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Fellas
If a couple are interested in letting you join them in the bedroom don't write shit like this in the 3rd message:
"Hotel could be fun so proper 3 sum ruin her holes x"
Deleted, blocked and no way will you be meeting us. Idiot. |
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"Fellas
If a couple are interested in letting you join them in the bedroom don't write shit like this in the 3rd message:
"Hotel could be fun so proper 3 sum ruin her holes x"
Deleted, blocked and no way will you be meeting us. Idiot. "
Lmfao ,what a sweet talking bastard  |
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over a year ago
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"Fellas
If a couple are interested in letting you join them in the bedroom don't write shit like this in the 3rd message:
"Hotel could be fun so proper 3 sum ruin her holes x"
Deleted, blocked and no way will you be meeting us. Idiot. "
Ohhh you got to laugh, amazing what some men can think other people want to hear. |
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"Honestly some people are just unbelievable…. And then they wonder why they don’t get responses or anyone wanting to meet them  "
The worst bit is when they don't have a clue what they are doing wrong and come to the forums to rant about how they can't get a meet  |
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"The worst bit is when they don't have a clue what they are doing wrong and come to the forums to rant about how they can't get a meet "
And then they still don’t take the advice when we try and steer them in the right direction. They only have themselves to blame… they are lost causes |
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"The worst bit is when they don't have a clue what they are doing wrong and come to the forums to rant about how they can't get a meet
And then they still don’t take the advice when we try and steer them in the right direction. They only have themselves to blame… they are lost causes "
Indeed Samantha. He actually looked good and had a good profile. But messed it up. Oh well plenty of others out there I am sure. |
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"Indeed Samantha. He actually looked good and had a good profile. But messed it up. Oh well plenty of others out there I am sure. "
Well he only has himself to blame… Heaven forbid you’d want to be spoken to with a bit of respect. Sure you guys won’t be short of offers! |
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"Indeed Samantha. He actually looked good and had a good profile. But messed it up. Oh well plenty of others out there I am sure.
Well he only has himself to blame… Heaven forbid you’d want to be spoken to with a bit of respect. Sure you guys won’t be short of offers! "
Well thank you  |
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Seen a lot of this on the forums lately
Guys or should I say children playing the big I am
Couples also need to choose wisely like op did as any potential playmate could take over or ruin the dynamics |
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
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"Seen a lot of this on the forums lately
Guys or should I say children playing the big I am
Couples also need to choose wisely like op did as any potential playmate could take over or ruin the dynamics "
Lost the couples perspective from a single male.
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"Fellas
If a couple are interested in letting you join them in the bedroom don't write shit like this in the 3rd message:
"Hotel could be fun so proper 3 sum ruin her holes x"
Deleted, blocked and no way will you be meeting us. Idiot. "
What a charmer, how could anyone resist!  |
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"Not sticking up for him but i have seen many women post those words and worse in the bio?"
Perhaps if our profile had read as "I want a guy to fill both her holes" I may have had some sympathy with him and agree with you. But it doesn't. So I don't have any sympathy for him and I disagree with you. |
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"Seen a lot of this on the forums lately
Guys or should I say children playing the big I am
Couples also need to choose wisely like op did as any potential playmate could take over or ruin the dynamics
Lost the couples perspective from a single male.
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100% agree, he was supposed to be there to add to everyone’s pleasure not his own and didn’t even get chance to get to know op |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Fellas
If a couple are interested in letting you join them in the bedroom don't write shit like this in the 3rd message:
"Hotel could be fun so proper 3 sum ruin her holes x"
Deleted, blocked and no way will you be meeting us. Idiot. "
Ahh the silver tongued smoothie … instant panty dropper lines right there …  |
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By *otMe66Man
over a year ago
Terra Firma |
Have you let the message sender know you are serving them up as the forum main course?
I agree the message is crude, but we only have one side of the story. How did it get from the first 2 messages to disaster, in the eyes of you, the op?
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"Fellas
If a couple are interested in letting you join them in the bedroom don't write shit like this in the 3rd message:
"Hotel could be fun so proper 3 sum ruin her holes x"
Deleted, blocked and no way will you be meeting us. Idiot. "
Going by the 3rd message, how the frig did he even get to a 3rd message? |
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"Thanks for all of the supportive replies. I will not have my partner treated as piece of meat. Clearly he has no understanding of what a Dom/sub dynamic or indeed the swinging scene, is all about."
Trouble is there are way too many on this site thst think women are just pieces of meat |
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By *rad670Man
over a year ago
South Lakes |
With so many age ranges set below 50 I think that's the average type of reply you would get, no respect, no manners and inability to form a meaninful sentence.
All good if all you're after is a big young cock that will take simple instructions, will grunt occasionally and scratch an itch but there is so much more to be gained with a more mature gent |
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"Have you let the message sender know you are serving them up as the forum main course?
I agree the message is crude, but we only have one side of the story. How did it get from the first 2 messages to disaster, in the eyes of you, the op?
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I agree the message is crude, but I’m also still convinced it’s against forum and site rules to name and shame or even post what is in a DM.
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"Fellas
If a couple are interested in letting you join them in the bedroom don't write shit like this in the 3rd message:
"Hotel could be fun so proper 3 sum ruin her holes x"
Deleted, blocked and no way will you be meeting us. Idiot. "
You'd really hope guys would have some decorum and realise in no way, shape or form would that work! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Had a bloke messaging my wife on here
He sent a few pics of him in action
Mrs asked who the girl in the pictures was (girlfriend / meet etc)
He replied
Just some slut I picked up
Needless to say ant plans were cancelled and he was blocked.
