I saw a screenshot a woman had taken and it showed well over a thousand unread messages. I'm sure a few of those were 'nice' but how was she ever going you deal with all those

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By *luebell888Woman over a year ago

Glasgowish

"Just looking for some advice .

I always send a nice message pictures as requested then no one even bothers to read them ???

So why not just wink I’m puzzled helppppppp"

I replied.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Don’t over think things, just relax enjoy life and let connections build naturally

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By *inkycatWoman over a year ago

High Wycombe

"Just looking for some advice .

I always send a nice message pictures as requested then no one even bothers to read them ???

So why not just wink I’m puzzled helppppppp"

When I get any message that’s more than one word or FAF the first thing I do is look at the sender’s profile. You only have 1 pic which doesn’t do anything for me. Asking for a word to be put in a message is a real bugbear of mine. There are typos in your profile (ok, maybe that’s shallow but it drives me mad and makes me think your attention to detail might be lacking in other areas too). There isn’t anything that “grabs me” on your profile and makes me think “I’d like to know more about this guy”. On that basis, with many other messages to look through, I’d just delete it.

Sorry if that’s harsh, and it is just my approach to Fab, but that’s how I’d treat a message I’m afraid. Put the effort into your own profile and then the effort in your messages might be rewarded. Good luck

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By *ackandtheunicornCouple over a year ago

liverpool

We get nice messages from nice people and we sometimes reply, sometimes we don't.

The truth is sometimes we just can't be arsed.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Tbh most messages aren’t worth reading

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Tbh most messages aren’t worth reading "

^^^ This. Soooooooo much this. ^^^

Winston

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Just looking for some advice .

I always send a nice message pictures as requested then no one even bothers to read them ???

So why not just wink I’m puzzled helppppppp"

If I message and they read it but don’t reply then so be it. I’m not their cup of tea so onwards and upwards. What’s the point messaging again. It’s life we all have people we do and don’t like

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