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Hubbies/wives share the unique feelings of cuckolding please - the first look, the first kiss, the first suck of the breasts. The butterflies in the stomach and the reclaim sex - please share here x |
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Coming from a male, it is the best feeling ever knowing the husband is watching on as you get to please the Mrs
There is no point meeting a hotwife couple unless you are willing to play with no limits  |
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"Love seeing the excitement on Phillips face as another man makes me cum on his hard cock"
It feels good seeing couples enjoying the hotwifing scenarios and knowing they will have steaming reclaim sex afterwards.  |
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"Coming from a male, it is the best feeling ever knowing the husband is watching on as you get to please the Mrs
There is no point meeting a hotwife couple unless you are willing to play with no limits "
Plus I get to have a lot of fun too |
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I view it as pleasing them both. Cuckold husbands like to see the other guy doing and saying certain things so it is important, whilst pleasing the lady, the husband gets to see and hear what he likes as well. If at the end they are both happy then that is a win win.  |
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"I view it as pleasing them both. Cuckold husbands like to see the other guy doing and saying certain things so it is important, whilst pleasing the lady, the husband gets to see and hear what he likes as well. If at the end they are both happy then that is a win win. "
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"I view it as pleasing them both. Cuckold husbands like to see the other guy doing and saying certain things so it is important, whilst pleasing the lady, the husband gets to see and hear what he likes as well. If at the end they are both happy then that is a win win. "
Or indeed a win-win-win |
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By *entDomMan
over a year ago
Paddock Wood, Kent |
I can imagine the reclaim sex must be important for a cuck.
For me I like there to be more than just sex between me and the female. Shared jokes, the looks between us, the hunger, kisses are very important and if I can find something she won't let him do, I'll push for her to let me. One reason why I got into watersports |
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I love the control of my hubby and how much he enjoys being my chastity cuckold.
For myself I love the extra attention and all the fab big hard cock I get to enjoy.
Using my cuck as my fluffer is a really horny sexy part of my fun. Xx |
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over a year ago
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"If any couple’s are looking for someone to clean up, please PM me  "
but thats not cuckolding thats just a sub guy looking to do sub things ... nothing to do with cuckolding |
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"I can imagine the reclaim sex must be important for a cuck."
not all cuckold couples have reclaim sex ?? that fringing on hotwife fun more than cuckold my cuck cant get hard at all take a few mins of me cuddling up telling him what a great time i had for him to dribble his cum out and then he has to not only clean up me from before and the guy if thats whats wanted he has to clean up his own mess too its all fingers and mouth thats the best he can offer so its hardly reclaim its pathetic hence why hes cuck .... all cucks are pathetic if they can please there wives then they are hardly cucks |
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"If any couple’s are looking for someone to clean up, please PM me
but thats not cuckolding thats just a sub guy looking to do sub things ... nothing to do with cuckolding"
Correct but it is something i enjoy providing during a hotwife or a cuck meet |
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"Hubbies/wives share the unique feelings of cuckolding please - the first look, the first kiss, the first suck of the breasts. The butterflies in the stomach and the reclaim sex - please share here x"
I absolutely love helping couples reach intimate space, tbh cuckolding for me adds a new level of trust with in their relationship, they both trust each other and form an exceptional bonding between them through a third which is super hot to me but for different people it could mean different things following thread for more updates |
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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago
Burnleyish (She/They) |
"I can imagine the reclaim sex must be important for a cuck.
not all cuckold couples have reclaim sex ?? that fringing on hotwife fun more than cuckold my cuck cant get hard at all take a few mins of me cuddling up telling him what a great time i had for him to dribble his cum out and then he has to not only clean up me from before and the guy if thats whats wanted he has to clean up his own mess too its all fingers and mouth thats the best he can offer so its hardly reclaim its pathetic hence why hes cuck .... all cucks are pathetic if they can please there wives then they are hardly cucks"
Not all cucks at all. Just because that's your dynamic doesn't mean it's everyone's |
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"I can imagine the reclaim sex must be important for a cuck.