Have a little respect guys |
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"With so many age ranges set below 50 I think that's the average type of reply you would get, no respect, no manners and inability to form a meaninful sentence.
All good if all you're after is a big young cock that will take simple instructions, will grunt occasionally and scratch an itch but there is so much more to be gained with a more mature gent "
Yes, they would decorate her holes in fairy lights and glitter instead of ruining them. |
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"Fellas
If a couple are interested in letting you join them in the bedroom don't write shit like this in the 3rd message:
"Hotel could be fun so proper 3 sum ruin her holes x"
Deleted, blocked and no way will you be meeting us. Idiot. "
Nice to see you're picky
Do you usually just take two messages to agree to meet  |
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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago
Northampton |
"With so many age ranges set below 50 I think that's the average type of reply you would get, no respect, no manners and inability to form a meaninful sentence.
All good if all you're after is a big young cock that will take simple instructions, will grunt occasionally and scratch an itch but there is so much more to be gained with a more mature gent "
This is not true, I have had my share of disgusting behaviour from many in their 40s and 50s plus.. And I would prefer someone that took instruction when needed than them tell me they knew better abiut my body, due to their age... Crappy behaviour is not age dependent |
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By * plus SCouple
over a year ago
newcastle |
We get the same occasionally. One of the best was addressed to my husband-
“You can sit and watch as I destroy your little slag of a wife and ruin her for you!”
Words fail me!
Clearly our profile explains our relationship dynamics, obviously these types of messages come from men who see a pair of boobs on the profile picture and panic type, rather than those who read the profile before composing a message. Delete and block. |
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"Thanks for all of the supportive replies. I will not have my partner treated as piece of meat. Clearly he has no understanding of what a Dom/sub dynamic or indeed the swinging scene, is all about.
Trouble is there are way too many on this site thst think women are just pieces of meat "
Unfortunately, that’s true.
I’ve been recently told exactly that, straight in my face. |
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"Fellas
If a couple are interested in letting you join them in the bedroom don't write shit like this in the 3rd message:
"Hotel could be fun so proper 3 sum ruin her holes x"
Deleted, blocked and no way will you be meeting us. Idiot. "
A right charmer lmao. Bet he really got you going with his vulgar chat lines |
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"With so many age ranges set below 50 I think that's the average type of reply you would get, no respect, no manners and inability to form a meaninful sentence.
All good if all you're after is a big young cock that will take simple instructions, will grunt occasionally and scratch an itch but there is so much more to be gained with a more mature gent "
Ahhh okay men below 50 have no manners or respect.  |
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"Fellas
If a couple are interested in letting you join them in the bedroom don't write shit like this in the 3rd message:
"Hotel could be fun so proper 3 sum ruin her holes x"
Deleted, blocked and no way will you be meeting us. Idiot. "
Imagine writing this! Come on guys pick your game up.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Thanks for all of the supportive replies. I will not have my partner treated as piece of meat. Clearly he has no understanding of what a Dom/sub dynamic or indeed the swinging scene, is all about.
Trouble is there are way too many on this site thst think women are just pieces of meat "
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"Fellas
If a couple are interested in letting you join them in the bedroom don't write shit like this in the 3rd message:
"Hotel could be fun so proper 3 sum ruin her holes x"
Deleted, blocked and no way will you be meeting us. Idiot. "
Does this kind of response happen often? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"To be fair we prefer people do say these things and keep their opinion unfiltered. Helps to know who to meet and who to avoid.
So, please, please, please guys just say what you think."
Totally this 
Let's not curb or remove the most effect self filtering lol |
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"Fellas
If a couple are interested in letting you join them in the bedroom don't write shit like this in the 3rd message:
"Hotel could be fun so proper 3 sum ruin her holes x"
Deleted, blocked and no way will you be meeting us. Idiot. "
Oh dear, that is not good. |
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By *untogetherCouple
over a year ago
Malaga, Spain, Not in U. K. |
"Fellas
If a couple are interested in letting you join them in the bedroom don't write shit like this in the 3rd message:
"Hotel could be fun so proper 3 sum ruin her holes x"
Deleted, blocked and no way will you be meeting us. Idiot.
Does this kind of response happen often? "
Oh honey, you would be amazed at some of the messages people send! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"To be fair we prefer people do say these things and keep their opinion unfiltered. Helps to know who to meet and who to avoid.
So, please, please, please guys just say what you think."
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"Fellas
If a couple are interested in letting you join them in the bedroom don't write shit like this in the 3rd message:
"Hotel could be fun so proper 3 sum ruin her holes x"
Deleted, blocked and no way will you be meeting us. Idiot.
Does this kind of response happen often?
Oh honey, you would be amazed at some of the messages people send! "
I can imagine…. I guess the terrible messages get ignored just as much as the polite/ respectful ones do… just with a different feeling  |
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Not only are these kind of messages vulgar but even more so is that fact the guys will send the same message over, and over, and over. Literally never learning from their mistakes.
We get the same guys messaging us over and over with the same message. You'd think they'd learn from the lack of response but apparently not. |
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By *hil39Man
over a year ago
Dagenham |
I don't think I could even bring myself to say hat no matter how many messages back and forth, I always try to be polite maybe a bit "flirty" after several messages IF the conversation seems to be heading that way. |
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