you?” (I didn’t with him)
Do most women every time? Should I be faking to make them feel better? "
I don't fake or either and wouldn't, just because I don't cum which is not often doesn't mean I don't enjoy it, I always think it would be obvious if I tried to fake it.
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"I don’t cum easily but I wouldn’t fake it. I usually have to help out with fingers etc and that’s fine. It’s also fine if I don’t cum, I still enjoy it.
Well said - love the pics on Brimham Rocks ??
J xx "
Not quite, but good guess |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i cum easy and once they start the dont stop i have loads mostly with me and my fingers when being fucked or foreplay when a mix of being licked and fingers ...however i shut down very quick if a guy makes it his mission nothing turns me of quicker if honest and i have stopped meets halfway because of this ...the worse are the guys who want to make you squirt ...yep i do squirt not puddles or super heavy but i am lucky were i can control it and therefore switch of im no ones badge of honor is is suppose to be fun not a chore |
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"I’m not a believer in faking an orgasm. They do happen with what works for me. Most of the time I just enjoy the act of sex and the finisher isn’t vital although pleasant.
Had a meet say to me “you don’t cum easily do you?” (I didn’t with him)
Do most women every time? Should I be faking to make them feel better? "
Don't fake it. As you get to know each other sexually tell him what you like. Tell him how you like oral, how you like to be fucked, etc. Either tell him directly or with pleasant sexual sounds/moans when he is getting it right lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I find the female orgasm fascinating. My last regular gf would cum multiple times during a play session / sex, no real effort required on my part. One previous gf could only cum when she was on top (just like the song!), though once in a decidedly hot session she achieved it whilst I gave her oral pleasure.
I do enjoy feeling the quivering build up with a sexual partner as they are about to let go and cum. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I just had a thought, the female orgasm has become much easier to achieve, in the past decade, the in depth content and the ever growing social aspect, conquering the orgasm is not a mystery any longer, access to demonstrations online, weather with tongue, two fingers or your Johnson, it seems the tables are turning lol, female orgasm is like breathing, because I personally am very hard work lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’m not a believer in faking an orgasm. They do happen with what works for me. Most of the time I just enjoy the act of sex and the finisher isn’t vital although pleasant.
Had a meet say to me “you don’t cum easily do you?” (I didn’t with him)
Do most women every time? Should I be faking to make them feel better? "
I don't cum with meets and I don't fake it either. If they keep trying it's annoying.
The journey is fun, I don't want or need the 'end result'. |
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By *elkieWoman
over a year ago
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Some women never have orgasms, some have loads, most are in between.
I have partners who warn me they don’t usually come with condoms on/from oral, and I like that because I don’t worry I’m doing something wrong. I think you should consider telling people upfront that you don’t want them to focus on your orgasm, if you don’t already, and that it’s not something they’re doing wrong |
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"I’m not a believer in faking an orgasm. They do happen with what works for me. Most of the time I just enjoy the act of sex and the finisher isn’t vital although pleasant.
Had a meet say to me “you don’t cum easily do you?” (I didn’t with him)
Do most women every time? Should I be faking to make them feel better? "
No and no. Some of the best sex I've had didn't result in an orgasm. When it's obvious it's their main goal there's too much pressure and it can be a bit shit. Both parties should just enjoy the sex for what it is and live in the moment. |
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