not all cuckold couples have reclaim sex ?? that fringing on hotwife fun more than cuckold my cuck cant get hard at all take a few mins of me cuddling up telling him what a great time i had for him to dribble his cum out and then he has to not only clean up me from before and the guy if thats whats wanted he has to clean up his own mess too its all fingers and mouth thats the best he can offer so its hardly reclaim its pathetic hence why hes cuck .... all cucks are pathetic if they can please there wives then they are hardly cucks
Not all cucks at all. Just because that's your dynamic doesn't mean it's everyone's"
oh i totally agree all us cuckold couples are so different but sadly most guys just see it one way and thats the porn way ..... the amount of im a bull messages we get where they think one bull fits all |
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"I can imagine the reclaim sex must be important for a cuck.
not all cuckold couples have reclaim sex ?? that fringing on hotwife fun more than cuckold my cuck cant get hard at all take a few mins of me cuddling up telling him what a great time i had for him to dribble his cum out and then he has to not only clean up me from before and the guy if thats whats wanted he has to clean up his own mess too its all fingers and mouth thats the best he can offer so its hardly reclaim its pathetic hence why hes cuck .... all cucks are pathetic if they can please there wives then they are hardly cucks
Not all cucks at all. Just because that's your dynamic doesn't mean it's everyone's
oh i totally agree all us cuckold couples are so different but sadly most guys just see it one way and thats the porn way ..... the amount of im a bull messages we get where they think one bull fits all"
Everyone play differently
Being a bull doesnt mean you just fuck the wife rough, cum and go! Theres a lot more to it
The sensual / passionate side as your supposed to be a second husband / boyfriend kind of thing
Providing oral is important and anything the couple would like to see or experiment |
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"I can imagine the reclaim sex must be important for a cuck.
not all cuckold couples have reclaim sex ?? that fringing on hotwife fun more than cuckold my cuck cant get hard at all take a few mins of me cuddling up telling him what a great time i had for him to dribble his cum out and then he has to not only clean up me from before and the guy if thats whats wanted he has to clean up his own mess too its all fingers and mouth thats the best he can offer so its hardly reclaim its pathetic hence why hes cuck .... all cucks are pathetic if they can please there wives then they are hardly cucks
Not all cucks at all. Just because that's your dynamic doesn't mean it's everyone's
oh i totally agree all us cuckold couples are so different but sadly most guys just see it one way and thats the porn way ..... the amount of im a bull messages we get where they think one bull fits all
Everyone play differently
Being a bull doesnt mean you just fuck the wife rough, cum and go! Theres a lot more to it
The sensual / passionate side as your supposed to be a second husband / boyfriend kind of thing
Providing oral is important and anything the couple would like to see or experiment "
having been cuckolding for the last 5 years of our 29 years of swinging and the amount of cuckold couples we know well i can honestly say i dont know of one couple who view the bull as anything other than a friend most certainly not a second husband .. maybe get away with the boyfriend tag but friends |
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By *omRachCouple
over a year ago
Wirral |
Watched and listened to my wife with another man only last week. The sounds emanating from the room about 10ft away led to an overload of numerous emotions - coming at me thick and fast. They can be a total headfuck at times and I firmly believe you need strong mental strength to be a cuckold.
Getting into this particular dynamic was always MY thing and it took quite some time to convince her to try but (he was our 3rd in this lifestyle) Rachels confidence seems to grow with every meet she has had and as her understanding of cuckolding/hotwifing grows her attitude toward them seems to have changed too.
I love my wife very much and seeing and hearing her pleasured thoroughly pleases me, arouses me and makes me want her even more.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I can imagine the reclaim sex must be important for a cuck."
Not all. We never have what others refer to 'Reclaim Sex'.
For us the whole point of cuckolding is for Kate to fuck other guys, not me. |
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By *lippy02Man
over a year ago
edinburgh |
"I view it as pleasing them both. Cuckold husbands like to see the other guy doing and saying certain things so it is important, whilst pleasing the lady, the husband gets to see and hear what he likes as well. If at the end they are both happy then that is a win win. "
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"Watched and listened to my wife with another man only last week. The sounds emanating from the room about 10ft away led to an overload of numerous emotions - coming at me thick and fast. They can be a total headfuck at times and I firmly believe you need strong mental strength to be a cuckold.
