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Do ladies really meet couples
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Yes they do. Like anyone else it's just finding the right mutual attraction. Obviously made harder by the numbers.
We've generally ended up befriendimg and going with single ladies at clubs.
I think a lot of single ladies like the fact you can meet people risk free on neutral ground at clubs. There you can meet people but your not tied down to anyone and free to be a social butterfly if you don't vibe with them (unlike a pre arranged meet solely with another couple). |
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Yes but probably over 80% of the users on the site wants to find a single lady and as couples and single men out number single ladies 100's to 1 the odds aren't good but not impossible
Your profile doesn't say why you want a single lady other than to play, where does your male come in, will he be present, watching, will he join in, with you, the new lady, you need to explain more what your looking for
If he'll be involved you need photos of him, if it's genuinely just girl girl play you'd be better off with a single girl profile |
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By *hillenCouple
over a year ago
Borehamwood |
We've met 3 single ladies so far and have a few potentials for the future so yes it does happen if not that often. As someone else said pics of both of you and setting out what you're looking for are important elements in finding someone. |
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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago
Bristol |
All the single (and not single) women we’ve met have been through Fab. It’s never going to be easy for a couple and a woman to meet for a number of reasons.
First is trust and comfort - it takes a lot for a woman to be prepared to meet a couple in the first place, whether at their home, her home or a hotel. She has to feel safe and confident they will take care of her, and meet her needs. And the couple has to feel comfortable and trusting too, confident that allowing her into their relationship will be equally safe and fulfilling for them both.
After that there has to be a mutual three-way attraction, which is obviously trickier than one on one. Then you have geography - your perfect match will often be miles away. And if all that is aligned you’ve still got to marry everyone’s busy schedules. So it’s never going to be easy!
And yet it does happen; all those boxes can be ticked, and when they are it’s a brilliant experience for all involved. That’s been our experience, hope it works out the same for you too.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've met couples in the past. Hard to find the click with both people though. Also appears your profile seeks just the ladies playing? Which is fine, but not very keen on just 'putting on a show' for the husband. So there's that. Plus the 'slimmer' comment? Of course everyone has body preferences, but as a curvy woman I'm never sure what constitutes a 'weight cut off point for some folk?  |
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We’ve been lucky enough to meet with a few women.
I would say that what appeals to women (well the ones we’ve spoken to) is to see a pics of both the guy and the girl on a profile - that helps them see both of you and not just the generic pic of the guys appendage. It also shows what type of pics you are willing to show…graphic pics might put some off!
The profile also needs to show what you are about. If it’s a list of demands or hoops they have to jump through, it’ll become less appealing.
If they feel they are a tick box exercise and there’s nothing to gain for them, then what’s the point.
Don’t see it as a mission…it’s about connecting and getting to understand each other and what each one of you wants from the experience.
But getting to chatting stage is harder if there’s so many red flags on a profile.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We got into this scene after a random night with a mutual female friend.
There was several fun nights after that but we've concentrated more on the MFMF dynamic since because it suited us more. |
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By *elkieWoman
over a year ago
Durham |
Of course we do. All of my threesomes (as the unicorn) have happened at the club though, I find it really hard to talk to couples on shared profiles and build a connection because I’m never sure who’s sending which messages |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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Yes if it's all mutual, honest, open and without stress. Couples are fantastic to meet when it works. But I don't meet them often. Maybe clubs are the way forward OP, less pressure, easier environment. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Of course we do. All of my threesomes (as the unicorn) have happened at the club though, I find it really hard to talk to couples on shared profiles and build a connection because I’m never sure who’s sending which messages"
This is so true! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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On my old profile, when I did meet, my first Fab social and follow up fun meet was with a couple. I was very nervous, they were very kind and it was great. So yes, ladies do in my experience. It helped that I ‘virtually’ spoke with both parties and felt that they were on the same page, not all couple connections are the same for single ladies. I hope you find what you’re looking for. Kx |
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"Sorry, us again, still curious and still getting our heads around who, what, when, where etc is possible
Couples or ladies with first hand experience, do single females really meet couples?"
Yes they do. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I do. im selective, as some couples think single females are their play thing, have to have mutual attraction for all of us, "
I think this makes up a big part perhaps? I think there's sometimes the expectation that you'll rock up as some kind of additional animated marital aide?... Obviously not saying this for the majority of folk seeking! But it feels kinda 'off' on occasion  |
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By *iss.ddWoman
over a year ago
Leeds + Newcastle |
"I do. im selective, as some couples think single females are their play thing, have to have mutual attraction for all of us,
I think this makes up a big part perhaps? I think there's sometimes the expectation that you'll rock up as some kind of additional animated marital aide?... Obviously not saying this for the majority of folk seeking! But it feels kinda 'off' on occasion "
Exactly this
If I get a vibe that I'll just be a 'performing monkey' to please them and not get mutual benefit, it's a no
And you definitely can get those vibes in the first few messages / minutes of chatting |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I do. im selective, as some couples think single females are their play thing, have to have mutual attraction for all of us,
I think this makes up a big part perhaps? I think there's sometimes the expectation that you'll rock up as some kind of additional animated marital aide?... Obviously not saying this for the majority of folk seeking! But it feels kinda 'off' on occasion
Exactly this
If I get a vibe that I'll just be a 'performing monkey' to please them and not get mutual benefit, it's a no
And you definitely can get those vibes in the first few messages / minutes of chatting "
Yep, totally this. Plus I really want to interact with the lady from the couple vs the male from the pair for intial chat. Yes, you maybe on the same page? But I want to know she's fully on board and where we all stand  |
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