Getting into this particular dynamic was always MY thing and it took quite some time to convince her to try but (he was our 3rd in this lifestyle) Rachels confidence seems to grow with every meet she has had and as her understanding of cuckolding/hotwifing grows her attitude toward them seems to have changed too.
I love my wife very much and seeing and hearing her pleasured thoroughly pleases me, arouses me and makes me want her even more.
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The first experience I remember the butterflies every time I got a text message from her at the bar, the teasing photos, being told to look out the bedroom window to see her up against the wall kissing him with his hand up her skirt. I came in seconds when she touched me after to see how excited I was. First time she fucked she came out the bedroom to go toilet to find me wanking in the hall as I couldn’t contain myself hearing her enjoy herself…felt shamed till she smiled as she walked past me. |
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I'm naked in our own bedroom on my knees as commanded by our Bull. My snatch so wet I can actually feel my wetness on my inner thigh. My husband is also naked is currently kissing Robs huge stiff cock.
The anticipation of what is to come is just so exciting I can't believe we haven't done this sooner " crawl. Over here julie like a good slut wife" |
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Wife loves me fucking her just after she has finished fucking a new bloke , get harder erections watching her get laid or having boyfriends watch me fuck their girlfriends , not been lucky enough to fuck a wife yet , but hopefully soon , a lot of the women at club are either single or doing the same as single guys lol, my wife’s fuck buddy also says it’s more exciting while I’m in attendance watching |
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Reading this thread there seems to be a lot of confusion between cuckolding, hot wife and stag and vixen
Stag and vixen
Both the male and female play and 1 or both can be dom to a point. They can play with sub males and the couple or one of them is the dominant party. Alternative the couple and single third all play together on an even keel.
The sub single male may be invited to clean up after the dominant husband / wife.
Humiliation of the husband is not part of this dynamic
The husband is most definitely always involved and this dynamic often ends with reclaim sex between the couple.
Hot wives
Hot wives meet additional male / female partners most often alone this is the major difference factor to stag and vixen. The hot wife often take videos and pictures of the meet for hubby at home to enjoy. Sometimes hubby maybe present but mainly as a voyeur to watch his wife play with another. This dynamic doesn't involve humiliation of the husband. This dynamic also often involves ending with reclaim sex between the couple.
Cuckold
The cuck is by the nature of the term inferior to the potential bulls. The cuck may enjoy been humiliated by wife and the bull. Often they are caged and cant perform penetrate sex. Either they can get erections or the cucks penis is small. The cuck uses their mouth and hands to please the wife and often please bull if allowed and often performs clean up duties and can guide the bulls cock into his wife and similar. Reclaim penatration is not really part of this dynamic but some cuck couples do spent reclaim time together without penatration.
Now granted the above are still broad strokes with people crossing over different dynamics but hopefully it helps explain how the 3 styles are fundamentally different.
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By *IZZLERSCouple
over a year ago
Halifax |
Mmmm yes the first experience always stands out..... watching her take Jeff's penis in her mouth (Jeff our first Veri) as I took mine out and stepped back mmmmm. seeing her in 69 wiggling the tip of her tongue in his anus as she wanked him and he licked and sucked her.... fuck it males me horny now remembering.
slipping my cock in her mouth as he made her cum for the third time.... was defiantly some hot reclaim sex when he left |
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"Should hubby clean up cum off both wife and guy after they had sex???"
Definitely. It’s a must for me. It shows the cuckolds regard and appreciation for the bull pleasuring his wife. I do this every time. |
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I’m very curious as to exactly what cuckold couples look for in a potential “bull”?
Now I know this answer is going to be different on a case by case basis however this is a fantasy I’m keen to live out and therefore curious. Do you like the dominant forceful type in bedroom? Do you like an element of sensuality as well as depravity etc? |
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By *eachcplCouple
over a year ago
blackpool/preston/normandy france |
I love knowing that me being with another man turns him on. From chatting to a guy, touching, kissing then moving on to other things. I know it is something he loves to see and obviously I enjoy what happens too |
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By *IZZLERSCouple
over a year ago
Halifax |
I think it works on many levels.... I dont think I am a Cuck.... The excitement for me is seeing both her and the man enjoying sexually exciting each other.
There is no love going on which makes the sex raw and experimental so watching both her and the stranger and seeing things done that maybe we have never done makes my cock so hard.... to sum up its maybe seeing how dirty they can both get without love and feelings calming the raw sex |
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Reading this thread there seems to be a lot of confusion between cuckolding, hot wife and stag and vixen
Stag and vixen
Both the male and female play and 1 or both can be dom to a point. They can play with sub males and the couple or one of them is the dominant party. Alternative the couple and single third all play together on an even keel.
The sub single male may be invited to clean up after the dominant husband / wife.
Humiliation of the husband is not part of this dynamic
The husband is most definitely always involved and this dynamic often ends with reclaim sex between the couple.
Hot wives
Hot wives meet additional male / female partners most often alone this is the major difference factor to stag and vixen. The hot wife often take videos and pictures of the meet for hubby at home to enjoy. Sometimes hubby maybe present but mainly as a voyeur to watch his wife play with another. This dynamic doesn't involve humiliation of the husband. This dynamic also often involves ending with reclaim sex between the couple.
Cuckold
The cuck is by the nature of the term inferior to the potential bulls. The cuck may enjoy been humiliated by wife and the bull. Often they are caged and cant perform penetrate sex. Either they can get erections or the cucks penis is small. The cuck uses their mouth and hands to please the wife and often please bull if allowed and often performs clean up duties and can guide the bulls cock into his wife and similar. Reclaim penatration is not really part of this dynamic but some cuck couples do spent reclaim time together without penatration.
Now granted the above are still broad strokes with people crossing over different dynamics but hopefully it helps explain how the 3 styles are fundamentally different.
KJ"
this is spot on there are so many who think they are cuckold but they clearly are not yes we all know the lines can be blurred and /or lines get crossed but there are the basics so many couples are hotwife not cuckold.. reclaim sex is very much a hotwife thing and personally dont know any real cuckold couples (and we know alot uk wide and Europe / usa) that have reclaim sex the only place we see this is fab ..
now before anyone shouts dont worry its ok lol you do as you please as we all can do but wives is cuckold couples are not hotwives just as men who have hotwioves are not cucks ..we can see the confusion they are similar but oh so different..
as said been on this scene 29 years 24 of that was playing as bi couple / or hotwife ...with the last 5 years as cuckold we found many none fab forums / private forums that are dedicated to cuckolding from all around the world full of full on lifestyle cuckold couples real life none of this sake blog stuff and we never see the subject of reclaim sex we do see things like clean up or cuddle chat time but never reclain sex .... most cucks are cucks for a reason ie cant get hard.. cant please wife in bed ... age difference ... tiny cock ... slim cock ..
i get there are no solid rules in these lifestyles and we are all so different but in some life styles getting it right is important like single guys saying they are cucks nope your not female halfs of cuckold couples calling themselves hotwife no your not ...men directing there wives in bed nope not cuckold .... people say we are cuckold but we don't do humiliation but thats kinda the point of cuckold and so is denial of cuck being able to cum / not have penative sex / ruined orgasms /told why she goes with other men and on and on ..
yes its a very wide spectrum but at the end of the day cuckold is cuckold not stag & vixen and deffo not hotwife
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"Watched and listened to my wife with another man only last week. The sounds emanating from the room about 10ft away led to an overload of numerous emotions - coming at me thick and fast. They can be a total headfuck at times and I firmly believe you need strong mental strength to be a cuckold.
Getting into this particular dynamic was always MY thing and it took quite some time to convince her to try but (he was our 3rd in this lifestyle) Rachels confidence seems to grow with every meet she has had and as her understanding of cuckolding/hotwifing grows her attitude toward them seems to have changed too.
I love my wife very much and seeing and hearing her pleasured thoroughly pleases me, arouses me and makes me want her even more.
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Absolutely agree with you. I’ve been a cuck before and it really is my preferred dynamic in a relationship. It does take a sense of mental strength, as well as emotional security and communication.
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Reading this thread there seems to be a lot of confusion between cuckolding, hot wife and stag and vixen
Stag and vixen
Both the male and female play and 1 or both can be dom to a point. They can play with sub males and the couple or one of them is the dominant party. Alternative the couple and single third all play together on an even keel.
The sub single male may be invited to clean up after the dominant husband / wife.
Humiliation of the husband is not part of this dynamic
The husband is most definitely always involved and this dynamic often ends with reclaim sex between the couple.
Hot wives
Hot wives meet additional male / female partners most often alone this is the major difference factor to stag and vixen. The hot wife often take videos and pictures of the meet for hubby at home to enjoy. Sometimes hubby maybe present but mainly as a voyeur to watch his wife play with another. This dynamic doesn't involve humiliation of the husband. This dynamic also often involves ending with reclaim sex between the couple.
Cuckold
The cuck is by the nature of the term inferior to the potential bulls. The cuck may enjoy been humiliated by wife and the bull. Often they are caged and cant perform penetrate sex. Either they can get erections or the cucks penis is small. The cuck uses their mouth and hands to please the wife and often please bull if allowed and often performs clean up duties and can guide the bulls cock into his wife and similar. Reclaim penatration is not really part of this dynamic but some cuck couples do spent reclaim time together without penatration.
Now granted the above are still broad strokes with people crossing over different dynamics but hopefully it helps explain how the 3 styles are fundamentally different.
KJ
this is spot on there are so many who think they are cuckold but they clearly are not yes we all know the lines can be blurred and /or lines get crossed but there are the basics so many couples are hotwife not cuckold.. reclaim sex is very much a hotwife thing and personally dont know any real cuckold couples (and we know alot uk wide and Europe / usa) that have reclaim sex the only place we see this is fab ..
now before anyone shouts dont worry its ok lol you do as you please as we all can do but wives is cuckold couples are not hotwives just as men who have hotwioves are not cucks ..we can see the confusion they are similar but oh so different..
as said been on this scene 29 years 24 of that was playing as bi couple / or hotwife ...with the last 5 years as cuckold we found many none fab forums / private forums that are dedicated to cuckolding from all around the world full of full on lifestyle cuckold couples real life none of this sake blog stuff and we never see the subject of reclaim sex we do see things like clean up or cuddle chat time but never reclain sex .... most cucks are cucks for a reason ie cant get hard.. cant please wife in bed ... age difference ... tiny cock ... slim cock ..
i get there are no solid rules in these lifestyles and we are all so different but in some life styles getting it right is important like single guys saying they are cucks nope your not female halfs of cuckold couples calling themselves hotwife no your not ...men directing there wives in bed nope not cuckold .... people say we are cuckold but we don't do humiliation but thats kinda the point of cuckold and so is denial of cuck being able to cum / not have penative sex / ruined orgasms /told why she goes with other men and on and on ..
yes its a very wide spectrum but at the end of the day cuckold is cuckold not stag & vixen and deffo not hotwife
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Not to mention the single males who think they are a cuck. By that dynamics very nature that's impossible. They may want to be a cuck in a relationship one day but as a single they aren't a cuck.
They are a single sub male and they will have far more success selling themselves as a single sub male looking for dominant stag vixen couples who are looking for a sub third to join them.
A lot of people on the fab forums confuse the 3 main swinging couple dymamics I. E stag and vixen, hot wife couple and cuckold couple. In the clubs I find people have a much clearly understanding of them.
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We love meeting cuckold couples/hotwifes .me being a cuckquean, There is nothing better than sitting and watching my hubby take another woman and watching the look on her Mr's face from the other side of the bed ,knowing he is getting just as turned on as me by what is unfolding I front of us |
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